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Chisos,three candidates. Tuale for you

lilmax:
I fucking love this post

Lol,thanks

mrdickhead:
maybe he just wants to know more about you

What a way to know about someone

makydebbie:
He wouldn't even have time to be concerned about this "jobless females" here. But yes, he had time to create a new mail and nairaland account to shame the ladies. Can someone define joblessness and frustration for me again?

Its the definition of pot calling kettle black,he even had the luxury to read about someone's diary,that's the definition of joblessness

ZaTruz:
Not in the mood for what? You know everything I have said is true. You even have it documented in your diary. You know what you are - A lonely, insecure, shy, timid, girl who doesn't believe she is attractive. People like you should pay weekly tithes to Nairaland for giving you a voice and an opportunity to interact with others on a level playing field, yet you abuse this opportunity.

Haha,and for you to have taken notice of all these,what does that makes you. Going by your write up,if you were busy in the real world then you wont have time to be spewing trash.

mrdickhead:
who told you every pms is for wooing or relationship,you see where you got it all wrong

I completely agree with you,every pm or a guy and a girl being friends doesn't necessarily mean wooing but its quite unfortunate, that's the mentality of many young people this days,which I don't blame them especially the ladies,I once answered a pm,we got talking and the next thing the guy asked was am I in any relationship, when I asked what sort of question did he ask, he told me if I was,why then did I reply his pm.

Not giving each other privacy and a man who runs to his friends and family each time there is a misunderstanding.

Tahra:
1st.

Really,my twin brothers are also march 1st

Tahra:
Your birth date?

24th,U

Tahra:
Any smart person here

Right here

Hmmm,see my area in the news. Ijesha has been like that for years,there was a one time rumour that it's was the dpo in the police station that stopped them from doing it because of the bribe they do collect at night.
Only God knows how true that is. The only thing we enjoy is constant electricity supply

Pwettyqueenessy:
Please did you use a laptop or a smartphone?

Phone

omobaby101:
Okay.. This is how I got through mine... Type the two words, leave some space in between. It shouod go through.

It's finally went through now,thank you

Spylord48:
use ucbrowser or chrome and make sure you click on verify,insert your verification code before U continue.
I bookmark the registration page and have been trying to register it didn't not.until I noticed that you have to verify and insert verification code for your email to be present in the registration page

My email was present,finally registered. Thanks

Lol,you got me laughing hard mehn

omobaby101:
Okay.. This is how I got through mine... Type the two words, leave some space in between. It shouod go through.

I saw this initially and left space in between but its still the same thing

I have been unable to fill the captcha since two days ago,its always takes me back to the registration page,please help me,Friday is almost here.

Olahh:
Good for them

See this swindler o,you have assumed another monicker. Berra go and find a legal job to do instead of deceiving people

Kondomatic:
I really don't get why Nigeria girls cook for their boyfriends when they visit? I mean, it is his house and you're his guest so he should be the one cooking and serving, after all there's no guarantee that you have a future with him.

Tell them o,when I used to visit mine,he does the cooking cos I believe am his guest.His friends started telling him that he is becoming a fool for love

If its just happened fresh, then she will need to get it off her mind by talking to someone she trust,you can make urself available depending on how close ure,she will definitely open up to you. The truth is no matter the number of counselling session she goes to,there are night she will cry alone,there are incident that will trigger the memory and make her feel depressed. Just try not to leave her alone too often but also give her the space if she needs to be alone. With time its will get better

Folabimi:
I read ur diary and the fact is that life is not fair. Some cheat and get away with it, some don't. But that's not the issue, the important thing here is will you be at peace with yourself if you do the terrible things others are doing? I guess not, cos I can see you've conscience. What the essence of the success if you won't be able to look yourself in the mirror and be proud of who you are.

Lol,the conscience is what's killing me jare,I can't do anything bad without seeing my dads face telling me not to. The man really worked us up on morals. I wrote waec five good times because I didn't have mathematics in all of them,even when the centre rendered assistance, I didn't have mind to go tru with it. We were at an event and happened to be the one sharing refreshment,my colleagues took more than extras because its was surplus but I just took a drink and a plate. She was just looking at me in a weird way.

Jman06:
Maybe the man doesn't want a submissive wife . The runs babe may have unravelled her husbands craziest sexual kinks and capitalized on them to hold the man spellbound while the "good" wife is boring herf own man with too much submissiveness.

If he doesn't want a submissive wife,then what exactly do men want. Even if sexual compatibility is the issue here,the man is the problem here,he saw my aunt as an ATM machine,refused to work after they got married.He was even the one handling her atm, my aunt would only receive alert on her phone despite this he brought his girlfriend into the home and introduced her as his sister,he stocked up her shop with my aunts hard earned money.Even at the point of divorce,he carted away all the valuables from TV to gen,he wasn't even the one that owns the property. He left my aunt with a loan she collected for him from her place of work. The truth is life is just unfair to her. Its the reality,runs girl are very lucky when its comes to settling down.

Laveda:
So I came across this and thought I should get y'all opinions here as well.

Do you think it's right to still give out your number to new "toasters" when in a relationship?
Some woman say it's 'not putting all your eggs in one basket'. And guys say 'incase the present girl misbehaves'

What's your thought on this? Should we just stick to one and shut everyone out? Or just open new doors for other guys/girl.

Lalasticlala
Dominique. What do you think?

Visit http://orjisblog.com.ng/ for more.

Funny enough,I used to believe in this ideology before but now I think its totally wrong since you are not even married. I had a guy who asked me out,wanted to take my time to know him better so we started with being friends,my ex came back with the I love you crap and can't do without you. I accepted him back and completely shut the guy out,even from the friend zone,its wasn't long,my comeback ex bleeped up and the guy I shut out is now in a relationship which he has even engaged his girl. Another instance is a friends sister who dated her first boyfriend for like 7years,she even finished school before him but still waited,she had a toaster during her service year but completely shut him out cos of her boyfriend not knowing he was cheating on her. Now she is happily married to the guy she shut out,they are both living abroad while the ex boyfriend was rusticated from school. I am not saying people should cheat but just because ure in a relationship doesn't mean you should make ur partner ur whole world because it can crumble anytime. Especially for ladies,if he wants you to shut people out completely, then he should just marry you.

MilitaryControl:
Windflower, oya I have sent you a PM.

Reply.

Lol,oya why did you send me a pm

GeeString:
Cheating WILL occur in marriage, whether you & I like it or not. I'm a realist not an optimist. I have accepted that it will happen & I'm only trying to cushion the blow. Like I said earlier, I'd rather she cheats on me with a girl than a dude because I don't feel jealous especially when I'm aware.

The other girl doesn't make me feel insecure one bit. This has been tried and verified many times over.

Thanks a lot for your well wishes.


PS: I was banned hence my inability to respond since then.

Lol,welcome back and I don't agree with you that cheating occurs in every marriage, its might be majority but definitely not all.
Well,its kind of complicated,people ain't perfect that's why I don't love with all of my heart,so I don't get burned so if any man cheats on me, its wouldn't surprise me but the thing is,it has become a common norm in our society to think that its okay for a man to cheat on a woman but its termed adultery if a woman cheats,so most married women now feels its okay for a man to cheat as long as he is fulfilling his responsibilities. I used to think like this,but now I don't think I can accept a cheat because I am 100% sure that I would never cheat on my partner.

PS: I think you are weird tho ,if you would prefer a woman cheat on you with a fellow woman than a dude.
Whatever rocks your boat,how far with the search.

sarzai:
thanks though I'm working on my self.. I've lots of guy friends I wish I could convert them to girls..

Lol,except its not possible. Anyway,if you need a female friend,I am here

sarzai:
Hello guys.. I'm an introvert too but I get along well with the opposite sex like I still have a little confidence. But when I'm with my fellow girls eh I am not.. Girls know how to rubbish someone and give someone low self esteem. I'm fun sha and I'll like to make new friends here. Mostly girls though.. Let's c if it's just the girls around me that are like that.

Lol,this is my first time of hearing this,might be the female friends you have.No one should be able to tamper with your self esteem, no one can make you feel low of yourself if you don't think that of yourself.

YoungRichRuler:
I'm glad you didn't take the 'use your brain' as an offence.
Some advices here will be negative. Be careful.
don't start enmity with your family because of this.
Best regards

Of course not,am talking with her right now