A brief one, so i met this girl on IG some weeks ago, up to a month now, we have been talking and cool, and we were suppose to meet sometime 2 weeks ago, but things have not been smooth with me, i am working but currently on leave at the moment, i made some investment that didn’t end well so i lost lots of money, currently running some contracts and the clients are yet to pay up, she even gave some money sometime ago, things are rough with me i am yet to pay back, i have become very sensitive to all her behaviors lately even when she tries to say it’s not about the money , yesterday i was supposed to pay her back but the debtor owing me failed n he is promising this evening, she told me she’s moving on, like not kinda interested anymore, i really like her personality, she meets my requirements, she really wanted us to meet for her to be convinced at least it’s real, she works in Lagos n i am based in Rivers, financially I can’t host her at the moment and i will be going back to work next week, a lot she’s worried about, the distance, the nature of my job,( having to be away for months) and all, i kept convincing her she can cope.. i really wanna win her attention again, she’s a nice person n the kind i have always wanted..

How do i get to make her understand the fact that i am just faced with financial situation i do not understand, i am well to do, i have a nice job n in just a month at work i will be fine, she wants to see me before i go back to work, but I don’t have the finance to do so n I can’t go to Lagos neither, she saying i will have to forget about her if i go back to work without seeing her..

Ladies and gentlemen, let’s advice her pls ����

Lol, e no even rate with uyo, Na Dubai, una dey worry o

So you ate the wise one, na wa o

Nwodosis:

Were you expecting me to reason like you?

lol.. omo this your question na cruise

Nwodosis:
And we see it as no work when a woman does the job because we assumed that it is thier duty.
May his soul rest in peace.

how can your reasoning be this shallow?

Idad!!

sapphiere:

lindareep:
Interesting! Well-done guys, i guess there is still hope for Nigeria Police Force!!!

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What is the literal meaning of Romans 9:15-18..


Reading throughout this chapter and verses, they became topsy-turvy as it brought the issue of some people being predestined, does it mean some people are destined for destruction and proof of greatness just like pharaoh? Does it mean they are people God can’t be merciful to? Please i will want the people with a proper understanding of this chapter pls..

Cross river isn’t akwa ibom �

chiommy123:
He is obviously sick and I think women should be more careful this days

on cheating or?

This is sad..
na wa o, so person go dey run from Both friends n enemies now

No beards?
He is up to something again..
7th ballon D’or loading

Unik3030:
I don't know y I don't get moved by breast irrespective of how big it is

and you feel it is normal?

emmaodet:


Not different from what sailors earn and the courses are a bit cheaper than pilots.
I am a second officer and depending on company, certificate and experience you will get between 250k to 2.2m at my level sailing offshore or holding a north to south africa sailing ticket/license

i mean seafaring pays more bro, was even thinking until i saw the pay, captains onboard ships earn more, just imagine going onboard international vessels with imo pay? ��‍♂️.. 3rd engr onboard

MrCork:



Gina2019 said she' single & ready to mingle.
...bro please date her!

lol
Who that?

We are just 5!months in the relationship, everything is going fine, the love keeps growing even stronger, but the problem now is, the more i get to know her, it seems to be killing my trust for her, she keeps telling me a different person from the One she has been acting, she told me she had been in just 2 relationship, which i am basically the 3rd person according to her, but only few of her sexual experience was actually with these 2 guys, the rest are with some random male friends n different stories, sometimes i get to realize she was cheating on either of those guys she was dating at that moment, with the way she was carrying herself, i actually saw her to be the kinda person she was portraying which got me trusting her, lately i’ve been in doubt, her Past doesn’t match who i think she is, with the nature of my job that keeps me away, i am scared if she can actually be faithful, i know they say people do change but it’s kinda becoming hard to believe, she has given me the impression that some of the things she told me back then were lies.. I really do love her and everything is fine except for the diminishing trust and i think this will be a problem, don’t know if i should confront her about this or i should just over look (which is hard )? She has become so comfortable that she tells me a lot, i feel if i should put it to her,she may start being conscious of it, which will be her coating herself just to be who she wants me to see.. or should i just quit at this early stage?

Note: she has started she’s no longer the person she used to be back then..

Will really appreciate your advice..

Someone send that woman back to where she cane from..

Midas01:
Maybe they were criminals who deserved it, afterall if it's women some fools will either say they were prostitutes or ran their mouths, since we all want to be senseless in this country.

had no idea one can be this dumb.. tueh!!

hayzed1090:
was she with other guys wen she left u?

sure man, she was virgin according ti her when we met, but now she’s no more, so i believe she didn’t do it herself..

SweetCunt97:
Be reasonable. She was young then.

how young? N she knew the relationship was aimless?
She knew i was too nice?
Well I’m still that nice guy so i doubt if it will work..

essenceplus:
Let her go. She's a conditional lover,when she gets comfortable again another instability will come their love is tied to matetial things. You will find someone that loves you for you. This one still has growing up to do

thank you bro

Easybela:
maybe she was too young or scared to go on with u in the first place, some girls due to home upbringing, avoids love affairs till they are matured enough. 4get the past,focus more on who she has become presently.

She was not matured but she knew the relationship was aimless?

Breaking up with me for being too nice is the only thing I remember anytime i feel i should give a chance.. i mean i am still that nice person so how’s it gonna work?

So i met this girl when she was in ss3 n i was about to start uni, we were both young but she was younger, we fell in love then but never had sex, after her secondary education she went to lag to stay with her uncle b4 she was offered admission into uni, when she was in lagos she told me she was not interested in relationship stuff anymore n i tried everything but shit didn’t work, her mind was made already.. i was still trying even in her uni days the day she asked me if i was that dull to see the zero possibility.. all through her uni days n even her nysc days in 2016/2017.. babe didn’t reason me in any way, after her nysc she had a job but the pay wasn’t reasonable..the thing is that in 2018 b4 she lost her job she started calling me on her to check up on me, i was even very surprised on the first day, didn’t know she still had ma number, now she wants back n she’s serious, though i still love her but when i ever I remember the words she used on me, different thoughts will fill ma mind, she has all the qualities i need in a woman but i’m just confused if on let her in ma life again cus sometimes i feel she back cus m doing well or something...

SPOILT9JAOLOSHO:
You wrote this...dude was claiming he doesn’t want the girl anymore before I traveled to see her, its not as if she was his wife just a gf.. he left her, played with her love, and acted indifferent u took over.. I just wanna know on what basis do u think u owe him apology? cause for me I don't see any form of betrayal here. However if you don't have deep love for the girl and wants to help your friend get her back, then u need not play any role, the same way he got her in the 1st place let him apply that method again and win her back, provided u've made up your mind to let her go. No need for apologies here, u didn't deflower his girl, or took advantage of his wife so whats the apology for?

bro i only i feel i should have let him know, prolly when he wanted me to.. though for the past times he was still trynna push me in, didn’t know he still got love for the girl or something...

piippa:
Talk to him about it. Tell him it all started when he gave you the go ahead that despite the fact that you acted as if you weren't interested but one thing led yo another and you people had sex and have been seeing each other since then but u just didn't know how to tell him but know that he's telling you he is in love with the girl you just have to tell him the Truth. Cook up something like that.
But how would you feel when you and this girl in question get married and your friend comes around and there is this Idea of this guy used to sex my wife....or your wife is hanging out with two friends that used to sleep with her. Do you know that feelings? I doubt. This are the mist likely things; you lose your friendship and continue with the girl, or the girl loses the both of you. As Long as one of you stick to the girl the friendship will be over

thanks bro.. I really appreciate

Kweensavvy:


Something tells me you already made your choice. Well, you are right about the possibility of both crashing. Guys... Such a rational set of people. But you should know that ladies are emotional. Have you considered her too? Dumped by two friends?

i understand she’s gonna feel bad, but then things won’t go well after this whole saga.. i mean it’s either i will have to crash a 3yrs relationship to retain 20yrs friendship if i will ever have that option..

lovelybugs:


The fact that you're more than ready to end a 3 years relationship says a lot about you.
Why did you even agree to date her? After 4 years you obviously don't love her.

If you really want to help her, instead of paying for her tuition get her a job. At least you'll stop spending money.

i can’t get her a job, i have no job for her..

Bad wife

Boss13:


Yea you should feel horrible and even more for paying her tuition.

bro her tuition fee isn’t the problem now, i mean i can stop that even now.. but losing a friendship like this is the problem

Kweensavvy:




Ah.. This looks like a new twist to me..

what i mean is if the friendship eventually ends and our parents gets to find out the reason, it will be embarrassing.. so many things i have realise.. can’t type all.. but this is a deep shit for me.. I honestly didn’t see this guy coming back to this relationship

Kweensavvy:
Also, henceforth you should learn how to handle emotions that are bound to happen. Emotions of anger, bitterness, feeling of betrayal and guilt from all of you involved in this drama. Brace up and prepare for the worst from him; which might be the feeling of betrayal and anger... Maybe a couple of fist exchange.. and violence(if he is a psycho)... Your gf might also feel a tiny bit guilty... Tiny bit cuz he treated her like trash. Infact, she's prolly yet to recover from the hurt.. My advice is not meant to make you feel justified of your actions oh because i know your own guilt is almost as big as Nigeria's problems right now.. One thing is constant though, LOVE. You love her, she loves you, you have both agreed to be together (FOREVER? Well only time can answer that one). No matter the advice you get from anyone, the love part cant be changed.

Because of his possible violent reaction, i suggest you explain all these to a mutual friend or someone you both look up to.. That's if you are going to meet him in person. SMS, WhatsApp would be better if you're the type that can communicate more effectively via text and if you feel discussing in person would bring guilt that will spoil your communication flow.

hmm.. thanks a lot.. i know this friendship is gonna crash.. i mean everything will crash, relationship too.. cus i am actually hating maself n the girl right now..