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RomanceRe: What Is The Right Way To Treat A Lady? by Wislet(f):
I understand u OP.
Just don't reduce yourself to the level where you would be stepped upon. Don't be too needy, calling 24 hrs, or play the role of a father (paying school fees, renting house, recharge card champion, etc). Else...u would be seen as annoying, of lower value, desperate, clingy, dumping ground to come back to if all else fails, etc.
Get busy.. Get a job if u aren't employed..be engaged with productive activities.. Be scarce at times... So ur value goes up. And avoid the tagged irritating questions of an insecure man..'' where are u?...wat are u doing...who is with u...??''. etc.
Build ur confidence and get busy with ur world. Let it be perceived from ur carriage and personality that u don't and won't condone game playing behind ur back... Then back off. Never snoop.. (She won't try to reach for a bad record if she values u) And watch how she would work to keep u as hers...... Knowing u aren't dependent on her. She would suddenly remember u are still a SINGLE man. Lol.
RomanceRe: Why Do Nigerian Girls Like Pretending They Can't Speak Pidgin by Wislet(f): 11:26pm On Apr 30, 2012
mmmh
RomanceRe: Girls Can You Wash Your Boyfriend's Car? by Wislet(f): 10:54pm On Apr 30, 2012
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DailyNews: I believe u will cook, cook, wash, clean & scrub for him when u meet the right man that makes your heart go tic tac, & u are wondering what to do to show him how much u care about him & his welfare....so dearie don't make yourself look or sound ridiculous when you are a gem...mind what u say to the public cos u don't know who & who is reading your words...it maybe your hubby to be, & u end up scaring him away with your casual words....YES YOU CAN GURL! Even Obama's daughter will cook for the man she loves....read Laura Exquivel's Like Water For Chocolate, & u wouldn't repeat what u just said....& even if it is the truth about your personality, u would work to change it....Chencha & Rosaura made a difference with their cooking magic...the secret to every man's heart, especially the Nigerian man!
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DailyNews: I believe u will cook, cook, wash, clean & scrub for him when u meet the right man that makes your heart go tic tac, & u are wondering what to do to show him how much u care about him & his welfare....so dearie don't make yourself look or sound ridiculous when you are a gem...mind what u say to the public cos u don't know who & who is reading your words...it maybe your hubby to be, & u end up scaring him away with your casual words....YES YOU CAN GURL! Even Obama's daughter will cook for the man she loves....read Laura Exquivel's Like Water For Chocolate, & u wouldn't repeat what u just said....& even if it is the truth about your personality, u would work to change it....Chencha & Rosaura made a difference with their cooking magic...the secret to every man's heart, especially the Nigerian man!
DailyNews: I believe u will cook, cook, wash, clean & scrub for him when u meet the right man that makes your heart go tic tac, & u are wondering what to do to show him how much u care about him & his welfare....so dearie don't make yourself look or sound ridiculous when you are a gem...mind what u say to the public cos u don't know who & who is reading your words...it maybe your hubby to be, & u end up scaring him away with your casual words....YES YOU CAN GURL! Even Obama's daughter will cook for the man she loves....read Laura Exquivel's Like Water For Chocolate, & u wouldn't repeat what u just said....& even if it is the truth about your personality, u would work to change it....Chencha & Rosaura made a difference with their cooking magic...the secret to every man's heart, especially the Nigerian man!
the overly conscious man. Relax jare.
So u know her future hubby could be here? Hmm. Thought u think such things absurd. Good for u.
RomanceRe: Light-skinned Guys Or Dark Guys?(ladies Only) by Wislet(f): 4:14pm On Apr 30, 2012
all i need is DE (great)MAN....if he turns out to be light/dark.. Good.
RomanceRe: My Test (must Read) by Wislet(f): 12:44pm On Apr 30, 2012
old story
FamilyRe: How Supportive Was Your Significant Other While You Were Pregnant? by Wislet(f): 9:23pm On Apr 29, 2012
mmmh. God bless these women.
FamilyRe: How Supportive Was Your Significant Other While You Were Pregnant? by Wislet(f): 7:11pm On Apr 29, 2012
Vikin: Look at the maadMan!! post-JME ni....tell her your mind and stop running around the clock. Just click 'like' if you like the comment...must you tell her you clicked 'like'??

Small pikin like you! tongue tongue tongue

Abeg what was the topic again? huh huh
ps no insults. That's a married man u're insulting.. He was jst complimenting biko.
RomanceRe: I Am Very Confused!african Men And Women Please Help Me! by Wislet(f): 11:22am On Apr 29, 2012
kitty kat: Sage,

I will give you the advise my late mom and cousins gave me. I wish I had paid attention. This is cos u sound like me.

African men do not get independent so fast. At 25 the last thing they have on their mind is commitment. They have their career, education and impressing their family as their priority. So his mum would probably come first before you. He might have spent one year pursuing you but that doesn't mean that he will come running to do your bidding every time. This does not mean that he doesn't love you,no but honey the harsh reality is dat most men would first want to get somethings settled first before he makes a woman his priority. You may already be dreaming oh! My future husband but he is not seeing u as such yet. It will still take some years before he starts to think in that direction. Few men may not fit this description but majority of them do.

My advise to you is to continue your relationship but don't put too muCh pressure on him. You are still very young and since you guys are not engaged yet, you should focus on ur education, try and meet other guys too and get to know them. This will build your confidence and give you a better perspective about men. With time you won't be presurizing ur BF to call or come see u all the time. You will also become more attractive to him and he will be d one that will want to break all protocols to meet u.

You are too young to cry over a boyfriend not telling his mom abt u, when there are still a zillion guys having hypertension when u pass. Enjoy ur life and have fun.

My advise might not make sense to you now but in 6 years, you will understand better if u don't follow it.
SEALED
RomanceRe: The Next Nigga That Approaches Me When Am Studying!!!! by Wislet(f): 11:14am On Apr 29, 2012
acidtalk: I never do the parent thingy. But since you have brought it up then let the GAME BEGIN.

Less I forgot, I heard borth your gay*got father and bit*chy mother both had to donate both their brains for you to be sane. Both so pathetic you moth*erfuc*king lunatic son of a gay and a who*re isn't anywhere near close to being wise.


You just started what you can't continue trust me.
epic fail
RomanceRe: Isn't She Too Stubborn? by Wislet(f): 11:09am On Apr 29, 2012
acidtalk: Must your gayyish fingers always respond to everything?

When you don't even feed yourself how will you value money? Always wanting to respond to every single thread. Jobless. Gay buffon.
what does this guy have against sexkillz?
@topic, she might be one of those that do not want to be dependent on anyone for anything. She might be in need of the money, but wants to preserve her pride. But instead could seek other options for getting the money except from u. She never wants to feel indebted to u for anything. In case tomorrow both of u go ur separate ways.
By the way, are her parents there? Or are they unable to provide for her? If they are able, it's better u lay off and allow her parents train her. U do not want her to feel indebted to u/'love' u because of something.
RomanceRe: All Dis Naija Bitches by Wislet(f): 10:56am On Apr 29, 2012
somebody don 'broke' im heart.
RomanceRe: Broke Boyfriend. by Wislet(f): 10:52am On Apr 29, 2012
acidtalk: Go and recharge your mother*fuc*king brain you bloody gay! How won't you forget. Dum*b a5s.
why the uncalled for aggression?? Smh
FamilyRe: How Supportive Was Your Significant Other While You Were Pregnant? by Wislet(f): 12:34am On Apr 29, 2012
Chimezie198: stop d Attitude before i change my mind. Look sweery, lovely guys lyk moi are very very scarce nowadays!
So utilize dis opportunity wel wel.
hehehheheeheh
FamilyRe: How Supportive Was Your Significant Other While You Were Pregnant? by Wislet(f): 9:44pm On Apr 28, 2012
PrettyCindy: Babygirl this is the time you should be praying seriously for God to direct a good man to you. While you are waiting for him to show up, please invest in prayers and ask God for the wisdom to choose the right man who will treat you like an angel. Goodluck.
thanks sweetheart, dat's what we pray for. I pray God will put another testimony in ur mouth- this time for joy! It is well with u dear.
FamilyRe: How Supportive Was Your Significant Other While You Were Pregnant? by Wislet(f): 9:42pm On Apr 28, 2012
clown
Chimezie198: Yess ooo! I don show
baby i swaaar i go loff u wel wel,
treat u wel wel,
cook pass Mr biggs for u,
Wash pass washing machine for u,
Go antinetal pass u.
Wotever u want just name it. . . . .
Tropilo: Had to click the "like" button for you cos i perceive ur sincerity. Dont worry he will surely come. In Jesus name. Amen!
amen my dear. Dnt mind vikin.
Vikin: Looks like you are already advertising..

At topic: Nice thread!! I cant wait wink wink wink
[quote author=Tropilo]don't embarrass that man biko.

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