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Phate07:

@xhosachoc, lets drop all this sweet talk bull-poo.
I dont know you and you dont know me. But mate, we are on a public forum and you are on my thread. I demand full respect from you, even if it's only cos am trying to be civil in trying to answer your questions.
Am a gentleman, i dont beat ladies, but pls do not try to provoke me by trying to derail this thread again!! I hope we understand each other.

*cowering in a corner crying inconsolably*I am scared!!

ZIM DRILL:
then nigerian women would say, damn you lucky naughty person

Nothing to do with luck really just a guy showing what he is made of

Phate07:
I think i found it
First of all, love(ie the state of loving someone or being in love) does not necessarily mean or translate into happiness. Sometimes, love can make you suffer in utmost anguish esp when the object/subject of your love does not return your love.
And no, no one person is greater than the society/community in which he/she dwells. You might bend the social rules as far as they would go, but don't blatantly disregard them. They are they for a reason, to keep us in check. Cos, as a human you need certain barriers/boundaries that should not be crossed. Am not only talking about morals here, am also talking about decorum(ie polite dignified behavoir).

Or do you prefer spelling and grammer lessons in lieu of payment?erm im not doubting that you are a doctor,im just saying ,

Phate07:
I think i found it
First of all, love(ie the state of loving someone or being in love) does not necessarily mean or translate into happiness. Sometimes, love can make you suffer in utmost anguish esp when the object/subject of your love does not return your love.
And no, no one person is greater than the society/community in which he/she dwells. You might bend the social rules as far as they would go, but don't blatantly disregard them. They are they for a reason, to keep us in check. Cos, as a human you need certain barriers/boundaries that should not be crossed. Am not only talking about morals here, am also talking about decorum(ie polite dignified behavoir).

Your cheque is in the post but i wasnt entirely satisfied with your service.

my most pleasurable and titillating moments have been with a Naija dude.So gentle,spontaneous,raw and wild at the same time.You never know what to expect.Very romantic and not afraid to show the sensitive side but oozes this confidence and power ,its all so mind blowing!I have to say if all Naija dudes are like this, they certainly know how to hit the spot.Im naijaddicted and its the most undescribable feeling borderline obsession!Any psychiatrists on call on NL?

xhosachoc:
Hey doc!Is my happiness 'love' more important than social rules?

Question as requested

Phate07:

You are welcome, Comrade Secretary, but there aint any pay o.

Slave driver

Too late been hyperventilating and palpating for hours,desperate for your input and this is how you respond?Oh doctor,i give up

@post a man who can wash,cook clean .Shows a bit of vulnerability =lots of confidence and control

i no go fight o.Love your signature.

I have started an AIDS THREAD seeing you are all fixated with the subject!

criminalhivtransmission..com/2008/10/nigeria-man,

http://www.zimdiaspora.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=3815:zimbabwean-woman-arrested-for-spreading-hiv-in-canada&catid=38:travel-tips&Itemid=18

Why you got the doctors back?Are you his partner in crime? or are you a 'patient?

More like a nutcase

Doctor has to respond quickly in case patients die in his consulting rooms!i dey die o

you are a pointless doc!i knew it!Why have you evaded my question?'doctor'?

hack each other to death?sickos they are!

;d ;d ;d ;d

Its too late to talk about it.She could have been feeling like this for a long time and for her to verbalise it like that,it means she has had enough.One thing for sure,you can not make someone love you.Sorry dude,hope you find a way to sort it all out.

Hey doc!Is my happiness 'love' more important than social rules?

;DI have a confession!*wink*i am the one responsible for spreading that rumour about the weak black man.One boring weekend ,some friends and i dressed up as guys as a hen night prank and went around pretending to be naija dudes all across europe and parts of africa! i would like to apologise to men from south africa ,zim and nigeria for my actions .None of you are weak,i started the rumour and i think its very unfunny!*straight face*

lol SAgodess,i was having  a blonde moment ,hence the monologue!will translate later ,my apologies

No doubt about it she is pretty!but the weave and the topless picture kind of mess up the whole thing.just a woman point of view.

@playmode bahle a bantwana ubaphathe right joe!

;Dshe is pretty and that hideous weave does not do her justice!

;DSA is yansh capital of the world,i hope you have a yanshlicious stay!There are a lot of nice places to visit too!The eastern cape gardenroute,knysna and capetown are really amazing!You wont regret visiting!There is scuba diving,wine tours in capetown,good night life,lots of shops for retail therapy, everything is catered for!

As a woman who has seen a few guys attempt the 'cocky and funny' approach with disastrous results *we women read into everything*i would say dont buy into the hype.Simple,confident and down to earth always does the trick as you dont have to act,plus you come across as a really genuine person,and give out these vibes that you have no fear of rejection and dont need to hide behind some crap cock and bull theory!

There should be a balance between the need of being heard and and listening to your partner.Sometimes in our pursuit of being heard we cross the line between putting your point across and wanting to win the argument.I always try to put my point across with in a non threatening,humble and respectful way and 99% of the time i get cooperation.Its about building the trust and understanding and knowing your partner well and good timimg!I know this is obvious but if there is a footie match ,i do not even bother discuss anything ,no matter how important it is!

fake ?yeah right!

;DSAcan origional nyansh!The real mccoy as we xhosas say:uyawubamba umbane .Thats how we do down south!

usomizi yoh,you will have to compete for the hairdresser,lol