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Sirseedorf:
I feel weak, terrible and hopeless. I lost my job today due to management change of system, I never saw it coming, in fact it came as a shock to me. Am just confused on what to do next, I have huge responsibility ahead of me, even now, I have to find something doing or else negative thought and depression will kill me faster than gunshots. I can't cry out physically but inside I feel pain as if a knife as pierce my heart, my self esteem is weak, my life is heading on a rock, I don't bet, never drink nor womanize, I just want a better life for myself, but it seems better life might never be achieved while still leaving with joblessness and failure status.
Help me nairalander, I don't know what might become of me in the next few days or weeks.

Awwwwn so sorry about this, I wish I could give you a hug like this, don't give up spread your cv out, or start a business self if you love doing one, don't worry God will uplift you again.. Also don't forget to give him one hour of praise everyday if you are Christian I see him turning your situation around. See you at the top in no time �

I think you should move to sagamu, it's an industrial area, so elites would be much there
Akure is also a great option, I would have said Ibadan, but considering the fact you don't like noise, you might rent a space in the GRA sha..

Hey hi, I know how you feel, but just take a chill pill, first I would advice you inform her parents of these developments so they could talk to her.. And yh someone was right when he said she and the guy might not be chatting, there is something I would like you to know about ladies, one way to get to a lady heart is attention, which is not by chatting, its by constant calls till she grows very comfortable ,and no call from you in a day could make her heart beat faster.. But I am not saying she is cheating please note.... Talk to her and let her know with the way things are going you might be forced to call off the engagement, ask her would she be comfortable if you are also calling a girl like that?
Lastly, don't answer those that said you should call the guy, he is not your problem, if your babe is loose to allow him, he is enjoying himself.. Work on your babe.

What I don't understand is, during NYSC did she not live alone?
Or let me address this publicly, during Nysc most people rent a space and live there for a year, so what's the difference now??
Or if she got a job in another state and they don't have relatives there, will they tell her not to accept the job?
Please let's be realistic, even if you stay for house you can still do your shits mehn...
All I am after is can she take care of herself?
And she works in a bank,so that's fine.. Let her live alone for her sanity biko...

Am I the only one seeing 4 kids in 6 years, azzhow?

Wise words #ENDSARS

Hi i am interested

UDUJ:
Just imagine the type of advice you are giving the lady? So she should start cheating? Are you sane?

I wonder o, in summary many are mad, few are roaming... You know you don't have to talk if you won't say rational things mtchew, ma"am pls don't listen to all advices o

[quote author=Seuntek post=89758636]Good afternoon fellow nairalanders. Please advice me a viable business i can start with 300k. I am a private school teacher and I'm not ready to quit now until my business can sustain me. I work 7 to 5pm.






Why not go into selling textbooks in your primary school? Just partner with the owner of the school and you will be making your gain...

Whao that's impressive, kudos to the government...


Anyway Get lands @ affordable prices. Locations like ibeju lekki, forthright gardens Estate etc.
Contact me 08063321791 or send an email estheradeniyi04@gmail.com.

Remember you are not too young to have an investment, lands are great assets because they appreciate over time.

After 12 years that's sheer wickedness.


Anyway Get lands @ affordable prices. Locations like ibeju lekki, forthright gardens Estate etc.
Contact me 08063321791 or send an email estheradeniyi04@gmail.com.

Remember you are not too young to have an investment, lands are great assets because they appreciate over time.

slyfox35:
Thanks for this,my thoughts exactly, but I do not know how to tell him to back off,should I remind of him of what he did?

Nah you don't have to, bye gone is bye gone, u can allow him come over but for 24 hrs max, m sure he is shocked that u made it and he is coming to confirm it, friends like that could do irrational things outta jealousy.. Still be on hi hi terms with him, if he asks something n its within ur power, you could assist, am sure if he didn't make you go tru all this, maybe u would still be eating from his table, so consider his actions as a push to ur success.. Remember life is too short to be creating enemies.. Be cool with him even if u guys can't be close. And watch what you say around him.... Take care

funkmrflexx:
We Have Been Dating For 1 Year and 6 months now. I’ve met her parents, we wanted to get married last year but her dad told me to wait till she finishes school which is supposed to be next year. I’m 25 years old and she’s 22 .

I live alone in the city while my mom lives in the village. My younger sister who I’m sponsoring through school sometimes comes to my place during holidays and weekends. My girlfriend practically lives with me because she comes from a type of an Abusive family. So she lives with me and I even assist her with school fees and house rents sometimes. I’ve spent even more than her father for her school.

Everyone In my family knows her and she’s a very wonderful girl. Typical wife material. She supports me every time even when I’m broke. I’m not the type of guy that dates a lot of girls . I don’t even cheat on her. Since I met her I’ve done away with a lot of ladies. I’m 100% committed to the relationship

But the problem is that she Has very bad anger issues. I mean she can destroy your property when she’s angry and I’m the quiet type. I don’t like hitting a lady execpt once in a while a general brain resetting slap. When she starts she doesn’t listen to anyone. Not me, not even her parents. So anytime she’s angry like this I will just find a way to make her laugh. Both of you can just be eating and she will get angry if you ate the fleshy part of the meat and left oily part for her (we have quarreled because of that I mean serious quarrel) . Sometimes I get tired of the whole situation. At the end even when she’s wrong I’ll let her for peace to reign. So I try to manage the anger at home so it shouldn’t go out

So we went to visit my mom in the yesterday. Because of curfew we slept over. So my mom bought us mangos this morning and told us to carry.

My girlfriend then said she doesn’t like mango that if I want to eat my mango I should carry it myself. Then my mom (she is the type that always shouts at every body. The real wahala woman) told her that if she can’t carry the mango then she should just put it on my head for me to carry na (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na).

That was the only thing my mom said. Then she sparked. Started shouting at my mom. That she should stop talking to her like that, that she doesn’t like it. In fact she’s going home. So she carried her bag and started going home. Every one in the compound started saying it’s ok (Na dat thing why dem tell u Dey make u Dey vex so) she was still shouting. I was even try to calm her down but no way. She was still shouting. Even my sister who had never seen her angry before became angry (na so you b? She said). I was really disappointed In her

The issue is what even made me angry is how she reacted. If she didn’t like what my mom said made her angry. At least she should have waited till we got home (this was the first time we were both sleeping over) then she would tell me. Or she could have called my sister and told her what my mom said. After all the fracas, she went inside the room till we left. I just told everybody to just leave her.

So when we got home I told her what she did was wrong that she shouldn’t have reacted like that. Na there war start. She started yelling and shouting at me that if my mom talks to everyone like that she won’t take it (my plan was to tell her that she should apologize to her. Because my mom already apologized that she won’t talk to her again like that. Which I know she will o . So we can just forget about the issue. But she never accepts she’s wrong ) She said I took her to my village to intimidate her in front of my family people, I was really angry and called her uncle and told him what happened. He said there was nothing wrong with what my mom told her (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) and that he would talk to her .

I even scolded my mom before I left that I didn’t like what she said what she did that’s she was just causing issue. My girlfriend said when my mom said the word (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) that I should have immediately rebuked my mom. But me sef no see anything wrong with what my mom said( If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

I just Dey follow her uncle advise and leave her be until she calms down and I talk to her

So my people what’s offensive in this word? If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

But this her attitude don tire me. Break up is not on the card for me at least not yet. She always thinks that they are other guys out there because she has a lot of toasters but I know they can’t do quarter of what I’m doing for her. In this modern time it’s difficult to see a guy who will allow his girlfriend stay with him thereby losing his freedom to do certain things. A guy who doesn’t cheat, a guy who takes care of her does everything for her .

I just think the things she went through in her family is affecting her physiological. And sometimes when I think about leaving her I feel pity because she can’t go back to her parents house.

I am actually a lady and I must say this is very bad on your gf part, shouting on your mother in public at that and everyone is calming her is the height of it ,I can't stand my bf insulting my sibling let alone my mother... I feel she really needs to go 4 anger management classes ,its not her fault, she grew up in an abusive home. And you scolding ur mom is wrong, even if she is d worst illiterate on earth, don't not to talk of u did it because of a girl. But if she is not willing to see a therapist ,work on her anger, u are in a risky relationship I hope u rem the story of Maryam who stabbed her husband in a rage. Take care.

millions is 7 figures actually.
100k plus is the fees
I already said I went into online stuffs coz of it. I wouldn't want to go into details

I don't think you should send her away,you guys have come a long way,why not give her money to start a business, could be online..so she too can start making money and supporting her family...she is a lady,so she should know the business to do.

Paroh:
I was actually in tears until I saw this. Somehow the tears dried up immediately and I immediately got credit alert from GTB. And I don't have a GTB account. Thank you Seun. Thank you NL.







Meanwhile see my signature. Support my hustle.

Please which news?

decatalyst:
Nairaland ladies/feminist would never do this because of their pride.


So, Shiloh becomes their natural habitat.

Okay, you are very handsome...

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there's a 'delete message' feature on whatsapp,use it

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So you don't know there is something called anti-revoke on GB WhatsApp, if you try deleting a msg, I would be notified and I would still be able to read the msg broz..



I can relate dear, just explain things, mine was sending a dirty gist bout one toaster like that to my bf instead of my bestie... �

tossie101:
Yoruba ladies are senseless.
They commit suicide on everything.
No wonder they are called afonjas .

Rest in pieces u died foolishly
I cant take my own life because of some stupid love.

And you feel you have spoken with sense oo!!!
Retarded fellow

Its well..


Every pain is a blessing in disguise...
God bless your family

Barondenigeria:
By Doris Esa

The driver, who was wounded in the attack that led to the killing of former Chief of Defence Staff (CDS), Air Chief Marshal Alex Badeh, is alive and recuperating as investigation into the incident is substantially progressing.

” ….. the driver is alive and recuperating extremely well at one of our Nigeria Air Froce Hospitals,’’ the Director of Public Relations and Information of Nigeria Air Force (NAF), Air Commodore Ibikunle Daramola, confirmed.

Daramola said some of the reports erroneously stated that the driver of the late former CDS, who was also shot during the incident, was dead.

He appealed to those spreading misinformation about the unfortunate incident that led to the death of Badeh to stop.

He said spreading of erroneous reports and comments in the media on the incident could have adverse effects on the conduct of ongoing operations.

He noted that other reports alleged that adequate security was not provided for the deceased Air Chief Marshal.

The NAF stated that nothing could be further from the truth.

” Air Chief Marshal Badeh has always been provided with the full complement of personal staff and security personnel commensurate with his status as a former Chief of the Air Staff (CAS), CDS and a 4-star general in the Armed Forces of Nigeria,” he said.

NAF stated that substantial progress had already been made in the investigation and details would be communicated at the appropriate time.

” As mentioned by the CAS, Air Marshal Sadique Abubakar, on Dec. 19, the NAF is working closely with other relevant security agencies to determine the circumstances surrounding the death of the former CDS.

“This is with a view to ensuring that the perpetrators of the heinous act are brought to justice.

” Substantial progress has already been made in the ongoing investigation and details would be communicated at the appropriate time.

” The NAF wishes to request that the spreading of misinformation about the incident should stop forthwith as this could have adverse effects on the conduct of ongoing operations,” NAF stated.

The news agency of Nigeria confirmed Badeh died from gunshot injuries sustained when his vehicle was attacked while returning from his farm on Abuja-Keffi road on Tuesday.

https://insiderpostonline./2018/12/21/conspiracy-driver-of-slain-ex-defense-chief-alive-investigations-underway/

I just hope the driver is fully guarded with securities, so they won't come back to finish their uncompleted job...
Must they even announce he is alive?? I just wonder when Nigeria forces would be smart in handling cases like the whites...

GBOKASINCHA:
Chioma go cry oooo make una stop an

As in this week has just been full of davido shits.....

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Nawa sha, We still need presidents like Obasanjo who killed Eedris career...