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Politics / Re: Photos From Independence Anniversary Interdenominational Church Service, Abuja by Wilson125(m): 9:02pm On Sep 27, 2015
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Education / Re: Answering Any 7 Of These Means Your IQ Is Really High. by Wilson125(m): 5:49pm On Sep 25, 2015
20 b in my b..
just get it right and name ur prize..
waiting for the lucky winner..
Romance / Re: Nigerian Guy Who Tried To Shame UNILAG Girl On Twitter Gets Epic Response by Wilson125(m): 4:35pm On Sep 24, 2015
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Romance / Re: Why Guys Should Stop Complaining About Ladies Going After Readymade Men by Wilson125(m): 10:02pm On Sep 23, 2015
they say love is free but expensive to shop!!

do nigg*s still fall inlove?

"love" is just an english word, it's found in the dictionary and not in the hrt of men...

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Politics / Re: Boko Haram Ambushes Buses, Kills Passengers by Wilson125(m): 12:43pm On Sep 20, 2015
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Politics / Re: Buhari: Civil Servants Do Most Of The Work, Ministers Make A Lot Of Noise by Wilson125(m): 2:42pm On Sep 16, 2015
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Romance / As A Guy, You Need To Build This... by Wilson125(m): 7:26am On Sep 08, 2015
CONFIDENCE:




Being confident is the most important component when it comes to attraction.

Women actively seek confident men and will distance themselves from any guy acting overly desperate or needy.

You don’t need a bunch of cheesy pick-up lines or gimmicks. If you’re confident, that’s 90% of your work done. Just about everything else will fall into place. You’ll have a personality to attract, and the courage to escalate sexually.

However, showing confidence can be a difficult thing to do because you usually just know when you see it.

So what are some common behaviors of the confident man?

 

1. Dress and groom well.
The world’s very first impression of you is how you look. You don’t need to go crazy on designer clothes, and actually in a lot of situations, it pays to not be over-dressed when it comes to looking confident (doing too much is a sign of desperation).

But do have some up-to-date, mature-styled clothing, get your hair cut regularly and trim your beard.

If you look put together on the outside, women will assume your put together on the inside.

 

2. Be humble.
A common misconception is that being confident means you have to brag or be overly cocky. It’s doesn’t. Nobody likes a braggart, but more over, somebody who is always trying to impress people is perceived as somebody with very low self-esteem.

Always trying to win approval is the definition of a needy guy. It’s the same as desperation.

Being proud is perfectly acceptable and encouraged, having a funny or interesting story is often good, but try to write off some things as less of a big deal. You’ll find it completely changes how women look at you.

 

3. Don’t compromise on yourself.
Don’t change your opinion just because you think it’ll make a girl happy, and certainly don’t needlessly apologize every time you think you might have said something to make her not like you.

If you truly over step a boundary and legitimately offend a girl, it takes a real man to apologize. But don’t go saying sorry for every little transgression.

Think about how you view a politician who flip-flops. They don’t seem genuine and you don’t feel like you can really trust anything they’re saying.

Stick to your guns and be authentic.

 

4. Tease.
Not to be confused with “negging” or any lame trick.

Teasing is a benign offense. It’s a joke designed for you both to be in on and laugh at with each other.

Bickering is also good. You’ll prove a challenge while raising sexual tension.

People-watching is a great way to do this on completely neutral ground.

 

5. Let people earn your interest.
This sounds really arrogant, but it’s just to peel you back from being overly eager and needy. You can’t just jump the gun on excitement.

Give people the respect they deserve when they’re talking to you, but don’t feel like you have to completely commit to every girl you talk to.

Test the waters, actually see if she’s your type, if she’s interesting, if you like her.

It’s a no brainer that you’ll be a much happier person if you flirt, date and sleep with women you really like, but you also won’t come off as guy who will sleep with anybody because nobody wants to sleep with him.

feel free to add yours.. njoy ur day..
Crime / Dss Finally Released Islamic Cleric, Abdul-ganiyu by Wilson125(m): 6:29am On Sep 08, 2015
An Islamic cleric based in Ogun state, Abdul-Ganiyu Ibrahim,
has been released by operatives of the Department of State
Services after spending 424 days in custody for allegedly get
involved in terror activities.
Ibrahim who was released today, September 7, got his freedom
after a federal high court in Abeokuta picked holes in his
continued detention.
The court had ruled that it was not in line with the law for an
accused person to be detained without being charged to before
a court of competent jurisdiction.




A human rights lawyer, Ahmed Adetola-Kazeem, had taken the
case up without a fee and contended that the arrest and
continued detention of the cleric by the DSS without disclosing
his alleged offence or charging him to court was a violation of
his fundamental human rights to dignity of person, personal
liberty and freedom of movement guaranteed by sections 34, 35
and 41 of the constitution.
The judge went further to compel the security outfit to release
the cleric, to pay him for damages worth N1 million and also
requested the DSS to publicly apologise to him.
The judge held that: “The 1st applicant is entitled to the grant of
general damages in accordance with Section 36 (5) of the
constitution of the Federal Republic of Nigeria, 1999,(as
amended) for the abuse of his fundamental rights by the
respondents’ unlawful detention and this court accordingly
awards the sum of N1m to be paid by the respondents to the 1st
applicant.
“The court having found that the continued detention of the 1st
applicant is unlawful, the 1st applicant is entitled to a public
apology from the appropriate authority or person by virtue of
Section 35 (6) of the constitution of the Federal Republic of
Nigeria, 1999,(as amended). I therefore order the respondents
to comply with Section 35 (6) of the constitution of the Federal
Republic of Nigeria, 1999,(as amended) and tender a public
apology to the applicant.”
The cleric was arrested about two months ago with his then
pregnant wife, Muinat, they were both whisked away from their
Ijoko home around 3am onon the said day by DSS operatives.
According to The Punch, Muinat was later released but her
husband was continually kept in custody at the DSS station in
Abeokuta
Speaking to journalists after he was set free, Ibrahim,said he
was lost for words but could only thank God for being alive,
while his lawyer called on the government to pay attention to
the issue of human rights abuse.

https://www.naij.com/543804-dss-releases-islamic-cleric-accused-of-being-a-boko-haram-member.html
Celebrities / Re: Ubi Franklin And Lilian Esoro Release Adorable Photos Together (photos) by Wilson125(m): 8:27pm On Sep 06, 2015
btw o, y she no fit just keep dah oda feet 4 ground stand 2 leg like d husband? all dis girls get luck say no b dah time wey camera men bin dey wind camera b4 em take shot, most of em girls 4 dong stop all dis dier funny posture, because d kind sweat wey em 4 d sweat b4 d capturing due to bad posture for just tire em..
Religion / Has Revelation Chapter 20 Come To Pass? by Wilson125(m): 1:27pm On Sep 06, 2015
when ever I read this portion of the bible, I get confuse totally, I ask myself, our we in the "10 thousand years"?

is satan locked down?

or is he operating on the short time that he was meant to be released?

how do you understand chapter 20 of revelation?

can you help explain more so I can understand?
Romance / How Do You Pray To God After A Moment With Ya Partner? by Wilson125(m): 7:40pm On Sep 03, 2015
mehn I hardly say a prayer any time I have good moment with ma bae, ma conscience no dey gree me at all.... how do you pray to God after a good sex with ya partner? maybe you had it in the afternoon and u want 2 pray 2 God in the evening before getting in bed, do you count that in as one of the things u did to offend him?
Romance / She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by Wilson125(m): 6:33am On Sep 03, 2015
I had this call on tuesday morning from a strange number, the caller told me I needed to see her in the hospital, dan abia precisely, that ma girlfriend was on admission,she called her name ( ma girlfriend's name)...when I got there, my girl was admitted already, so many question popped out, but her friend was unable to gimme answers, so I decided to meet the doctor, when i asked him what the problem was, he told the abortion she did was not successful, the operation didn't go well,

I was like: who went for abortion? who was aborted?
he said my girl had an abortion somewhere and the operation wasn't proper, that she was bleeding seriously when her friends brought her, he asked me if I was not away base on how i reacted, I was shocked to the point I have to take medication to help recover, this is someone that claimed her virginity was intact and she wouldn't want to lose it till she marries, I loved and respected her wish, I never knew she was only acting along all this while..

God! that was way 2 much for me, I made the necessary payment for her treatment and left.. she called on that tuesday night, I picked and heard she was okay, so I told her to take care of her self and I ended the call...

Since then She has been calling, sending in sms telling me she is sorry, seriously I don't know what to do with her or what to tell her, these are just the reasons I don't want to pick her calls..

what should I do with this girl? ...m totally confused..

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Food / Re: Shovel Used To Serve Food At IDP Camp In Maiduguri (photos) by Wilson125(m): 12:47pm On Aug 27, 2015
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Crime / Be Alert: Fraudsters Everywhere.. by Wilson125(m): 12:46pm On Aug 27, 2015
A disturbing reality:
As received:
PLEASE READ THIS MESSAGE IN YOUR OWN INTEREST SO THAT YOU DON'T BECOME A VICTIM.
Please read this carefully, it may save you a few hundred, or a few thousand, or may be a few million bucks. It's a personal experience, a true event that happened this afternoon.
I am Sunday Adewole, I just fell victim of fraudsters a few hours ago. I am an account holder with StanbicIBTC bank, I am trying to put fund together to pay for my daughter's tuition fee in CU in which case the institution already resumed last week.
Yesterday afternoon, I got a call from somebody purportedly from StanbicIBTC who said "Am I speaking with Dr. Adewole" (called out my other names) to which I answered in the affirmative.
He said he called in respect of my BVN which I was observed not to have done, I replied that I already had it done with Skye bank and he said the bank will send me a link so that my account with Stanbic will be linked with the BVN.
True to our conversation, I receive a message from StanbicIBTC in which an OTP was sent to my phone.
A few minutes later, he called to ask if I got the the SMS, I told him yes but I can't do anything about it cos I was driving.
He said no problem I should call out the numbers which I did and he thanked me for my cooperation in a customer service manner.
I heard nothing since then till this afternoon at precisely 13:00 hrs when I received a SMS from StanbicIBTC informing me of a debit transaction which cleared my account to the lowest thousand, i.e. I was left with a paltry N685 (six hundred and eighty five naira).
I called my account officer who confirmed to me that I have fallen victim of fraudsters and he checked up on my account and saw that the recipient acct is in First Bank.
My puzzle is how did they get my account details? How were they able to generate an OTP to my phone.
I am waiting to see what my bank would do on it. In the mean time, please be aware of what the 419 people can do. I'll keep you posted on any new development.⁠⁠⁠⁠
Romance / 4 Ways Of Keeping Your Girl Intrigued(and Avoid Boredom ) by Wilson125(m): 3:04pm On Aug 25, 2015
Hey,

"As much as people want to control the things around them, they are also, somewhat paradoxically but completely understandably, most attracted to those things they cannot control."

Such is the downfall of the typical nice guy.

He senses a girl wants "security" and "certainty"...

So he gives it to her thinking he's providing her what she wants.

She soon gets bored and leaves.

Women crave uncertainty.

What does this mean?  And how do you provide the uncertainty they crave?

Here are four ways to keep a girl on her toes and prevent her from growing bored...

1.  No promises, No Future Expectations

As a guy our natural instinct when a girl starts displaying some vulnerability or insecurity is to try to comfort her and her ease her worries.

She may say things like "are we gonna hang out again?"  "What is this?"  "Where is this going?"

Any variation of that her is asking you for some sort or promise.

DO NOT give it to her.

Its a trap.   And once you've made the promise she has what she *thinks* she wants...

And will soon become too comfortable with you.

Instead say "I'm having a lot of fun with you, but I can't make any promises into the future. We'll have to see how things go."



2.  Hold Back Info.



Its tempting to want to reveal as much about yourself early on in hopes that you're attracting her.

Whether we're fishing for things in common, trying to impress her, or simply trying to keep the conversation flowing... its too easy to reveal too much info too soon.

Its SO MUCH better to leave certain questions unanswered, and sprinkle in a dash of intrigue by purposely avoiding answering the question or changing the subject.

If not, she solves the "mystery of you" too soon.  And has very little reason to continue reading the book.

Become an onion that she gets obsessed with pealing back your layers.



3.  Leave Her Guessing Your True Intentions.



Girls will often ask you "So will there be other girls at the party?"  or maybe a few weeks into a new relationship she'll ask "Are you still seeing other girls?"

My standard answer to that question for a very long time was "Yes, but you know you're my favorite."    Or in an overly exaggerated tone "Never.  I would never do that." (with a smirk)

I'd say in a way that left them wondering if I was serious or joking.

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4. Make fun of chumps

One of my favorite things to do with a girl is point out chumps who get walked all over by women.

I'll mention how a friend of mine's girlfriend doesn't let him go out with his friends, or won't have sex with him.  And I'll say "I don't know why he doesn't just find someone else."

Basically I'll point out that I have a mindset of abundance towards the prospects of meeting new girls.

You can also do this if you're watching a movie or TV show with a girl and one of the male characters is acting like a chump.

These are four ways to add a little uncertainty to keep a relationship from getting boring...
Career / Re: ''Your Job Can Make You Impotent'' by Wilson125(m): 11:47am On Aug 25, 2015
ah dong dey potent 4 plenty years now, e no carry me reach anywer, na now wey God dong answer ma prayer mek lamnalco folo consider me na im u carry dis kind article come? guy if e like mek e collect ma manly body, dah one no concern me, wetin ah know be say, deris no turning from dis terminal.. me must go aboard, our mind s made up.. tank u.
Romance / Re: 10 Reasons Why Lagos Men Prefer Village Girls by Wilson125(m): 11:31am On Aug 25, 2015
na lie ooo, apart from say most of em no go chop ur money, village girls wey dong pass city girls? abegy, nta village see as small small girls dey carry belle like say na notin..

ah neva understand why most of our girls dey like dis...

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Politics / Re: Adedamola Aderemi Visits Emir Of Kano Lamido Sanusi II At His Kano Palace..pics by Wilson125(m): 11:10am On Aug 25, 2015
all dis traditional dress fit kill man o, see sanusi wey bin dey dress like one english man way back, now ah no even dey see him mouth again, person no fit just dey on lite dress?

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Celebrities / Re: Yvonne Jegede Celebrates her 32nd Birthday Today by Wilson125(m): 8:47am On Aug 25, 2015
pyyxxaro:
ANOTHER VERY OLD LAYER



HBD ssshhhaaaaaa


Na just ur booobi I like goozle undecided
d funniest comment ah dong read dis mrnin... "very"u say? u funny bro, wu was d first old layer?
Romance / Must Guys Always Be The Last? by Wilson125(m): 9:21pm On Aug 24, 2015
it's common that girls are always the ones to sign off in a relationship..

I have witness many cases like this before, guys will say girls are weaker vessels and that is why we must not hurt em first but this weaker vessel will end hurting em when ever they feel like without looking back....

must a guy be the last to quit just to protect this weak vessels?
Religion / Whats Wrong With The Topic? by Wilson125(m): 11:14am On Jul 12, 2015
Followed a colleague to his church today, hand of God ministries in eket..
Topic for today's sermon: prepare yourself, for you shall die,
After giving the topic from the book of isaiah, the man of God asked the congregation to say the topic after him but nobody said a word...
Some people murmured "which kind topic be this na?"

Laff wan damage ma ribs..

Abeg wetin do dat topic?
Romance / Why Is She Doing This? by Wilson125(m): 10:35am On Jul 12, 2015
A girl has been on my neck since last week, telling me she wants me in her life, she is someone I have never seen or heard of before, when I asked how she got my contact, she told me she got it from my facebook page.. last night I was with my girlfriend's phone, a whatsapp message came in and it got my attention when I saw the preview, I was forced to open it, when I opened the page, it was the same girl that has been droping me messages too, glimpsing her page, I got to know my girlfriend is the one behind this art...
Something I don't understand is why she is doing this, waking up today, I was hoping to hear her ask if I opened her whatsapp, but she has not.. still behaving normal..
I don't know if I should ignore her or something..
What should I do to her?
Politics / Re: Dasuki: Buhari Never Ordered Dismantling Of Military Checkpoints by Wilson125(m): 5:20pm On Jul 10, 2015
d way tings b for dis country tire me, y em dey change stories anyhow? 2day, presidency, 2mao, dasuki..
Romance / Re: What Do You Do When A Girl Rapes You( A True Life Story) by Wilson125(m): 1:11pm On Jul 07, 2015
Oga jerry, Weldon
Politics / Re: Bomb Explodes At Zaria Workers’ Biometric Screening Centre; Many Feared Dead by Wilson125(m): 10:25am On Jul 07, 2015
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Romance / Re: Advice From Matured People by Wilson125(m): 9:11am On Jul 07, 2015
D nurse shud b d rite option for u cus she s d one u luv, folo ur mind n take decision u will not regret 2mao...
Romance / Re: Pains Associated To A Rich Bachelor by Wilson125(m): 8:59am On Jul 07, 2015
Noo, he must not transfer d money b4 u can b his true love na, make him understand u luv him n nt d money..
andromida:


After he transferred his monies to me? cheesy cheesy
Romance / Re: Pains Associated To A Rich Bachelor by Wilson125(m): 8:47am On Jul 07, 2015
andromida:
I can help him he should donate his money to ME that way he will be free of the burden of being rich then he can go find his true love. I feel so nice willing to take up someone else's cross. smiley smiley
seriously ir funny.. wat wil happen if u shud be his true love?
Fashion / Re: Dear Nairalanders, Please Help Miss Cyndax Win The Super Model Contest by Wilson125(m): 8:59pm On Jul 03, 2015
i'll vote for ma fwen..

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