Wanna very it, their recharge rate is now lower than widrawal rate, in order to lure people that has not yet confirmed it.

It has crashed bro, my 1k dollars gone

They just dropped one at my junction, isiohor
just now, omo see run. No be small oo, may God save us in this land of Benin city

lilyheaven:

I called a family friend from Benin, he said the woman doesn't have the right to determine where the bride price should be paid.
He said you should look for your father in law, pay the bride price to him, he can send the bride price back to your mother in law, by so doing, he has indirectly paid her pride price. That is, if he wants to send it to them.
But it's not in your place to pay bride price to your mother in law , I hope you understand what I typed.

Sure thanks a lot. That is the exact thing I have in mind

lilyheaven:

Let me ask some questions, I will come back and tell you what I found out.

ok thanks bro, I really appreciate.

lilyheaven:
Please send your uncles to go and dig up their culture. You didn't state the name of the place, so I won't be able to give you the correct answer.
Each tribe have their tradition.

the mum is Benin while the dad is ibibio( akwa ibom)

infogenerator:


My friend, you're right about African cultures, respect them and they will respect you.

This is your first chance of letting your woman, her family and your family inclusive know you're ready for marriage and that you're gonna be the man in your home.

Don't make any mistake at this early stage. They can unite and come together for the sake of this marriage, it is possible and I have seen it happen.

Aurevoir Mon Ami.

Thanks bro, we actually know that in Africa the child belongs to the man no matter what. when the time comes, the child must always look for his father

infogenerator:
Op your story seem legit, so I'll give you a piece of my experience on this.

Everyone asking you to look well before you leap are actually correct and I personally advice you listen to them.

My cousin married a particular girl from Beyelsa about 8 years ago, we travelled from Lagos to Beyelsa for the wedding. Both parents of the bride had the same exact issue....after paying the bride price to the girl's father, we were mandated to go back and pay another exact pride price to the girl's mother and her family, because according to them we haven't paid the bride price yet...it took us 3 days to do all these in Beyelsa state, crossing rivers to their villages and all. He actually did two traditional ceremony.

They are married today and far from being happy. No kids yet to show for it even when they are both medically certified to be ok....

So please don't intentionally put yourself in a tight corner ....

Here is what you do, let them know you're interested in their daughter, but you don't want a marriage that is divided from the get go, so they should fix their differences and let you pay her bride price as customs demands once and for all.

I have seen where two bitterly separated parents come together for just that day, so their kids can get married, if they can't do that for their own daughter's happiness, marriage and future, then candidly I'll tell you to run away from such a family

. Thanks a lot, this is exactly what am scared of. There is no way I can pay a my in-laws bride price. There can still be some spiritual implications, if I get to do it the wrong way. In Africa tradition is tradition.

ZIMDRILL:


well the father's story of not paying has nothing to do with you, dont be used to settle people's problem

You must do right to both the father's side and the mother's side

don't really understand,how so I have to do right to both parents side. Am I to pay the bride price to both the Father's and the mother's family?

Rozz:
Whatever the case may be the father should be given the bride price even though he might have been useless to her and her mum.Do the right thing now to avoid troubles in view

that's what my parents are saying. That there may be problems in future

Davash222:

There's no issue there. As long as the man didn't pay the mother's bride price, he's not the father of the girl.

what if the Man is ready to do the necessary things. But the woman don't want?

There is this family I want to marry into, but the Father of the girl did not pay the bride price of the mum, and she bore seven children for the man. The man left the woman and the children to base in another state, without caring about the welfare of the wife and children. Now I want to marry the first daughter in the family, it is becoming complected, because the family of the woman are saying that the children does not belong to the man, because he has not paid for the wife's bride price, that they own the children. And the woman is now saying that even if the Man is ready to come and pay her bride price, that she wouldn't accept it. My question now is that, is it right to go on the do the necessary things in her maternal home ?

wizboi26:
what's the colour of their uniform let me try to recall

is that cemetery still there, because those days in primary school, I heard so many weird stories

Oyindidi:
I attended Holy Trinity close to your school

what's the colour of their uniform let me try to recall

Oyindidi:
Same here, I be Area for town, I don live for Aggrey, Moore House, Adoni street for borokiri, Enugu, Bundu, now New Road. I dey plan to run from town

hmm you remind me of my childhood, I lived at Moore house. I attended Baptist Day School at, Aggrey Road. But left pH at a very young Age.

Benin is boiling with blood right now. everywhere is scary. The rate of the killing self, I fear that some innocent once will still go down for it. No one is save now, one can't even do his legitimate business peacefully now, everywhere is just full of blood. God save Benin!

am in urgent need of a clean Nigerian used toyota Carina e wagon, or Toyota avensis wagon in Benin city

I ve been in Benin for Long. but I ve not experienced one as bloody as this one. two days I heard about four that were shot just one night at different locations

even innocent self are scared of their life cos of wrong identity

there has been serious cult clash, going on in Benin, for some weeks now. the fight is getting bloodier daily. so many souls have been wasted. last night a guy I knew very well was killed along Uwasota. security agencies should try to intervene please. it is bloodier around ugbowo and uwelu areas.Residence can no longer leave in peace. once it is 7pm people start running home. securities should intervene asap

I just newly disvirgined my gf. she took in after two weeks even after taking p2. we couldn't keep the pregnancy cos she is still in school. so we tried to get rid of the pregnancy. after taking the drugs she bleeded heavily on the first day and lesser on the second day, the following days were followed with little drops of blood. she was having the pregnancy symptoms like tiredness,nausea,trowing of Spittles initially before we did the abortion. but the next month she saw her period and she bleeded heavily, and it lasted longer than usual. two days after it stopped. she did a pregnancy test and it is still showing positive, both blood and urine test,is it possible that the pregnancy is still there. even when she is not having any of the pregnancy symptom. pls what should I do. pls advice me doctor s in the house on what to do. pls people should help and contribute what they know about this issue

pls o.p don't do what you are about doing. she may not be lieng to you,it may be an error from the school she wrote the waec. I have same issue with her, the date on my waec result is not my original date of birth, they made me a year and a month older than my main age. I was asked to swear an affidavit so I can be using it.

The former super eagles coach died today 11june 2016 after complaining of a chest pain

What is di country turning into. Death everywhere. This year has really swallowed so many.

dear I really undastand what u are passing through. My presnt babe passed through same. U can check out my signature for when I posted something like dat. She had a guy before I asked her out. She agreed to date me. She claimed to love the guy,but I felt dat if she truelly loves the guy why will she agree to date me. But presently we are now happily together into a serious relationship dat we will soon tie the nuts. We aint having any third party any longer. So my point is dat if u truelly love the ur bf u wount even give in to this guy. And this guy in question didn't have any reason for not bein around u when u needed in most. But ur bf has reasons, this is to tell u dat the the second guy will always be there for u, but ur guy will always find a reason for not being around with the believe dat u will undastand. U know this second guy more dan u know ur bf. Distance relationship to me is a childs play. Use ur head dearie

Thanks brother, I really appreciate

Emiye thanks for ur reply,the LG office u talked about is it the inec Office or LG headquaters

Please I have been trying to get my permanent voters card, but I don't know where to go and get it. Am registered in edo state, ovia north east LGA. Please some one should help to tell me where I can get it.

Thanks for ur comments friends. I wanna ask this question to some guys. What if u see a girl dat u love and u are ready to do anything to win her over, and she now tells u she has a bf, will u just give up on her just like dat? Wount u fight to win her if u think she feels something for u also?

mrkay101:
why u wan be her assistant bf

bros no be wetin me want be oo. The babe say na me first bleep up. Say she dey eye me since I no show interest na wen she come get another guy na him me come show. Me dey feel say I feet win her over owing dat she is closer to me dan the other guy.

There is this girl in my neighborhood, I asked her out she complied. But she told me dat she has a boyfriend but she agreed to date me. Most times I feel bad knowing dat she has someone else. She claims she loves me but I didn't ask her out early, knowing dat we ve always been close pals. I ve asked her to break up with the guy, but she said she can't cos the guy has not wronged her in anyway. And dat it has not been long they started dating. What should I do should I just forget about her and move on with my life or fight for her love, since she agreed to date me even though she has another guy? Could it be true dat she loves me? Am just confused cos most times I feel like doing things for her, when I remember dat she is not all mine, I wouldn't like to do it