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Hmm

Lol

Tell her I said this, yes it's bad, it's a season and that this season would pass. She must develop the understanding in knowing that it's a season, and it won't last forever

DapFroser:
Some of these scans can be a waste of money. My uncle did like three before finding out he had to do chemotherapy. He still died. And if you see the amount of money they were calling for them he almost spent all the money in his bank account. Nigeria is just a jungle.

That's why I offered him a route that will see him treat the condition starting with just 7,000 Naira

SideshowBob:
I still have to do the scan to confirm it. I don't want to take anything without prior knowledge that will worsen my situation as I was told it could also be worms or kidney infections at the hospital.

Smiles. Okay. Notify me here when you're done

SideshowBob:
I actually asked the doctor whether he thought it was ulcer but he advised me to still go for the scan to find the underlying cause. I know times have bitten harder but I don't try to starve myself if I have money on my hand so I would be a little surprised if I'm diagnosed with ulcer.

Go and get that treatment for the pains. Three days it's gone. It's ulcer

Don't go for scan. You have undelyinf ulcer that becomes affected by triggers i.e foods

Spend the money to treat ulcer squarely for three months. Then get magnesium and use for three months.


It will go on its own after prolonged use of these treatments

Worm medicine is one of its triggers. Don't deworm until after six months of thorough ulcer treatment

Scams won't see anything. And yes there's medication for the pain. Have it nearby and use for three days anytime it appears

abimbola74:
Not so sure if this is the right section to do this, all I want to do is just put some words down.
It would have been better having some drinks and reminisce about life. I just want to clear my head aswear. Why can't life just come to end and a new one should just begin and let us all choose our path ourslves. It's fucking crazy how only few have a fair share of life. Most are hurt deep inside about how their journey in life has been. Lemme just stop here. I pray it gets better soon.

Lolz

ogbe88:
Another weasel talking.

1988 pikin. Na who be your mate ?

Fatbam005:
You are mad

You are viewing it exactly how all poor men would view. So you won't understand it. Im hardly wrong. I checked your posts. You're a teacher bla bla bla. Your in-laws come and you can't feed them bla bla bla. You run around to feed them when they come bla bla bla. The lens of your soul thru which you interpret situations is poverty.

May God help you.

Ire o

Exmilitant:
In my coven, we call it grounding. It means connecting with mother Earth, listening to her and talking to her.
personally, i do walk barefooted in and around my premises. occassionally, i run errands barefooted. I walk across the road to buy a few stuff with people gawking at me.
Has a strong healing powers i wouldn't divulge here.

You're not an ordinary person definitely. You have scared and deep knowledge. Ofcourse you know it's against the code to speak further.on the issue from where you stopped. You were almost going to spill

okerekingsley90:
I would have ignored you. You think you have made sense. Would he remain with the 150k for life. Won't he grow if he isn't lazy. If e sure for you come my place I would give you transport stand man to man and talk this rubbish make I no shift you

Poverty laced thinking. Smh

okerekingsley90:
No make the mods ban me and you son of a bitch. Who are you to say he is immature. Must a man make millions before he settles down. Are you in his shoes to feel what he is been through. Don't you know how difficult it is in the country? Instead of saying at least the family could have been considerate. You called him immature. No make me swear for you from here and it must work. Stupid pussy

Oode. 150k is too much for wedding. Who asked a man to marry with millions. Dwib. If the children were sick or he had to pay huge sums for child bearing operations him no go pay am Abi


Oode. Don't use your senses. You stvpid poor wretched human

okerekingsley90:
Honestly nairaland is filled with small boys like you. Are you married?

You're stvpid. Get lost. I'm not responsible for your misfortunes.

merits:
Amen you welcome bro, most people that are bashing the wife family are single or irresponsible people they have no idea of what marriage is, that's why.

The mentality of the man is that one an individual that can't manage a crisis o. Small things men crumble under pressure that's why little challenge people kill themselves rather than take the lessons, become resilientz persevere, hope and rise in faith taking step by step actions trusting the process


This thread to me exposes the sick psyche of our society. We aren't producing much healthy male species.

merits:
You see everything in life required stages,you can't jump a stage if you jump it will really affect some many in someone's life,for is own case he need to accept his responsibility as a man.The earlier he accepted it,the better for him.He need to grow up fast to meet up being a responsible man, it's just wedding 💍 expenses that make him muddy like this. what if the wife started given birth to his children he will finally park out of the house be that.Marriage come with alot of responsibility.

God bless you. This are the sensible comments I was expecting to see and not the whole bashing of the woman's family. I have always maintained wedding is a test of a man's ability to weather the storms. God bless you my brother. You see clearly

Gossip. Get a life

ikelords:
You are the most foolish woman ever to walk the face of the earth. So you made you father drain your husband financially because of an event that didn't last for 6 hrs. Did you ever think what life after wedding will look like? Did you ever consider the financial involvement it takes to start a family before your family made him go over and beyond. You just proved to your husband that you ain't a wise woman capable of holding and keeping your family and any little pressure to destabilze your new family you will surely yeild to it. I don't blame your hubby for acting up, you and your family brought this up, that man is not safe with you.

Shut up. Una too dey dramatic. I disagree with your stance. Wedding na preparation. He had a choice to marry someone else. Poverty post

Nairas2dollars:
I have lost interest in emotions, am on motion without emotions.

He may not be able to neg you but atleast we.ypur.online in-laws supposed fit beg you na.

Bi ko, we re " Obi ", come carry your wife

Nairas2dollars:
Your husband is the fool, no sane man can do what he did. When I was in medicine school, in my 500l, I had this real girl I have been dating, they are from Anambra state. I wanted to marry her because suitors were flocking around her. I brought wine and visited ther house in fegge housing estate Onitsha. I bluntly told the parents that I am not financial capable then for expensive marriage but at that level I can feed myself and their daughter till I start practicing as a doctor. I talked to the Dad as man to man. They brought out the list aftermaths and everything sum up to 2 million naira plus the wedding and everything. I called her that I was dating then, she supported her parents saying that I must pay her bride price and church marriage ( church marriage expenses is like 3 million naira) like she wrote it in Capital letter and send to me. She was a junior lecturer then at Unizik. I asked her if she could assist in wedding expenses..she refused. We were still dating, I kept telling her that I don't have money for marriage. Later on we were just casual friends till I moved on. The important thing I want to emphasize here is that she is still single now at 29 years where as I am already a multi millionaire.. infact I worth like 120 million naira now but I can never go back to her! She chats me..we talk but I would always tell her that am broke for marriage. I don't want to be blunt with her. After my penultimate heartbreak, I have given up on love shaa..I am a flirt now and I want to live like this forever till I die. Once I wanted to marry, the finance prevented me, I can't kill myself. Don't quote me for any advice, I don't need your rubbish advices!

Forgive and forget. The mistake will make her more valueable to you. Go and take your wife, rich man

merits:
A childish behavior keeping malice with your wife so disgusting.But give him sometime and space his brain will reset to factory settings,I did same too but as times goes on everything stablise and the marriage going well till date.

Im surprised people are not mentioning the malice, sulking and the childish behavior he's using to start off. Only focusing on 150k. The husband isn't mature for marriage


How can one start the journey of marriage with such thick malice over such trivial matter. What if one now offends him, will this one be capable of forgiving anyone. What a nonsense. Nigeria raises very pathetic men. See his kinds supporting him all over the place turning side eyes to all his childish antics. I see no sign of maturity at all in the description of his behaviors. Let's hope the op didn't lie on the man but if the description is the husband's real attitude it's not apology he needs, he needs to be sent back to couples counseling sessions.

Osanoghodua1:
Your husband needs to grow up shall. I love the way things are getting expensive in Nigeria, African traditional rites usually milk or extort her people to the ground. Must one carry out an elaborate marriage? Let families start amending rites. Soon young men will just impregnating the girls and they will pack in just like that cos #10m may be what is needed for an average marriage when USD hits #2k.

Women want it big, their fathers equally want it big, that's what my father in-law told me then, that If I don't carry a live band, money must be borrowed to achieve it, that I must kill a cow. I did all to the glory of God, I fought my wife small after marriage but we have passed that era now. The family supported too.

Thank you. This is balanced, sound, mature judgement here not the povery-laced comments all over the thread.

chival:
Your husband is right to be angry. This excuse for extravagance during weddings that I hear brides and their families use, is very immature. You should have stood up to your dad and made him understand your husband couldn't afford all that. Your dad had ABSOLUTELY no right to demand the cow etc. You are lucky your husband didn't back out of the wedding entirely. You sound like a "daddy's girl" and that will only breed problems in your marriage. Marriage is for mature women, and I should know, I've been married for almost 15years. I'll advise you to apologize to your husband and limit your dad's interference in things that concern your husband and your marriage. Most men will find it emasculating.

What thrash are you saying. Poverty mindset everywhere..mtchew

BALLOSKI:
Over sabi. He was forced to part with what he's not having and you dont want him to feel bad? If na me, I won't even visit her family again. Never!

Nonsense. Poverty don shapen una.mindset finish. He's supposed to convert the feelings to cherishing her olodo

Watcharena:
education has a cost for they have the resources to fund their education when they're still financing french economy

Africans and excuses. So you believe in America whites do not attend public schools. Smh

Your excuses maybe valid but they won't improve your life.

Procashtips:
A mad person never agrees he or she is mad.

Wearing your master's clothes and speaking his language doesn't mean you're no longer his slave.

Your quite, your problem. How has the West kept Malians from going to school.and.improve their fortunes. Tell me I'd like to know

Saig:
You people should be arrested. Posterity and nature sake stop killing these animals. We don't even have them again. Preserve nature

I don't tottaly agree. Don't lions, tigers, hyenas, leopards kill herbivores ?

Powerhouse5050:
I think it is important for you to read the agreement again.

How do you expect a country to appropriate substantial amount to Education when the same country doesn't even know how much it has or generated?

How do you expect a country to have any substantial development when the same country export 30% of their natural resources without getting a dime in return?

How do you expect a significant development in whatever sector when the same country couldn't even make any decision without approval from France?

I read in an interview where the Niger military commander said whenever they locate the terrorist den and they ask for permission to attack them.

The deposed Nigerian President would ask the military to seek permission from French military first.

Don't forget the same French military are only there to protect French interests.

The insurgency and instabilities are part of sectors that sustain French interest in all Francophone countries.

So read again bro and you may have a better conclusion.

You can't educate me on Africa. Please how has the West stopped Africans from getting educated.

All true progress begins with education. Has the resources harboured in Northern Nigerian soils kept Nigerian from moving forward.

As for the part hat they have to call France first before anything, they put themselves in that slavist position.

Slavery ended hundreds of years back. Let's move on

This guy don return

Powerhouse5050:
I Pray all Francophone countries would terminate this colonial agreement with France.

I pray all Francophone countries would unite and fight and show the French that if you touch One, you touch all.

So far Four out of 14 countries have put on united front.

Others need to see the handwriting on the wall and revolutionize their slavery agreements.

The time is now or never

France is not the problem of Niger or any francophone countries. Check their penchant for illeteracy and lack of educational development, you'll find the answers there

Childish behavior. Malice and sulking

Mini zoos will even pay you for it.