As a Women's Minister, she is addressing women only and telling them how they to keep their homes peaceful. She's is not saying or implying that it is acceptable for a man to be shouting at his woman though. It's about using wisdom know how to deal with things outside your control in order to get the best outcome for you.
Amotolongbo: In as much as women shouldn’t argue with their husbands at home, the men don’t need to raise their voice on their women. If there is any issue, they should both try to iron it out peacefully without raising voice
Feminism is not for Africa or even black women, it is the agenda they use to in white countries to destroy the black family.
DaytonaAries: Really? That is the only advice she can give women. She can't advice women that no one should be assaulting them most especially their husbands. She can't educate women that if their husband beats them up for an argument they should consider leaving their marriages. Why should women be the ones to shut up and remain in silence for the fear that their husband would beat them up? That is making a mockery of women that have gone through domestic violence. A man that would beat his wife up during an argument would beat the wife up if he isn't satisfied with something else.
Instead of her to educate women that domestic violence shouldn't be tolerated and end this "dictator and servant" mindset. She is in all facts asking women who are dissatisfied to keep quiet so their husband won't beat them up! How is that a sane thing to say.
Educate women on their rights. Assault and battery are crinimal offences that if any person commits needs to be held accountable.
Women are human beings too. They have feelings. Not all women are perfect but that doesn't mean that they should be keep num when they find things unfavourable to them just becuase their husband would beat them up during an argument.
She is just saying common sense. God created a man to be head of the family/ household and a woman to support him. How far would you get in your job if you have habit of arguing with you boss? Honestly feminism is a cancer.
Massiveglory: When light comes into a state or country, the difference is clear.
Alex otti of Lp has delivered abia state from over 20 years darkness in the name of goverance. Congratulations to the great engineer Barth Nnaji and his team who decided to site this magnificent project in abia state and eastern Nigeria. Many thanks to Madam okonji Iwela for her tremendous input. Congrats to Alex otti for bringing light to abia state.
Send her to Nigeria, if her behaviour continues unchecked, she may still do something that may cause child protection services or social services to become involved and once they do, they start plotting to take all your children into care of government and even give them out for permanent adoption meaning you may lose the right to ever get them back. A couple of years in Nigeria should be enough to reset her attitude. Boarding school is good especially if you don't have a trusted relative she can live with.
Mrperfecto: I will just be brief without writing too much.
We are based we have 4 children, my first child is 13 from my previous relationship, she has become very terrible, she doesn't listen to me or my wife. She tells her that she is not her biological mother and she cannot control her. She had threatened to call the police on my wife telling her if she touch her she will fight her back and call the police. She goes to school and closes at 3.45 her school is 10 mins walk from home, but she is always late for home.
She comes home around 6 sometimes 7pm , as I am writing now every friday she closes at 12.30 but she is still hasn't come back home yet.
I am on my way to work. I start at 6.30pm till 2.30am so I rarely get to see her and she only misbehaving when I am not around. So far we have seized her phone because we had found so many inappropriate messages exchanges between her and boys. We had also removed the TV from her room and her behaviour has gotten worse. She is behaving like she's possessed.
My wife and I are fed up. Even her siblings are tired of her. We want to send her back to Nigeria maybe in a boarding school until she is 18 in order to protect her younger ones. If we keep her and she continues with her terrible behaviour I may beat her badly and we may end up loosing all 4 children to the authorities.
Please what advice will you give to me concerning this issue?
But Tinubu is not personally feeling the pain he is inflicting on the masses so there is no way that his inflicting pain on the population would equate future growth for the country.
People were unfairly accusing Buhari of nepotism, forgetting that Buhari chose to retain Emefiele as CBN governor which is arguably the most important and powerful appointment in the country.
Now Tinubu is showing us what nepotism really looks like.
What are the length of those roads? I think only the Portharcourt Rd reported here is only one he has completed and there may be quality concerns.
Bestmanfornow: Ignorant mind, just in Onitsha alone, Gov Soludo has completed Apaka GRA road Onitsha, Soludo has completed Niger street Onitsha, Soludo has completed Sokoto road Onitsha, Soludo has completed premier road Onitsha, and many roads are on completion levels Gov Soludo administration will clock 2yrs in March next month.
Story not adding up What heavily pregnant woman would get mind to physically wrestle anyone talk less with her husband and be exerting the type of effort and power to push him over the bannister ?
It just does not credible I feel there are some details of this story being omitted.
He met empty treasury but almost immediately gave lawmakers 115% pay rise Justices N40bn About N100bn in SUVs for lawmakers. Empty treasury, but spending billions moving around with enormous convoys.
Paid severance packages to hundreds of military officers that he immediately retired.
Attended a week long international conference with about 2000 delegates.
Racking up huge hotel bills there and at UNGA. Empty treasury yet is acquiring a presidential yacht. Empty treasury indeed!
Divide by 36 states means average population per state =8million people so N30b for 8m people = Approx N3800 per person. How is that going to alleviate any poverty?
I think Tinubu is a criminal that has no business as a public servant, talk less of being our president. Tinubu must go! I do not support Peter Obi as he never impressed in his 8years as governor of Anambra. Let Dave Umahi take over as the president. You are right that a solution to the currency crisis is to improve the economy and best way to do that is revert fuel price to the price it was in April last year or at least reduce it to below N500 per litre.
obstead200: good suggestion. However taxing imports heavily will not solve the problem if there are no viable alternatives to the imported goods. The tax will just be passed on to the masses who will have no choice but to buy the goods since there are no alternatives.
The only solution to this dollar crisis is for the economy to increase production/manufacturing by all means possible. If the dependence on the dollar is reduced because we do not need to import so much, the whole crisis will solve itself. It is basically a demand and supply problem.
I cannot resist adding here that this was the entire thrust of Mr Peter Obi's campaign manifesto. This is the only thing he talked about....and this is the reason why I voted for him. Unfortunately, graft, tribalism and ethnic sentiments won the day and gave us Balablu as president
UK economy may be slowing because trade with Nigeria is dropping. Nigerians cannot spend what we usually do on imports because of our destroyed economy.
Nobody needs to carry me all they need to do is disgrace me by proving Emefiele is alive.
post=128572402: For the swines and fools supporting and hailing Emefiele for the tragic policy about changing our naira design last year, and are now complaining of hardship. That you are now telling us you love our darling nation more than us. A country you have been calling zoo and shithole for Years and praying for her downfall. Y'all will never know peace in life, no matter what part of the country Y'all from. Hypocrites and cannibals everywhere.
If dem carry dis one now, Him people go dey cry dey beg. Anyways, the people or person that own(s) the forum gave everyone a disclaimer at the bottom of every page on Nairaland. Just continue..... dem go soon find u come house.
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