₦airaland Forum

AuschwitzPrefec:
If you think Elon owns Twitter or any of his other shaft enterprises then I have a bridge in Ojuelegba to sell to you.

This is a WEF neo liberal policy to force everyone to get their digital passport starting with your online activity.

It's a CCP styled Social credit system designed for online surveillance

lekani4real:
Am interested

zoeymikey:
A nice idea,have considered that before. But i dont have a laptop or a smart phone.
Thanks.

Love800:
Hw do i do this?

zoeymikey:
Abeg Find me 2k make i use go buy food chop.
Thank u

DestinedForGrea:
Hello everyone.

Please I need an urgent advice from the mature minds here. I'm about to take a decision that has the potential to change the course of my life.

A quick background:
I come from a family consisting of five "children", of which I'm the fourth. Right from the days of my childhood, my parents and older siblings have had a firm control over me. They often dictated the friends I'd keep, placed I'd go to, where I should be, and almost how I should behave.

I was mostly indoors because they didn't want me playing around. That had an impact on my personality, because I couldn't master the ability to make friends, express myself confidently, and get involved in social activities that my peers relished.

Fastforward to this point:

I'm in my late 20s, a graduate and an NYSC cert holder, and although the level of control has been minimized, I still experience a bit of it. I don't have a place of my own for now, so I stay in the family house, but my older ones are independent in that aspect though they don't stay far from the family house.

I have a job too, but the salary is not even enough to take care of myself and support the home for a week.

Now here's the issue, I got a job offer from someone I served with during my NYSC, in a state about 8 hours from my current state of residence. It's the same job with the one I'm on right now (a teaching job) but with a slightly better payment return.

The person has a good relationship with the principal of the school, so according to him, the job is secure. I had to accept it because I'm tired of my current situation, and I'm tired of the life I'm living here -- my social life is next to zero, I don't have friends close by, I'm not socially active, and I need to explore. With my little savings, I plan to get an apartment as cheap as possible when I get there.

The problem is everyone is kicking against , because they're concerned about my safety, how I'm going to cope alone in this harsh economy. They've told me that if I decide to leave against their wish, that I'll be on my own and won't get their hands involved if anything goes wrong.

At the moment, I'm thinking of standing my ground and sticking to my decision, because I'm depressed from being in this environment, but I'm a bit afraid of my family cutting ties with me.

Please any advice? I really need some right now.

Thanks!

Foodhub2023:
At one point der was sth call Shane but right now no more because the kids must eat, rent just expired, school will Soon resume. It's all happening so fast that my heart wil stop breathing at some time but I no God will show forth. Any idea on what I can do for daily income is wellcome please 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏




quote author=DenreleDave post=114303062]To all the men out there that are married and blessed with kids..... How are you coping?

How are you surviving with no job?

How are you surviving with low source of income?

How is your home? How do u keep going despite the hardness?

My experience today seeing a family man is not good ....

I feel so bad that I am so helpless to help forever......

Your sadness will be over... Every difficult thing in your life will be solved... You and ur family will smile......

God bless all struggling married men with responsibilities....

Minjim:
I usually wake feeling wave of apprehension and a fear.
The worry is just too much especially when you have a baby to feed. That one doesn't send.

I've sold all the iron condemned around me already.
And I only survive on hope from reading the Bible

MrPoe:
I am a single guy living alone though I have aged parents to take care of.

And I must say that the current situation of hardship in Nigeria have made me to give up.

Currently battling suicidal thoughts.

Atk1nson:
Not to go back, we've been preaching for Nigerians to vote wisely for over 8 years now.

Many lamentations even by people who supposedly have jobs and earn average. The thing reach everybody las las.

Cant even pick calls from Nigeria anymore because situation hook people, any message you cant drop on whatsapp, forget it.

talented321:
The one above me what are you preaching?
There this general problem with womean' i don't know whether i will call it low IQ, love, simping or they are afraid they will not marry again.
Many women always see this signs in the beginning of their marriage but they act dumb and i don't know whether they think he will change or whatever.
Reasons i don't take women serious by their statement' even the one forming holy or hard to get in nairaland. Because majority of women get sense on nairaland but not in reality.
The worst of it is this enduring women will never meet the right person' it is always those senseless women that always meet the right man and will just frustrate his life.
I love ur sister' even though the man is acting irresponsible for now and it seems your sister understand him that is why she is still with him.
Nobody can predict life, and for u to convince ur sister to leave him will not be that easy, just give them time and try to convince the both of them especially the man..''

eanestca:
Still searching

Nice2023:
I have written about this behavior here on two occasions and I am not in any way surprised at the menace currently being practised by these lazy men.

There is always a way to live in this country,during ur 20's,work like ur life depends on it. Save and invest so that,when u start having families,u can be able to sort ur family out.

Another thing that is killing most families these days is how some men like marring liabilities as wives and feel great about it.

How can u make it when ur salary is 100k and ur wife isn't doing anything for a living,not even WAEC certificate and u come here to tell us that,the govt is not helping matters even when u have refused to help urself.

Joblessness could increase the number of lazy men out there,keep consoling them but there is no food for lazy men.

eanestca:
If you know any available shared apartment within the locations you mentioned please let me know, am open to such options

Ademola47:
As seen on Twitter:

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