₦airaland Forum

davseun2ta. I will ask my Dad direct, if he was accused of stealing. Would hear his version. Wouldn't just defend him. That's how I was raised. We had good relationship, and nothing like fear of asking questions that needed answers because he is my Dad. He wasn't a monster that I had dread asking questions.

From your question..seems you are afraid of asking your dad questions. I wasn't.

What has that got to do with sniffing tabba? That's what we are talking about.

Atlantisls. You are absolutely right. There is limitation to a point where I can defend even my bloood. In the midst of controversy. I will need to ask him or her if what I have heard is true. Just to be sure.

How much more someone I'm not related to or not even knowing their background apart from what they have made known to the public.

As far as I'm concerned. I will never vouch for anyone's past or present. Pastor or No Pastor. Neither will I condemn anyone based on their lifestyle, religion, views or opinions.

Just at the mention of Pastors name seem to invoke the wrath of most Nigerians. Knee jerk reaction without looking inwards.

Wow... 99.99% of all those who made comments on here are negative towards the lady. Not her fan and neither do I worship Pastors. The truth is what matters most.

One thing I know is that for a Pastor to slap a church member witch or no witch. it's wrong. That's Assault.

I also know that if I were to be the owner and builder of a collapsed building in Nigeria where lives were lost, My prosecution would have been faster and definitely would have been jailed long time without delay.

If I were a member of a church and my pastor is accused of taking someone else's life. I will humbly try to find out without bias if it were true. Wouln't mind asking my Pastor for his own version.

Defending a Pastor you know nothing about his or her private life aside what they have made public wouldn't
help your salvation.

I wouldn't bother myself about the messenger, what matters most is the message. Truth or Lies. Her statements has nothing to do with sanity or weed.

From a neutral reader.

The only true love is unconditional love. That from God to man. Agape Love. Doesn't exist between men, in relationships or marriages.

Any other "love" is conditional and not true love. This type is common between men...in marriages, relationships and within families.

If a woman or man says: " I just love him for no reason" that's a big fat lie. Deep down there is a reason.

Sometimes people mistake bonding for love or when they are fond of someone. Often times, most so called love is infatuations.

In summary, Love between two persons is conditional love. Subject to fade at anytime or wax stronger. Meaning it fluctuates. Love is overrated.

Op: Love shouldn't be the main criteria for marriage. Cos what you think is love might not be love.

Cutesexy1 you are just smiling. You are not even following me. This life.

I knew it from the start. Doesn't sound like kidnap.

Never believed her story then, and that has not changed.

Education and Health less funding. While Interior, Transportation, have more funds. Enough money to go on invisible projects.

No wonder. Misplaced Priority.

Op. There is no excuse why you couldn't stabilize your patient before referral. Knowing she was actively bleeding. Even if you were not giving full treatment.


Because patients refuse to pay is not an excuse for not stabilizing your patient knowing she is high risk and actively bleeding. You got it wrong on this one.

If you keeping doing that you will have more blood on your hands.

Nigeria healthcare system needs reform. Accessibility, Affordability, Delay in Accessing Healthcare, Changes in Healthcare Policy and Services.

Tariffs and Import duty is secondary. Those are for self interest. Even if all the Nigerian doctors return with the best equipments. Where does the average & poor man stand?

Can a poor man in need of MRI afford it? Does he have access to healthcare service? Is he going to receive prompt medical intervention without delay?

Until then....

Irenony. Well up to you. I don't have to disclose my profession, my location as you indicated in your post about living in both worlds with reference to your theory, assertions and beliefs...to show authority on the topic. But I have tried to pass a few facts in the simplest way. Can't force medical facts or knowledge on anyone.

I respect your views but they don't hold water. They Lack substance.

Good luck and enjoy your day. Nice discussing with you. Wish everyone could be like you discussing without abusing anyone who doesn't fancy their idea.

End of discussion.

Irenony. Your assertion is still wrong. White men and Women also shag like anything the same way black men do without condom. Have you found out the rate of STI infection in your country of residence? Do you know how many white men visit GUM clinic a day compared to black men.

What do you mean by rampant in Africa? Do you have upto-date statistics ? Is there any Epidermic?

HIV is still a big issue in developing countries because of the weak healthcare system. Accessibility, Stigmatization, Affordability, Healthcare Policies, Cultural Practices, Beliefs. Just to mention few.

Ireneony. Your theory is baseless and shows your level of reasoning. Who told you white men and asians are more faithful to their partners than Nigerian men.

Black men just like white men are not different when it comes to multiple sexual partners.

You lack basic knowledge about HIV transmission. Anyone with multiple sexual partner who doesn't practice safe sex is high risk individual. Whether the person is white or black. Asian or Caucasian.

Contacting the virus has nothing to do with once, twice...frequency or periodic sex. Multiple sexual partner is Multiple Sexual Partner whether once or twice and moving to next person and carries same risk.

Your white man could have sex with HIV carrier once and have the virus, move to the next person and spread same. While the African man you paint black have party weekly and still be HIV free. Who told you most white men like condom?

HIV doesn't respect race, colour. Exposure is all that is needed to catch the virus. Women are more susceptible.
Multiple sexual partner is one risk factor. Male or Female, White or Black, Old or Young.

You need to remove that your parochial idea of African men...mentality of having multiple sexual partners. Women also have multiple sexual partners. White or Black, Asian or Afro-Caribbean.

Google is your friend stop living in ignorance, which is no excuse. Seek knowledge and you shall find.

Op who told you it's yam porridge?

Huh...

What baffles me most is that most people running mouth here are either retired or active deviants fornicating like the lady and her boyfriend....but still have impudence to condemn the lady.

Fornicating is what it is. Whether with one, two or more.

Quote me only if you are a deviant fornicator.


My girlfriend's know I'm cheating and I know they follow me for no reason.

I don't understand why people misconstrue deviancy for cheating.

It's either one is faithful or not in marriage. They are not married. Both guilty of fornication.

She is only a deviant fornicator. Op tell your friend, for the sake of HIV, STI...even if it causes him heartbreak.

But then that wouldn't change anything on her side cos she is who she is.

All women Flirt, Most women Cheat.

Note: My girlfriend's know I'm cheating and I know they follow me for no reason.

Menstrual leave....Lol. Nairaland.

Women with Polymenorrhea, Metrorraghia, DUB will need frequent and longer leave. Some will even want to turn to woman with issue of blood...just to get longer leave.

Whoever brought up this idea must be suffering from cerebral menstruation and needs cerebral leave. ( Induced Coma).

Reading this makes me Thankful for the size, function and stamina. From today will start appreciating my almost 8" more, rather than trying to achieve 10".

Op it's not your pencil, but it's how you write your name.

Is this governorship election? Or local government election?

For me it's:
1. Body Odour
2. Mouth Odour
3. Dress Sense...If she looks unkempt
4. How She Speaks / Mannerism
5. Dentition

Any other qualities is a plus. I don't look out for backside or front side. Cos you never know what's in there till you see its true nature. Those are secondary.

Op. As far as am concerned, You have only avoided committing fornication with another.

But you are still a cheat for bringing another to your place, caressing and undressing her. You had sexual contact with another lady, doesn't have to be penetrative.

Probably she will see you as a molester.

Topic should have been: How I avoided Fornication with a side chick.

You realized "faithfulness and self control" , I thought it should have been "Abstinence and self control".

Not judging you...but that's the truth of your story.

Note: My girlfriends know I'm cheating and I know they follow me for no reason.

Even from the witness account, for other eye witnesses to say the occupant of the other car will suffer if the doctor dies...implies she was at fault.

Mr De Gaulle only acted swiftly to prevent her from lynching based on utterances of other witnesses.

Lawyer running from the law.
Ex-Justice minister running from justice.

Don't know why people have to flaunt cars, clothes, house, shoes ...whenever they buy one.

Guess it's psychological.

I doubt her story. Just don't know why...

Soon it will be Londis

Enhanced Beauty....Thanks to make up and bleaching cream. Nothing better than natural beauty. Reminds me of ...IamMissMarvel or is it Kennygee.

Don't know why Holy Spirit has to be used as excuse for confession that has to do with Conscience.

Sorry to say your mum is evil, hard hearted with no conscience. 25yrs? If your pseudo father had not died, would she have made the confession. Just wondering how she eats, sleeps and wake up seeing you for 25 years knowing your real father is somewhere and concealing it from you.

Meet up with your father, not his fault since he was deceived.

Find the heart to forgive your mother. I feel for your pseudo- father cos he was deceived till death.

Women!

I'm less concerned. He's living his life. Live Yours.

Lol...
Husband trying to take wife virginity.
Finds out she lost her identity.
He lost his cool...
Cos then the more he caress her,
The more he feels like a molester.
So he waits for the day he deserve it
But every time he goes to touch it
Then she says he hurt it
He can't even talk sex..then she says he is perverted
Now he sees the wait don't worth it.

Ladies always try to keep your legs closed the way you meet guys, then you earn some respect. Just because you have the a nice body, just like a nice car. Doesn't mean you should let everybody "Test Drive".

Serving food and they are talking into the food. Yuk.

Disgusting.