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The author is being realistic: there is nothing you can do about female promiscuity, criminalizing it doesn't help, rather it introduces the element of excitement for them.
I was married before, my ex wife cheated, tried to play victim, tried to blame me, tried to use tears to manipulate me, it all didn't work. I ended the marriage.
I realized, the simple incentive for them cheating is the excitement and rush they get from doing something they know they are not supposed to do. So I said, I don't have any problem, simply go and be with the guy full time, so you can settle down to properly enjoy that dkkk, she dey cry, say no.
If you tell all these women to be with this Egongo guy full time and leave their husbands that everyone is now ridiculing and calling beta men, they will rather kpai, like one already did. [quote author=Heffalump post=132740726][/quote]

@nlfpmod...

Pinnacle Oil and Gas Limited, a major operator in Nigeria’s downstream sector, has denied blending substandard petroleum products.
In his press release, Group Chief Branding and Communications Anthony Chiejina, said: “An international trading company has recently hired a depot facility next to the Dangote Refinery, to use it to blend substandard products that will be dumped into the market to compete with Dangote Refinery’s higher-quality production.

“This is detrimental to the growth of domestic refining in Nigeria. We should point out that it is not unusual for countries to protect their domestic industries to provide jobs and grow the economy. For example, the US and Europe have had to impose high tariffs on EVs and microchips to protect their domestic industries.”

Reacting, Pinnacle Oil and Gas Limited, located close to the Dangote refinery, said it does not get involved in blending substandard petroleum products.

In a statement, Bob Dickerman, Chief Executive Officer of the company, stated: “Deregulated commodity markets work best with an open system of multiple sellers and multiple buyers bidding to establish the market price. For Nigeria to have supply options that include local refineries or imports is the mechanism that will establish the lowest sustainable prices. A free market is also regulated to ensure that all products meet the country’s specifications and that all players behave responsibly.

“On November 3, 2024, the Dangote Organization issued a Press Release. In the Release, Dangote alleged that “…an international trading company has recently hired a depot facility next to the Dangote Refinery, to use it to blend substandard products that will be dumped into the market to compete with Dangote Refinery’s higher quality products.”
“Pinnacle Oil & Gas has the only depot facility next to the Dangote Refinery. Without equivocation, we state that Pinnacle Oil & Gas would never engage or attempt to import or distribute any off-spec or substandard product into the Nigerian market. Our company has a reputation for integrity and regulatory compliance which is extremely important to us.”

Source:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2024/11/we-dont-blend-substandard-petroleum-products-pinnacle/

Kogi voted overwhelmingly for APC and Tinubu. Those ones are another fake wannabe North Muslim, just like yoruba Muslims. Na dem carry this government for head, just like they did Buhari.
Low self esteem state.

Regime apologists: what do you louts have to say about this? The Stockholm syndrome goats will soon rush and start bleating how none of these has anything to do with their master, then end with a meaningless phrase of "how a better Nigeria is all they want".
Mumu Ode slaves, if you exonorate your master from any and everything that is happening, then what the f**vk are you worshipping him for? If he can't do anything, nor fix anything, what is his use as master??
Can't you guys see you people have mental issues?

All these are just distractions.
Why is it that whenever there is an increment in fuel price, there is one trending news of VDM, Bobrisky and any other of these yeyebrities?

I don't care, it has nothing to do with me

Send these evidences to both your family members. Then let her know everyone is aware of these evidences. With that, you have effectively shut down that aspect. She is doing all of that to blackmail you into staying and putting up with her toxicity.
Her family also knows she is no good, but they don't want her to be unmarried, hence will try to broker fake peace talks and plead with you to accept her, DON'T FALL FOR IT. they don't care about you, they are just looking for who to offload her to. You're not a dumping ground. You deserve someone better.

naijapikin2:
wow... Exactly.. the way you speak, it's as if you know my outgoing wife. Whenever we quarrel I have to buy new clothes, new electronics, buy food again, cos she destroys ALL...in a fit of blinding rage. I have many audio recording of her threats to kill mé,or kill herself and label it on me She once swallowed Poison,and we had to rush her to the hospital,because I started packing her things out she has attempted to slit her wrists, which I collected the knife from her hands.

I don't mind her taking all the property as long as I get my freedom.

My brother wish me well o.

I don't care. It has nothing to do with me

Bros one thing I can tell you for certain, is that she can't harm you. I received those threats too "how can you waste 6years of life and think you can go Scots free bla bla bla".. That was after fake tears and pleading... I still went ahead to leave and I've been the happiest man alive.
In retrospect, I got to realize, women who behave like this know that it would be highly difficult to see a man who would put up with their b.s, hence they fight to retain you, not because they love and can't do without you, but simply because they want a dumping ground for their b.s

naijapikin2:
I can relate bro. I'm about to divorce my wife of almost 5 years and she's characterized as your ex. I've been through a lot of deep sh**t . She's been threatening to kill me if I dare. But I've my plans mapped out. I'll be the happiest man once it's done

The man did not hit her, she hit him. The man looks embarrassed. They had a normal disagreement and she started raising her voice like a petulant child, knowing the man would have the shame.
My ex wife was like that: she wouldn't mind embarrassing us in public. Then, later she would try to justify by saying "I don't know how to pretend and hide my feelings"...
Women like these are unmarriagable, they crave inordinate attention and validation. They will eventually cheat and blame it on you.
I hope the man discards her ASAP.

I don't care, it has nothing to do with me

Yeah, exactly, he has used up the black quota

goslowgoslow:
But George Weah won it.

They had to use a black man to make the presentation on the occasion when another black man was denied.

You are spot on!
Organised religion is nothing but a hate scheme designed by humans to decimate themselves.

Righthussle:
This young man who is not even a Christian killed himself for killing helpless and innocent children and women but Righteousness is on Nairaland dancing and celebrating the killing of helpless and innocent people he hasn't met before simply because they practice a religion different from the one his colonisers introduced to him.

I spit on all organized religions. Especially Christianity and Islam. They're a curse to humanity.

Organized religion Is the only thing that can make someone in far Africa celebrate the killing of children and women in far Asia.

Note. I will rather die than becoming a Christian or a Muslim.

I don't care. It has nothing to do with me

What I find baffling is this die hard support a person will have for a government, simply because of ethnicity. Even with bad policies and their consequences like hunger, death, sadness and sorrow, a person who is being affected will still say "No I support with everything I have".
Some will try to rationalise that it is for the best, that it is not because of ethnicity... But it is!
Ethnic differences is one of the most unfortunate thing to happen to mankind... They will fight to the death over it.
Over what? NOTHING

You can then imagine how much a real LASTMA officer would be making... especially those deployed to the extortion task forces. The new one with those LASTMA guys is that they have a cartel ring in conjunction with car dealers to seize and quickly auction off mid level cars (corollas, camrys, etc) especially as those cars are very valuable right now given the economy.
The controversial Lagos state traffic law that is the basis for this extortion has been there for some time, but now, given the state of the economy, it is now a brazen desperate smash and grab.
You don't have to break any traffic law for them to attack you and start making up stuff on the spot, and using all sorts of tactics to disorientate you, like bringing out their phones, pretending to be recording, and using well kitted policemen (part of the ring), to force you to comply. Because you're a middle class law abiding person, you comply, by trying to know what your offence is and try to resolve on the spot, but they are not interested in resolving anything, they will be asking you very coldly "did I ask you for money"?.. they don't want your money, they want your entire car., they are already calculating how much the car dealer will give them. They will hurriedly use those intimidation tactics to forcefully enter your car and drive it to Alausa... Once your car gets there, it's gone forever. The sequence of events will be like a film trick.. They will book it and immediately in a caravan.is a kangaroo mobile court (part of the ring), who will find the car guilty, and order it to be forfeited to the govt.
The they will organize a fake auction, where them them will pretend to be haggling prices, in the region of ridiculous millions that is far beyond the actual worth of the car...this is to ensure, you can't even try to buy back your car from them.
After that, everyone goes home, and them and their car dealers meet behind the scene to settle themselves.
END LASTMA is coming soon, and with it the bloody destruction of everything wrong with this Lagos, along with any tribal irredentist who wants to defend the oppression of the middle class.

Great Uniben! Proud alumnus here..
He was a junior lecturer when I got into school in 2004...now I'm the equivalent of a Major and he is the equivalent of a General.
Life is indeed a cycle

It is this Isreal Palestine conflict I got to know how truly ignorant Nigerians are. In a Nigerian's mind, Isreal is the headquarters of Christianity! . See all of them shouting "touch not Isreal" bla bla bla.. Tell Nigerian Christians that this Isreal they are foaming on their mouths for has nothing to do with their Christian religion. But hate for another set of people will rather make them cut their nose to spite their face.
Nigerian Christians, Isreal hates your Jesus to the bone. If you go to their country to even go and help them fight this war, they will even be the one to kill you themselves.

Yoruba Muslims and many other yorubas will. Also some northerners who believe in Muslim Muslim ticket will, so... With that small minority, they will rig the rest.
The trick to rigging is to have a small support base, however small, so you can rig.
Rigging is only impossible if there is no segment of the population expressing support for you.
But unfortunately, with the average yorubas sworn hate for the Ibos, they rather a Tinubu than anyone else.... So no hope

yinkus6750:
Time will tell. With the suffering people are passing through now, caused by wrong government policies and it's implementation,who will vote for this administration?

I read a BBC special report on the Bobrisky, VDM saga. The BBC used "She" and "Her" throughout in the report, they made sure they let it known they were in full support of him, saying there was no evidence of wrongdoing and that he served his full term at the prison, and that he was being persecuted for being a transgender bla bla bla.
The West is really full of shyyt and media is a tool to foist their devilish agenda on you.

Word!

Fiscus105:
If I find job for you today, I'm the one that will do the job for you too?

If people suddenly catapult you to unexpected fame and in which you are making money, it's not the same people that would teach you how to multiple the money you get but you urself.
It's certain that life/ glory doesn't revolve around one person and that people must move forward and away from such person with passage of time, it's you that will sit down and know how to invest with money and retaining both the fame and money.


The same scenario is happening in life of VDM today, he is getting attention here and thr and the fame, is bringing money, without tangible investment to retain or multiple it, but sure, people would soon get tired of him and move on, if he fails to establish himself, his story would worse than people you mentioned.

@bolded, I really don't know why many Nigerian females are like this, small money, small fame, small position, they immediately start craving varieties. Very unfaithful slutty bunch. See those they take abroad, even those here in naija that got a small job with small pay, boom! The next thing, na affair. My ex wife did same thing, omo, I booted her out ASAP. She cried, begged, threatened, manipulated, nothing worked for me.
Men are really enduring lovelessness in this country sha

Abokisulay:
Na that yeye Mr Spells own dey funny me pass, imagine person busy spelling nonsense. Btw where's that Jumoke the bread seller sef?

I learnt fame made her to start knacking other man and left her husband.

Happie boys, fish pie seller, Jumoke the bread seller, Mr spells, 4.30am cooking housewife, etc etc...Nigerians are trying to force this fortune-grass-to-grace narrative, and its not working. People get bored and move on after an initial hype.
Make una rest abeg.
Soon, we go hear another fellow somewhere and every celebrity jumping on their case.

The usual pattern: bring out a report that is a sort of compromise between what was discovered and the denial.
Failed country

Nigerians will never rise up, so long there are different tribes in this country. The yoruba man is rationalising Tinubu's 1k per litre of fuel as a necessary sacrifice he must make, same way the hausa (and yoruba) rationalised Buhari's 8years of woe. If an ibo man enters and is doing the wrong thing, the ibo man will also rationalise, given what the other two have done... So no unity

pdppower:
That is the same way Bulaba will hide by the time Nigerians wake up from our slumber to confront him and his murderous policies

Tribe is a bad thing sha... Look at how things are, yet nobody can talk because of tribal division.

It is called the "Me-too movement"...which is simply a mechanism where fake accusers come forward to say they too were victims after one person accuses a man of rape. It originated from the feminist movement in the USA in the early 2000s.
The aim was to ensure any man accused of rape was convicted at all costs as they believed, the more the accusers, the stronger the case

It is not enough for the government to give an order, who will protect the people when unknown gunmen strike? The security agencies cannot be everywhere everytime, people are defenceless

Your president's bosses have spoken.

Stooge and subjects are here commending and praising him