Lol. Guy wetin woman do u nah?

The truth is the phone and Instagram DM issue is just a flimsy excuse. The guy is already done with you after he has satisfied his sexual urge with you for days you stayed with him. You are not his main babe or you are not qualified to be his main babe from his assessment of you. Please, move on. Next time, don't make yourself cheap sexually by visiting a guy you barely know...

Good to know

[Really? That would mean almost 90% of the eligible bachelors in Nigeria should be behind bars!

Seriously, how effective is this law and how can such breach be proven?

quote author=MarianaTrench post=76495890]Yes you can be sued if you make such a promise and later break it[/quote]

I came across this on facebook. Has anyone witness such in any Nigeria law court?

Under Nigerian Law, a woman can sue (to court) a man who had agreed to marry her and later broke off the engagement. It is known as "Breach of Promise to Marry". #HistoryVille

YellowEyeBalls:
My girlfriend whom I talked about earlier on this page https://www.nairaland.com/3605041/she-asked-me-why-returned came to my place first thing this morning, after days without calls nor texts of apology.

I heard a knock at my door around 7 and thought to my self who it may be, I asked who's there and she replied, I started feeling all bossy thou, I opened up only for her to look down while playing with her finger, then she said sorry, I didn't answer her though but I allowed her in. She came in and I just didn't speak to her cos I was working on my lappy before she came, I continued with that.

Suddenly she came towards me and knelt down holding my hand, saying she's sorry for everything.. She said this for 3 to 5 times and as soon as I tried to respond she stopped me from what I was doing and said I should come, that she knows what I need.. We kissed and did the regular & popular thing after which we relaxed to discuss about what's been going on in our lives the 2 days we've stayed apart.

While we were discussing, she told me she just doesn't want to loose me, and if I say hi to other ladies, she sees me fucking them in the imaginary form, she went ahead and also said I should keep my steps far from that girl who greeted me the last time, that she is prettier tbn she is and so this got her scared, saying she doesn't want to loose me, she doesn't want me to fall for anyone of the ladies by mistake.... I on the other hand told her that I love her unconditionally and forever as long as she is mine, but she still said that what I said isn't enough to keep her mind at rest.

I remembered she has a friend (a guy) who she talks to Amuch and I see em together sometimes, I thought she won't be able to let go their friendship, so I also said if she wants me to do what she asked, she should also leave that guy be and to my utmost surprise, she called the guy right in front of me and asked him to stay on his own from today and never call her line again then she hung up the phone.. I was surprised to bits, she blocked the guy immediatly and deleted his contact too.. I assured her of my own side of de deal to take effect too as soon as possible.. Then smiled and kissed me again and said she missed me so much..

So now, I don't know what to call this, she left 30 mins ago, but I can assure u I have received 6 calls from her asking me how I'm doing, when my line is busy, she'll ask who called and I just gotta explain for the sake of peace and love.. .what do I do now

Obsession. You don enter am be dat.

MrPresident1:


As I told you earlier, you need great wisdom from God, so first things first, you need to pray to God and commit the whole affair to Him, and ask for His supreme guidance.

Maybe she has seen her lost compass in you...I don't know or she is trying to discharge you to continue with her life. If the former is the case, my brother then you have to be strict with her, just as with a wayward child, a left hand of strictness and a right hand of pure love. She will have to play completely by the godly rules you will set for her

If she wants you, and you want her, she will have to play by your rules. And you have to be her man of God

Othewise, let go of yourselves.

Honestly, to pray about the issue sef dey hard me. I truly love this lady. I won't deny it. It will take me a while to recover if i call it quit which is the option that seems logical for now.

There are so many other ladies giving me green light even outside the country but its like I really have soft spot for this one.

I will definetly pray about it today and confront her with my evidence as soon as she comes. Her reaction and attitude will determine the next line of action.

But I won't blink twice to end the relationship if she tries to play smart or show no remorse.

Thanks all

MrPresident1:


Bros, I think she is trying to 'reveal' herself to you, so you don't think you are dealing with a saint or an angel.

Now, I think she knows you will check her phone and she will be anticipating your reaction to what you will see, so you need to pray for wisdom to be smarter than her.

What is her character like, what kind of person is she?

This lady is an easy going, very hard working woman. My kind of woman.

She once told me she can never hurt an ant. But how and why she became so promiscuous is what baffled me.

I remember I asked her how much is her monthly take home apart from the commission they pay her when she makes sales and she said 80k.

Although she told me she sends money to her mother every month but I think a well disciplined lady can make do with that amount.

Was the multiple sex partners as a result of money or love for sex? A 36 year old lady to me should not be this promiscuous.

Amelian:




Abi!

Don't mind the op.. Tell us another lie. Biko

This is so annoying lady!

How can I cook up such story? To what end?

If u don't believe it, pls u can pass

mumumugu:



she gave you the phone for a purpose knowing fully wel that you would check the message. She wants you to know the other side of her

She told me the phone has power problem. It wasnt coming on.

I just charged the phone with my own charger when I got home and it came up.

The power problem still persists sef because after few minutes, it will go off. I'm not interested in fixing the phone again

stan241:
Oga, don't know what other advise you seek again except maybe you are telling us fabu cus i am not understanding how a 36yr old lady can have that many sexual partners.

Oh also close out the year by running a series of tests on yourself.

Bros, this is not fabu. This lady clocked 36 last week.

I'm totally stunned and confused.

All I need is advise on how best to handle this issue when she comes

ogologoamu:
Girl of this generation can't be that foolish to give you her phone and travel for xmas knowing very well the massages in such phone.

OGOLOGOAMU cannot be deceived.

I swear my brother. This is the truth. This is not a made up story.

I believe this is a way of God showing me the truth about the person I'm rolling with.

I noticed she always tell me men cannot be trusted and I keep correcting her that she not generalise because I don't intend to cheat. And I mean it.

Sexxkillz:
LOL. . . Mugu.

She was never your babe. You were in love with a corporate Olosho. Blame yourself. She did nothing wrong. You were just another "business". . .

Next thread pls.

Very harsh and painful.

She didn't look it

SexyNairalander:
sit her down? was she under jazz when she was sleeping with those guys. . .abeg let's be real here



and she knows his intention of getting married to hecr

I trusted this lady due to the fact that I see her as a devoted Christian. She is very soft spoken and shy too.

dollyjoy:
A 36 years old lady keep over 15 sex partners? a beg make una dey lie small small abegi.

Op I guess you must be over 40+. sighs.


So what kind of advice do you want? we should give you reasons to stay or you are not wise enough at your age to borrow legs with the ones you already have to run? If possible FLY!!!!

My dear, everything I post there is the complete truth. I'm even conservative with the 15 partners sef. My babe is on Badoo, Hitwe(never heard of that before).

I can't be posting some of the horrible discoveries here. But this lady took it too far.

There is this babe Ive been dating since first week of October. She lives alone and she works as a sales rep with a company.

The first thing I noticed was that the first time I went to her house, she allowed me to sex her. Although I couldn't get erection for reason not known to me. I saw this as a bad omen because this has never happened to me before. This lady is already 36 years old fair in complexion and I love her so much.

Her mother is a devoted Christian and my babe attends a leading Pentecostal church in Lagos.

She celebrated her birthday last week and as usual, we hang out and we ended up having sex. But what baffeled me was that she never allowed me to kiss her that day. Although we used to kiss before.

One of her phones got bad and she gave it to me to help her fix it. She traveled outside Lagos to celebrate Xmas with her mum. This is a lady I love so much and we are already talking marriage.

The shocking revelation came two days ago when I charged up the phone she gave me to fix and fortunately, d phone came on and I just playfully checked some of her watsapp messages. Ommggg!!!

I discovered my babe is the definition of waywardness. More than 15 sex partner both single and married men. I'm even suspecting she had sex with one of them who happened to be her ex the morning of her birthday before she came to me based on the chat she had with him that I read.

I'm totally heartbroken. I'm expecting her back in Lagos tomorrow and she is going to spend the new year holiday at my place. she is not yet aware of what I know.

I'm already talking with her mum on how I will visit her in January for introduction. Guys, wat do I do? Why are women like this? Please, let's someone out there advise me on the best way to handle this issue. Thanks.

Take heart dude......such is life.....I understand how u are feeling......1 minute silence for d 600k...Another one go come...all is well.....

9jayes:

HOW? cos nobody will wants to PH again

You are selfish if you don't post the picture u snap here! Wetin u wan use the picture do sef?

foolinlove:
Mehn I feel sorry for her already.

Lol. Why?

foolinlove:


It already hit me real. I am in love and hope that my ex be happy with his new wife. But the pain will never go away and I will never find love. My one true love is with another girl. Cheating a$$hole.

Can someone pray for this babe pls? She is sounding like someone who has accepted a horrible fate in life! I dunno if she is real or not. But in case all u are real, don't give up in life until u breathe ur last. Life is sweet. Marriage is sweet when u get it right. Don't give up. Except u are planing to live ur old age miserable and lonely.

foolinlove:


Don't make me get sick into my own scorn.

It's obvious u need help. May God help u....Remember the dude who broke ur heart has since moved on. Probably having a nice time with a fresh babe somewhere as we speak. Dey dia dey sulk and stagnate ur life because of one dude who doesn't care about ur existence in the first place.

foolinlove:


The dude who broke my heart was also 30. Knowing that was my last chance for a life with the family I wanted. He was meant to be matured but he just screwed me over. Again. How can I find anyone else? I can't. Men fuccing suck.

You will find a man. At the right time. It starts with your mind. Do you see yourself happily married soon? Correct your wrong mindset first. Good men exist. Nearer to u than u think sef. U attract what/who u think most into ur life...

foolinlove:


What 30 year old has kids? None. Is too late for me.

Are you for real? Hope I'm not responding to a non existing person. A 30 year old lady cannot give birth? Says who?

Sorry madam, u need total reprogramming.

foolinlove:


Yah I met all the wrong guys who wasted my time and now I'm too old for any marriage or kids. Thanks for rubbing it in.

That's why I'm telling OP - you just gotta meet the man you're willing to put up with him cheating on you. Because he will.

But it still beats my imagination how you can be 100% sure that no man on earth is trustworthy. How many guys have you met so far in the journey of your life? Abeg cut that crap. Not all men cheat u hear me!

How old u be sef wey marriage no dey ur radar again? U better repackage and try again before it is too late....

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foolinlove:


I'll be me. Just single fo life sha

Honestly, u need to change ur mindset about men. Very unfortunately, you have been meeting with the wrong guys so far. Bad as it may look, there are still good guys out there. People are still having successful marriages. Why should your own be different? Remember life is whatever you make out of it. Don't live a bitter life because of some few dudes who messed up with your heart/life in the past. You MUST marry someday, have kids and be fulfilled in life!!!!

I think its about pregnancy. I remember I once heard that a woman that undergoes fibroid removal operation needs to get pregnant ASAP. Because the nutrient that the fibroid would use to grow again would be the one that the foetus would eventually use to grow. Thereby causing the fibroid to die permanently. Still need confirmation from medical experts though.

ricsman:
sorry for?

Your English is bad!

vizkiz:
at age 40 and you are still single...you need to spend 50 days and nights on the montain

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And when u come down from the mountain, ur spouse go dey wait for u ba?

Thanks for the comic relief. I really appreciate it.