Family › Re: If You Are Struggling So Hard And Money Hasn't Come, Get Married by yemi1504: 4:15pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
Apus: Which key?
Shey d ones wey Yahoo boys don lick finish. You better don't try it, except you are led, else your own poverty go tie wrapper & gele. Abi o! |
Politics › Re: Names Of 26 Travellers Killed In Jos North, 34 Others Still Missing by yemi1504: 4:12pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
bjtinz: However is this not the same governor that was allegedly sleeping when some one elders came to see him few days ago when indigenes were being slaughtered?
So he's suddenly woken up The worst governor Plateau State have and is not even close! Guy is just a Fulani stooge SMH. |
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Sports › Re: Camavinga Or Ndidi: Which Player Should Manchester United Sign? by yemi1504: 2:12pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
Roman7: I swear man. So fuckin annoying I can't imagine we'd play this season with Fred and McTominay as our DM.,.when other teams are signing players they really need. The annoying one is seeing Chelsea finally fixing their problem areas in defense and attack by the potential signings of Kounde and Lukaku. Don't let us even talk of Man City, they now have two creative midfielders instead of one and are also on the way to getting a clinical striker. Quite unfair in my opinion. But that is what happens when you have stingy, greedy owners who are not ready to invest much in the team and are also not ready to sell it to those owners who can. |
Sports › Re: Camavinga Or Ndidi: Which Player Should Manchester United Sign? by yemi1504: 2:07pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
JohnnyBling: Well well well, with all due respect to Mr. Camavinga we all know that Ndidi is arguably the second best CDM in the world or let's just say the premier league and that's glaring for all to see. I'll prefer Ndidi because he's very composed on the ball, knows how to make a clean tackle, good in aerial duels and has a very decent pass range/accuracy. In conclusion he might as well just be the missing link in the puzzle that'd propel united to a 21st League title, much much better than the duo of McFred. And with defenders in Maguire and Varane who are poor at tackling, Ndidi is therefore sorely needed! The interceptions are even now a boon to stop those counterattacks that Man United also concede rubbish goals from. |
Sports › Re: Camavinga Or Ndidi: Which Player Should Manchester United Sign? by yemi1504: 2:04pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
alfredilly: Non of Ndid or Carvaninga.
Declan Rice is the best for Manchester united Overrated! 100 million+ pounds for a less than 2 tackles per game player in Rice where you can get Ndidi for less than half the price! |
Sports › Re: Camavinga Or Ndidi: Which Player Should Manchester United Sign? by yemi1504: 1:58pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
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Sports › Re: Camavinga Or Ndidi: Which Player Should Manchester United Sign? by yemi1504: 1:55pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
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Family › Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by yemi1504: 10:06pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
Lexusgs430: I hope you have reminded your aunty, what she said and did to ?....... 
And how she equates this request vs her actions ....... That is what he should do! Remind her of her wickedness but go ahead to help her son just to prick her conscience if she ever has one and to show you will never be like her in behavior. I do that sometimes and it is a way to go in my opinion. |
Family › Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by yemi1504: 10:00pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
Komu1048: Immediately I saw the thread I know it’s Yorubas, they will never help not the one I come from. But Igbos r exceptionally good to each other. That’s why they grow together You even had to mention the tribe! I am from that tribe and you couldn't be far from the truth. If I were Igbo, I will be way ahead in my career by now because I am not lazy, I have just not seen opportunities! |
Family › Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by yemi1504: 9:58pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
oliverano: You've made lots of valid points and yes you're right about a lot of things.
Education is very important here.
I don't give people money as a way of help.
That's not to say I won't assist you if the need is urgent with raw cash.
here's the thing. You know your family and you'll know who is doing well and who's not.
What I do, because I try to be very anonymous. I send a friend, or a delegate.
Tell so so person to go learn how to repair a car, the cost is on me etc
or tell xyz to go to abc and tender this letter, he'll be given a keke to drive and play back at a very low rate. We must make him pay back so he doesn't become unserious
I know i can't help every body but....
I'll help as far as I live and as far as I can!!! As long as you are teaching people to fish, that is still right in my books! A better way to offer help! |
Family › Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by yemi1504: 9:55pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
labani06: Live Is Based On Microcosm What Happen In Side Our Homes Is Just A Fractal Form Of The Whole Country Almost Everyone Is Selfish That Is WHY Nigeria Is Failing You can say that again! |
Family › Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by yemi1504: 9:54pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
Lamasta: If God blesses you remember to help your struggling family members it will take nothing from You and at the end you will realize that its actually yourself you helped in the long run. Do they ever remember that! My dad's benevolence when I was young to a non-family member is the reason I am a graduate today. |
Family › Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by yemi1504: 9:51pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
aysnoopy: Damnnn nigga, u are fucking right. I've 8 siblings from my father side and 1 sibling from my mother side (I'm d last born of them all). Damnnn, those siblings from my father side are fucking useless. No help from them no matter how little it is, but my one and only sister from my mother side is like my hunchback. She got my back everytime. I pray to be rich so that my sister will never lack for a sec. Love u Adenike Also, the uncles from the father's sides are much more wealthy than the ones from the other side but they never help whether they were helped or not! |
Family › Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by yemi1504: 9:48pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
oliverano: How to make money and be independent should be taught in school not this....
HELP OTHERS IF YOU CAN, FAMILY MEMBERS OR NOT!!!
Before you say we're saying same thing, I think we're not.
My dad died when I was in ss2, my mum was relatively young and was just a seamstress. in fact when my dad died, my mum became sick.
I thank God for my family members, it was just unbelievable. Even till today I still can't believe such acts of generosity because it's rare in Africa.
After sec school I was sent abroad to study. a family member did that for me.
If I wasn't helped by a family member, I would have been in prison by now or begging for food.
I've in turn helped others in my family first. The aim is to establish a foundation where a lot of less privileged will be assisted.
I believe in true religion. Help others but if you can, start from your family because at the end of the day family is still were you end up!!!. See a good story from African communal living! I can guess your tribe is not the S0phisticated tribe, they never do such! |
Family › Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by yemi1504: 9:44pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
Skyview01: I stopped long time ago. I have full blow adults who wants to be on my payroll, it only serves to encourage laziness. I train my kids to be productive individuals and not to expect from anyone. The world owes them nothing. If they want it, they have to go work for it. I hope you are planning to take them abroad because those family members you refused to help could be the ones to help your kids tomorrow. Remember no condition is permanent! That is what my experiences in life has taught me! I hope you don't learn the bitter way! We want to behave like the whites when we don't have the opportunities they have there! Ire o! I am not saying you should meet their every demands, why not teach them how to fish instead of giving them fish? They will forever be indebted to you if you do! Just a suggestion o. |
Family › Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by yemi1504: 9:41pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
Jahwinaboy: That MAYBE too much. JUST LET GO OR BETTER STILL TELL THEMB U CAN'T HELp but try remind the mum of those days I will do the help if I am in his position but I will tell the child what the mother did to remind the mother if she has a conscience that is. I help sometimes just to prick people's conscience and mess up their minds! |
Family › Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by yemi1504: 9:34pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
kherlly: The only time you see help in a family is during burial... They will bill even the struggling ones in the family just to have a burial but they won't sit down and try to open a business for someone in the family that does not have. Very common among the so-called S0phisticated tribe! I guess sophisticated in oppressing other family members with one's riches should be the refrain! |
Family › Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by yemi1504: 9:19pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
ignis: The major reason is wickedness. Please let's not justify wickedness and evil. There is no reason for a successful family member not to help a struggling family member.
Someone will come tomorrow and give reasons why the devil is evil. Abi o. |
Sports › Re: PSG Is Offering Lionel Messi 'Everything Money Can Buy' by yemi1504: 1:21pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
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Romance › Re: Why Do Some Family Members Act Like They Don't Care by yemi1504: 7:10pm On Aug 05, 2021 |
NovusHomo: Now its insults. Typical, when logic is too much to grasp. You schooled me . If only you knew! I told you already: white people create opportunities for themselves and their societies. Its nice to cite Obafemi Awolowo. Everybody does without putting his sayings in context. Awo was referring to the larger society and the role of leaders, especially political leaders. Apply that to parents (leaders in each household), and the implication is huge. Eventually, it is society that pays the price of their laziness and carelessness. Why not ask your "communal living" members to stop having children like rabbits. Tell them to come together and clean up all the unoccupied land in the neighborhoods to plant vegetables instead of whinnying about rising cost of food items? In places with better economies, people grow their own food as a hobby. Shouldn't that be a necessity to poorer economies? But they wont, they expect their uncles and aunties to give them money for food. How do you expect someone with two children to help someone with ten? What is going to remain for him to raise his own children? In the end they drag you to their own level. Helping such folks eventually leads to your own poverty. I refuse to be made poor because of some family members who do not understand what life entails. It is the feeling of entitlement that you attempt to cloak in the garment of morality. I DO NOT CARE. Let each carry his own responsibility. Thank you teacher. I stop here. There is no need for you to respond. They say don't wrestle with a pig, you can complete it yourself! And silence is the best answer for, complete that too! I will not be bothered to reply any more of your mentions, silence is golden! I rest my case. |
Romance › Re: Why Do Some Family Members Act Like They Don't Care by yemi1504: 6:15pm On Aug 05, 2021 |
NovusHomo: Your reference to Obi Cubana almost stopped me from responding to your submission. But please note the following: 1. Count me out of communal living in which most members are parasites who think having many wives and children is an accomplishment. 2. God did not favor the whites over blacks. White folks created opportunities for themselves. 3. There is no lesson to learn from obi Cubana. He has only succeeded in taking profligacy to another level. It has to be a record, really, one at which the white man will forever marvel. The next few years will bring out copious writings on this topic (Cubana) by those whose job is to do so. They have started already. I read a column on the topic in Tribune sometime last week or so. 4. I remember Charles Darwin's Theory of Evolution (the change in the characteristics of a species over several generations) which essentially talks about what he referred to as "natural selection". Simply put, it is that all human have natural gifts and capabilities. Those who can't or won't develop these will be phased out by nature. "Racist" as this theory is, because his research was carried out in Madagascar (in Africa), Africa and Africans are proving the theory to be correct and on point. I hope you did not find this to be nonsense. Once again, I ask , do we have the opportunities to become someone here unlike abroad? I can bet a billion dollars that you will not answer that question. Awolowo once said "those children you refused to train...", Complete it yourself! And you now wonder why kidnapping is on a rise in the country! If we don't have a communal living spirit, the kidnapping cases will soon become something else where someone can make it here and not sleep with two eyes closed because of your and such mindset! I rest my case. I hope I schooled you here and you are welcome. Atimes, it is not everybody you reply. There are people that have experiences, you will not experience even in 10 lifetimes and I am not even bragging! |
Romance › Re: Why Do Some Family Members Act Like They Don't Care by yemi1504: 6:11pm On Aug 05, 2021 |
SeriouslySense: Sadly, when you are doing fine, that is when they'll remember that you are family. Abi o and when you give them the cold shoulder, they bring the we are family bullsh1t SMH. |
Romance › Re: Why Do Some Family Members Act Like They Don't Care by yemi1504: 5:35pm On Aug 05, 2021 |
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Romance › Re: Why Do Some Family Members Act Like They Don't Care by yemi1504: 5:26pm On Aug 05, 2021 |
SeriouslySense: I do help my fellow tribe get on their feet, even though i am not Igbo. Once i know they are serious or have planned to become independent, we as other tribe in the south have to copy this attitude of helping others establish, it should be encouraged. Same here sir unfortunately, I don't think my tribe of Y0rubas will ever change concerning this! I don't need family's help anyways, I will do fine even though it might take longer without them! But nobody should say I am vindictive when I pay them back in their own coins by not giving a damn about them too! I am already doing that anyways! |
Romance › Re: Why Do Some Family Members Act Like They Don't Care by yemi1504: 5:13pm On Aug 05, 2021 |
Shayron: I have been on this forum for quite sometime, I have been a guest all this while but my friend is in desperate need of help so I figure out it would be better if I seek you guys opinion.
I have a friend who's uncle is a well to do man works in a big organization and can use is influence to secure jobs or loans for my freind.
My freind has been at his Mercy for quite some time now, she is very hard-working though but she has witnessed the man help those who ain't even family members secure jobs in great places.
This is someone she calls family and uncle. This is not the first time of seeing this, I have seen this quite a lot it's very common amongst our people here in the south.
My question is why do family members turn your backs on you even though they have the power to help you out of your current situation. Blood they say is Thicke than water if I can't help my cousin or nephew then why are we family. She has been begging this man, and this man clearly can work things out. She has a work herself but it's not self sustaining coupled with the act that she has younger ones to look after.
I have told her to look elsewhere that sometimes our helpers are not close as we think? What kinda advie would you give her Thank God, you even mentioned it was the southw3st especially. I am in the same boat with the lady as regards this but I will find my way. |
Romance › Re: Why Do Some Family Members Act Like They Don't Care by yemi1504: 5:09pm On Aug 05, 2021 |
SeriouslySense: Not all southerners are like that, the Igbo Model of bringing people up is really good, something to adopt, so people around one, can stand on their two feet I already mentioned that in my comment sir that except the Igbos, other Southern tribes are nothing as regards this issue! |
Romance › Re: Why Do Some Family Members Act Like They Don't Care by yemi1504: 5:05pm On Aug 05, 2021 |
slawormiir: Damnnn niggar Just normal for Africans
They don't want to help their loved ones
Not knowing that the easiest way to become a Billionaire is to ensure that you help people around you to become a millionaire first....
And I have noticed something...it seems the uncles from our mother side are more caring and assisting than those moda fuckkking uncles from our fathers family .....and the most annoying thing is that we always share the same ancestral surname with those fuckkking uncles from the fathers family....still they will not be willing to help
So op...if that your friend's uncle is from the father's family....your friend should not rely on him... Anyway....what do I know....am just a weed smoker, a pussy banger and a drunkard Same observation here too bro! Unfortunately, the uncles from the father's sides are always well-to-do unlike the other side which dey make person pained. |
Romance › Re: Why Do Some Family Members Act Like They Don't Care by yemi1504: 5:00pm On Aug 05, 2021 |
NovusHomo: No one owes you a living. Sort yourself out. That was what most of us did. Everyone wants their relatives to help them. They ask for help all of them at the same time. What do you want those folks to do about their own children? If Nigerian parents know how to make many children, they should have a plan on how they want to raise those children. When you have ten children, you should stop bothering the man who chose to have only two. We all know how to have sex; some just control the urge, plan their family, or better still, plan ahead. Now, go back to watching BBNaija while your uncles and aunts keep making money. That is nonsense! We pride ourselves as Africans on community living and now behaving like the whites we deride. Unlike the whites, we don't have opportunities here, so how do you expect the person to sort himself out? I thought the Obi Cubana case and the Igbos in general helping their people to become affluent should be a lesson but other Southern tribes are not willing to learn that lesson! It is just unfortunate that the people we refuse to help show up at family functions, if they were vindictive like me and don't show up, we will see we really have a problem! |
Romance › Re: Why Do Some Family Members Act Like They Don't Care by yemi1504: 4:54pm On Aug 05, 2021 |
Shayron: I have been on this forum for quite sometime, I have been a guest all this while but my friend is in desperate need of help so I figure out it would be better if I seek you guys opinion.
I have a friend who's uncle is a well to do man works in a big organization and can use is influence to secure jobs or loans for my freind.
My freind has been at his Mercy for quite some time now, she is very hard-working though but she has witnessed the man help those who ain't even family members secure jobs in great places.
This is someone she calls family and uncle. This is not the first time of seeing this, I have seen this quite a lot it's very common amongst our people here in the south.
My question is why do family members turn your backs on you even though they have the power to help you out of your current situation. Blood they say is Thicke than water if I can't help my cousin or nephew then why are we family. She has been begging this man, and this man clearly can work things out. She has a work herself but it's not self sustaining coupled with the act that she has younger ones to look after.
I have told her to look elsewhere that sometimes our helpers are not close as we think? What kinda advie would you give her Welcome to Nigeria, especially the South. I also have rich uncles my Dad helped when he was rich but no help whatsoever from them and you wonder why we as a people except the Igbos are not affluent societies. I rest my case. |
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