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AngelicDamsel:
If you react to an offense by repeating what the offender did, then you are at much fault as the offender.

Do me I do you. Man no go vex.



You are at fault. Apologize for your hasty conclusions founded on the foundation of assumptions.

Assumption kills relationship faster than anyone can describe.

My advice:
Be the man, lead every situation, be the bigger one, show strength, conquer her shortcomings with your manly wisdom; what is the wisdom? Boldness and courage to fix the issue and not the blame. This is the evidence of maturity. Addressing the issue and taking responsibility.




Never play a blame game with a person you love.



You get.



If she doesn't take it as an issue, then you two need to discuss. When there communication, you will discover more than what words can express. Communication is key.

Geonigga:
The recent one is the fourth times she has repeated the same act and always calling back at wee hour of the night. I think have endured enough

Geonigga:
She has done the same thing in three occasions previously, she keeps on raising flemsy excuse that her phone was in her bag and many more similar excuses, I have to give her the benefit of the doubt until the recent one.

AngelicDamsel:
If you react to an offense by repeating what the offender did, then you are at much fault as the offender.

Do me I do you. Man no go vex.



You are at fault. Apologize for your hasty conclusions founded on the foundation of assumptions.

Assumption kills relationship faster than anyone can describe.

My advice:
Be the man, lead every situation, be the bigger one, show strength, conquer her shortcomings with your manly wisdom; what is the wisdom? Boldness and courage to fix the issue and not the blame. This is the evidence of maturity. Addressing the issue and taking responsibility.




Never play a blame game with a person you love.



You get.

1beat:
you're not ripe for relationship.
you lack knowledge of handling marital issue.
because you have feed her for a night she must not do mistake. you need to learn how to over look something.

Geonigga:
I have sometime in February this year made a post of a lady I met and who refused taking my calls one certain night and which I did a post seeking for advise here.

Let me now go straight to the recent happening in the relationship with this lady whom I met in the church and who also live in the same estate with me in fact her house is not that far from mine though she is living with her aunt.

It happened that on Wednesday being the 21st of April, 2021, when I arrived home from work, it is my usual practice to call her and when I called her that very day, she took her call and told me that she is very hungry and her reason was that she didn't like what they cooked in her house. I have to invite her over to my house and she ate very well and even took a bottle of soft drink before leaving for her house that night which I also gave her a naira note in case she wants to buy anything the following day.

The following day being the 22nd of April, as usual when I came back from work around 6:30pm, I put two calls across to her which were made in different intervals, but lol and behold this lady I thought she was my girl friend didn't pick up the calls, I remained calmed and went to bed that night.

However, during the course of the night, around 11:30pm that night my phone rang and I took the phone to know who was calling, it was this my so called girl friend that was calling, I had to ignore the call.

The following day very early in the morning she called again but I was preparing for work and I didn't want anything that will ignite sad mood on me, I have to ignored her calls even when I was at the office.

Later in the evening when I was about leaving the office she called again and I picked up the call with a mild attention, she then asked why I refused taking her calls since, I replied her by saying that she started it, this lady has to immediately end the call and up until now she has refused to take my calls or call back.

Please I really want to know who is at fault here because she is now making it look as if I am at fault but as it is I have made up my mind to call it a quit if she can not step down her pride and apologize. I will appreciate you guys opinions on this.

Lifestone:
You are a bitter ex-staff and I am not suppressed you got kicked out or maybe you left just before you are to be kicked out.
How do you want an institution not to set target for staff and hold them accountable for the target. You apparently want to be paid salary without caring if the institution is doing well or not. People like you and some others above are the reason why so many businesses failed.

Lifestone:
You became an ex because you couldn't perform. You want salary without working. I know people like you

EzeNri:
Nairaland is something else. How do they know all these things?

Ojey1234:
oga they aren't a good organization to work with, you will regret working with them.

gbam

Adekunle1665:
Good evening, please what should I expect from sobic microfinance bank interview and I need more information about the company on their salary scale and how they treat their staff. Thanks

fergie001:
God Bless Us All.

fergie001:
2020 has been rough and eventful but we here we are.

May 2021 provide the blessings and grace we crave.

Happy New Year Nairalanders.......01-01-2021

theoneJabulani:
Lewandoski wins 2020 FIFA player of the year. Well deserved



https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.goal.com/en/amp/news/lewandowski-beats-messi-ronaldo-best-fifa-mens-player-award/11io5070s8st51khv5sj6k9kkn

Chukkychukky:
dat 4, me i no get time to waste wen chicks full every. if she claim hard to get e get some wey dey soft to get. chikinah.

AududuNine11:
If you follow woman matter, you will be frustrated.

If I ask you, and she come lose interest, I go wakapass.

I no get time for nonsense drama.

anochuko01:
No one losses feeling as fast as I do.

Today I'm making your head swell, tomorrow I can even delete your number sef.

rusher14:
Explain what exactly is wrong with the idea.

Daddycharger:
Now crowd will be all over telecom company. This government is insensitive

SAMAJ:
Following the earlier directive on the suspension of new SIM registration by network operators, the Federal government has directed all operators in the country to disconnect every SIM card not synchronized with valid National Identity Number (NIN) by December 30th 2020.


This came after an urgent meeting of key stakeholders in the Communications industry convened by the Minister of Communications and Digital Economy, Dr. Isa Ali Ibrahim (Pantami) on Monday, December 14, 2020.

The meeting in its resolution insisted that all telecom operators must from Thursday, December 16, 2020 require all their subscribers to provide valid National Identification Number (NIN) to update SIM registration records.

https://twitter.com/BashirAhmaad/status/1338918738662465537?s=19[/quote]Stupid policy from stupid government agency as usual biko! SMH. You just want make people dey queue for Telecom offices for Christmas time! 600 years of suffering for una and your families till the 4th generation since una no wan get sense! Useless dolts!

This is the time for Mr. Falana to get an perpetual and indefinite injunction on this potential case if he is still the human rights lawyer, he claims to be.

I rest my case.

BaddieFreak:
My step dad is maltreating my mom. What should I do?

He comes back home very late and drunk and beats my mom almost everyday. I have told my mom to leave him but she is adamant, I even rented a house for her at a point so that she can leave him but my mom only spent about a week in the house before going back to my step father's house after my step dad called her and was crying on the phone that he will change.

Yesterday I went to meet her and I saw her face swollen. When I asked her what happened she dismissed it saying it's nothing, I knew my step dad has done it again. I have reported the case to the police several times but all to no avail. I don't know if my mom and my step father made a covenant reason why they can't leave themselves.

Why are men like this? I am confused and heart broken

LaEvilIMiss:
Uche Okoye - she is a taller Tacha but her brains outweigh her level of intelligence

Mastakija:
low

longetivity:
Hoe

helinues:
I really don't know why some Nigerians are selfish with their thoughts..

Cos you don't like Buhari does not mean you should be praying for nonsense sanction which will eventually affect the common masses...

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga tell us the truth, ... That your so called Innocent Offer you made to that woman, If it were your Fellow Man, would you have made such an Offer to him

AltCtrlDel:
Our leaders are the real hoodlums.

You embolden touts and thugs by paying them to disrupt a peaceful protests - a protest that would have inadvertently led to the beginning of a new nation.

You have shown the jobless, the hungry and the hopeless ones an easy route to survival. Now you can no longer control the monster you created.

mmsen:
Bear with you while you ban protestors from traveling freely?

Obrigardo:
I love seeing Trump supporters CRY, it's my daily medicine, my weekly energy, my monthly inspiration and my yearly motivation. Their loss is the only reason i'm still alive, i was born to love and enjoy the failure that they have achieved.

planetx13:
Me trying to figure out if this country is a shithole or a zoo

Ciao