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[quote author=V_Official®]u're a lady...
most of you are very emotional, that can b used against u by someone who knows how to achieve what he wants...

Likewise how ladies are using guy's lust against him...
everything boils down to achieving your aim if you want to succeed... life is unfair... we dont have to try too hard against it[/quote]that if am emotional
i've heard otherwise.
I keep my head homey
i dnt mix business with pleasure.
So , say 'some ladies'.

@OAM, it seems u're more concerned about what she might tell people about the reason for the break up, than the progress of ur company.
Hope u're not the type that allow people and their opinions direct ur life...cos my dear, u'll never move forward that way.
Any sane person will agree with you that it is not advisable to do business with exes. They will even wonder why u kept her so long.
You can seek professional advice. A good lawyer will know how to go about it.
By the way, is it an oil company? Am lookin for I.T placement

[quote author=V_Official®]Great!!!
what i think you can do at the moment ( as i think you dunno want to go harsh) is to sit her down and discuss things over with..
Who ended the relationship, you or her

If it's you then, your price for keeping the company might be for you to be on a page with her and... if it's otherwise...
you just have to be best of friends while still trying to buy her share off with time...

She's a lady, use her emotions against her (ladies in d house, no vex oo)... Shower her with affection, just be as diplonatic as possible...
....while still 'diplomatically' reducing her say in the company.[/quote]vex wetin?
If na me sef, i for don find way to kick am off straight.
I no dey take business play ooo.
Nt to talk of de one wey i own...u come dey play with am.
Hmmmm.

kay9: Seun's playing in his sand-box.

hehehe

Gidsmon: I tot am d only one, I just keep falling in love with them

hehehehe

we have endured 'followed topics'... 'Topics by followers', etc.
Now we have topics LIKED by followers.
Haba.
What is the point of all these notifications
I think i preferred UPDATED topics which we had before to updates on topics you merely clicked on...not even contributed to.
Pls seun and mods, it's getting tiring.

Konnektions146: @wislet,
i read tru yur posts, basically, just as a poster mentioned earlier, i asked what if she is instrumental to de FG deal , i mean, what if she is de lead negotiator or she has de key to de door we dont know yet until OP clarifies her role in dat deal.

Registering a new company is a No NO cos if anythin like dat comes, she could invite a competitor and partner with dem under same businesss name and deal with OP's new company badly considerin dat de old company has got name, track records, good financial record(i presume) and i bet u, OP wont like wat de outcome would be.

de relatively better approach is Mr Billy's option C, OP can go to CAC, and increase de share capital but come to think of it, what if de lady can even afford to buy more into de compayy?

she cant be sacked as a director easily but can as a manager. OP should just try reducing her presence in de operational scene of de company as quickly and as much as possible to contain de imminent danger she poses to de company.

yes. The change of name is nt quite an option.
And the lady is an MD according to the OP. I think the CEO can terminate the appointment of his MD. He just has to find a way to do it.
And hopefully, he didn't give her too much free hand/power in the company to the point of being the initiator of the contract.
At least he should be thankful the 'love' didn't carry him to make her a full partner that would have been another story.

aishatua1: igbos girls are like this......
https://www.nairaland.com/965978/inside-owerri-hottest-unclad-club

false.
They all look yoruba.

Mbuko91: runs into d thread

looks left,looks right
(no1's coming)

shits on d thread and runs away wondering

***who will b d 1st 2 match d shit***....

(1) the fact that we're just sojourners. No point killing ourselves for anything/think the world is a competition. When u go, life still continues...so touch as many lives as u can.
(2) the biggest breakthroughs could come after the greatest falls. Cos then u can't fall lower than u already have...and from ur position on the ground, u'll be able to see things u never saw while standing.
(3) experiences and encouragement of others, and believing in urself.
(4) funny though..but true : stubbornness. Proving to that problem that it can never win you
u find strengths u never thought u had.
........Etc etc etc.

@billy, sent u a mail btw.
Check.

Billyonaire: Plan C, i need his consent for me to get this, in Plan C, she will be the one to beg for her stake in the company for her to leave. Its the last option but drastic.

no
let him pay for that one.
De guy don get plenty things free here. And he's nt even back on the thread.

Billyonaire: What locus standi does he have to terminate her employment ? Lets analyze this, the lady in question is in the company on 2 capacities, one as a stake holder, director is you prefer calling is so, because her name is on the CAC registration and she is again under the employment of the company as a DG if thats what the poster wrote. Terminating her employment ? DG sacked by CEO ? Both of them (may be more names like brothers and sisters) own the company. You cant terminate her as director, there is legal way of going about that, rumours of leaking industrial secret if not proven can not be used against her. Its gonna be dirty if the poster is not careful about this and he stands to lose more in damages aside the 30% stake. Like I said, there is always a plan B. Back to issues of clients not wanting to work with a new name, the OP can go ahead and negotiate a deal that will include capitalization of the company to a huge amount and the EX being a shareholder in the company has first right of denial, he has to tell her, company needs to be capitalize to meet future aspirations and he has a business that wants to own stake in the firm by injecting equity funds in it to the tune of say 500m naira (hypothetically) and as a share holder I have to ask if you can raise that money within 2 months, if you cant, i am afraid, we will have to sell our shares in the company to the corporate investors and hold smaller stake so we can have cash injections to meet capital expenditures. Trust me, she cant raise that and wont trust the man enough to hold, so it takes us to rights offer, where her stake in the company will be sold and she is paid off handsomely and her stake reduce to like 5 %. I do have Plan C, let me know how this checks out.

heheheehehehhe.@vofficial, u have a point like i did about the name change. It is tricky. If the company is a Veeeeery popular one, it wont be easy for people to remember the new name. Dat could be a big minus.
That is where Mr billy's plan C could come in .lol.
Aside taking it by force i.e terminating her appointment (Plan A)..... And changing the company name(Plan B),.... Going into a business deal where she'll be unable to meet up (Plan C)is looking okay now.
Unless OP has contacted that lawyer already and has the best option.

@OAM, concerning the part where u said she leaks the company's secrets to success, u might wanna speed up the termination of her appointment.
Else...ur competitors will really deal with u.
And change ur tactics later on. This time.. U alone will know it.
Not even a wife. Lol.

Billyonaire: Depends on what you mean, the poster stated that he sweats out to run the company, its simple in the business world, the posted owns the company, he has every right to prepare documents that sublets all present contracts to the new company name and technically the old company is dead without his expertise.

CHANGE OF NAME!! Now that's classic!
It is a very good idea dear.
But.. in the wake of a business partnership??
He might want to delay the FG deal a bit , do the change of name and transfers, then resume the deal.
I think that's a better idea.
@OP, u berra pay for all des info frm both of us oooo.

Konnektions146: what is she is a big + to de FG deal

how
U can't do the deal without her share of the money?
That does nt look good.
U really need to do that.
Else...it will be suicide.
U will lose a whole lot.
Remember..it's someone else's money.
And once hers enters, u cannot remove it again.
She can sweep the carpet from under ur feet.
U know what it means to have ur money as a part of an FG deal?
Try removing her hold on that deal LATER, and it could cost you the whole deal.
Do not build on shaky foundations.

Billyonaire: Do not do the predictable. If her equity is 30%, she expects you to pay her off at worst. Do the opposite, register a new business name close to what you presently have. Get an office space on stand by, Cash out your 70% stake from the company, then sit her down and share present assets and liability and let every staff reapply to work in your new firm. She will simply collapse. If this is not simple for you, let me know, cos I always plan B.

hehehehehehheheheheehhe.
Baaaaadt guy
BUT u forget that the deal must have been initiated using the PRESENT company name. Any new name will be suspect. Infact they wont have anything to do with a newbie company.
they'll just say, ''We don't recognize your company''.
Remember....for them to have agreed to enter the deal with him, they must have checked out the company name, financial standing, Reputation, etc.
It must have been a company that has been in business for a long time.
So.... :/
best option still remains to consult a veeery good lawyer that will think up a great idea.

lol. paying school fees and house rent.... Hahhahahahahahahahahahahhahhaahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaahahahahahahahahahah. #falls off the chair#.
I will continue to laugh at really funny men who think they know what love means, but have no clue.
No wonder threads on girls being gold diggers spring up everywhere. The 'funny' guys are too many!
Since gals are picking up gold...it means someone is supplying it to them.
The wise ones(men) are busy managing their businesses and saving for their family(future), while the 'good' boyz are doing father christmas

ex girlfriend in your company??
With all the emotional fireworks and over familiarity?
Is your business a partnership? That is both of you own it?
If not, then i think the owner can terminate the appointment of anyone he wishes.
She just bought 30 percent shares of your holdings.
You can buy them from her and pay her off.
She has no legal standing whatsoever to sue you.....it is your company.
How can she drag it with you?
Hmmmm....looks like u 'dashed' her the percentage when the going was good.
You should have terminated the business deal when you guys broke up. That is wisdom.
Advise: consult the services of a very good lawyer...i mean the best. Cos if it hits the ceiling and she still maintains she's not going, she could hire a very goooooood lawyer to rip off more than you would believe.
Get the best. Let him into the details of the deal, and let him do the work.
Meanwhile, u need to do this fast if possible, before that partnership with the FG.... Because when you start, and all this gets out, it could be viewed as ur company being unstable.
Besides, you dont want her share digging deep/sky rocketting from that deal.
Because........ Hmmmm......it would be easier to chase away a lion from its prey than.....
I'm sure u've learnt ur lessons.

ex girlfriend in your company??
With all the emotional fireworks and over familiarity?
Is your business a partnership? That is both of you own it?
If not, then i think the owner can terminate the appointment of anyone he wishes.
She just bought 30 percent shares of your holdings.
You can buy them from her and pay her off.
She has no legal standing whatsoever to sue you.....it is your company.
How can she drag it with you?
Hmmmm....looks like u 'dashed' her the percentage when the going was good.
You should have terminated the business deal when you guys broke up. That is wisdom.
Advise: consult the services of a very good lawyer...i mean the best. Cos if it hits the ceiling and she still maintains she's not going, she could hire a very goooooood lawyer to rip off more than you would believe.
Get the best. Let him into the details of the deal, and let him do the work.
Meanwhile, u need to do this fast if possible, before that partnership with the FG.... Because when you start, and all this gets out, it could be viewed as ur company being unstable.
Besides, you dont want her share digging deep/sky rocketting from that deal.
Because........ Hmmmm......it would be easier to chase away a lion from its prey than.....
I'm sure u've learnt ur lessons.

chmod777: Great Igbo culture, the video IHioma masquerade is unique among the orlu zone, Anambra south and up to Umunoha near Owerri. I wish my poeple would have the infrastructure to invest in these culture to attract tourism.
Poverty has really dealt with us

poverty??
Poverty and Igbo don't mix.
It is the zeal to promote..to uphold it for posterity....nt money.

kay9: **wondering if it was really worth hitting reply...**

hehehehehehehe!!

@OP, sorry for my part in derailing.
Exit frm thread.

DailyNews: I know u must be regretting your actions by now...thats y its not advisable to start a war...war-moongers always lose at d end....desist from e-wars if u want people to respect u like they respect some folks. if u dnt knw how to achieve it, chose urself a female role-model here on nl so that she can nurture u to act like a lady & not like a frustrated girl. if u consider my advice, get back to me so that i can give u some names of nl ladies to emulate ok? & pls stop engaging me in dis rubbish u started pls...i am nt good at it cos ur makin me feel guilty for exposing u...anyway, i am sorry. find another guy that u can offload ur frustration on. thank u for d last time & once again stop derailing ppls thread, it speaks ill of u, take it or leave it!

exposing what exactly?? U okay? U actually mean a common thread everyone knows about where u acted all sanctimonious? Where ur fellow guys here rebuked you?
Or ur bitterness dat i errrr preferred to link up wit ur friend than with you?
E still dey hammer you? awwwww. What pain. I was not even serious about the offer son. U been played. Someone give me my winnings. Smh.
Looks like i saw through all that pretentious character. Lol.
Sweethrt.. For ur info, i got NOTHING to hide, but u do. Wonder if u are delirious.
I should be the one doing the exposing cos u are a bitter, rejected boy.
Role model?
Hope you do not consider yourself one. Wait..do u? Tsk. Oh puhleeease. Get out of ur misery cos u are an idiot.
I can point u to plenty guys here you should learn from. Cos u are a poor excuse for the word 'Man'.
Goodnight son!
I wont bother replying any more of your rotten talk cos u are way beneath me.
Thread closed as far as i am concerned. Cant descend to ur level.
Meanwhile, try and sign up for the kindergaten class. U missed many classes for right thinking in ur growing up.
@ least now we know how vile u are..O Mr fine gentleman, no insult, holy, pretentious, deceptive manipulator. Thought u were the perfect gentleman like u wanted us to believe? Hahaha.
Look for weak skirts to impress with ur smooth, ready answer-for-everything, perfect, deceptive personality. Nairaland women can see through the fakery.
Anyways, save ur energy. Wont come back to this thread..so pour it on the floor.
Goodday.

DailyNews: Lolzzzzzz....oh my...so u had been on me all these while? so u had been trailing on me wislet to have noticed that I am a pretending saint on nairaland but d funniest part of it all is that u never told me that u were this crazzy abt me, yyy...lolz...eh yeah...m srry wis for not givin u d necessary attention & u knw what? I have forgotten abt u entirely untill today wen u quoted my post in an abusive way that murdered ur lady image, which baffled me cos it was directed at someone else to say....which clearly proved that u are really stalking me...now I must alert my street security....fyn girl! lolz

Finally, thank u for recognizing that I am a pretending nairaland saint or whatever u called it, which is another outstanding evidence that u care so much abt this ordinary guy...& to face the truth, if i at least i am a pretending nl saint u called me, then it shows that I am wishing to be a saint, & as we all knw, immitating sth, makes one to bec like that thing someday somehow...& it also leads to perfection!! Thank u, thank u for the medal!

didn't even bother to read all that crap u wrote up there.
Do yourself a favour: stop whining like a girl. U're 'supposed' to be a Man.
Oh sorry...u're probably a girl.
Stalk ko..stalk ni.
Whatever helps u sleep at night. Probably wishing a girl notices you.
Cut the epistle and talk like someone with sense.
Like u existed before ur comment on this thread.

DailyNews: pretender You are very good at what you do...keep it up hun....I know your pains, it was never my fault ok?...& pls don't blame me...I dnt need to pretend online to please virtual ppl dat dnt even care abt my existence u knw dat...if u wish to meet me one on one, u can anytime anyday, & for record purpose, some folks here have met me & more will soon cos my life is nt a secret....not like most who hide behind a pc screen typing whatever frustration has dumped into their wretched fingers/brain....& sorry if I knocked ur job....lolz...& pls stop derailing ppls' topic by acting too frustrated with life pls...to make u calm down, oya take this lyrics: ozugo uburu onye na edigi ola edo...nw back to d topic & stop acting like a rejected kid plz...lol

now you have shown your true self. Lol.
Better.
Not acting all sanctimonious.
U really think all that rant meant anything to me?
Nope.
Know why? Cos that's you for real.
Not the nairaland saint whatever you call yourself.
I dont wanna know if a zillion people have met you or not.
Pretenders will always be pretenders.
It's only in the closet they reveal themselves.
Keep the talk up. You have finally burst that facade of holy P. Lol.
And shhhh! I dnt wanna meet u. Thanks.
We know your bitterness stems from something else.
Pastor bitter man.

Babzilla: I wish I could meet U in person make I knock that ya head when b like popcorn.
That baby for ur profile na U when U dey small shey

hehehehehehheheheheh

Pakavy: take am jeje nah,e neva reach dat threshold

ok dear
just wanna knock his head to remember his own women are included in the 'all girls are gold diggers' insinuation.
Except they aren't women.

DailyNews: Lolz...Me Crazzy Come on wis....thats unladily okay? Change! Change! Pls & dont also join in calling people's names cos of their reputation, its not lawful/mature. take care & enjoy ur free internet sub...lol

u know the funny thing about you?
U are a pretender....only those who are clueless as to your games will fall for ur false life here.

Babzilla: that makes the 2 of us honey. Ive read Ur responses and Ur language is not exactly ladylike either. I guess U get what U give.

and u deserve it.

LesbianBoy: Just Wondering why WISLET is "all up" on this thread!

all up?
Because.... I am a member on this forum.
I have the right to state my views without being attacked/called a liar for it.
Like anyone here knows me.
So tell your 'perfect' boys up there to shut their traps, state their opinions and walk away without making themselves look unbelievably ridiculous.