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Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by Drizzy5001(m): 8:31pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
Paternal uncles are too wicked Sha, very heartless set of people 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by Nobody: 8:38pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
twind111: Sha no post your picture . cause if do i go screenshot and if i jam you for future i no go help you no matter how small or big the situation is and if you ask me why i no help i go state all these your "reasons" and add another one join which is WE NO BE FAMILY . 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by jimmychang: 9:03pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
yemmit90: Rest not everybody is as wicked as you are. |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by yemi1504: 9:19pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
ignis: Abi o. |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by Nobody: 9:27pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
Let me share this here.. I have an elder sister, she got a car but she can’t drive very well.. And I can drive, I started to drive her without asking her to pay me I take her to her work and I hang around until 4pm then I bring her back home.. I just finished my schooling I’m waiting for service. One day I spoke to her about using the car for bolt so she can have another source of income.. She said she has been looking for someone, I told her I can do it since I’m waiting to be deployed by nov or Jan.. To cut the story short, she gave the car to someone else, this is my sister I have been driving without pay for the Past 3years.. Most family have lost its unique relationship. Don’t expect anything from anyone. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by yemi1504: 9:34pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
kherlly: Very common among the so-called S0phisticated tribe! I guess sophisticated in oppressing other family members with one's riches should be the refrain! 2 Likes |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by yemi1504: 9:41pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
Jahwinaboy: I will do the help if I am in his position but I will tell the child what the mother did to remind the mother if she has a conscience that is. I help sometimes just to prick people's conscience and mess up their minds! 1 Like |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by onlyhope: 9:44pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
Kaysnow:Why did she give her car to someone else? Ask her. She's your elder sister. Using the car as a taxicab is directly or indirectly your idea. |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by yemi1504: 9:44pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
Skyview01: I hope you are planning to take them abroad because those family members you refused to help could be the ones to help your kids tomorrow. Remember no condition is permanent! That is what my experiences in life has taught me! I hope you don't learn the bitter way! We want to behave like the whites when we don't have the opportunities they have there! Ire o! I am not saying you should meet their every demands, why not teach them how to fish instead of giving them fish? They will forever be indebted to you if you do! Just a suggestion o. 1 Like |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by onlyhope: 9:48pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
heniford2:Well, I know what your aunt did can be sooo painful. Sometimes we feel their actions are unforgivable, but I'll say, let it go. If you do not want to help her son, you can dodge it stylishly. However, if you feel like helping, you can do too. I'm even surprised you still communicate with her. 1 Like |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by yemi1504: 9:48pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
oliverano: See a good story from African communal living! I can guess your tribe is not the S0phisticated tribe, they never do such! |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by Cousin9999: 9:49pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
Abnormal insecurity (among many other maladaptive patterns). But sometimes there are people who you can never give enough, and/or they waste it. |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by yemi1504: 9:51pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
aysnoopy: Also, the uncles from the father's sides are much more wealthy than the ones from the other side but they never help whether they were helped or not! 1 Like |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by yemi1504: 9:54pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
Lamasta: Do they ever remember that! My dad's benevolence when I was young to a non-family member is the reason I am a graduate today. |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by yemi1504: 9:55pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
labani06: You can say that again! |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by yemi1504: 9:58pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
oliverano: As long as you are teaching people to fish, that is still right in my books! A better way to offer help! |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by jesmond3945: 9:58pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
harjay1986:he avoided you because he feels you came to him because he is in France. If he was in mushin, I am not sure you would to think about him. 1 Like |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by yemi1504: 10:00pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
Komu1048: You even had to mention the tribe! I am from that tribe and you couldn't be far from the truth. If I were Igbo, I will be way ahead in my career by now because I am not lazy, I have just not seen opportunities! 1 Like |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by jesmond3945: 10:01pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
grossintel:we mean extended family |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by hstar: 10:01pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
coming back to read |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by MusaChukwudi: 10:03pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
slawormiir: You are not well!!! Thief! You uncle hustled for his money and you don’t know the FFKing pressure he is under. Go and work! This stupid mentality is the reason Africans are dirt poor! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by yemi1504: 10:06pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
Lexusgs430: That is what he should do! Remind her of her wickedness but go ahead to help her son just to prick her conscience if she ever has one and to show you will never be like her in behavior. I do that sometimes and it is a way to go in my opinion. |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by truthhurts2: 10:21pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
slawormiir:Ogbeni slawormiir... What you wrote up there is just nothing but absolutely the truth. Your head dey dia |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by harjay1986: 10:23pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
jesmond3945: read my comment once again ..... because someone actually assist him to leave for france .... I do not approach him on the basis for him to finance me ... am a distance relative what about immediate one to him ..... everything comes down to saying that only people that God want to use to change something in your life, that will yield ... I don dey for street since my 11 years so no be today to make money .... he only want people he will be oppression and dictate to and am not in dat class so I move |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by MusaChukwudi: 10:23pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
ignis: You are not well. Werey go and work and uplift yourself from there!!!! 1 Like |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by One1Nigeria: 10:24pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
Komu1048: a man's foes shall be they of his own household. Matt 10:36 Kjv New King James Version and ‘a man’s enemies will be those of his own household.’ U think say oyinbo na get sense 1 Like |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by Ekpekus(m): 10:38pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
punisha:Oil dey your head... |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by truthhurts2: 10:38pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
The word 'Family' have different meaning to different individuals... Sometimes, not by BLOOD. The ones we called family sometimes are not even family while those we called "friends" are more like real FAMILY. |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by aribisala0(m): 10:46pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
What the hell is "help" You better erase that word from your vocabulary if it means someone "dashing" you money The best help a person can give anyone is education advice or the kind of help you give your neighbours whether you are related by blood or not If your children are in private school and you give money to support the one whose are in Public school he will say you did not take his to private school like your own Help in the eyes of a lazy man and that means most Nigerians is someone giving you money. When they give you will say "only this,,,, only that" Imagine a scenario where a person earning 100k a month wants to do a 10 million Naira wedding because his brother did the same thing from his own pocket he now goes to that brother to ask for 5 million and the brother gives him 500 K . No thank you instead he goes around calling him stingy. Even if he finds 10 million should he be spending it on a wedding with his 100k salary For me helping me is NOT giving me money . Do not have a sense of entitlement to relative's wealth and a sense of resentment to their "stinginess" . NO ONE in this life owes you ANYTHING GET YOURS We see the relatives of our politicians who have stolen money rolling in wealth and we think that is "HELP" 3 Likes |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by Lexusgs430: 10:46pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
yemi1504: At this junction, we split ways ......... You headed left and i diverted right.......... I would refresh her memory and tell her for that reason, she should sort her son out ......... |
Re: Major Reasons Why Family Member Do Not Help Each Other. by Ekpekus(m): 10:47pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
pansophist:You have written wisely |
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