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Guess what?
The guy may not even have a big penis more than you. She just told you the one thing that would deflate your ego and puncture your self esteem, so that you would feel it wasn't her fault.
So let me tell you what I really think made her leave: its simple: you over loved her. That bores the hell out of girls. In no time, that boredom turns to iritation and in no time, she will leave you, because you're conquered territory and they yearn for the excitement of an untamed man. If you're dating a girl or married, the fastest way to make her cheat on you is to make yourself unattractive to other ladies. If she doesn't see other ladies around you from time to time, bro she will start getting irritated, while you're thinking you're being the best husband.
It happened to me and I learned.
When you finally learn, don't allow anyone shame you that you're being callous to ladies, cos you're not. You're simply living a truth even they can't admit to.

Ehyaa you're so pained seeing ladies work. I have a suggestion: Maybe you should try to open a blog to convince them give up their careers and businesses and join you in screaming bitterly at men for not footing all the bills. Goodluck with that.

1Sharon:
She must be so exhausted.

Exactly my point. and she was reasoning like you. She was angry that she had to work same as me, so she decided to sleep with a guy out of spite. So I parted ways with her.
Now I'm with someone who shares same values as me. So, this screenshot actually makes my point contrary to what you thought it would do.

1Sharon:
I hear ya.

Kebbi where I did my NYSC... These things ordinarily should cost N200

You dey vex say men don wise up? Sorry o, aunty, this broke shaming tactics don cast, e no dey work again. Go and get a job. No free food for lazy woman

1Sharon:
You sound bitter, frustrated and broke. If you had the capacity to provide , you won't be
making statements and excuses like this. Remember what your loving Bible says about men that don't provide. If you believe that an escort and cleaner, can do all those things better than a wife, Alaye don't marry!

Go and get a maid, escort and cleaner
No be by force.

Providing is not your job. What is your job? You're an adult, it is not anybody's responsibility to feed you. It is your primary responsibility to guarantee what you put in your mouth. You think having a vagina shields you from that responsibility? What then is your use?
Sex? An escort cleaner than you can provide that even better. Chores? A maid more diligent can you can provide that even better. Childbirth? A lady with better reproductive system can do that better than you. What do you think will make a man chain himself for life to serving you? Let me tell you what it is: it is if he knows you're in with him 100%. That when he falls into hardtimes, someone has his back, no mater how long it is. Not this "it is not my responsibility, i can only support" bullcrap. Cos merely supporting means you are not an active participant and would withdraw when things go bad.
Yet you want a man that would love you unconditionally, funny delusional lots.

1Sharon:
Are you now trying to imply men and women are the same? Are you a modern man?

Look, it's not a woman's role to provide for a man, we can support. Providing is not our job.

But a woman can be fed forever by a man right?
you people think through your anus in this part of the world.
In the world today, wealth and success is no longer by physical strength but by mental and social networking, so both men and woman can both rise to the top. So anyone of them could face a hard time for any length of time. You shallow trado-religious airheads should go and sit your butts down

QuinModah:
It is only a shameless and irresponsible man that would allow a woman to feed him for good 6months .

These are some of the Sample(Insults) you will get as a man by the 2nd day of being fed.

If in the middle class, please try to abide by laws as best as possible.
The really rich are above the law, the really poor are below the law (they don't bother with them, they can't pay fines, taxes etc). But the middle class are yhe perfect target, you make just enough to be able to afford fines and levies, you also have a little dignity you're trying to protect and the touts that have been put in charge of enforcement want the slightest opportunity to humiliate you.
The so called laws they make are specifically targeted at you.

This is how people will keep losing their lives trying to uphold religious doctrines.
The long and short of this story is that they are Jehovah's Witnesses who didn't want blood transfusion and some other medical procedures in their fancy bucket list of doctrines.
They only concede in panic after the situation has degenerated, then turn around to blame the hospital.
Where I did my IT back then, we lost a colleague after her family initially rejected blood transfusion when she had an accident. By the time they agreed, her situation had gotten too bad and she died.

There has never been profit in ehailing. I did it for 2years 2020 and 2021. It is more of a psychological thing, to feel you're working, and vainly hoping you will meet someone special that will change your life.
But its just a fantasy... Nobody out there will take a fancy to you. Thank God, I later got a job and left the delusion .

Sirchiboy:
May God protect our fellow ehailing drivers.
Since I ventured into this uber
No single profit.
We are just working for filling stations

As in eh. Very manipulative set of

canalily:
....and they would be crying that you are accusing them even as you caught them red handed...😐😆😆😆

1. It looks staged to me.
2. Even if it wasn't, most street hustlers have this side of them they reserve for "heroes" who want to "rescue" them. They cash out big time from your messianic mindset and simply continue what they were doing tongue-in-cheek.

K

This is unfortunate

Unfortunately, this is not a muslim vs Christian issue. It is a land issue and the oppression of millions of people by a powerful oppressor.
To use your own example: the hausa fulani muslim fanatic animals are oppressors of the chrisitian minorities in the north. That is highly condemnable.
Condemn oppression everywhere.
I don't have religion. So I'm not blinded by domas nor programmed to just hate a particular set of people

phoenix45:
Do you know why we support Israel?
It's a consolation of the atrocities committed by your Muslim. Imagine killing Deborah in broad day light and today nothing is being done about it. So what do you expect? Anything to hurt Muslims is valid we don't care about your preaching of how Israel hate Christians. Know this and know peace.

Yet you want Biafla and leflendum, abi? Nigeria is a special chosen country

Orch1981:
Shut up Palestinians are terrorist

All of the ones I know are. I'm sick of the "Isreal is a special" bla bla bla

Mrexcell:
Are u a psychic how do u know most igbos are pained about this news? Why sit in ur home and be imagining things that doesn't exist in ur head?

Mandela was labelled a terrorist by the white imperialists for fighting for his people. The African National Congress was labelled a terrorist organisation. The ANC, Mandela's party had a militant wing that carried out attacks aginst the whites.
Their attacks were widely magnified by the white oppressors as against the larger killings commited by the whites. Don't let religious hate blind you, Palestinians are being killed like chickens for decades as a norm by isreal, yet you don't talk about it, you don't even know. Oct 7 is a drop in the ocean compared to what isreal has been doing. The media is playing you. If Mandela hadn't formed a militant wing, blacks in SA will still be oppressed. You can't get freedom from an oppressor without fighting back. Yes, Palestinians are being killed like chickens after oct 7,, but that has always being the case. The only difference is now, the world can see it

smileyoo:
Mr man it's wrong fighting for freedom through an acts of terrorism, people of black race are too emotional, supporting all shades of evils in the name of religious affiliation, tribal sentiments, and baseless emotionalism.
if you were among those attending to that music festival, as a foreign citizen, and were killed or kidnapped by Hamas terrorists, you wouldn't be typing this gibberish as your opinion will definitely change.
south Africa never defeated apartheid through acts of terrorism.
now you tribal bigots are now blaming only Igbo christains for supporting Israelis against the Palestinians, when the truth is that all of you religious brainwashed African christains and Muslims, supports your different factions of religious indoctrinations, meanwhile the two brothers fighting in the middle east don't give a damn about you African religious slaves.
just want to let you know that the opinions of these African religious slaves over this crisis have no any influence over its resolution, except the Israelis and Palestinians agreed to discard their entrenched archaic religious dogmas that is preventing them from a peaceful resolution to this crisis.
Therefore it's foolishness fighting yourselves over nothing, because your opinions means nothing over this crisis.

What baffles me in all this is how pained the Christians from southeast Nigeria are so pained by this.
Even the educated ones among them are so ignorant of world politics and the demography. All they've been sold is a false dogma that someone is a special race.
They don't care if another set of people are oppressed and subjugated, blind religious dogma must be upheld.
The irony is that same southeasterners in Nigeria are currently facing similar subjugation in Nigeria, but they can't relate.
The Southafrican blacks are staunchly supportive of the palenstine because they can relate to what oppression feels like.

Oga stop this woke capping. Simply say thanks for the headsup.

rentAcock:
My life is not more valuable than a new born's life, Sorry. How can you hear a baby crying at your gate and not even check it out? At the very least call the police station or ambulance and have them check the baby if you are afraid of getting robbed. But to just ignore a crying baby is heartless and inhumane.

I don't care. It has nothing to do with me.

No, leave them. Here is how it usually happens:
They will be married to a good man who treats them well, and will get "bored of his goodness", then seek yeye excitement outside. Mr goodman will get to know and kick them out, they will be shocked cos they took goodness for weakness. But, now, mr goodman has shown firmly he is not weak.
Then they end up with a good for nothing, who just wants to leach off them

Watinhapen:
Married women should always learn to stay with the real father of their children. Packing your kids to a man that didn’t birth them is risky. Things are happening these days. Most guys don’t actually care about women with kids, all they want is their money. They can become something else if they’re not getting the money. So far your husband is not physically assaulting you, remain in that marriage for your own sake and that of your children. Nothing dey outside!

Sacking the ghosts they employed?

Yawn* abeg when they are ready to say what their real grievance is, which we all know, is because the man is a southerner appointed to the board of a northern school.
Northern irredendists

A religiously brainwashed third world subhuman doing land demarcation and boundary adjustments. So I should take your position over learned objective people like the Irish, Spanish and Norwegian leaders? Oga, go and sit your ignorant butt down!

mikeapollo:
Foolish talk!
Does Judea and Samaria belong to the so called Palestinians? King David, Solomon etc. ruled over Judea and Samaria (including Jerusalem) thousands of years ago. How could the same place now belong to so called ''Palestinians''?

Netanyahu, You don't want the people to be recognised as having a country, you just want to be grabbing their lands, killing them and oppressing them. Then, when they feebly fight back as was the case on Oct 7, you start yelling "terrorism", and your puppet, the US for whom your lobby groups have vice grip on its politicians start pledging allegiance to you... And shallow brainwashed people in the third world to whom you've sold the scam of being "special" start frothing in the mouth.
E.g Christians from South-East Nigeria will immediately label Norway, Spain, Ireland as muslim countries.

K

They stole her voice. They should pay her for it or discontinue using her voice. Same way, Guinness tried to sidestep paying Victor Uwaifo for the theme song of their advert for the popular blind football commentator advert.
After being served notice, they initially denied, trying to hide behind AI, but eventually had to back down and replace with a bland instrumental.
AI is no substitute for natural talent.

Nothing concerns me with those ones either. I'm free from religious shackles

lastmessenger:
and 73 Virgina's from the north does not care if all Palestine die as long as their terror hamas brothers hold on to a few hundred hostages

I patiently read through your writeup. Nowhere did you talk about world politics. You demonstrated zero knowledge for the main reason for the conflict (world politics) , all you wrote was an epistle of same shallow thinking basic minded brainwashed religious pawns of the 3rd world.

Vado:
Christians don't blindly support Israel because they are special or Christians, everyone knows they are Jewish and not particularly fond of Christians but at least, they don't subject Christians to chronic persecution like in these Muslim Arabian countries. That Palestine has reasonable number of Christians is immaterial, we are all still Kafirs to them while they enjoy freedom in Christian-based nations.

Secondly, it is a scriptural obligation for Christians to support Israel because of the convenant of Yaweh to them even despite their misdeeds, God doesn't take back His words and He has said He'd curse those who curses Israel and bless those who blesses them.

Thirdly, do Israel have the justification to conduct their war campaigns how they have so far? Yes they do! They were sleeping in their homes when Palestinians sought this problem on Oct 7th. They celebrated in the streets and Hamas was their duly elected political leadership do it's the will of the people. You can pull the card of what about 75 years of friction between them and I'll also ask you how the Jews were treated by Arab Muslims, the Moors, Ottoman Turks and even the Romans amongst other colonialists prior to 1948. I guess many of you only wants your history of the conflict limited to a specific timeframe.

Palestine have a charter which formally calls for the annihilation of the Jewish people same as their military supporter Iran and you just want them to sit around without chopping off the head of the snake? You guys are the real jokers.

Unfortunately they are in the majority of the delusion. Sorry, I just had to call that out. I personally haven't seen anyone of them that is different.

UzorIyke:
Why labeling Christian from South East, when will this tribalism will stop in this country.
By right you supposed to say Most Christian from Nigeria.
Please rewrite that abeg. Make we stop the tribalism within us or hate speech.

Nigerian southeast jew. Go and sit your low self esteem ass down. Nothing disgusts isreal than a black gentile monkey trying to rub shoulders with them

guass:
Idiotic Spain!
I pray that your country comes under terrorists attack one day and other countries block your means of fighting them.
Since you didn't block arms supply to Hamas, blocking arms shipment to Israel is Injustice and hypocritical.