₦airaland Forum

OfeAchi:
A lady friend of mine recently got a job offer with a multinational in Maiduguri. It comes with accommodation and take home is around 700k.
I advised her to decline the offer because from the news, those areas are hostile and there's a 75.65% chance a bandit would raape her or 80% chance she could be hit by a bomb.
She finally declined the offer and thanked me for saving her life.
I hope I did the right thing?

WriterNig:
The Sun UK

Samuelriano1:
we keep blaming everything on poverty. when has Nigerians not been suffering. do they know how many times we have gone to bed with empty stomach? I get pissed of when I hear people say na hungry.

gale2626:
You can't blame them if you've not tasted poverty like they had... I just pity this country.

Samuelriano1:
if at this current age, one doesn't know the implications of what he is doing, then am sorry to say, it gonna be tough. Nigerians are actually Nigeria's problem.

Samuelriano1:
come 2023, Nigerians will still vote in this same people, especially when they start throwing a cup of rice and sachet tomato paste, you see them queuing, rushing to eat their destinies. we just love suffering n smiling in this country.

treesun:
https://punchng.com/nin-telecom-consumers-reject-january-introduction-of-digital-token/

labisibrass:
Alalakulala ni koo lo

WibusJaga:


They should start by banning & arresting those marketers with mobile loudspeakers at busy junctions advertising &disturbing people about Manpower & other medicines with ridiculous claims of curing virtually every disease on earth.

gladdensir:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2021/12/nafdac-raises-alarm-over-indiscriminate-use-of-aphrodisiac/amp/

SuperBlack:
Wife materials ant the beautiful ones

benjackugo:
Desmond Elliot Celebrates 18th Wedding Anniversary With His Wife, Victoria (Photo)

Nigerian lawmaker and Nollywood actor, Desmond Elliot took to his Instagram handle to celebrate 18th wedding anniversary with his wife, Victoria, today 26th December 2021, IgbereTV reports.

He shared a loved-up photo of himself and his wife with caption;


https://www.instagram.com/p/CX8HtPpoZpm/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Vicky on her part also shared loved-up photos which she captioned;


https://www.instagram.com/p/CX8BrDeD92L/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

elantraceey:
Lmao.... So you mean going to kitchen to serve food you'll eat in your own tummy is the reason for divorce these days? Wow.... Omo.

ipobarethieves:
How much u Dey sell ur medicine? U have for fibroid too

tsmith:
Let's be clear is your definition of wife material how much suffer head one can endure? Because that's what it looks like.

It's a different matter if your question was I'm seeing someone but we're not economally and socially aligned, should we take the plunge? Because that's the obvious case here

But you're judging her marriagability with the ability to turn money into food for you, and to go begging for and fetching water next door.

Nigeria make marriage and suffer head look like 5&6, it's not by force biko

obyrich:
It depends on what you want. I can't even date such a girl. I don't tolerate indiscipline. Ask yourself if that is what you want in a wife.

larryking540:
bro think twice, introduction doesn't mean marriage o,,, before you come back with remix after marriage ,,, pause all activities for now ,if possible watch her over a spade of 6 months again,never reward bad behavior as a man ,that statement has helped me

SmellySperm:
That's how they pretend to be nice. Once u propose,boom they show u their Jezebel side.

She couldn't even pretend till after wedding.
Big red flag...

Richdoh:
I'm a young hard work guy who's planning to settle down someday. I have a girlfriend whom I have gone to see her family with my own family , as in, we have done our introduction, what was remaining was for us to fix a date for our wedding.

But this girl started showing some nasty attitude. There was a day she came to spend weekend with me and I gave her some money to buy some food stuffs to cook, that day i received the greatest shocke of my life , my fiancee warmed me never to send her message like that again that she is not my slave.

As if that was not enough. Another day she came to spend some days with me but when she got to my house I was not at home that day. She went to the bathroom to get some shower but unfortunately there was no water running in the bathroom because we didn't had light for 2days so we couldn't pump water. Normally when there's no water like that we usually fetch from the next compound. Though I live in a room and parlour self contain with water running in my kitchen and bathroom.

To cut the long story short, my fiancee refused to fetch water for herself to take her shower. She had to call me on phone to come home and fetch water for her to take her shower. When I eventually got home at late hour, I took the bucket went to fetch water for her to bath just for peace to rain. I later asked her why she had to call me to come and fetch water for her to bath knowing fully well that I was not around. She said in her house, she does not fetch water that her dad usually call Aboki's and buy water from them. She told me that she can't leave a suffering life of having to fetch water, she can never do it.

Please nairalander is this a good sign or bad sign to watch out for?

airexx:
Very senseless things

BullyBullies:
Thanks boss. Merry Xmas and happy new year to you and family bro. Stay safe out there pls

Simran94:
And 99% of indomie generation MEN need WISDOM.

faste:
99% of Nigeria's indomie women generation are not wife material!

Fiscus105:
If truly u re lady as ur moniker carries, I'm very sure u re brought up single handedly by ur mama, and I will salute man that you would end up in his house eventually. He needs more than endurance if u won't be thrown house before 3rd year wedding anniversary.

Rhozabeth:
I read thru a lot of comments here i see a lot of immature responses and most people here dont know the creature called woman!
Bros, mark my words, this small thing u have nnoticed, if u don't nip it in d bud, i swear by the time the real issues start, u will no longer be able to handle it. Plus it were to be ur brother that was there, am sure it won't be the same!

lexy2014:
neither are your guests disabled. nothing wrong in serving your guests first. its damn good courtesy but to say because your husband isnt disabled hence he should go serve himself, u carry your own cross road

livingoracle:
Divorce the bitch! She no get respect for her hubby and she doesn't know what a husband means. Husband means MASTER, LORD.
Divorce the idiot, my wife won't and can't try that nonsense. I hate nonsense.
Mtcheeeeeeew �

Alabo7978:
You are mad.

MadeMan01:
Wrong!!!
You serve the head of the house first, then he can invite the guest to dine and be dished. If it's not buffet style feast, common sense says serve the provider. Even if you as guest is served first, you'd be inconsiderate to eat first, instead defer to your host. Let your host be the one to waive the right and tell guest to eat. If you go to England to visit the queen, she is served and all her guests, but NO one starts eating till the Queen has taken the first spoon to her mouth

Amanda4life:
I BEG GIVE AM DIRTY SLAAAAAP

elantraceey:
Lmao.... Because of food? Just say you're overgrown incapacitated baby that can't even serve his own food. Mthheewww.