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Dande55:
If it were the women marrying the man, it would have been so. And Besides, Those things you wrote there were written by Your fellow men.
And you are the unscrupulous being here!!

Virtually all books in the bible were written by men. Does that invalidate the bible? U should have told me u are an idol worshipper, instead of wasting my time!

Dande55:
Why do you think you have the right to shame me, when you are totally a slut? And to even think that you lots get laid by your aunts or housemaids makes it so funny.
And I know you are going to quote that Deuteronomy, all those things affects only the father of the girl who wants to sell his child cos of marriage. I don't see how the girl is punished. Lol. And btw, I'm talking of God. Where you accused God that he said he won't punish male olosho in the bible meanwhile, he commanded us all to refrain from sin!!

Show me a passage in the bible were non male virgins were to be penalized or returned to their fathers? I thought I was talking to reasonable people, I never knew I was wasting my time on f00lish things!

Dande55:
Please shut up. God commanded all not to sin. I wonder why you wanna distort the word of God cos you wanna keep your prìck at work. Lool.

You are very f00lish for telling me to shut up
Am I the one who deflowered u?
If u were so loose not to have kept your virginity to yourself, how does that concerns me?? Am I the author of the bible? Only made reference to what the bible stated & I can't remember using foul language on anyone here. U must be very mad!

Deuteronomy 13-21
13 If a man takes a wife and, after sleeping with her, dislikes her 14 and slanders her and gives her a bad name, saying, “I married this woman, but when I approached her, I did not find proof of her virginity,” 15 then the young woman’s father and mother shall bring to the town elders at the gate proof that she was a virgin. 16 Her father will say to the elders, “I gave my daughter in marriage to this man, but he dislikes her. 17 Now he has slandered her and said, ‘I did not find your daughter to be a virgin.’ But here is the proof of my daughter’s virginity.” Then her parents shall display the cloth before the elders of the town, 18 and the elders shall take the man and punish him. 19 They shall fine him a hundred shekels[b] of silver and give them to the young woman’s father, because this man has given an Israelite virgin a bad name. She shall continue to be his wife; he must not divorce her as long as he lives.

20 If, however, the charge is true and no proof of the young woman’s virginity can be found, 21 she shall be brought to the door of her father’s house and there the men of her town shall stone her to death. She has done an outrageous thing in Israel by being promiscuous while still in her father’s house. You must purge the evil from among you.

purples25:
So a man caught taking the virginity of a woman he has not married is not punished. And a fornicating man is fine by the bible. I would very much like to see those verses that say you have no fault in the matter, or that there is no punishment for you men.

Go on, you know the bible. Provide the verses.

U people are just funny!!!
I already told u rape is one of the reason to punish a man in the bible. The issue of discuss is whether a man will be punished if he lose his virginity & not when he takes another virginity. A woman will be punished if she lose her virginity & sent back to her father's house, if the man finds out, But will a man be punished if he lose his virginity, if anyone finds out?? NO! That was what I said, don't twist my words, u can read my post again!

Rozz:
No promiscuous man deserves a virgin lady,whom are you leaving ladies you have devoured for?

Don't say that!
Every man deserves a virgin lady & this was clearly emphasized in the bible. A man has every right to return a lady if he discovers she is not a virgin after marriage & this was clearly emphasized in the bible.

Dande55:
Please, stop spreading false words against the holy bible.

Read your bible, you people won't & u call yourselves Christians?

Rozz:
I have a story to share here soon regarding all this.Its between me, my pastor and his son, plus my parents.Just waiting for the right time.

You lost your virginity to your pastor & his son?

Rozz:
You really don't read your bible well.

Prove me wrong

purples25:
So there was no punishment for males?

No!
The only punishment for male in the bible is if he is found sleeping with another man's wife or rape a woman. Not regarding virginity, only a woman is to be punished for losing her virginity!

purples25:
Men think women are the only ones to be judged. They are seriously falling into sin for making that decision.

U people don't read bible!

purples25:
Well that is not the issue. The issue is that you guys think you are better than the women who are not virgins. We give birth, menstruate and shed blood, doesn't make you less accountable. If you got used then you are the same as a female who got used. You guys have no right to go about shaming, and certainly to be so shameless as to go round making special picks and still shaming non virgin ladies in the process.

Yes the bold is the bitter truth!
A non male virgin & non female virgin are not the same & this was clearly stated in the bible. A man can return a woman to her father's house if he discovers she is not a virgin after sleeping with her & the bible clearly stated she will be stoned to death, that was how far the bible emphasized on female virginity. As far as death

purples25:
The fact that one can be proven and one 'cant' does not diminish the emphasis on virtue God has given to both genders. The rules still stand and we are equal under religion.

We are equal, but that does not negate our distinct biological make, does it?? Can a man give birth to a baby because we are equal??

Dande55:
See this one. Abraham regretted his actions and sent away the woman and his son. And Yes, it was Sarah that begged him. He never cheated on his wife. Read your bible well.
God never condoned cheating, he serves them their right. God killed the child David had, He starved for seven days pleading for mercy, after commuting murder and adultery. Read your bible ooo.
Solomon, chased those his wives and concubine and upon that, God still served him his own punishment. It never stopped in chasing away those his sex mates.
You lots just wanna use fornicators and adulterers as your shield.
Never have we seen you lots compare yourselves with the likes of Paul, Joshua, Aaron, Etc. Both, always quick to justify your unreasonable acts with adulterous being in the bible, the good news is that, they were all served their dosage of medicine.

See the mistake Abraham made by listening to his wife, we are all suffering from it till today.

What are u saying?
Haven't u see people who married one wife regret their action? Don't u see divorce cases everyday? My question to u is a lot of men married more than one wife in the bible & I made reference to Abraham even sleeping with his concubine, you are quoting me saying Abraham regretted his actions?? How many women did same in the bible?? As regards mistake, if u are not careful with women, u are sure to make mistake, Adam made a mistake because of Eve, same happened to Abraham & Solomon & a lot of men are still making mistakes today because of women, so it didn't start with Abraham & will not end with him!

purples25:
In some parts of the Quran it is stated that the virtuous woman is for the virtuous man, and the promiscuous man should be matched to his type. I'm not a very religious person, but i know, i read this as a child when i liked to read those hadith and translated versions.

Men have decieved themselves so much that the no longer know that the holy books berated both genders. They even throw away those proofs and start using nature to defend themselves. One thing is that on judgmental day people will not be punished according to gender. Men of this world discard the rules meant for them and hound women with their own. When a woman wants to remain chaste, men would not let her be, but insult her when the deed is done. Well, we shall all pay for our sins. God have mercy.

You women are not getting it.
It is only natural to match white with white & black with black. It is natural to match a good man with a good woman, a virgin man with a virgin woman, it is logical that way. But this doesn't change the way God & nature has designed the biological make of both gender & this apply to their virginity. One can be proven naturally & physically & the other can't, that bespeaks emphasis!

Dande55:
Please, stop this prevarications.
Abraham did it with the consent of his wife, not cos he wanted to do it willingly. His wife begged him and pleaded, and we all know the result of that single act now.
You know what happened to David after his actions, lool.
Abi Solomon. So you see, no king whatsoever, that tried to betray God and his manhood in the bible was spared. Stop reading the bible where it only suit your narratives. There's punishment for those that went against the commandments.

You need to read your bible again, u have little knowledge of it.
Whether Abraham consented or not, what difference does it make??
God didn't purnish David because he slept with the woman, he punished him because he killed the woman husband! God punished David for murder, read your bible.
What happened to Solomon, is what happened to men who weren't careful with women, it has nothing to do with God! U need to read your bible!

Rozz:
God emphasized more? smh, don't twist the word of God,wherever God talks about virginity was for both men and women.God is always fair in all his books

If God emphasized on the beauty of a woman than a man, does that make him unfair? I never said God is unfair, both female & male have distinct nature, from voice to shape to a lot, does that make God unfair? You female experience menstruation, men don't, does that make God unfair? You people make me laugh!

Dande55:
What do you mean by this? When God said we shoukdnt fornicate, did he exclude your gender? Even the kings that strayed received their punishments. Don't justify your oloshoism abeg.

God do not encourage us to fornicate.
But a lot of men married more than one wife in the bible & were still very close friends of God! Even Abraham fornicated with one of his concubine that gave birth to Ishmael. How many women did same in the bible? Right from creation God has already created a difference between a man & a woman biological make & this reflected in the bible. What a man can do biologically varies from what a woman can do & this also apply to male & female virginity, except u choose not to tell yourself the truth! But trust me, it will change nothing. A female can never be same with male biologically!

Grandamante:
There is nothing like male virginity.

If male to be virgin is necessary nature would have made a male version of hymen(hi men). So u see, u issue should not be with men, it's with nature. U ve to ask urself, why did nature made it in such a way that something would burst and a girl would bleed when she has sex for the first time and for boys, nothing?

Nature must be a male-chauvinistic pig.

Exactly @bold

Rozz:
The male chauvinists are headstrong with the fact that his virginity cannot be tested and proved but sadly for the women it can be proved. Medical science must discover a method to test and prove men's virginity too. Only then will this victimisation of women end.Female virginity is equally as important as male virginity.A malewhore deserves a femalewhore.No malewhore has the right to want a female virgin.

The bold is not true!
The biological make of a woman already bespeaks God emphasized more on female virginity. The hymen & the blood in the deflowering process of a woman signifies a lot!

AdaOgwashi:
I'm not an impostor

Get that?

I know!
Just joking anyways

iykbethany:
I have just 3k and I want to cook soup that will last at least one week for a family of 12, that is me, my wife and our 10 children. My wife is 8 months pregnant and I don't want to disturb her. Please recommend the cheapest soup for a family of 12. Thanks

I honestly think op is a troll with the bold statement!

AdaOgwashi:
Hmm

U didn't remain ada ogwashi today!
I catch u!

@ sexylassie2 your comments on this thread are very commendable so far & I have liked all of them. I really can't believe what I am reading on this thread, it happened in abuja. When I first watched that video, I never thought even one person will defend that lady for what she did. Running a vehicle with someone on the bonnet is evil! Only a wicked person can do such & to see the number of people defending her on this thread goes a long way to show this country is hopeless & irredeemable! We have lost conscience & humanity. Reason nothing is working in this country! We are very lawless people! I will never join anyone to blame buhari henceforth with what I have seen here today. Even if Trump should rule Nigeria, nothing will ever get better because of our heartless nature!

Bola146:
I don't know why I can't base in Lagos Everything na wahala.. Transportation wahala! House rent wahala!!

Honestly the struggle in Lagos is just too much, unless u are very wealthy to go to the high brow areas. Even as a middle class doing well, u can't enjoy your money in peace.

AkeNathan:
I swear people wey dey eat garri every time of the day no suppose dey come this thread

Bros wetin we go do na

@ radautoworks God bless u for your kind heart!

leosahm:
dnt mind him.... I think this guy has brain in his head.... How will he playing with GOD, by mentioning PRAYER.... ..... I learnt yoruba people dont have sense..... I told him if e pain am, make him cum beat me 4 my huz....
i dy stay #2 asim ikang street, big qua town, calabar.......

Honestly
Many of these so called Christians don't fear God! They just go to church & pray for formality. How can an unmarried man be mentioning sex & prayer in the same statement?

dairykidd:
Bro we are going thru the exact same things.. I'm tired of the sex and the burden too. I cherish my private time in prayers when things are getting out of hand but this girl no dey let me focus.. So i have stopped touching her and this morning she complained. Because she went searching for apartment and was staying at her friends place which is closer to the location since Sunday. She came last night i just ignore her n now she no let me know peace. That i don't miss her, i have been carrying other girls.. I just told her this morning no more sex for the next 7 days and i do pray whether she's around or not. Lemme see how she will cope because me done taya honestly.... mind u this babe no mind everyday fvcking and I'm not talking 10 mins ooo real one where she would cum multiple times otherwise i no go rest.. I feel used and tired

Just try the no sex thing but do not fight with her... My own go soon leave my neck.. I'm only just leaving her because she dey search for apartment too and some of her things are here.

Make una dey fear God small na!
What is sex & prayer doing in the same statement as an unmarried man??
This is the reason we have so much evil in Nigeria, despite the number of churches! U people are hypocrites!

hresso:
Breakfast

Lol

fatymore:
Another 14days.


I.pray we don't do bambiala at the end of the day.

First time I would listen to His Excellency...

At first I could not hear what he was saying, his voice was somehow coarse.

I got acclimatised at the end


Stay Safe
Stay at home
StayAwake

Tah ! @bold
U wey get money plenty everywhere

Chidonsky:
Onions yam stew

I love this food!

Nnemuka:
Are you a mechanical engineer?

Lols