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As far na white people,am not suprised..but the woman is a true mother sha

Dont marry a man that abuse you before marriage,but most women will not listen they will call it love. Am sure the reason for his useless attitude might be coz of a Male child or the man is the insecure type..
Imagine apprentice beating oga's wife and oga is in support,stripping a 21years old..human right lawyer's should take this but I wont be suprised if the woman still pleads on behalf of her husband coz this is not the first time am hearing such.
Nigerian girls use your head before marriage,coz your heart is what is causing gender inequality and domestic violence..
And to conclude I know that man has a side chick that he cannot even touch and fall mumu to...sometime I just wish women can rise up to the nonsense been done by some animals who call them self men..i just wish

This is the definition of a true woman not all dis 9ja girls wey dey find who go iPhone for them...this need to make front page oo coz our girls here need to be educated

Gash....irritating

Somebody pikin

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If I can make an average of 150-200k per month plus marrying a working class lady, then am ready to settle down..as a guy i prefer 25years if I can see the right girl at that age but maximum is 28 years

Lh2704:
Many time I try to leave but he always come back like I haven’t just broken up with him lol. He does everything in his power to communicate our issues and work it out between us so it’s not like he doesn’t have respect for the relationship. I always feel like he is hiding something but he always proves me wrong; I have never caught him out. His mother knows about me, we speak over text occasionally so it’s not like I am “hidden” or a secret do you get me? I just find it strange how he was so insistent on meeting my family but when I press about his he has excuse and tries to throw the “our cultures are different” card in my face

From your reply I where the problem lies:
1. You said he usually receive calls from his folks whenever he is out to come back and do.house chores
2. You said he is a traditional African man
3. His excuse is that "our cultures are different"
Sis, what he is hiding from you is the fact that his folks prefer him marrying someone from their country or clan but he loves you but he also cant object his folks because he is "a traditional African man",which boils down to the fact that his folks are against the relationship even though you chat with them or someone.in his family whose decision is respected is against your relationship..
So.its either you walk out of the relationship before receiving unprecedented heart break or better still you can ask him,which of his folks is against your relationship with him,even if he denies it still pressure him to tell you, coz the only thing holding you and him being together is someone's or some people who are against your union...

Bro. Read this thread and your story will change..
https://www.nairaland.com/2893475/dating-drills-guys-only

OP, am short of words

OP, you have not told us everything oo...wat really happened?

Ok na..no be today we dey hear all this propaganda

Hope they will not invite him to aso rock

Hmmm...from the write up the guy is still a boy inside, you gat to find out his fear, coz wat I could decode from your write up is dat he is afraid of something or hiding something.
So wat you can do is to threaten to leave the relationship and watch his reaction,if he truly wants you am sure he will answer to your call if not he would behave like those white idiat and end the relationship...

Bestie na scam..as bestie both of you are emotionally attached, and if you dint have sex it shows the guy is a novice...or he is keeping his cool
But back to your question it's possible only if the guy is a shy type or a novice...

Why use cutlass na..if God sent you, you could have done it spiritually for wrestle not against flash and blood...chai hope the God that you claimed sent you will free you

GreatResearcher:
The man is a first class SIMP

Am just hearing simps since,make una tell.me watin e mean na..me self wan to ja

Deborah98:
Am a Christian that's all

I hear you ma

Ok...wat should we help you with

I wanted to say if u nid new chat mate am available to share your vision but I checked your profile and saw this
"I left crime at 21"...fear hold me..
I see you making it but guy hope you are not the insecure type

Watin be Simps... only Simpd should quote me coz they know how to explain better

White women have natural mental problem

Which breast the pikin wan suck....fat one got me laughing..chai life no balance atall

See how she resemble goblin...Nigerians girls are the most lazy educated girls on earth(80% not all)...most of them only have sense in the kitchen ,

Haha Haha...but if na black man them frame...d man will be the one going 8years in jail...80% white women get mental problem and they are dangerous racist when they get angry...

Deborah98:
Tell your friend simple,did you say the wedding is two months away? Chai this is wickedness ooooh, what again is she looking for,why are women into this act of double dating,to me it doesn't make sense cos one day you will be caught in your own web, your friend don't deserve to be married to such a gal reason his belief and faith will be questioned when things take a rough ride. So you mean she dropped from the bus simply because she has another guy to smash,hmmmmmm things are happening..

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@bolded,that statement got me laughing, u sound as if you be born again