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PoliticsRe: "I'm Not Dead Yet!": The Story Of Victor Banjo by xammy(m): 4:46am On Aug 04, 2017
lovely pis
FamilyRe: My Wife Is Pregnant, I Don't Know If Its With My Baby. by xammy(m): 6:14am On Jun 30, 2017
you have a case dude, just wait for DNA test


MemphisRaynes:
Hi, please I need honest and mature contribution on this matter. I love my wife so much, and I don't want to have a failed marriage, not so early.

My marriage is only 18months old. This is my wife's first Pregnancy, but I am having serious concerns about the paternity of the baby.

I trust(ed) my wife with all my heart and soul. She was away on a Job training for 6 months. The training finished on May 19th and we made love same day. She told me she last saw her period in May 16th so we both assumed she was in her safe period by May 19th before we made love. Actually we didn't want pregnancy or a baby yet because we are strained by resources for now.

My wife started complaining of strong tummy pain, plus her period hadn't shown up by June 12, so we went for a Pregnancy test and she was confirmed Pregnant. In fact the Lab attendant told me she is very pregnant. Days after I went through her chat while she was asleep and came across her chat with some guy, the chat was very suspicious. Actually the said guy is a Gynecologist, so she had told him she was Pregnant immediately after the test so as to get medical advice. In this chat the guy called my wife "luv", "dearie", talked about she visiting him, and my wife's response was to play along. At some point she even said she can't wait to visit the guy. The height of it was when the guy asked "how is our baby doing?"

I could not control my emotions after reading their chat, so I confronted my wife. She claim the guy was her best friend, that they met at her training. Actually she has always freely spoken to the guy via phone in my presence before this event so I had no suspicions until I read their chat. We quarrelled and she cried and cried swearing that she has never been with any man but me. She said she was heart broken I am doubting the paternity of her Pregnancy.

On June 26th, we were at the hospital for ultrasound scan and medical check up. The Ultra sound scan report says the pregnancy was 7weeks and 6days on June 26th. Now remember we first met on May 19th after about 6 months, also remember May 19th was three days after her period ended, she was supposed to be in her safe period. Now Let's assume she conceived on May 19th, between May 19th and June 26th is not upto 7weeks and 6days. Again I confronted her with these facts and she's been very emotional, she threatened that we must do paternity test after the baby is born to prove me wrong, she also warned that she will make my life hell after that test for doubting her faithfulness to me.

Please I don't know what to do next, my doubt is not fading because the numbers and events don't add up, I need useful suggestions please. Kindly note that I trust and love my wife, a part of me believes the baby is mine, its the maths that don't add up, and her chat with her Gynecologist best friend that keeps fueling my doubt. What is the best way to handle my situation?
PoliticsRe: What Is The Electricity Situation In Your Area? by xammy(m): 2:30pm On Jun 15, 2017
10hrs a day

3am - 8am
12noon - 4pm
8pm - 9pm

Monday to Friday but weekend ojoro dey enter its unpredictable

Good bless NEPA amuwo odofin
CelebritiesRe: Hannah Turay, Ogbonna Kanu's Ex-Wife Shares Photo With Him And Their Kids by xammy(m): 9:58pm On May 29, 2017
Highbruno:
Na wa o,some people lack wisdom and insight. why this man leave him beautiful wife and kids just because of that macho looking Laura ikeji.
Beautiful! U know the baggage she carry?
RomanceRe: My Fiance Just Left Me Due To Genotype Issues by xammy(m): 10:25am On May 28, 2017
The Topic with the most positive advice .....go tru them and keep all
InvestmentRe: Fixed Deposit Vs Treasury Bills: Which Pays Better? by xammy(m): 6:55pm On May 27, 2017
Carmal90:
Ur calculation is wrong 400k can never be 13% of 10 million now
Tell us the correct Answer
HealthRe: Triplets And Mum Detained In Benue Hospital Over Unpaid N77,600 Bills (video) by xammy(m): 10:02am On May 26, 2017
The fathers mobile number is not reachable?


ebusfav:
The happiness of a mother of triplets have been cut short, after she was reportedly detained in a General hopsital in Benue State, over her unpaid medical bills two weeks after the children were delivered.

Facebook user Ukan Kurugh, disclosed that the couple Mr and Mrs Dennis Anongo need the sum of N77,600 to pay the medical bills, so they can take their children home. Here’s what he wrote about the incident;

“MR. & MRS. ANONGO RECEIVES A GIFT OF TRIPLETS FROM GOD BUT CANNOT GO HOME FROM THE HOSPITAL DUE TO INABILITY TO PAY THE BILL OF N77,600: A PASSIONATE APPEAL FOR EMERGENCY AID.
By: Ukan Kurugh
Successful delivery of children calls for celebration among parents, the story of Mr. & Mrs. Dennis Anongo comes with mixed feelings as his wife, Mrs. Kwaghaondo was delivered of triplets (2 boys and 1 girl) at the General Hospital, North-Bank, Makurdi. Amidst this joy, they have been unable to foot the hospital bill of Seventy Seven Thousand, Six Hundred Naira (N77,600), a reason for which the hospital has refused them departure.
While I was at the hospital this afternoon, one of the nurses, Sewuese who called my attention told me in confidence that, since birth, the children have not added in weight hence they were malnourished due to the mother’s poor feeding, which in turn has also affected them. It is incontestible that, at this time, enhanced feeding is deserved for a mother who has just put to bed and the nature of her feeding has overriding effects on the newborn.
The father of the children, Mr. Dennis Anongo is a peasant farmer who is resident at Atsom Village in Gwande District of Makurdi Local Government Area, a place located before Daudu on the Makurdi-Lafia road. The mother is but only a house wife who accompanies her husband to the farm.
The children which I gathered were delivered through cesarean session, which was done on the 10th of May, 2017 which means that they have been stayed at the hospital for more than 2 weeks now. Feeding is equally a challenge, hence they are of rural domicile and all the visitors from the village only come along with either pounded yam, akpu or other forms of carbohydrate foods. This has equally affected the new born babies who have not added in size since over the 2 weeks of their birth.


I sincerely wish to use this medium to reach out to the government, humanitarian organizations, spirited individuals and all members of the public to add value to the lives of these new children who are for now been starved and suffered. It’s indeed an uncommon thing of joy that the children have come, but this challenge has countered the smooth happiness the family would have celebrated.
The father Mr. Dennis Anongo can be reached on mobile: 09096571784.

God bless us as we once again, touch lives, amen.”

More photos and video below;

http://lailasblog.com/2017/05/triplets-mum-detained-benue-hospital-unpaid-n77600-bills-photosvideo.html
CareerRe: Delayed Salaries: Luth Resident Doctors Stage Protest by xammy(m): 7:32am On May 26, 2017
OrestesDante:
Under the watch of ambode?
Amobode? olodo
PoliticsRe: Wike To Honour Rotimi Amaechi With An Award by xammy(m): 4:14am On May 25, 2017
Amaechi! Don't go I repeat Don't go there ...it's a set up
FamilyRe: Why Fathers Are Neglected In Old Age. ( A Must Read For Guys) by xammy(m): 1:45pm On May 23, 2017
obikirinoni:
I hope every guy reads this.

Please share on Facebook and other social media outlets.
Thanks
i have done that
FamilyRe: Why Fathers Are Neglected In Old Age. ( A Must Read For Guys) by xammy(m): 9:57am On May 23, 2017
i will keep this post....
WebmastersRe: How Mark Zuckerberg's Surprise Wedding Was Done 6 Years Ago by xammy(m): 7:59am On May 20, 2017
RichYoungNigga:

And he's still married to his wife

Remember when Tiwa Savage got married in Dubai ??
What happened to her marriage ??

Remember when Toolz got married in Dubai ?? What happened to her marriage ??

The only thing that destroys marriages is women cheating on their husbands
Who be this?
CrimeRe: First Time Visitor Left Stranded After This Lagos Uber Driver Robbed Her (photos by xammy(m): 10:12pm On Apr 25, 2017
she only returned part of Davido's money they collected from him in south Africa....
FamilyRe: Nigeria Man Dumped His Congolese Wife For A New Wife; Sells Family House by xammy(m): 9:57pm On Apr 25, 2017
linder ikeji will not come to her rescue ....after she will show us fake bag she bought for 10m
PoliticsRe: $600m Jets’ Deal Raises US Imports Of Nigeria’s Crude by xammy(m): 6:25am On Apr 25, 2017
Keneking:
This is what Jonathan could not achieve
Obama did not allow him
PoliticsRe: You Can’t Execute Rev. King, Others, Falana Tells Ambode by xammy(m): 7:54am On Apr 21, 2017
They forfeited their stupid Human Rights the moment the sentenced was passed .... Eye for an eye.

Murder.... Is number one unacceptable crime in the world and its been like this since 800BC
Jokes EtcRe: Some Hidden Fact That Still Exists by xammy(m): 5:34pm On Apr 03, 2017
shocked

Forum GamesRe: Who Can Crack The Code And Unlock The Padlock? by xammy(m): 10:51pm On Mar 29, 2017
042
FamilyRe: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by xammy(m): 7:18pm On Mar 24, 2017
skypeme:
Dear reasonable people on Nairaland, please I need your advise

My wife whom I love so much and also loves me too is entitled to 17.2% of my monthly income, my salary is 175kpm and she take 17.2% of this amount, yet she feels very uncomfortable with it

I pay the bills, buy food stuff every month and take care of our little baby girl

My baby girl does not take any local food, she takes only fresogold, tea and pap, the cost of fresogold is very high and she can consume 4tins in a month

My wife isn't not working yet she is still schooling and I pay all her fees,

I've never complaint of my duty as the head of the family yet she still feels unsatisfied with the 17.2% I give to her

Her primary duty in the house is to take care of our baby and prepare my dinner every week days and both break fast and dinner during the weekend

Recently I told her to take our baby to the hospital for treatment, our total bill was 11,500 naira but my wife suprisinly told me that the hospital bill is 22,700 naira which I immediately wired to her account

So I called the hospital to make inquiries about the exorbitant bill then I got to know that my wife inflated the hospital bill to 22,700 naira

I confronted her and she spoke to me very rudly I was not happy about this, I kept quite and didn't say anything about it again

I am thinking I should penalize her for her rude behaviour and the dishonesty she has melted on me

Will it be advisable not to pay her her monthly salary for two months ?

Will this correct her brain to default and what would possibly be the implication of doing this ?

She has not apologised and she has not seen anything wrong so far in what she has done
i and boo will laugh over stuff like this SMH
TravelRe: How To Buy a Plane Ticket In Nigeria (by an expatriate) by xammy(m): 11:23am On Mar 06, 2017
I have been to 5 countries ..... but never on a Local flight not in this life. whats the fear of 9ja LOcal flight called?
RomanceRe: Yoruba Woman Beats Edo Girl For Sleeping With Her Husband In Abidjan (Video) by xammy(m): 3:13pm On Mar 02, 2017
abeg which laug be this?
HealthRe: Doctor Extracts Bottle Cap From Man’s Stomach With Condom (Video) by xammy(m): 11:20am On Jan 12, 2017
grin
FoodRe: Good COOK Wanted by xammy(op): 9:52pm On Dec 12, 2016
this has since be taken care of...... kindly ignore
TravelRe: What Is Your Dream Country To Travel To And Why? by xammy(m): 9:51pm On Dec 12, 2016
great wall of China - I have visited there 3 times in my dreams
PropertiesRe: Call Us For Ur Granite(directly From The Quarry),sharpsand & Sandfilling by xammy(m): 5:42am On Mar 02, 2016
Dear All,

who has patronize fendorf b4? pls advice i should go ahead.

Thank you
PropertiesRe: 200 Acres Needed In Badagry by xammy(m): 4:08am On Feb 16, 2016
purpose?
PropertiesRe: Unique Furnitures And Kitchen Accessories by xammy(m): 8:01pm On Feb 15, 2016
Contact
PropertiesRe: Latest Ceiling Designs For Nairalanders.. by xammy(m): 4:39am On Jan 24, 2016
something is in the pipeline ............ i want it classic cuz its personal
EducationRe: He Graduated 11 Years Ago With 2:2 And Just Discovered That It's A Mistake by xammy(m): 5:53pm On Oct 25, 2015
HungerBAD:
There is a reason there is a word in LAGOS called "ONE CHANCE"

And just in case he does not get the message, there is a movie called "GONE WITH THE WIND"

Meaning his result has entered ONE CHANCE which has GONE WITH THE WIND.
Get your lawyer to write the school
PropertiesRe: Any Interested Reliable Private Lenders? by xammy(m): 9:48pm On Oct 19, 2015
Onigbese tongue Alakoba grin

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