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chaircover: Wislet fron the little I know, Women think long and hard before having an affair. Men tend to go into affairs much more easily and many a time they dont think it through before setting off.

Maybe because its a relatively new marriage and snthsis does not really know what his wife is capable or not capable doing of just yet, and so he is a little worried now. Maybe in 5 years time, and the trust has been proven, he wont even bat an eyelid if his wife came up with the same job as she has been offered today. So it is still down to the trust issue.

Now for the temptation, are we saying here that everyone falls to temptation? I believe that is a capital NO. The only reason why i wont take that job is the 3 weeks on and one week off issue.

chaircover: Is MissyB a nurse ni?

On a serious note, if I were your wife I will be pretty offended that you think that way. You are indirectly implying that you can’t trust her.

Which job will your wife do that she won’t be exposed to other men? Do men toast married women YES!!! Do men toast me? Yes!! In the shops, on the plane, on the street, driving along in the car . . . . . . I just politely tell them to Fcuuk off.

Even if your wife was a housewife, there is still the washerman, driver, gateman, when she goes to the market etc

You have to trust her, however if she has given you any reason not to trust her, then you need to discuss it and iron things out Now Now because if you don’t, then every time she is 5 minutes late from the marker you will be thinking the worst.

Now back to the job, I personally don’t like husband and wife being away from each other and 3 weeks out of every 4 is a long time to be apart. Money is not everything and investing in building your relationship together is more important than money. Sit down, put your heads together, focus and pray together and surely a job closer to home will soon appear.

Billyonaire: As man is, God once was, as God is, man may be. We are gods, and children of the most high God. Ride on great scientist. Let cloning begin....I need my designer baby.

rapu4real: Pls contact me on rapu4real@yahoo.com...i believe i could be of help...sincerely i av sum1 who'll be interested in u.

xynerise: you are desperately searching for a Nigerian husband.

HisRib: I just find that most Nigerian men are not serious. I am not searching for a Nigerian husband. As I mentioned in my original post -- I find them to be attractive but they just have a really bad reputation.

Men in my country are great. I went to school with many Nigerians that's how I came to like them. Never dated one. Just liked from a distance.

fesse: Uniting the people and uplifting the Nation.

The problem is from the management. When you have wrong people @ the wright places, that is exactly the story. Unqualified people occupying sensible positions.

Check very well, the DGs have gone to Mecca for lesser hajj.

Fhemmmy: I would not do such in Nigeria, a nation where wickedness is just next to their nature . . .

emmysenior: On several occassions, I've thrown lightd knock-outs in to the cars of the stupid defaulters & zoom off, nt until I unknowingly did it 2 a sturbon stupid man, bt I ws lucky 2 get away wt it dt day, so I stoppd, I dnt evn yell at em anymore.

PeterKbaba: You are so on point. You see Nigerians going to school all over the world, but most of their IQ is completely zero, they dont want to read and if they do, they refuse to think straight.

veraponpo: The main problem we have in this country is allowing the Ibos to be staying with the rest of us. I have no apology fo saying this. For the following reasons:
1. They argue blindly even when they dont know. I could remember one auto part seller (Ibo man) arguing with me in 2006 (an OAU graduate) that Nigeria's population was more than that of Brazil.
2. They always believe they are wiser even when they dont have half of your knowledge.
3. They always act before they think -the reason for Nzeogwu Kaduna's coup de tat(sorry for the spelling).
4. They always see others as being inferior to them even when you are the one hosting them, teaching them and helping them. Unnecessary pomposity
5. They always believe they can out-smart u in all areas especially.
6. They see others as coward because they fought just one senseless war (Biafrian war) and lost forgeting that Yoruba started Wild Wild West war in 1962 to 1965.
7. Always call Awolowo a betrayer because he advised Gowon against them forgeting that Biafrian soldiers started it by killing Yorubas in Ore (Ondo State).

I hate the Ibos bunch of unwise elements, selfish and idiotic set of people.

afam4eva: I think this thread should be locked and the key thrown away because we know how this thread will end.

Sagamite: Your attention is needed on this thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/974439/emmanuel-ohuabunwa-1st-blackman-3.98

A lot of people are looking for you because of the "intellectual" post you made there.

buck wild: My cousin was about to get married,he set aside some money to buy the wedding gown.

When it was time to get it,his fiancee insisted that they lease it instead of buying it,stating that its not rational to spend so much on something that she is going to wear for about 6 to 8 hours.

They should use the money for something instead.i was really surprised,i was like do such ladies still exist?

Nairalanders what do you think?

Fhemmmy: Lol . . . Well said or the people that are going into the "Molue" through the windows with their Tie and Suit

SmoothCrim: Ghanaian rule now!!

The rest of West Africa is either:

1) Too French
2) Too Al Qaeda like
3) Too poor to be relevant
4) Too incompetently run


Ghanaina rule now! It is the only hope for this region!

OAM4J: May God not give me sycophants as children, children that will not criticize me and correct me when they think am doing wrong.

Geez! There is nothing evil in criticism, how will you get the best from your leader if you don't criticize?

The way some of you think.... arrrghhh!!!

EbonyBlond: That man's (i can't call him a prof cos he didn't behave as one) criticism is in no way constructive. Calling the president a lunatic and of unsound mind is pure mudslinging. I would have had nothing against him if he criticised in a way befittin a prof.

SmoothCrim: My Lord! Citizen of the well run state of Ghana, I am at your service and an inferior Nigerian. Give me advice!How could a dumb Nigerian like me ever hope to run an effective state? Every week there is some bad news! We need Ghanaian rule now!

Imperial Ghana now!

I am at your service My Lord!!

eedriyz: AirPorts are bad!
He won't fly on Helicopter because he don't want to die!
He has vacated the road for we bloody civilians!
He is taking us and the constittion for granteed!
He don't give a damn!
He's dull!
He's clueless!
Yet, he still have his way!
We indeed voted a president with an unsound mind. He's probably insane. Point of correction: I didn't vote for him.
I have no problem with the way he got his CERTIFICATES. Obj had nothing then and still threat thing like a genius, even if he was the most dubious president even in Nigeria (my thought).
GEJ is a JOKE and a Corrupt lead leader. His lovers are the haters of Nigeria.
Let's see what he's got at 2013, no be today dem start that one 4 here

Mekusnwa: Where did they go to pick this character from? There's no end to what theses Gej haters will not do to get at him. Suddenly, they hve gone to generate a Ghanian professor to come and give a disjointed analyses of that interesting Media chat. Who interviewed this professor? Who made him world's foremost economist? I will not be surprised if this man was cloned by SAHARAREPORTERS or Kobojunkie to lend credibility to their falsehood. Let me assume that the man exist and face the issues raised.
1. He acted in ignorance when he said the president didn't declare his assets. The president indeed declared his assets but it was not made public. Even if you doubt it, the assets declaration that he did as Vp under Yaradua still subsists as he has not left office since then. So why the noise over assets declaration?
2. It is an insult on the sensibilities of Nigerians for the so called Ayitteh to label our President as insane and with unsound mind. Who adjudged Jonathan as having unsound mind? Did Ayitteh evaluate a medical report to that effect? How did he arrive at this weighty derogatory statement against a PHD holder? Who is Ayitteh to tell us we voted an insane President? please there must be an end to useless propaganda.
3. The so called Ayitteh questioned why GEJ has not fixed Maidugri airport for his usage. I want to ask, has Ghana even fixed the airport at Accra talkless of the one in hinterland? Is it Not the airport where a cargo aircraft crashed due to water logged runway. Meanwhile, Gej is carrying out massive reconstruction of airports across the country. He is doing in less than one year what many of his predecessors could not do all thru their tenure. Go to Abuja airport, the domestic wing has been closed down for intensive renovation. New car parks are being built. At the international wing, the runways are being built and the entire airport infrastructure is being rebuilt. Similar projects are going on simultaneously in Enugu, Lagos, etc
4. He said GEJ's Agric revolution is only restricted to distribution of palm seedlings. What an affront on truth. Even a toddler in Nigeria has come to know about the cassava revolution and fertilizer distribution reforms scheme.
5. Thankfully, the fake prof accepted the massive construction of rail lines across the country but only faulted the projects on account of what he described as non inclusion of Nigerians in the contract. Who told him? And since when has a Ghanian assumed the role of our local content enforcement officer?
6. He ended up betraying his true identity as an interested party when he said the president needed to consult the university authority and students body before renaming Unilag. What a joke!

Kobojunkie: ROFLMAO!!!

godfadda6: I read through all what has been said on this thread and I decided to share my story!

I had a similar encounter with a lady on a dating website 5years ago, we talked, emailed, called each other back and forth, sometimes for months we wouldn't talk but when we got back we would discuss everything! She was like my confidant and I was like her confidant too, cos it was easy for us to say stuff to ourselves, stuff we wouldn't dear say......

To cut the long story short, I got a job which gave me the opportunity to travel to where she was, when I got there I gave her a call, she was shocked to hear I was in her town, it was hard for us to want to meet, but eventually we summoned courage to meet each other, when I met her I was like OMG, she was like a huge "ballon" (no disrespect).

All I remember I kept saying was "so what's up"!!! We couldn't even talk freely like we used to do through the phone and email, we cooled off, then I went back and retraced all we have said and discussed, and I just discovered I had peace with this lady, we connected in a very special way......

I went back not knowing she felt the same way!!! To cut the story short again, I have looked beyond the way she looks and I have learnt to take her the way she is, and we connect well! Infact we are getting married in November of this year! When my family met her, it was magical, they all loved her, like wise when he folks met me I was like a lost son, her dad calls me like a son he never had!

So my advise is, if u can look beyond beauty and see the connection, but if you can't connect, like someone advised, let her go before it's too late! My 2 cents!

Ofido: To the ladies, if your visit your guy on a weekend and if you are about going on Sunday evening or Monday morning, how much does he normally give you?

And guys how much is ideal to give a lady when she stays the weekend? That is if she did not tell you about all her family problem o.

funky medina: You write like an illiterate? This is obviously a fake story. You havnt left ur village talk less of abroad? Gsm has caused all dis modaphuckers to acces the internet. Ugly ko ugly ni. U claim u went to university but could not travel to another state to see the lady even after u had grown up. Anyway i guess nairaland needs the comments to keep the site intersting

Limaoscar: Too many "POORLY brought-up children" in this forum. I haven't seen real substance in most of the critisms on this forum. All they are talking about is How He speaks....How He hasn't pronounced words....and by the way, why is it that we have degenerated so low as a Nation to be abusing our President online. We may have political differences but to build our Nation is our common business as Nigerians. Quit attacking the man's person, criticise issues and suggest on this forum what YOU think is possible otherwise change your dial and go watch football.