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Sonnobax15:

Abeg ha who count the Nigeria own?

Because only for ughelli enter warri,the number of churches wey dey here suppose reach that figure

My thought exactly, no organized or developed country can allow churches to be littered everywhere like what we see in Nigeria. So, if Nigeria don't have more church buildings than any country in the world, then I will say because of Muslim dominated north.

Princedapace:
Without resource control by state or regions, this wont even survive! The resource control should be the key like done in saner climes

Regionalism is a step by step, you don't jump into it while the other part of the country who are the majority is totally not in support.

Resources control is the major problem of regionalism in Nigeria,and the same resources is the reason why we are together today. Utill the states are giving autonomy on at least 85% policies, you can't bring resources control into discussion.

Lovelink1991:
Good, pray not to come across any because you go explain tire until dance to her tune

There is nothing like hot temper woman, it is the way you have been managing her that gives her the chance to intimidate you. Prayer don't work that way, you need to be a man to establish authority in your home because it is normal for every woman to control a weak man.

Namaster:
WHY?!

Why would a FIRST-TIER bank engage with a RASCAL?

He looks REPULSIVE.
He speaks REPULSIVELY.
His character is REPULSIVE.

What does First Bank hope to achieve with this ENGAGEMENT?

Money is everything in this contemporary world, the same first bank staffs would even go back to his house if there is need fpr that. Money is the key, it give you class irrespective of your education background.

Go to insde big markets and see how these bank staffs worship those money bag business owners. Infact, i knew some of them back then who are dating the suppose classy famale bank staffs or marketers. A man even married one as a second wife. Dont underestimate the power of money.

MasterTeeUSA:
The son has not learnt any lesson. If your father wanted to speak to you, he would reach out. The wife cannot stop him from speaking to you. It is like saying your Dad does not have a mind of his own which is a subtle insult. You may think you are degrading your father's wife, but you are really insulting your Dad by claiming he has no manhood. You should focus on building your life, and stop trying to reconcile with the hope of getting a part of his will or money. Children must learn to be successful in their own rights. Your parents' wealth is not an entitlement. Clearly, he is still a boy without much sense.

She can 100%, a particular wife always have a key to lock and unlock the husband in a poligamous home. Besides, a man at 86 is as vulnerable as a 5 years old kid. And don't be surprise that baba may not even aware that his son has been trying to see him.

MrEar:
Trump doesn't even put effort into his lies anymore because he knows his Olodo supporters will believe anything he says.

Its a good thing the cocaine addict called zelensky told americans on their television network the real cause of rise in diesel prices globally.

Zelenskyy told an American television channel that rising diesel prices are the result of the Strait of Hormuz blockade and the war in the Middle East, not Ukrainian strikes on Russian oil refineries. He called attempts to blame Ukraine for the price increases a lie.

**When fuel… pic.twitter.com/pY9KeSgd33

— Sprinter Press (@Sprinter_Press) October 12, 2026

Perhaps you don't understand president Trump submission in that post. If cheap Russia oil is made available in abundance, it Will lessened the effect on global oil scarcity due to partial closure of strait(though he doesn't mention it directly). Secondly, he acknowledged the fact that Russia is doing far little less than their capacity to help republic of Iran in the ongoing war, and he want it that way, hence the need to patronize Russia to maintain the situation.

Trump may have his shortcoming but he is actually a leader with foresight.

BlackPantherxXx:
Shots fired....

Obidients who worship Atiku wouldn't know who to brown nose now ? God 1 or 2

KwankwaSUYA has a personal agenda. He's working for Bola deliberately.

Obi too is working for BAT, but that one with his 3rdy is too dull to know

Tinubu should use the juju he uses to scatter his political opponents to fix the economy.

A1 in Politics. F9 in Economy. Security F9. Olodo Rabata, Sir

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This is exactly what came into my mind after reading the article. This man is obviously using 2027 to gain supports from the south by 2031 when the presidency return to the north.

He couldn't even properly criticize APC, same as Dickson in all their interviews. After all, Obi might be only nautral person in this whole game.

Stephen0mozzy:
Meanwhile, someone has already told us to "Give him a second term, and WE WILL SEE WHAT OUR EYES HAVE NEVER SEEN BEFORE".

From these patterns, you can see that we're seeing shege. And we're threatened with further shege than we've ever seen before.

Those who do not vote wisely will pack muddy water rice and debris-filled oil.

It is not everything you attributes to hunger or politics, this is common with Nigerians, I had witness alot of these incidents as far back as 90's, it is Nigerians things to take advantage of free bies. Don't be surprise alot of them can afford to buy more than what they are disgracefully stolen from the street.

Besides, I will advise every sensible youth to direct their anger on their governors and local governments too, these are the arms of government mandated to address the immediate needs of people in their jurisdictions and not federal government. These governors eat fat and careless of the people in their states, because they understand we are all educated illiterates who only focus on federal government.

Tinubu policies has brought hardship no doubt but these governors are now having more than enough to lessen the effects on the masses in their respective states. They are just there embezzled and doing nothing, while the illiterate youths keep blaming Tinubu for their woes.

Nemesis0147:
The only luck Tinubu had was Buhari deciding to conduct a free and fair election and na we come dy suffer am now

Tinubu is too big and well connected to be rig out . Buhari was just a president back then, Tinubu has unmatched charismatic authority over him in APC. He was probably deceiving Osinbajo because his body language doesn't look like a person in his supports.

ddippset:
All these talk yet he couldn't "capture" PDP delegates in 2019 at his own backyard of Port Harcourt.

Yet he couldn't "capture" PDP delegates in 2023 and Atiku thrashed him silly, he's still crying today.

Even in 2023 election, he had to steal Peter obi's votes to dash Tinubu.

One million Nyesom Wikes cannot get 5 percent votes in any of Abia, Anambra, Ebonyi, Enugu, and Imo.


Let INEC just give free and fair, Tinubu can never win FCT and Rivers..

Keep playing yourself..

Is like you didn't deduce anything from my post you quoted. He will do the same thing he did in PH in any of south east state and heaven wont fall.

Everyone, even APC knows Obi won PH in 2023, and why do you think such clear result was easy to altered withiout treces? It is because Wike control entire structure that made it easy to perfect his plan.

As for the PDP delegates, go and check well, Atiku wins mostly with delegates from the north and some from the south who did not like Wike. Go and check PDP 2023 primary, if not for Tambuwa last minutes abradakabra, Wike would've emerged winner.

But why are the governors complaining about this coalition when they could easily takes control of their party structures in their respective state.

Rainbow coalition should be Rivers state affairs, but these governors make it looks like they are under a threat. It is their duties in their state to prevent such coalition, so why are they angry or bother about what Wike is doing

ddippset:
Very convenient to say when you're not coordinating a state in the SE or core North.

Wike should goan deliver Tinubu in Abia or Anambra or Katsina or Borno lemme see.

Wike only deceives his dull supporters not smart people.

Wike can win any state irrespective of political situation of such state. If you studies his political styles well, the first thing he does is to capture the entire political structures and formidable macheries of the state, which make it easy for him to intimidate, cajole, entice, rig and encourage nautral voters.

The easiest party to rig election successfully is the one with structure and machineries. These structures and macheries I am talking about goes beyond politics, they include traditional rulers and chiefs, regions leaders, civil servants, law enforcement agents, judges, artisans, marketers, NURTW, etc.

That is why you don't underestimate thepower of governors sometimes, once they capture the hearts of civil servants, be rest assure they win any election.

uche87:
If you have struggled with dating women your age or younger, you might want to try dating someone older than you. In my view, it is a different experience, and the pressure is considerably reduced.

Older women have been there and done that, like Lionel Messi, and there is often less for them to fear or feel anxious about. They are simply on a cruise, enjoying the journey rather than rushing to their destination.

If you are looking for something that is not too serious, financially demanding or stressful, an older woman could be the answer. In my opinion, older women tend to understand young men better. Even when you are not talking, they can actually hear you clearly.

They can look at a man’s age and understand some of the life challenges he might be facing. They know how frustrating life can be for a young man who is still trying to find his feet, especially when he has to deal with financial pressure, unnecessary arguments and endless demands. Some of them simply want to focus on the fun side of a relationship: pleasure, companionship and making beautiful memories.

They can also be excellent advisers on life issues. From my experience, some older women are less jealous than their younger counterparts. They create an atmosphere of peace, which is important for a man’s mental well-being. Some also cook exceptionally well and have a way of spoiling their younger lovers with thoughtful, simple gifts.

Let me be clear: I am not talking about a sugar mummy. I mean a romantic, respectful relationship that is not exploitative. There is little pressure. You see each other when it is convenient for both of you, eat, talk, discuss life and keep the bed shaking. Some of these women are also well-connected and could open doors to fantastic opportunities for a younger man.

I briefly had a relationship with an older woman, and we connected deeply. The encounter was cordial, respectful and genuinely meaningful. She opened my eyes to some of the mistakes young men make while living abroad. Her advice helped me navigate a challenging period in my life. Even after we moved on, we stayed in touch and occasionally teased each other about our old memories.

However, dating older women is not without its challenges. One thing I have noticed is that some can be very good at hiding their feelings. They are not always easy to get close to, and they tend to keep their emotions guarded. It can take time before they feel comfortable opening up to someone younger.

Even when they meet a man they admire, they may spend too much time assessing the risks instead of making a decision. But if you manage to crack the code, you might discover the playful, affectionate side of them that they rarely show to the outside world.

Loneliness can also be a reality for some older women, particularly those who struggle to find compatible partners. However, I believe many have simply become more selective about who they allow into their lives.

As expected, some people will frown at this argument. People often have strong opinions about experiences they have never had. But I believe dating an older woman is a goldmine worth exploring, particularly for young men who want companionship, peace of mind and a different kind of romantic experience.

I see it as something worth exploring in the interim, rather than necessarily a long-term destination. After all, not every relationship has to lead to marriage to leave you with valuable lessons, beautiful memories and a different perspective on life.

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You are just one inexperienced young man to have come up with this. If you are a smart guy, you should've understand that women are mostly attracted to the men older than them. Before older women bring themselves so low to date younger guys, she must have been practical terrible and outrightly rejected by older men who are more experienced to know the clear different between a good and a bad woman.

She start looking down to date a younger who are mostly naives or being control by infatuation, because she knew they are too immature to understand her bad character, in which she may hide till you completely fall into her trap.

You keep wondering why the country remain backwards since her independent, the elders who seems to know better are even more dumber than the new generation. Imagine what is coming out of a suppose elder statesman who should've serves as a good example to us all.

I trust OAU 100%, those vacancies must have been filled up before the announcement. Infect, I can bet it with anything that only a rare professional can get appointment there from outside.

Those on the queue alone are more than enough, not to talk of outsiders. I knew how they operates in that campus, you can hardly get any appointments there withiout connection or knowing someone.

I hope they've changed sha.

pocohantas:
He is quite aged and also too big.
I guess he wanted unrealistic results or the surgeon wasn't sincere with him. Else the best step would have been to first lose some of the weight naturally by watching what he eats and taking walks _then gastric bypass or whatever it is called. There is no way all that fat I am seeing can be removed safely in one round of lipo. Not even 3 rounds can handle that.

Lipo is not a weight loss surgery. They need to frame this and keep for Nigerians.

May his soul rest in peace.

Exactly, no matter how fat you are, once you cut down excessive proteins, eat more fruits and herbs than food, drink enough water and be active, you will shield that weights withing a month if you are constantly.

HacheNoire:
The court will have to decide that. Someone was not doing his job.

How about if the tiger escaped, does it mean the zoo keepers won’t also be available and won’t take responsibility.

Someone did not do his/her job and the video says it all. With the time that tiger soeny romancing the man, if someone was doing his job, it should have been prevented.

What then is their job roles if they are exempted from preventing danger.

You might be arguing on issue you know nothing about, and I doubt if you had visited a zoo before.

No one follow anyone around in the zoological garden, you simply follow the directions arrows and every bolded instruction written on any enclaves or cages.

Although,the level of alertness and emergency response veries from one zoo to another but that doesn't mean they don't tried to reacue him.

Economy is not friendly to anyone now. it is not easy for politicians to be spending anyhow this period, so they have to be economical with their campaigns.

MEGA4BILLION:
Is it not Nigeria again. Where the power that be knows how to twist the laws to their favour and the court would be silent about it



Parties were asked to submit membership register to INEC before primaries and there was a deadline for it. None was published, it therefore means that INEC can be culpable in regards to what you stated above.

Exactly, since non were publicized, INEC can easily include some names irrespective of whether they meet the deadline or not. This law is useless, and can only be use against candidates that power that be don't want on the ballot.

MEGA4BILLION:
Is it not Nigeria again. Where the power that be knows how to twist the laws to their favour and the court would be silent about it

Since INEC has not publicly shows the membership names submitted by parties, any name can still be smuggle in that registers even after the deadline. As long as the person participated in the primary, it will be hard to disqualified such a candidate as far as his name is on register submitted to INEC.

This is Nigeria of all place, rulling party that control INEC can only use that to disqualified some candidates and not the ones they wanted on the ballot.

Chummynoni:
Why kill them after robbing them? Which kind wickedness be this? They didn't even spare the innocent kids . Omo , some people do not even deserve to be an animal , they are meant to be stones .

If you read the police feed back well, they're also resident of the same village,so it is possible they recognize them, hence the gruesome act.

They are irrational young robbers, and they should not be spare with life imprisonment but death.

They are plenty having big stores in the cities. These girls are very rich,and some are still doing it with selected clients.

Afriifa:
Why should an accomplished medical experts make such blunder in choice of spouse?

Dont judge because you dont know their journey.

Sonnobax15:
A happy wife builds a happy home. Your husband and home is blessed my dear sister

Lolz, could be sugar daddy or husband that comes home once in a while. Nigeria wives don't get time preparing two foods to be loaded by their husbands at the same time before billings.

That is mostly done by side chicks of rich sugar daddies to bill them.

Danandosky:
Misplaced priority... instead of them to think about regional security force, it's airline that only about 10% of their people can afford....the primary complaint of the people of that region is insecurity and poverty

Exactly, Electricity, agricultural, security, education, are there but these governors think airline that less than 5% people from the region can benefit is the next.

Seem quality leadership capacity is lacking in that region.

youngEmelex:
I have been following match making trends for years and this is my final conclusion.
No single lady in her prime will need the services of match makers and dating apps to get a spouse because at that stage of her life, she is the one selecting men.

I once went through a lady's messenger and the unread messages there were close to one thousand. All classes of men were in her dm or either trying to get her attention. Some were merely reacting to her status or just sending stickers.

Although social media is not reality, the truth remains that most of the single ladies get all the attention they needed and can settle down if they wish.

Whenever a lady is the one searching for a spouse by herself, it's either her prime is over or she is a single mother.
Even if she is the one searching, she can always find around her church, school, workplace etc.

The ones that are genuinely single will even have people meeting them on behalf of their sons, brothers and friends.

I was once at a place and a woman approached another woman. When I asked her why, she said her brother needs a wife.

So whenever you see any woman on any dating site or match making setup, know that she is either a retired hooker, an older woman or a single mother. People in her neighborhood know her too well and are tired of her so she is looking for a guy in diaspora.

This my observation is restricted to my tribe's setting in Africa because I haven't seen how things are done in other climes.

1. Retired hookup girls.

2. Older women above their prime.

3. Single mothers.

Bonus, the ones whose bad character, extravagant lifestyle and pride had kept single for long. Ironically, about 70% of men looking for love online are innocent simps.

This is reality and nothing to add again.

helinues:
It's easier to spend than saving. It takes dedication to be saving money

For you to be saving money regularly, you must be somehow wicked as we are too social in Nigeria

You can only save when your income exceed your basic needs. Nigeria is no longer a place where you can easily saved, except you earned well or in dollars.

Transportation alone will chop around 25%, not to talk of house rent and other utilities before foods. The quality of life has gone to the dogs, people earned but not enough to save for emergencies.

A country that 10% of your income can't feed you for a month is not worth to be call a progressive one. Let Tinubu work on making life easier for average Nigerians by ensuring autonomy of local government where huge fund should be sent to and not these useless governors to loot.

Princedapace:
A country where those whith 30m are not up to 2 percent is a completely shithole..
Do u know how much those abroad send to Nigeria that helps stabilize ur naira? Omo, without them, bro, ur naira would be hitting 2500 per dollar. Nigeria is extremely a poor country and dangerous country.
If u remove politicians, remove drug lords, remove ritual and organ harvesters, scammers, the country is practically broke. Those earning well outside the above listed are not up to 1.5 percent of the population.
Dont take my words for it, your data recently confirmed, to find Nigerians with 500k and above in their account or asset is not up to 4% of the population.

Maybe i will know how to reply you if you tell me your country.

Maybe

seppuku:
Bros most of those boyz no longer have the patriotism that lived in the hearts of our heros past. Nigeria is just an opportunity for them to participate at the world or continental phase.

except Iwobi and Bassey, those boyz don't bleed Naija blood and you can see it in their performance.

Same goes with Ghana. The era of the West African football giants is coming to an end.

It is not really about patriotism, the boys are simply not good enough. Our standard has gone so low that we started seeing Chille as a good coach. Someone that couldn't groom a single home base player successfully in Nigeria league since appointed as super eagle coach. Our over rely on foreign based players wont help us to win matches against African opponents.

ebubeson:
Some people are not good enough for marriage, they have bad character in them, but may still feel they are genuinely good or probably good in some areas for marriage. They also may not be good, but may have emotions and feelings of love for the person they want to marry. These people are not the most dangerous people in marriage.

Who is The Most Dangerous Person in Marriage?
The one that eagerly wants to marry you, knows that he or she is a bad person, has planned or thought of evil against you when the marriage happens, does not have feelings or emotions for you, is actively involved to see the marriage happen, makes the marriage process easy for you, pretends to love you, but has zero percent feeling of love for you, and may even want to kill you in the marriage.

You are very right, these set of people married their partners only for bad purpose. It is mostly for materials gains. Another dangerous person to marry is promiscuous woman who is also diabolical. Hot temper or unintelligent men are also dangerous to marry.

Family setting would've been great as it once were if we do as it being doing in olden days. Parents should be the ones to find a first partner for their children from reputable family. Infact, the best people to chose a partner for you are your parents. They may not go for the useless woman you want but a very good lady from a good family.

Aside that, it will be of great benefits to the society, because, if I knows that no reasonable parents will come for a waywards daughter, I will do everything to make sure she is well trained. Same apply to boys, if i knows that no good parents will give their daughter to a useless boy, I will make sure he turn out to be a great man.

Dpsychologist:
Ladies, if you are going to tell men they are beneath your level because they do not have money, at least be honest about whose money is creating the lifestyle you are using to establish that level.

There is nothing wrong with dating a wealthy man. Enjoying what your partner provides is not a crime, and nobody should shame you for it. The problem is when you start wearing somebody else's wealth as though it is evidence of your own financial achievement.

You are driving his car, living in his house, travelling with his money and enjoying a lifestyle his income created, then looking at a man who is still struggling to build himself and saying he is beneath you.

Beneath you based on what?

If the relationship ended tomorrow, what would remain that is actually yours?

Your education, your career, your business, your savings, your investments, your property and your ability to generate income are yours. Your boyfriend's bank account is not.

This is where some of the “I am above his level” talk becomes ridiculous. A man can be broke and still be building his way out of it. A woman can have access to a very wealthy man and still have little personal wealth of her own. Financially, those two people may have far more in common than she wants to admit.

The fact that someone wealthy chooses to spend money on you changes your lifestyle. It does not automatically change your financial position.

This applies to men too. A man dating a wealthy woman does not become wealthy simply because he drives her car and enjoys her money. Access is not ownership.

So have your standards. Date whoever you want. Reject whoever you want. Nobody is entitled to your relationship.

Just do not confuse being connected to wealth with creating wealth.

If you want to tell a struggling man that he is beneath your financial level, make sure you actually have a financial level of your own.

Because wealth is not sexually transmitted.

An husband and wife are one, whatever a man owns is for the benefit of his family, in which his wife and children are integral part of. You don't separate husband wealth from his wife because she is also part of his empire and existence.

Men works hard, not only for themselves but their families ( both nuclear and extended). A wife has every right to represent his husband wealth, because she is his natural next of kin.