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K

You're right! As a guy, I really agree with you. The truth is the whole attraction thing is mostly psychological, and it is like a domino effect cos most times, ladies desire a man they can see is highly desired by other ladies. The man may be just okay, but somehow the psychology pushes him way uo the charts. When I was in university, I used to dogde for a girl I'm toasting not to see me with another girl, until one day, I got "caught", the new girl was way more beautiful than the one that caught me, and guess what? She immediately started desiring me! Someone that was forming before. When both of them clashed, it became news, and it made other girls in the vicinity to come after me. The trick is, don't be a womanizer chasing everything in skirt, but flirt just enough, to be desired.
Even in marriage, let your wife actually see evidence that more attractive women desire you. If not, she will get bored and irritated with you and later cheat on you. Its the harsh reality

Zxcvbnmghtr:
Am talking about the fact that only a few of you men and I mean just 20% or less will get all of our attention. It's not about toasting men. It's about falling heads over heels for these few men like the one that has arouse your curiousity above. We will be so willingly to share him among ourselves.

K

He cannot

obonujoker:
Please Sir, Arrest these illegal miners

Tribalism is the bane of this country. For the police spokesman, his tribal loyalties come first. His major headache is to "tackle" people from that other tribe who are seemingly making noise to discredit the government of his own tribesman... I pity Africans

No where in my writeup did I mention or hint at any specific politician. All I'm saying is that the electorates will make better choices if they shun ethnoreligious sentiments when it comes to making political choices.. There are brilliant Nigerians from all ethnic groups who have the genuine interest of the country at heart. Those are the individuals the electorates should go for.
For you quickly interpreting that statement as implying Peter Obi, proves what I'm saying that many Nigerians are slaves to blind ethnic, religious and party loyalties.

tunjijones:
Excuse me sir... You have spoken well.

But I have a question for you. Do you mean that if Peter obi had won the election, there will not be kidnapping again in Nigeria? There will not be terrorism again? Boko haram will die naturally? The army and other security outfit will all of a sudden be top notch?

Pls sir, I will appreciate Ur response.

There is a Navy Lieutenant Commander I know. All he does is car importation business and shortlet rentals. He is short, overweight and has zero interest in the security dayjob the government wastes taxpayers money on him for.
This is just a mid ranking officer (equivalent of Major in the army) already useless and merely using the military as an enabler for his private business, then you now talk of those stinkingly corrupt, obese and worthless Generals, Admirals and Marshalls.
On the lower end of the ladder, the foot soldiers too are doing kidnappings and robbery as their own side hustles.
What about the citizens who are the unfortunate victims of this sleaze?
When they get the opportunity to make a change to the entire system via the ballot, they all of a sudden remember with so much passion what tribes they are and what religions they adhere to... Hence the vicious cycle continues...

He pointed out the typo without insults. But you just just had to reply with a needless smartsounding retort. This right here is a classic example of why Nigerian guys don't like Nigerian girls: your low self esteem makes everything seem like an attack on your fragile egos. You lots have as role models, ratchet wastrels from western society, so you're trying so hard to replicate their despicable mannerisms. Smh

saphiere:
Whatever. My message was passed and the person I directed it to understood what I meant.

I don't care. It has nothing to do with me

I don't care. It has nothing to do with me

The educated engineers did not see anything. The deluded illiterates are by far the vast majority and they insisted on carrying out their rituals. The educated engineers simply let them have their way to make them happy and psychologically be in the best frame of mind to work

RepoMan007:
Where are the woke atheists?
The educated engineers must have seen so many thing our doubt Thomases haven't for them to succumb to some outdated rituals.

When a soap is finishing, simply squash the last bit against the soap amd use it all up.

Fool

SIONKPO1:
Many Will be Demoralized and may massively start planning mutiny or quit Nigerian Army.
Sanwoolu should be made to Apologize to the soldier,no matter what you don't use Harsh words on Military personnels

The easiest way to generate online traffic in Nigeria is to create a fake sensational story on any topic Nigerians are emotional about, like marriage, religion, domestic issues etc... Even when the news have been proven to be fake, Nigerians will still keep on generating traffic on it by telling you, "ehn, I know this is fake, but things like this do happen", and go on giving their hot takes.
I have never seen a more vapid set of people...

Brother, you are very correct! I think this is the fantasy of every man

ThinkSmarter:
I do fantasize marrying two beautiful lesbians that i will always engage in 3some with.
And i prefer lesbian porn to heterosexual porn.

Yes

drimzsmoke:
They will all give birth, have abdominal fat, stretch marks with fallen breasts. Then what? Will he go out and marry 3 more

There is nothing vs nothing. It is fulani killers killing non fulani villagers to take over their lands. Call it what it is and stop being hypocrite because you support a government based on tribal hatred for an ethnic group. That was how Buhari deliberately failed to acknowledge all the killings in his 8years by calling it "farmers vs herdsmen clashes".

Ireportlive:
Miners vs farmers

Many get angry when you tell them their vagina stinks

Oga, bring your wife come na... Too much talk no dey fill basket

maivd:
Stop hiding behind a finger... those things I listed are sacred,because you don't even know they exist. We know lgbtq runs in your blood. We don't fuucck with minions

None of what you cited as traditions from various western climes is held sacred. The French, Italian,, German can still function without doing those things. But you can't, because you're held hostage by your mind, same as all around you, so collectively, your society is one big mental prison.
About lgtbq that you keep bringing up. Lets settle that one dis way: please bring your wife or adult sister to cohabit with me for a few days

maivd:
I knew I touched a nerve when I mentioned lgbtq not to worry you gay secrets are safe.

Germany

Oktoberfest

Kaffee und Kuchen’,

Polterabend: German weddings carry many unique traditions, one of which is called polterabend. On the night before a wedding, guests shatter porcelain at the couple’s feet to bring luck.

French
If invited into a French home, it’s customary to bring a small gift such as chocolates, flowers, or candies

To know when to start eating or how to eat certain foods, observe what the host does.

French tradition. It’s considered very rude not to say hello, goodbye, and merci to the staff.

Italy

Showing respect is especially important when in the presence of an elder. Typically, greetings are a kiss on both cheeks, standing when an elder enters the room.

Italians won’t choose Fridays as the day to say, “I do.” It is said that evil spirits are created on this day of the week.

Having good luck is important for Italian families. The groom should carry a small piece of iron in the pocket of his suit to keep evil spirits from spoiling the day while the bride should make a small tear in her veil that is said to bring the best of luck.

Here are some of your idols who keep there cultures static. You are just a retard whose life has bn rocked by inferiority complex. Enjoy your lgbtq nonsense.

Again, a subhuman's way of thinking - blame the whiteman. He can't think for himself, he can't give cogent reasons for doing what he is doing. He wants to continue to be backward, yet want to enjoy the goodies those in other climes who were not afraid to change, improve and discard are enjoying, hence will pray, fast, beg, cry for visa

jmoore:
Your white masters spend thousands of dollars just to buy engagement ring. Brideprice doesn't mean they are selling their daughters.

Subhuman, why am I not surprised

Connected1:
Oga Shut Up.

Again, nothing intelligent to say other than "culture".. Culture like you defined is a way of life, something thought of as the best way to live at a particular point in time. That way of life ought to be continually revisited and improved or discarded, but never static. You want to be static, yet want to enjoy the improvements others have made, hence you beg, crawl, pray for visa.
Throwing tantrum of lgtbq as blackmail, cos you have nothing intelligent to say. Subhuman

maivd:
It's called culture,way of life of a group of people with similarities and understanding. Some people unlike you are not ready to throw culture under the bus. It's still very common in asia and the middle east,just because Americans and some European countries turn there back on something doesn't translate to total abolishment. I am sure people like you are going to vote in favour on lgbtq nonsense.

A subhuman just responded as expected. And as predicted, he (abi it) has no cogent justification for the practise, other than insults and "culture".

Almunjid:
Nonsense!
Just because u did a four year degree course at the university to memorize useless stuff in English language doesn't mean that ur culture is barbaric. U use Education to modify and adjust ur cultural practices, u don't use Education to condemn ur culture.

You're not making any sense. U can pay an olosho or hookup girls (who have nothing to offer u) N50,000 for one-night-stand but u can't pay N50,000 to marry a decent lady who will be more useful to u beyond sex.
U still think you're "Educated" with this stupid mentality of urs?

There is no price on a human being nor list for a human being.

MadamExcellency:
Bride Price is only for the parents of the girl. Traditional rites are where the buck of the money lies.

In some parts of the Southeast, the bride price is N70 only. The traditional rites have three lists for men, women and the parents. My father collected N10,000 for my bride price then.

There is no price on a human being

thatigboman:
bride price in my hometown in imo state is N175.00

One cold bottle of whatever you dey drink! I salute you. It warms my heart seeing people that reason objectively especially in this clime, where reasoning is very difficult.

Resetinc:
Haaaa!!

Finally some humans are coming back to their sense. Na pesin start tradition, na pesin dey modify tradition, na pesin go still fit abolish tradition when necessary.. otherwise we be enslaved forever..
all these useless traditions & outdated religious practices, na matter of time.

Blacks! There is no price on a human being - whether literal or figurative. Marriage is simply the verbal declaration of intent by two adults that have come of age that they want to spend their lives together in the presence of witnesses. Simple!.

Subhumans will come under this mention and start frothing in the mouth about how dare you talk against their sacred brideprice. But ask a Nigerian or a black African what brideprice really means and how it came about, he has nothing to say other than hurl shallow emotive invectives about tradition..

The usual gimmick:
Step 1 - Float a rumour of an astronomical increment in fuel price citing compelling reasons. The citizens despairingly consider the bleak future with that price, while labour unions bare their fangs and filling stations shut down leading to scarcity, and attendant black market prices way above the outrageous one rumoured... The citizens groan and say usual phrase "the price don't matter, just let fuel be available".
Step 2 - The president appears to "weigh in", and gets the unions to sheath their swords by pegging the price just below the rumoured outrageous price, but way above the current high price...
The citizens heave a sigh of "relief" and life returns to normal...until the next increment.

Yes it does.
No matter how good she is, she will at some point have an affair with a co-worker.
It is called Hypergamy.

Don't travel o! Its a trap! There is nothing there for you. It is just degrading work, you will only be using your mind to be changing the few pounds they pay you to naira, but you can't spend the naira over there! Stay in Nigeria, build your life, enjoy yourself.
In a few years, you will even be travelling to that same UK for vacation.
Don't get swept by the hype, there is nothing but suffering over there

mistacoco2:
Hello guys,

For some days now I have been on a serious dilemma whether to resign from my federal government job that pays me above N200k for my current position and migrate to the UK or stay in naija and set up a business to augment my salary. I will be 34 years next year, I feel traveling to the uk for studies next year September will delay my chances of getting married, as I have planned not exceeding 34 years without getting married.

I belong to the school of thought that believes can make it in Nigeria despite all odds. However, considering the economic realities of the country, I have recently contemplating of japa and maybe get a Nigerian lady for marriage after my studies.

Please I earnestly need matured advice from you guys to know how to start the coming year.

Shut your trap, ignorant goat.

FamTomx2:
Dangerous game played by the election rigger feeling like demigod.

Despite pleas from the military guy still he maintained his godfather status and send him to the dungeon.


Definitely the military will watch and access the whole drama with keen interest..

You don't fück with the metal unstable Nigeria military!