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Truckpusher:
Don't you think it's high time we go beyond these back and forth arguments to enable generations forge a united front?

Don't you people think you are messing up a thread that's suppose to be fun and informative? No one is interested in your tribal rivalries. The thread was fun until you came with your mu.mu tribal arguments. Let go of your feminine emotions and stick with the subject under consideration.

TrishaP:
Pls ask the oracle where I'll be 5yrs from now?

5yrs from now you will be on NL inquiring about the next 5yrs.

Sleekshady:
Ladies = Complicated beings, try study us I bet you won't graduate

All the guys that came here were expecting you to tell them female code words for "I want you to fvck me" but just like the typical female, you leave that out. Do you seriously think you have helped male readers here?

mrkay101:
I tried it once after we lost contact ... but I regret it up till now

You regret getting laid or losing contact?

You seriously need to get laid. Start getting laid regularly.

igbo2011:
This us how many Africans think, just like SLAVES!!! Look at this video, this cop killed her 7 year old grand child and he didn't even say sorry. He had no remorse. https://www.facebook.com/video.php?v=1536505043263935&pnref=story

I have come to the conclusion that Africans are the weakest people in the world. You let anyone do whatever they want to you and you smile and love it. We celebrate our oppressors holidays, root for them to win in the World Cup, In Italy they throw banannas at black players and we repay them buy buying Italian clothes and making them more rich. We are a bunch of slaves in our own lands. France is colonizing West Africa and we repay them buy buying French champagne. Germany killed 80,000 Namibian people and we buy German cars. This is why everywhere in the world we are we are not respected.

https://www.nairaland.com/1932006/why-african-men-weak

It is evident from your post that you are indeed weak. You name countries in Europe but you lump yourself up with others into the word 'Africa'. There is no such thing as black versus white. There is only knowledgeable versus ignorant and poor versus rich.
I will have you know that Italian leather is gotten from Kano but refined in Italy. Kano was known for hundreds of years for its quality leather but refused to move from supliers of raw materials to manufacturing.
It is business men that decide policies even more than the policy makers. It is from the activities of capitalists and other stakeholders that growth comes about in a country.
Let go of the whining about the fate of the Blackman and get knowledge and make money, then lobby in the government to protect your business empire and see if Europeans won't come and kiss your black a.s.:s. That is how brands are built and their countries of origin become associated with them. It is the selfish action of a capitalist that gives his people dignity.

What you need is God to help you get your mind right.

thoth:
Hopelessness for the Hopeful , that is.

If you have something people can love your country for, they will. Nobody loves for the sake of loving.

nolongTing:
Are North africans, Arabs or African? They live in Africa but seem to associate themselves with Arabian culture and they are also members of the Arab league. The fighting in Libya has also magnified the differences, the rebels seem to describe dark skin people as Africans so what are they? Why not cut North Africa from the African map or drive them out to the middle-east?

North Africans are whatever they decide to call themselves. They have the right to be whatever they want to be. The Sahara desert has always limited interactions between black Africa and them. All these things don't really matter anyway. I eat, drink and get laid when I want to. What does it matter which group a people prefer to be identified with?

Why hate on something everyone loves? The whole of Mankind loves America.

First, the Asians travelled from their continent and settled there to become the natives. Then Christopher Columbus and Amerigo Vespucci led Europeans there who all became obsessed with the place and millions of them started to migrate through the centuries.
The English, the Irish, Jews and the Chinese.

Apart from our brothers who were taken there by force, I would say we Africans are even behind schedule with our love for America. Why hate on them? Didn't they tell you that's where God resides? You should be happy your black soul is allowed to associate with God.
God bless America!

Just in case this project does comes to fruition, how do we settle the wahala that'd result from intermarriages amongst the tribes? I do have nieces and nephews that would be victims of this wahala. Please someone explain so that we can plan in advance. Abi una never think am?

joseph1013:
Meaning that God allowed In.ce.st? According to the biblical scriptures, In.ce.st is forbidden.

“Never have sexual intercourse with anyone related to you by blood. I am the Lord." Leviticus 18:6 (God's Word Translation)

The law forbidding incest was introduced in the mosaic law. Cain married his sister, no rocket science is required to figure that one out, just as Noah's grandsons must have married their sisters or cousins yet we don't see people asking about that even though no granddaughters are mentioned. Don't create a problem where there is non. Like someone said already, the bible says Adam came to have sons and daughters. I was brought up in a religious environment where that question was answered when I was less than five years old, only for me to grow up and still find people struggling with it. Is the omition really that perplexing when daughters are hardly mentioned in the bible?
Abraham married his half sister. Sarah was his sister. The law of moses came to forbid it along with a lot of things there had earlier been no law against. Christ too came to forbid polygamy which had been allowed in the law of moses.
I won't call myself a christian anymore. I do have my problems with religion and the concept of God we were sold in the bible but theist or atheist let's do our research well.

The ROMAN catholic church - Italian
The ANGLICAN church - English
Shia Islam- Arabian
Sunni Islam - Arabian

Ndigbo fight Ndigbo, Kanuri bomb Kanuri ontop Wetin your papa no follow start.
Meanwhile the number of Italians who are Catholics is steady reducing. Anglican churches are becoming warehouses in England. You in your African forest, you are standing in the way of your own progress. Foreigner bring his religion to dominate you but somehow you chased him away but you wear his religious garbs to remind your brother that you are still his slave, and a better one than him at that. White man has moved on to better ways of enslaving you but you still prefer to be enslaved the old way.
Go and look at all the places where you have the highest number of religious fanatics; it is among the poor nations, you third world ;im.be.ciles!
Now I am thinking of all the presidents that have ruled my country and I see that people like me with dark complexion are more. people with fair complexion have been marginalised and I feel wonderful. Yes, I am a dark skin supremacist. Fight about that.
Unbelievable!

sexymoma:
That Cos Naija Guys Won't Appreciate All Dis. So Y The Stress, The Only Thing They Know Is Food And Lotta Sex

You are a very smart girl. Keep up the good work.

quid:
Shine your eyes
Article written by Yoruba man

But you sef you for try knack am robust reply now.

quid:
Lagos is 45% Igbo
Large Igbo presence in
- Kaduna
- Kano
- Edo
- Delta
- Bauchi
- etc etc

The op is a serious DREAMER

If Lagos is 45% Igbo that means the Yorubas would be at least 50% of the population because you can't have more Igbos than Yorubas. Here's the question you have to answer: All the other ethnic groups plus foreigners have to squeeze themselves into the remaining 5%, right?
You see as your Yeye dey smell abi?

ApolloFist:
People on this post are 10 styles of stupid. South African girls aren't crazy for Nigerian men. A certain type of South African girl likes Nigerian men. I'm in finance and work between Johannesburg (Sandton) and Lagos (Ikeja). In Sandton, Africa's richest square mile. You'll find girls clad in mini skirts and a weave pounding on their iPhones waiting for their rich Nigerian 'boyfriends' to entertain them. (At those times South African men are in the office or board room making deals. Those times are our office hours.) Here's something you should know about women. Women love money. Especially black women. If you're a rich guy and have money to spend. You'll also have women at your beck and call. Women are crazy about men who splurge on them. Since Nigerian guys will even go as far as paying for their rent, weaves & in most cases her child's fees. (because she had a son with a dead beat.)those girls will gravitate towards Nigerians. You'll also notice that you'll hardly ever see a Nigerian with a career girl or a girl who has her act together because those girls already have money and need you to talk a good game to get them. Now let me let you in on a hard fact. Most of the girls Nigerians run into are generally promiscuous. Where she's had a string of lovers screw her over and now she's branching out so to speak. (This is why most Nigerian men think South African women are easy or slutty. That's who they run into.) The other types have bills to pay and are too lazy to get jobs. (You'll notice that these girls can get $20K out of a guy but she'll never use that money to go school or improve herself in an intellectual manner.) And in all honesty, a lot of the girls they attract aren't that bright either. I'm sure you've heard of SA girls coming to Victoria Island, lodging in Eko Hotel for a week or so & back to South Africa.(With a few thousand dollars in tow.) Most of these girls have more than one 'boyfriend'. I mean most of these guys make their money in Lagos. She's in South Africa. They only meet when he flies down or she flies up. on his wallet. Do the math. And when a lot of these girls are in V.I they get themselves into orgies and 3 ways.(hmmmm, now there's a girl after my own heart.) That's insight into the types of girls most Nigerians attract. Bitches and hoes. Not all but most.

Now as far as South African men being lazy. Lets look at that. If the girls you run into are promiscuous and lazy. Have kids with dead beat dads. And have no jobs of their own. What does that tell you? The girls Nigerians attract used to attract losers for boyfriends in SA. Plus Successful SA don't pay for pussy like that and we damn sure aren't there to save a hoe. We're too gangsta. We're like Americans. We treat ladies like ladies and we treat bitches and hoes, like bitches and hoes. Case closed. If you compare living standards in Nigeria to South Africa. Nigeria is akin to Pakistan, India, The US or China. Dog eat dog. Highly populated regions usually are. But now appropriate it to Africa, which a new kind of difficult. South Africa is like a European country such as Italy or Spain. Lots of money is being made but its also fairly relaxed. So? Nigeria is a difficult place to live in. Everything costs money. Even asking someone for directions will cost you. Because there are so many people after pretty much the same thing, you have to develop certain traits that come with navigating in such strenuous conditions. Thick skin, cunning, a sense of emergency, hustle savvy etc. Same goes for China, America, Pakistan and India. You HAVE TO be all those things otherwise you're literally bleeped. You won't survive. Its not endowed, its conditioned. That's why you find Pakistanis everywhere, you find Americans everywhere, you find Chinese people everywhere and you find Nigerians everywhere. And they all have the same traits. A heightened sense of emergency, hustle savvy & a go getter attitude. Thats why money is idealized so much in all those countries. You HAVE TO HAVE lots of it. Everything costs. Even asking for directions. South Africa is different. South Africa is akin to a European state with a healthy economy but low population numbers.(South Africa even has similar weather to Europe. That is why whites love it so much.) We have less than 2/3rds your economy so competition isn't as pronounced. In South Africa a guy can take 5 years off to find himself and then get on with his life. The economy is that good. The situation is that relaxed. Our government serves us in most aspects and our impoverished live in relative paradise when compared to most Nigerians. (My gawd I've seen a level of poor even I couldn't comprehend until I got there.) When I got Lagos I had to adjust to all that and it made sense as to why Nigerians are so quick, so to speak. Now, with regards to wealth. Yes Nigeria's wealthy are really wealthy. They have the population to support them. And if things develop like they are Nigeria could very well be like America. Healthy economy, high population. People are the life blood of the economy and as you know. More people, more money.

I will give Nigerians credit for a couple of things. They do take better care of our bitches and hoes than we do. In fact, they take better care of a girl than your average South African guy. They are better looking (I'd imagine if I was a girl, I'd go for a manly looking man and SA guys aren't too manly looking. Where west African genes are male focused. South African genes are female focused. Thats why our women are way hotter than Nigerian women. Compared to SA girls, Nigerian girls are tougher and have a more male like body shape. No hips, no ass, no waste. But when SA men get fat, they too get a big ass tltltlt )They come to South Africa and fill in missing gaps that a lot of South Africans fail to see. You guys have entrepreneurial savvy akin to Pakistanis. But when a South African is entrepreneurial, its endowed not conditioned. As a result most South Africans seek out jobs. What South Africans don't realize, that Nigerians, Pakistanis and Indians realized is that there is no magic wand that will fix our problems. We have to roll up our sleeves and get on with life. Nigerians, Chinese and Pakistanis are showing us that. But in South Africa we apply our work ethics differently from Nigerians. South Africans are raised to be the best at what they do. We are taught to chase excellence because money is a bi product of success. Our rich, aren't flying off to exotic countries to lay women. They are there to make deals. In fact South African men who have it together would much rather work on their skills and improving their status than spend thousands of dollars on bitches. We see things like spending 20K on a shoe as reckless spending. We don't find pride in having stuff because A. When we buy stuff, it enriches the people that make it, not the customer. B. We don't take pride in things we didn't make. Yes we like nice things. But we like family and certain success more. We'd rather put our families through school than pay for some chicks rent money. (Well until we get to a certain age. then anything goes.) That's why before Nigerians those same girls were in the arms of some guy who's twice her age.

Gold diggers, bitches and hoes. They've existed since the dawn of economics. They are there to entertain rich guys. Women love rich guys. Nigerians who are with South African girls are usually rich guys. Its not special. its economics. They'll screw any type of guy with lots of money. Sorry but its true.

Also if you ask, How come South African men don't date Nigerian girls then? Its because South African men aren't attracted to Nigerian women. (I think we all know why.)

I hate reading and girl did you make read!

Samwell247:
I can't do that bro its against the law ...

Murder through spiritual means is not against the law because it cannot be proven. Guy, this is the best way to win the girl. If his babalawo does not work, I have one that doesn't fail. He has helped people kill over a thousand muthafvkers. Don't dull it.

erad:
I haven't seen or read any thing to believe you are being tormented by terrestrial forces. I think you were oppressed mentally and your mind was pushed to its breaking point. Your woes started the day you started seeking spiritual help for a mental problem.

Brother, you have spoken well. I have looked in vain for a psychology/ psychiatry thread here. She is clearly schizophrenic. Her whole episode has very little part where she sought medical help.

WRITING is man's greatest invention.

Samwell247:
I love this advice.... we should start from somewhere... I will do that....thanks for the advice...

Don't be quick to take girl hunting advice from girls. That path she's leading you might lead to friend zoning.

Rexphobia:
so?














Naija celebs always forming humble beginning since 18 A.D.



Later now, Davido will say he used to sell gala and drinks in Apapa traffic.


I don't care, we all hustle and we don't talk about it..



By the way, who is he? cos we don't know him here in Pakistan where I work/

Stop working in Pakistan! That's the kind of thing that happens to people who take their hustle there.

Uchexxy:
Nice post op, I sincerely like your intelligence. but what u failed to tell us is d bitter truth which is that an igbo man would never rule this entity called Nigeria. asking us to vote buhari is something most igbo won't do. myself included. my father said one time " instead of a northerner to rule Nigeria come 2015 let us b lead by cats and dogs" the igbo man have been fending for himself and we will continue doing that. apc will never give okorocha d presidential ticket. #liers.

Never is a very long time. Your father may think that way because of the generation he is from. But YOU should not think that way. Have you been living under a rock all these Mandela and Obama years? The situation of the Igbos is not even anywhere close to that.

waternogetemeny:
Power changes people.


I will like to support Buhari but I know all this pity story is to get my vote and then he can return to his old ways.



As onye -igbo, Buhari had the chance to settle the last time he was in power but chose to use the sword instead of a brotherly hug.



I will not give him a second chance to finish up.

See as your voice don cool, no worry, you go soon change your mind. We'll be here when you all come around.

Firefire:
The gods are laughing hard looking at mortals who cannot see beyond their noise.

The gods were once mortals, so they should just suck it up and let mortal do what mortals do until they too become gods.
Na mortal things we dey discuss for hia.

Eyop:
Lol...whether my post makes sense to you or not,is none of my own business. It is a different thing if am on my own the powers of darkness come find wahala na that time person go know say Jesus christ is lord not when you go and pick what belongs to the devil. I will be on standby awaiting your arrival.

When I come what will you do? You will be shouting for Jesus' blood while me I am after your blood. Are we not both wizards? But where I am better than you is that I know you have blood. You, you have been asking for Jesus' blood since forever and you have sucked him dry.
I repeat, This night your blood is in trouble.

Eyop:
Do you want to marry from my state . Investigations are important when going into marriage and this is not particular to a state or community. I was just using my own state to explain further to the OP since he also comes from that region. So carrying out investigations before marriage is the ideal thing to do so that one can save yourself the stress of running from pillar to post when the problem starts. Even before starting a serious relationship that would lead to marriage,it's most times advisable to carry out the check & balances before swinging into action so as to avoid problems. To me, the girl comes first and her family follows.[b]If an individual marries a daughter of the Queen of the coast or that of Witchcraft[/b]and feels calling holy ghost fire will help out in marriage,then such person better have a rethink because he's in for deep shiit when the wahala starts.

That na where you spoil all the sense wey you been dey make. Who is the queen of the coast, and why can't you people keep her name out of your mouths? I am coming to meet you this night the minute you close your eyes to sleep. Your blood is in trouble.

If ghetto boy holla at ghetto girl, ghetto girl must act like ghetto girl. Moral of the story, don't be a fvcking ghetto boy. Leave ghetto girls alone.

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drss:
Just yesterday a CNN Analyst Christian Purefoy was insulted black and blue by Nairaland APC e Warriors because of his honest opinion about the acceptability of Buhari's candidature as APC's flag bearer. To them anyone that speaks against Buhari is a paid agent of Goodluck Jonathan. However, facts emerging from the just concluded APC Presidential primaries suggest that the CNN analyst was right after all. It was discovered that out of a total of 7250 accredited delegates to the primaries, 1,206 of them choose to stay away. Their actions could be interpreted as a clear case of rejection of Buhari's candidature.
On the other hand, a person like Buhari, whom the APC consider as the best Presidential material was expected to clear as much as 70% of the votes to boost his acceptability as the best candidate APC got to offer, but instead he cleared just 57.2% of the total votes cast. This is a clear message that all is not well within the APC.
If Buhari could struggle to get 57.2% to emerge as APC presidential flag bearer, then he has a very slim chance of winning the Presidential elections come 2015.
The analyst was right.

Because of this 'slim' chance that he has you and your kind keep opening threads all over the politics section. I think the chance that you are not panicking is very slim.

MichaelSokoto:
Gbam!
Dats wat I've been sayin!
Like me dats half northerner & half niger deltan now, if d con3 divides, where am I gonna run to?

No hope for you be that.