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RIP. if you're reincarnated I'm sure you'd be better off without marriage

Righteousness89:
Apart from the Reduction in her Body size, what I see is a Lady who once had a sense of decency in the way she Dressed and has now thrown that Decency to the wind in the Name of Fashion!

So if your wife dresses the way she used to dress, will you be happy?

Read this book "emotional intelligence by Daniel Goleman"
Trust me, you'll see why you are like this and how to change

I thought she said she was never going to drop the Balogun name

Our tiger battery enabled torch light can also stop sexual assault, oponu!

I don't condone stealing but this man had paid his dues and yet was still forced to keep laying down his life. Everyone has their tolerance limit and it's obvious this man had reached his

I don't know the modus operandi of the US army but I don't think they would keep sending survivors from Iraq to more dangerous places at least without their consent

The man had earned the right to be at least owed that much but now he has had a very unflattering end to his career, I can't help but feel it could have been avoided

It seems when one person comes out to complain then that's when others queue up to do, always need just one to break the dam

So if I don't pay back the loan then they will seize my 2-2 abi

WenysAD:
Dem for post d pix of the girl wey d guys got flogged for leading to d death of one of d suitors so we can decide if it was worth it

Aunty abeg make up your mind... pidgin or queen's english, choose one

Is there any real need to comment on this little girl's post I wonder, she reminds me of when I was a teenager and thought I knew all when I knew nothing..

Honestly, everyone deserves the right to make their choices but there are two things involved here

1. She posted it online so yes she has opened the door to criticism from all and sundry
2. Her arguments are so bad they are actually quite pitiful

I've always believed if you can back up your position then no one deserves to tell you any different but her stands and analogies are filled with a heavy dose of half truths and outright lies just like a certain Mr Trump.. Let me highlight a couple of them for you

1. Her declaration that marriage is solely for the purpose of procreation is such a myopic view on the institution called marriage to a scary extent.. How bout having a life partner who is there with you before any babies come in then if not, artificial insemination could just as easily do the work of getting babies and the whole marriage institution should just be discontinued right now in this day and age

2. Her tunnel vision and mind seems not to care for the children who will be brought up without a father figure in their life which if we look at the African American community is really a detriment to most children.. Now I know loads of single parented children have gone on to be successful in life but so have orphaned children which does not negate the fact that a mother and father are both needed to nurture a child in the most ideal of circumstances.
Her choice to not have a father figure from the start for the children is such a selfish decision that it just lends credence to the notion that she is still a child and not mature enough to be a mother yet. I really hope she grows up not to have this mentality anymore

3. And finally the most glaring falsehood she espoused was the "Jesus and the apostles didn't get married while serving God so why should I"... Aunty, did the apostles or Jesus have a child out of wedlock hmm?
She completely negated the fact that she would be committing fornication if she doesn't have artificial insemination which is a sin before the God (fornication I mean) she claims to want to serve. In fact, the Holy Grail has been said to be the lineage of Jesus Christ which would destroy the very fabric of Christianity if it comes to light.. why? Cuz that would prove Jesus Christ who didn't marry committed fornication after commanding us not to but this little girl is too myopic to see this..


All in all, I know this is her life and shouldn't warrant this long epistle I have written but when people claim to be so smart and all knowing despite showing glaring ineptitude, it really does get to me and I have an instinctive urge to show them the error of their ways... I am not saying I am perfect but at least one should have reasonable basis for whatever decisions you want to undertake and I hope this changes the mind of even 1 lady who might have been persuaded by her quite frankly empty talk..

I haven't commented here on this forum in some time but the OP of the thread just weak me..

And this is supposed to be a professional blog site that has man u finishing 5th instead of 6th and the less said about the possible line ups the better..

Yemi blog or whoever, abeg goan gather more info next time especially when it concerns my team

Can this work in naija when lecturer will knack you E so your GP will never remain the same...


They must make it super anonymous for it to work

So she doesn't have her sister's number again abi

Medunah:
I really do not give a fvck bout what you think about how I run my mouth so I am not even gonna bother with that.

Sorry to disappoint you, the guys I know are not women beaters........and I don't remember cursing you in any way, just giving a name to what you already described yoself as.

Now, who said anything about getting away with it cause she is a woman??
The question here is "would he have done the same if it were to be a guy that insulted him like that
Infact, he his the one getting away with his actions here cos the recipient of the slaps is a girl cos we all know if it had being a fellow guy or a girl stronger than him, we all know it would be an entirely different story.....

An alien reading your post would be led to believe that human males do not have physical altercations with each other and save their strength for females only..

And you'd have to be extremely biased to not note that men have fought wars even for much less...

Medunah:
For no reason whatsoever should you lay your hands on your woman, it's misuse of power. My boyfriend provokes me but do I go physical? No because I know he his more powerful than me so I devise other means to get back at him....same thing you guys can do but just cos you know she is weak against you, you go ahead to use your hands.......

This here is the crux of the whole issue, you don't get physical because you know you "can't win" not cuz it is "unladylike"... Hmmm

Just came back on here...

raayah:
ok.. So if my wife nags me, I should hit her to the extent of injuring her head??

I was thinking of replying but what I can see is you're looking at this through heavily tinted glasses and no matter what anyone says, your opinion would not shift one bit.
It's obvious that you do not know the effects of verbal abuse and think guys should be robots that can handle "stereotypical nagging women" without any display of emotion...

freshvine:
To you never verbally abuse your husband, if you do and he responds back, dump his ass cos if you allow him the pleasure of responding someday he might go physical

And it is at this point that I knew feminists cannot be reasoned with...
So you want to abuse men but if they respond, dump his a$$ right...where's the equality in that I wonder?

Shouldn't the camel be carrying the car?

classicB:
Let assume some girls dress scantily to get raped. What about those underage girls?? What about that innocent housemaid that get raped daily by Oga simply.because Madam isn't available, those men that rapes their own daughters nko??

I wish I had seen this thread earlier but this girl is just shifting goal posts now...you were talking bout those visiting weren't you

For two years plus we didn't adhere to over 50 admonishments from the EU...and we want to be treated same as developed Nations when our mentality is extremely underdeveloped.

First of all, happy birthday to me!!!...
Now that has been cleared up let me dig into the topic at hand, my one birthday wish. As I was preparing for my small evening celebration it struck me as uncanny that my birthday would fall on the very day that our great Nation would receive the result of an event hat has been scrutinised, debated and even fought over for the past one year or more to be honest (talk about feeling like a star on your special day huh ). I'm referring to none other than our 2015 Presidential election (is there any other position being contested sef )
Anyways, just as I was preparing to be pampered this evening an epiphany hit me and I thought to myself "wouldn't it be the most epic of all birthday presents for General Buhari to be named President-elect today?". Yes, that is my one birthday wish ( I can practically sniff GEJ/PDP supporters stalking out the thread now ) and let me just state that I'm not an APC "supporter" as I couldn't care less how they fare in the governorship and other elections but I support GMB...for this election at least.
I could go on and bore you with my reasonings and what not but hey let's face it, only GMB supporters are reading this last line ...happy birthday to me once again jare!!!

I haven't posted here for a while now but this is utterly ridiculous and shambolic coming from one with his supposed literacy level. He is essentially paving the way for a dangerous precedent where any Tom, Dick or Harry can come up with baseless accusations with no evidence and expect a reply from public figures(including his pay master) and if none is forthcoming then the accusations are to be taken as legit, only in this part of the world can this be taken with any form of seriousness.
As for the questions themselves, I stopped giving it the benefit of the doubt the moment he mentioned the "office of the first lady"...and this is supposed to be a custodian of the law and constitution smh

Hilarious comments so far, let me get mine off my chest once and for all as Baba God is involved...
Back then as a fresher, we spent cash like we had a secret account in a swiss bank and we could always rely on our parents dotting of their "undergraduate pikin".
After the honeymoon period had elasped, things come red for awon boys and praying for each text received to be an alert turned to a daily routine.
God answered my prayer at last...albeit in an unconventional manner. My food stuff had finished on a friday with absolutely no hope for the weekend which now seemed like a deep dark tunnel without end, and that is when i remembered that there was a deeper life church retreat that weekend which promised free feeding! Within 10 mins in a speed i knew not i possessed, i found myself on the bus to a weekend of spiritual cleansing (*ahem*free chops)...

bebe2: Not a single one in Africa

Oyinbo don talk,

Black man must to obey

Used to have this mentality but in actual fact we are our own worst enemies cause of one crucial fact...we(the blacks) hardly document things and thus our claims most often cannot be backed up.

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People would see this and cheer...but lets take a moment and think of all the opportunities missed cause of the violence and the attendent multiplier effect on the economy. Even without constant power, we would have been so much more comfortable.

Though im a p-square fan...big ups to our leading act in africa

so true...*yawn*

the next poster shaves his/her legs

@vivly *You need to port from whatever network u using ASAP *

and sorry to dissapoint u bro ...


The next poster is currently on okada

true *harry potter et all*

the next poster has a twin

though u new guys won't me next session God willing...hope u guys gain admission and enjoy this great institution.


*serious advice... try and stay on campus the first year @least

*other advice (for guys)...make sure u have enough dough to buy the ladies "me-shai" and lacasera