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Davidairmarshal: and what makes you think she is not in the senior category of staffs?

She is not an ED, I can tell you that for free. However, I won't respond anymore so that you won't say I am "jealous".

Davidairmarshal: she is not paying. for it. anytime she quits the bank job. she she has to leave the apartment. why are you so jelous. of the promotion?

I am not jealous. Just that the story is quite frankly, not true. Maybe that's the line she fed her family but there is no official accommodation for any category of bank worker except very senior categories. Even those ones are usually monetized and given to the person as a benefit.

Davidairmarshal: its for the bank and not for dash. lady

Exactly my point. No bank gives out apartments for renting by staff except she is now an ED.

Any which way, it's none of my business. Wish you success.

Which bank gives apartments? Hmmmm. Abi runs don mature?

He doesn't want to marry you but doesn't know how to say so.

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Please, put some clothes on the baby. I want to keep him.

Feel like giving him a very very big hug and never letting him go.

My sister has been looking for a child for the past 3 years, only miscarriages.

God why?!!!!!

Does he really know the danger involved? My 2 year old likes to carry our dog and the dog can be dangerous. He has no fear of the dog because he does not know any better. Doesn't mean I let him do it. They should put the child in protective custody away from his parents. What nonsense.

ministerblessed: So d cassava dt we av been eating for ages is now poisonous,dt one b say everybody for 9ja villages go don peme na!!!!! Smetimes reading all dse science crap can make one go mad. Wot u dnt knw will not kill u.my own view.

It hasalways been poisonous. When you read of a family of 5 dying after eating a meal of garri, what do you think? Even in the village, they will tell you that you have to prepare the cassava very well if not it can kill. Yet you will just keep yapping about what you do not know about.

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Not always. They can be helpful and also be company.

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Just to clarify, he had a good job before but he just got a better one. A really good one.

I am back again after a long silence. I need mature advice please not abuse.

I resigned my bank job when i was pregnant because it was really stressing me and it landed me in the hospital with a threatened miscarriage. My husband really encouraged me and all. Now, my baby is over a year and i want to resume but my husband will not let me. Anytime, i bring up the issue, he tells me to relax and wait for the baby to grow up. I was getting a little anxious so i sent out my cv and went for some tests and all. I told my husband but he never made it seem like he was not in support. I just got a job offer with a big consulting firm and i was over the moon. I told him and that was were the katakata take happen.

He was so angry at my contemplating leaving my baby to work. I had never seen him so angry. He kept asking who i wanted to train my child, whether an illiterate nanny or half baked creche was going to do it for me. I had not realised the extent because he was still speaking gently and i kinda jokingly asked him to resign his job and take care of the baby.

After a really long and emotional argument, he promised to look after everything i want and be there for me and the kids promising me heaven and earth. I am so sad. Never in a million years did i think i will be one of them housewives that i always made fun of. Truly, this period i have been without work, he has given me and the baby more than i ask for. Even paid for us to go to US, etc. He just got a very good paying job 6 months ago and maybe it is fueling this his desire. His mum retired to look after the kids when they were young so he wants me to do the same.

Any advice? JennyK, please be nice to me. Thanks.

At least put up Gen Buhari's name on d poll as he was nominated. He is my winner sha.

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Multiple personality disorder.

That i have 20 posts does not mean i have not been on Nairaland for a while actually since 2009. I used to browse through as a guest. I decided to create a username when i needed some answers. At least, i don't have to post thrash like some people here.

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lolz

Of course your hatchet job is done. Anumanu.

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Now u have turned the thread to "let me bash Mukina today". You see how your plans are being revealed? I wonder how any body will want to be your friend after this stunt. Next thing u will splash the picture of the pink car your boyfriend bought for you then turn around and say you want to sell it because he does not have money for rent.

Grow up girl and face the real world. You are not that important neither is your on again off again boyfriend. Do all of us a favour and stick to your moderating job on that forum and leave us alone.

Ooh every one is out to get me, they hate me cause i am not African and they call me Chinko. Wake up and smell the roses little girl.

See who is Oloshi. U lied against your"friend", you insulted her and splashed her name round like someone who is not trustworthy and u turn around and say you are being victimized. Who is the victim here? I have been following your posts and i have to admit you are a very nasty human being. U lie and pretend and behave like you're so perfect but you are the biggest con on Nland.

Why should Mukina clean up your mess? U started the thread, go ahead and end it and not call people names. Why didn't u go to afro wall where you are a moderator and spew your vile rubbish? Common 50rm is what u used to open a thread against someone and tarnish the person's image.

However, reading through everything that has been posted here, i think Gabry your full of poo. U already told her to keep the money if she decided not to pay back so why are u making it an issue?

U can see how how u have also tainted your bf's relationship with his friend. Thought u didn'twant your bf to know, now the whole world plus your bf knows. SMH.

Finally, I got some answers. Seems like he could be reacting to some of the food i eat especially the proteins. I have to stop all diary products for a week and see if it helps the gas. Then slowly re-introduce them one by one to see which one is causing the excess gas.

Seems like the black circles under his eyes are my fault. When he wakes in the afternoon, he usually stays awake till 7pm when i bathe him and then he sleeps. The doctor said he is too young to be awake that long so he needs extra help to sleep than at night. Usually he drops off when i breastfeed him and rock him gently. When he stopped falling off to sleep that way in the afternoon, i Thought he was ready to stay awake and play. So yesterday, i wore him in a baby sling and went about my day. He slept and woke up several times and this morning, the circles are almost gone. Ignorance is a killer.

Thanks guys for your help. P.S he sleeps in his cot which is beside my bed.

He is almost 2 months. He already has a set routine which i started a month back. I bathe him at 7 morning and evening. He wakes up for it and is awake throughout. He sleeps without fuss and wakes every 2 hours 2 feed. Except in d afternoons when he stays awake longer and eats more. However, when he sleeps, he has so much gas. Everything I do disturbs the sleep more because he wakes and refuses to go back to sleep. He keeps throwing up the gripe water so i stopped giving it to him.

Last night was really bad. I stayed up all night with him on my knees to relieve the gas. I am on my way to the hospital now. Hope I get real advice not their generic, "it will pass". Wish me luck.

Thanks guys for your responses. I have tried all your suggestions. I don't expect him to sleep all through the night. He wakes every 2 hrs to feed and I don't mind at all. My problem is that I want him to get quality sleep. Once he lays down, he will start twisting and turning and arching his back. He then wakes with black bags under his eyes like he didn't sleep well. I want 2 improve the quality not the length of his sleep. Anymore ideas?