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For the guy that asked if that's the only family living there., My dear, you cannot help everyone at once. It would amount to helping none. You might never reach some people in ur life time. That's fact. In a situation where you have #200,000 and instead of helping one successfully, you target 100 families at once. You'll end up giving one family #2,000. Now, have u helped them? Christ showed an example when he said heaven rejoices over ONE sinner that repents. Why? Cos He knows it might be impossible for everyone in the world to do so at once. A bird at hand is better than 40 in the bush.
@OAM4J, Jarus. It would not be a bad idea to have an official nairaland account which won't be manned by Seun (lol)-he's my friend and trustworthy, but a businessman,(dnt mind me dear), But instead should be controlled by a completely trustworthy team. The account details should be known and controlled by more than one person, so that we don't get stranded if one person can't be available when needed. Any leftovers from the money contributed here should be deposited there. The account details posted, and members can put money in it occasionally so we won't have to be contributing everytime. The details of which you should keep us informed on from time to time, so we know how the money is being used (accountability). God bless Nigerians and friends of Nigeria.

God bless everyone. You all are wonderful. No matter whatever Nigerians are labelled with, there are plenty things we possess, which will continue to astound others, among which is a good heart. Pls send de details as an inbox. And God bless you guys that have brought out your time to be on hand for the family. More strength to you.

glo has stolen my #500 oooo!! I was initially browsing free with 25mb. Now I only have #30 left and still browsing free. Is it that I didn't set it well? Nawa oooooooooo. Mtcheew

congratulations dear. Thank God for a safe delivery.
@siena, I bet u'd make a great godfather.

see how Nigerians have beautiful heart. Giving shelter to total strangers, and much more. God bless you all.

@OP and EVERY OTHER PERSON who IS CONFUSED ABOUT THEIR RELATIONSHIP, read this. It will help you put some things in good perspective.
www.ecademy.com/node.php?id=141607

Then what of Rochas Okorocha that has taken thousands of children off the streets, and helped give them a new meaning to life?
Also, I think monopoly is the last thing Nigeria needs.

Ishilove:
Too extreme. She's still with him o,even though she's on "probation" becos of the whole internet flirting brouhaha. He can her accounts,he dose'nt hesitate to call her names wheneva he is angry and he is just generally distrustful of her

I'm sorry but that relationship is already doomed. He could never trust her again, even if she stops it. Calling her names anytime they have a disagreement shows he now has zero respect for her. And he would continually stomp on her and always make her feel she is worth nothihg, even in front of his friends. The best thing for them is just to forget it. That's the blunt truth. She would regain her pride, and hopefully quit with the games before she meets her next boyfriend. Getting married to that type of man- I'm sure she doesn't need a soothsayer to know that a guy like that would do worse to a 'wife'. A relationship without trust is only headed for one thing- disaster.

@Ileke Idi, the fact that you do not understand the true meaning of 'bow' in the context Okorocha used it, doesn't mean every other person is ignorant. Those with no ethnic hatred and bias understand. That name is the last name you could call here.

r231:
thinking an apartment and little change for the woman to expand the pure water biz

any more suggestion

The woman? Well i think we should focus on the man. He is the head by the way. Very soon the woman will be too pregnant to do any business. Instead of white collar job which is uncertain, I think the man can be helped to set up a private business, from which income he would be able to pay the rent and all what not. When the wife has delivered and is able, she could join him, or use part of the money to set up another business she can manage. And he should also be informed about using the bank, and the importance of shares, investment, etc. To guard against going penniless in case of rainy days.

r231:
Latest development on the family

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Re: Man Raises Family Under Lagos Bridge
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I just left there.Hmmn na wao.

Truly,the couple exist for real.They have a baby boy and the wife is visibly pregnant.Contrary to PM news report,Mr Obuh do go out to hustle and does not sit all day sleeping and eating.

On arriving and locating them(took me almost an hour),I met Dupe and the baby boy.Started asking her questions and while at it,Mr Obuh walked in.He had with him pieces of scrap metals he got for reselling to scavengers.

and Yep,I now without doubt do believe that they might be disturbed by snakes and other rodents.The place is just filthy,area boys shyte,smoke ganja just 5 meters away from their "home".

One thing I noticed and can't help but share is this:the couple are so in love with each other and quite simple.The smile and warm reception they gave me,Dupe even offered me pure water from her bowl nearby.would start posting pics soon.

We will nominate a member that will handle this and srt fund raising soon

This is beautiful.
@Ify, we're waiting for the pics.
@All,, wat's the best way to help this couple?

@oam4J, just hope these allegations against you aren't true, cos it's not the first time we're seeing it. Neither is he the only person that has complained. This site has only one owner. No other person has the right to make it his father's business. Everyone is equal- moderator or not.

LIFE IS MORE PRECIOUS THAN ANY CERTIFICATE. Cos you need to be alive to enjoy any certificate! Corpers have the right to refuse going to the north if posted there. By the way, the certificate is only required in offices. Plenty people have done more meaningful things with the life God gave them, and are even employers of the so-called 'served' members. Unless you think your life ends with NYSC.

Ishilove:
Is it normal for a guy, in connivance with the staff of one of the communication networks to synchronise his girlfriends message box to his number so that any text message she sends or receives goes to his own phone? Is it okay for the same guy to hack into her facebook account at will,chat with her male friends while pretending to be her to see if she's got anything "in common"? He even called her a LovePeddler because he discovered that she was flirting with someone online {though in her defence she did it out of boredom and idleness}. Is this kind of behaviour normal 'cos its happening to my cousin. I'm so pissed right now

That is a breach of privacy. A betrayal of trust by a telecom industry regardless if it was one staff that did it. She could seriously sue them! I bet they would gladly lay off the guy than lose their reputation. That so-called friend should be punished. He should have known the consequences before betraying the company he works for. And dont say ur coz is still with such a guy? That is extreme! Wat is happening these days? No ethics anymore?

Eucharia Remmy - sister to Nollywood actress Mary Remmy- loses life in the last attack in Yobe state while sharing copies of Rhapsody of Realities.
http://m.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=244669525591177&id=100484630009668&set =a.152919604766170.37823.100484630009668&refid=0

youth corpers continue to lose their lives in their own country
http://m.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=245401325517997&id=100484630009668&set=a.152919604766170.37823.100484630009668&refid=0&_ft_a=100484630009668&_ft_tf=245401325517997&_ft_tpi=100484630009668&_ft_ti=7&_ft_fth=2070cc7b92c9fbc3&_ft_time_ft=1320944179

samyng:
To be honest https://www.addemoticons.com/emoticon/animated/AddEmoticons04236.gif

morgist:
@Jerseyboy You are an goat! You don’t know what you are doing! Why on earth will you abuse someone’s religion? This signifies you don’t have respect for your religion! Calling Islam an instrument of terror is very bad and should be withdrawn. Had it been i can see u, i will have cut your head down, freaky fool

@manchy7531 never abuse our prophet talk more of our religion. You should mind what you are saying bastard. I swear to GOD ALMIGHTY, hell fire is you destination in the day of judgement.

And we will continue killing the unbelievers.

Boko haram more gress to your elbow keep the good work!!!!

what is the difference between you and what was written above? sMH

finally, PEACE.

seems some of you Nigerians living abroad have developed the mentality that you're better than, or have achieved something above those living in the country. Look how foolishly you call your educational system a failure- the same one that helped some of you get scholarships, the same one of which you were a part of earlier in life, and which laid the foundation for your educational feats abroad. When a group of people will brazenly insult the country they came from just because of some argument, and instead hold another country in high esteem over theirs, i think there's more hope for a mad man than that one. See you all spitting on yourselves while they are all watching you. If Nigeria failed in something,i think looking into the mirror by some here will provide the answer. I'm only grateful to God that the real Nigerian men who would provide the answer to this myopic question are out there doing something more meaningful to have time to come to a public forum to insult women.

hamsky:
[size=15pt]To be honest I think Nigerian girls are just so unreal, they have this taught that they do guys favour by going out with them. And the thing about them not being romantic that is absolutely true except you find a very wise one; "Na only naija girl you go buy flower for we go tell you seh na flower I go chop"[/size]

hamsky:
[size=15pt]To be honest I think Nigerian girls are just so unreal, they have this taught that they do guys favour by going out with them. And the thing about them not being romantic that is absolutely true except you find a very wise one; "Na only naija girl you go buy flower for we go tell you seh na flower I go chop"[/size]

And if they throw themselves on your lap, you will call them virtuous?
Romance? Were you born romantic? If you're such a master in it, why don't you teach her some? Seeing as in your culture and in most families (maybe urs included), affection is not something shown openly. And you guys TO YOUR OWN SHAME keep opening your mouths to talk about flowers. How many times, IF EVER, did you see your fathers buy flowers for your mothers? Or your mums want them as gifts? Were you given flowers as a kid? You know whqt i see? Some men who have not only lost touch of their roots, but have lost their reasoning. Though we must applaud them for having succeeded in acquiring something AT LEAST- a large dose of inferiority complex! It's not easy at all.

Guys, learn to respect your women. Cos in doing so, u'll only show you have respect for yourselves. It is said,'' charity begins at home''. It is only a HYPOCRITE that will appreciate something outside his home more than the one inside. Learn to respect your women, both in action and your very words, cos in doing so, u'll only be acknowledging respect for your mothers too. Or you think some of you men are prices too? But do you see any girl continually make a topic of you guys here? Because we know whether east, west, north or south, our own is the best. It is your own that can best complement and understand you. There's no place where their people do not mess up. But do they go online to deride all of their people or disrespect their women because of a few? It is high time you Nigerian men grow up. Sometimes i wonder at the quality of future fathers we are breeding? Men who will end up comparing their wives with other women, or totally disregarding them? You are supposed to show respect for your own wives and mothers, and also teach your sons how to do same! If those other women are so wonderful, why are their own men not scrambling for them, or praising them like you keep doing? Why are their men ready to go to any length to have your own women as wives? If you do not know what you have, others will help you appreciate them.

happy birthday fellow november baby.

PointB:
Too much energy is expended here because you lots don't know the clowns you are dealing with.

Eko Ile is a pro ACN thug and yoruba supremacist who is hoping for a Fashola candidacy in 2015.

Ahj Harem and Navfam have not disguised there preference for Sanisi or Sule Lamido in 2015.

Both group will do anything to attack Rochas who they believe stand in their way come 2015.

I hope this heads up put their actions in context and hope those trying to educate them adjust their strategy.

We know misguided fellows by their actions here. Alj harem, eko ile, bluetooth and some others just love seeing clashes between the Igbo and yoruba. Every topic, they try every way possible to instigate discord. It is unfortunate Nigeria habours such.

@bluetooth, i honestly thought u were a smart guy. Obviously i thought wrong. Hatred or malice is covering a lot of people's eyes. A very simple sentence construction, easily interpreted by a primary school pupil, but already many have scored F9 in it.

are yoruba girls usually this vulgar? Who did they say again are the most respectful people? Just asking. It's real funny a simple speech by an otherwise called 'unimportant' group by some, can get some people disregarding the core messages and hanging unto one word out of how many. Little wonder English Language is failed by many students, since their elders are no wiser on the subject themselves. Bow down, bow up, whatever. Let us understand the meaning of something before talking. By the way, there is something we call literally and/or metaphorically speaking. At least we must have come across those words when the teacher was teaching in class! And I bet each of you must have said the same words at one time or the other, especially when someone you know makes an educational, financial, and/or any other wise breakthrough. Is this phrase familiar: '' Bros. I BOW FOR YOU ooo. You too much!''. What do we interpret it to mean when we use it? Why then the sentiments? Because it was not used by someone from your 'ethnic group', of which you would have been completely silent on/absent from this thread. Goes a long way to show how united indeed we are in this country. Ethnic sentiments everywhere. Forgetting we are first and foremost HUMAN. The diverse culture God has blessed Nigeria with, and which is the envy of other nations, should be used to our advantage. Not come here opening mouths in shameful talk.

benyc & tellwisdom>> love nwantinti. Lol
@tellwisdom, bro are you lefulefu? Lefulefu are u mobo444? Hehehe
@Topic, OP abeg next time u dey enter bus, smell ur buttocks. LOL

don't worry, i think i remember. Already sent it, k?

sorry i didnt quite get it. Was offline. HAPPY SUNDAY EVERYONE

you presume? And hw in de world wuld i do that?

^^^hmmmm. wat do u want me to answer u? Lol