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faakay:
when she dey PUPU is the best place & time to kiss her 
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lol, dont u just love NL!

TheSeeker:
Sorry sweetie, I didn't say that to insult. It's a slang here used by guys which simply states a guy's got to put his mind into making and spending money. If I say money on my mind, I got its making networked all over my brain. If I say it's on my conscience, it means I'm mindful of how and what to spend it on. Sorry again if it cut across as an insult but that wasn't the intention

TheSeeker:
Why don't you just answer the question? It's a matter of being logical. When it comes to monetary issues, it's got to be logical. Romance is from the heart, money is always on your mind and your conscience controls it.

TheSeeker:
[color=#000099]How is it expected of him? Please explain to me!

simple - taking responsiblity!!!!!!

justwise:
Get this right, i'm not against giving to gf, surely its normal BUT  it shouldn't be in 'shopping list' or part of the contract, saying: for being ur gf, this is how much u give me on monthly bases.

If u are too old to ask ur parent then u are old enough to provide for urself. Girls should not be used to depending on bfs, they willl not get much respect, love him without payment in return

justwise:
Her dady and mum can do that, who takes care of those 'needs' b4 she met him?

My point is, that shouldn't be argued at all, no demand, she is not his wife or daughter.

Yes the bf should help without being reminded but it shouldn't be an issue.

bennics:
I was at the galleria the other day and overheard a guy bragging to his friend about a girl he had layed
just the night before. I was really irritated by their conversation i had to change my seat. Really guys is
it proper for a guy to brag about stuffs like this, i believe things like this are personal and should be kept
secret. I really dont know what they tend derive from such kind of action.

TheSeeker:
When something sounds too good to be true, it usually is. Why would a girl I met a month ago buy me a Hummer Jeep? First of all, I don't like Hummer -- it ain't sleek. Secondly, what kind of work does engage in to make her afford Hummer? Why did she buy me the Hummer? I won't ask her because no matter what, she'll always lie to me anyways. I'll just reject the Jeep and find my exit out of her life. Maybe the next thing is she'll use me for money ritual who knows.

Butterfly4:
i was in a violent situation with a guy I used to date. The first time it happened, it totally caught me off guard. We were arguing in his house and he wanted me to leave. When I refused, he knocked me to the ground and straight up dragged me by my feet out of the house. I ended up with many bruises from the struggle and from being on the concrete. The second time it happened I was trying to talk to him outside of his house and when I tried to get him to stay outside and finish talking with me, he snapped and started fighting me outside. That left me with bruises. Once we were arguing and he squeezed my arm so hard that it left his fingerprints around my wrist in the form of a bruise. The last time it happened which resulted in the final end of our relationship, I fought back. He was really hurt me and throwing me around. And then I started to fight back which further pissed him off. But he really really hurt me and went so far as to grab me by the neck and bite my arm so hard that I was bleeding.

I am out of that situation now, thank God. It was my fault for taking the abuse and going back over and over and over again. Love really blinds you and you can't see reality and you ignore what everybody else is telling you. He was never sorry for the abuse and felt that I deserved it. But I am happy now that I don't have to deal with that anymore and I am free from that person. Fighting in relationships on both sides is not right. I believe that women have the right to fight back if someone is hurting them physically. Men should not let women get them so angry that they feel that they need to resort to physical violence.

Things like that could end in very sad and serious tragedies as we see all the time on the news. Noone should be in that situation. It is not right in God's eyes.

Bob James:
Very beatiful contributions have been made,
lately the lady came around and have been wanting to see me but
i politely refused to see her because it could further create some stupid private scenes.
Even though she has said she will be the last person to break my marriage,
i still dont want to throw caution to the winds. I love my family and i would want to risk a lifetime thing for
what is temporary and that also could mar my destiny.
The mistake have been made. I fell. But must i remain fallen? No way.
She's got to move on and let God give her the man she desires.
I showed so much care for her, i was everything to her, i satisfied her so well in bed, and now am quitting.
Its not going to be easy for her i know but hey, its a mistake.
Guys, i face a lot of temptation. Thats the truth.
Iknow a number of guys do. Even the so-called saints who have timelessly hung me on the cross have done worse.
Even pastors have come face to face with issues like this. Some fell but they got up, picked up the bits and pieces and moved on with God.
I have moved on. Thats my joy now.