₦airaland Forum

Theundertaker:
rev fathers r commited to Christ and want nothing to do with women ,, but normal people on the street need women acceptance to feel like a man , it’s reality, nothing to argue . Wrong orientation to you is the best orientation I hv ever had , made me more devoted to my hustle, knowing fully well I can Bleep any woman of my choice. Women are the greatest motivation to making money . My father was the best advicer I hv ever had!! Which is the exact way I will train my male kids..

Theundertaker:
you will if you try meeting other women , till u get a woman who value you, for a lady, she doesn’t need to make much effort , but for a guy , if u don’t supress ur inferiority complex, and go out there , u will never get a woman. And women acceptance is very important for Everyman ,

back then, my dad use to give money to give girls , I will be so down and depressed and he would ask my problem, when I tell him, he would encourage me not to give up, give me money , buy me card to call the girl , and guess what I had my first girl friend at ur age n he was so proud . until u get a woman u never really feel like a man , don’t give up

Houseofglam7:

Pruwa:
wike ehnnnm
that man nor dey joke at all
in my state they are quarantining amaljiri instead of sending them back asap
three don test positive sef
chai...corobaby has opened our eyes to many things

Ejima1:
Prayer is also essential

UjuJoan2:
5 Million won't even build that house.

That woman has not said where she got the money from.

Plead:
Only senseless people generalize.

Every man indeed.

cococandy:
Bet he wouldn’t be crying if it was a third son.

People pretend like malignant misogyny isn’t a bane of everyday life in this society but it is. Whatever encourages the belittling of the feminine gender is part of the culprit and needs to be moved back into the past so we can progress like a civilized society that we are supposed to be.

Including but limited to pressuring people to favor male children.

Personal Preference is not the same thing.

UjuJoan2:
Do you think women with girls don't also want boys? I mean if we all could choose I bet we will all go for both gender. But that's the thing, it's not usually up to us to decide. So why make someone feel guilty about something that is out of their control?

Of course men want sons more so they can parade them as their heirs and somehow satisfy some kind of patriarchal need. Women probably don't really care that much, because all they need is a child to nurture, not some heir.

The fact that women will always be seen as second class citizens next to men doesn't always make it easy. No matter how accomplished a woman is, it somehow doesn't matter so much because she is not a man. That's why, despite their deep racism, US will prefer a male President than a female one, even of he is black or crazy. But we have seen that women who make it to leadership positions often do better than their male counterparts, but that doesn't even matter too. The idea that a woman is in charge is often emasculating for you men, so you never want to see that happen.

So bottom line is that men want sons to feed their ego, nothing more. And honestly, if a man needs a son to make himself feel good, then he wasn't really much of a man to begin with.

Rozz:
You are on point but an Igbo man will not understand and see reasons why a girl child is equally as important as a male child.

bukatyne:
Point out late Dora Akunyili, Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala, Omotola Jalade Ekeinde, Folorunsho Alakija, Ibunkun Awosika etc etc that have done great things and are still doing great things.

bukatyne:
Or is his pain the fact that your finances would be stretched and he is not getting his male child?

niyifour:
I'm not adding this year 2020 to my age i did not use it.
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Eulalia:
I knew it will be northerners.

nitigriti:
Something weird happened today at work. My boss calls me and says,
"Deji, please prepare the payroll for April; let's pay the staff their salary."

I was dumbfounded for a few seconds. My boss notices that I'm acting confused. He asks me what's wrong.

Me: "Sir, we are not paying April salary. The business didn't open. No member of staff came to work."

My boss stared at me, not believing himself. "Are you sure, Deji?"

Me: "Very sure, sir."

Did I do wrong? Did I not do wrong?

Babadee1900:
Situation Report from my side.

Current location: Oniru (Very dry)
I have done 4 trips so far.

LCC is not collecting toll but Bolt is adding it to the fare.

Banks are crowded. There’s nothing like social distancing at GTB Admiratly.

Lekki-Epe Exp is free of traffic.

One rider was trying to hold a conversation even with her face mask on. I was only nodding to everything she was saying till she kept quiet.

Seetto:
You want them to test positive

Ghost1994:
Baba just continue your sleep oh.
Since 6.23am wey I Dey online on both apps, na just 1 request I get from bolt and the rider cancel immediately maybe the rider wan test am.

Location YABA

Blossomfirst:
Woman power! We rule

Allaboutkatiee:
Sorry do I know you?

Rozz:
fake pastor

Allaboutkatiee:
1.yes
2.both parties
3.probably
4.yet to find out
5.born on afor.

izzou:
[color=royalblue]If you give money to a beggar on the street, would you say you're showing off?
After all, there's someone in your extended family that you can recharge their phone with #100

It is good to give, and help people. My only issue is with the way Nigerians accept and handle it. And that's why I don't buy the idea anymore

Poor people, most times can be ungrateful. They show this ungratefulness either by trying to cheat you or the process, steal from you, or attack you.
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NextD18:
You are very wise and on point.

Guess what? During those times these less privileged are suffering from 10k sickness, their siblings are on social media doing giveaway and chasing clout just to be seen as a generous person by strangers that truly doesn't give a fvck about them.

People are just too stupiid.

MorningStar233:
Must your relatives help u

izzou:
[color=royalblue]I do not believe and subscribe to giveaways anymore

If they recipients won't try to scam you, they'll be very ungrateful in the end

Look for someone in your family tree. If everyone in your family don belle full, walk downstairs to your gateman and drivers and bless their lives

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NextD18:
Behind everyone doing giveaway, there's this a friend on his/her contact list who's desperately in need of help. There's this family member, either from the mother's side or father's side who's in need and perishing looking for help.

But NO! They'll not help those needy family members, but will prefer to come to the public, chase clout with the less privileged and snap pictures or go to social media, chase clout, buy fake love to look generous.