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Politics › Re: Pictures From Kwankwaso's Campaign Rally In Rogo Local Government, Kano by Yoighaman(m): 12:25am On Jan 18, 2023 |
Wow! This is massive.
Looking like he's going to have a landslide victory is Kano. |
Politics › Re: FAKE NEWS. PLEASE IGNORE by Yoighaman(m): 11:11pm On Jan 17, 2023 |
saysugar: If WizKid goes there,he was fukin paid be that, no musicians wey grow in Lagos will fukoff tinubu Wizkid publicly denounced "old, sick men" (paraphrased)...who did you think he was referring to? |
Politics › Re: FAKE NEWS. PLEASE IGNORE by Yoighaman(m): 11:06pm On Jan 17, 2023 |
I am a Peter Obi supporter, but let's be objective here. If Tinubu or Atiku pay these guys for a concert, they'd gladly perform, don't get carried away with all this drama, they are only doing their business. |
Career › Re: How I Almost Died Working At A Construction Site by Yoighaman(m): 4:55pm On Jan 17, 2023 |
vowiski: Can we all support this young man…
Hard work is good , but God’s favour is better… Can you now see why we always shout on the top of our voices that our youths should desist from scams? I'm sure a lot of people might be willing to assist him, but would be having ideas at the back of their minds. Bad people have soiled the path to helping people that genuinely need help. |
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Crime › Re: The Story Of MONSURAT TOYIN IGBIRA, The Most Notorious Drug Baroness In Africa by Yoighaman(m): 11:55pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
balash: TOYIN IGBIRA’S FIRST MAJOR ARREST AND HER FIERCE BATTLE FOR FREEDOM
If you are familiar with the bizarre tales of Nigerian men and women who have decided to carve a niche for themselves in the powdery world of drug trafficking, then the name Toyin Igbira will not sound surprising to you. She is the most notorious drug baroness in the history of Nigeria. Of all the female scorpions in the narcotic business, none came closer to Igbira whose daring exploits still shock many till date.
As intelligent and crafty as Toyin Igbira was 1997-2000 was one of the worst periods of her life. For much of that period, she was in jail, locked up like a common criminal after she had been nabbed after a very long pursuit by the National Drug Law Enforcement Agency (NDLEA).
The period remains one of the best in the history of the NDLEA as they went on a major spree and crackdown against drug traffickers all over the country. A big society lady known all at all the parties of Lagos, Alhaja Toyin was caged and as she looked on helplessly in detention, she tried every possible means to liquidate the murderous grip of the NDLEA on her. She was nabbed and flung into cell under the controversial miscellaneous offences tribunals, better known as the MOTs at that time. Although her case had not been decided yet at that time, the MOT system made it possible for her to be jailed indefinitely.
From December 1997 when she was arrested alongside eight others, she was left to rot in jail until 1999 when something interesting happened. By the way, after the arrest of Alhaja Toyin Igbira by NDLEA operatives, she was arraigned before the defunct Miscellaneous Offences Tribunal (MOT) in suit number MOT/L/16/98 on the 27th of May, 1998 based on her confessions and those of five of her drug business partners. It was the MOT that effectively ordered that she be remanded in custody and she would languish at the Kirikiri Maximum Prisons for over 16 months.
Thanks to Igbira, many drug carriers had their trips facilitated through the country’s airports by Toyin Igbira. Nigeria did not just acquire her horrible reputation in one day, we have people like Toyin Igbira to praise for contributing to that jar of tar now staining all Nigerians outside the country.
Months climbed upon months and hoped dimmed for her. But Toyin Igbira is a fighter with a relentless spirit. Her determination to always remain as free as the puffs from a cocaine smoker galvanized her into doing the most unthinkable thing. In her warped mind, she conjured the most devilish plot, an orchestration so manipulative that it could bring down the entire agency.
NDLEA was quite aggressive with her as they did not only cage her but impounded her property running into several millions of naira. In Lagos alone, five landed assets belonging to her were promptly snatched from her. This led to a massive legal gbonmisiomioto (tussle) between her army of lawyers and the gallant NDLEA.
Desperate to enjoy some fresh liberty, Igbira resorted to the oldest trick in the book: seduction. She made several overtures to the zonal commander of the NDLEA office in Ikeja, Mallam Samuel Bashir Gadzama. She was ready to throw her expensive Ankara fabrics away and strip herself naked then give him the most mindblowing sessions of passionate sex but unfortunately for her, the hormone-driven plan blew in her face when Gadzama rejected her Jezebelic proposals.
Igbira was more than ready to use her slim and thoroughly-bleached body to obstruct justice. Morals and ethics were useless in the vocabulary of a coke peddler. It must be highlighted that that same period was one of the bloodiest for the NDLEA as many of their operatives were mercilessly killed by drug traffickers and it would be a big blow to the morale of the agency should their boss agree to free Igbira just for a few rounds of illicit sex with the unrepentant drug empress.
Gadzama was one of the best hands in the NDLEA. A veteran in many undercover operations, he was later promoted to Director of Operations and General Investigations, effectively the number two position in the agency. In the 1990s, Gadzama had taken part in several undercover Joint Task Force operations and formerly served as the commander of NDLEA operations at the Murtala Muhammed International Airport in Lagos and also as the commander of the JTF.
He also had a brilliant working relationship with the Drug Enforcement Administration (DEA), a United States federal law enforcement agency under the United States Department of Justice, tasked with combating drug smuggling and use within the United States of America. So Igbira knew exactly what she was doing and why she chose Gadzama as her specific target.
The amazing thing is that drug barons in Nigeria have actually managed to poison the minds of even the most senior bosses of the agency. In November 2005 for example, a furious President Olusegun Obasanjo fired Alhaji Bello Lafiaji as the chairman of the NDLEA after he was found to have collected money from the same drug traffickers he was supposed to combat, in 2010 he would later be sentenced to 16 years in jail after he was found guilty of stealing the sum of 164,300 euros from the residence of a drug peddler in custody. Gadzama was the prosecution witness at the court trial. Lafiaji was replaced by Ahmadu Giade, a retired deputy commissioner of police. Toyin Igbira would languish in jail until something very dramatic happened.
The Shocking Story of How Justice Abubakar Abdulkadir Jega Assisted Nigeria’s Most Notorious Drug Baroness And Unrepentant Cocaine Peddler Alhaja Toyin Igbira Escape Justice In August 1999
One of the countries I admire most on the planet is Singapore. It has everything that my beloved country, Nigeria does not have. Although Singapore is very tiny, so tiny that Lagos, the smallest state in my nation, is five times bigger than this southeast Asian nation called Republic of Singapore.
But make no mistake, Singapore is one of the richest nations on earth. In fact, just two nations are richer than Singapore in the whole world. This is a country that has no natural resources but leads the world in education, healthcare, technology, life expectancy, housing, personal safety and quality of life. But how come Singapore that got independence from United Kingdom in 1963 is so successful while Nigeria that became independent from the same colonial power in 1960 is struggling with devastating indicators such as the second worst infant and maternal mortality rates on earth?
Well, the answer lies in the hands of Lee Kuan Yew, the first Prime Minister and the founding father of modern Singapore. Better known as LKY, it was Lee Kuan Yew who was the brain behind the incredible leap of his country from being a haven of poverty to one of the most admired corners of prosperity in the world. However, he was able to achieve such a mindblowing transformation because he ensured the judiciary was reformed. It was so thoroughly reformed that any form of indiscipline was severely dealt with. In fact, trafficking in drugs was followed by the death sentence.
For LKY, the rights of their law-abiding citizens to a life devoid of the nefarious effects of drugs trump the so-called human rights of the drug mules. Why am I comparing Singapore with Nigeria? I am doing so simply because while the judiciary is one of the pillars of success in Singapore (where African leaders like Robert Mugabe of Zimbabwe now run to for medical care), the same judiciary is one of the biggest obstacles to progress and development in Nigeria and until a proper reform of the Nigerian judicial system is done, nothing is really going to shift for the betterment of the society. I will use the case of this infamous drug peddler as an illustration.
Notoriety personified, Toyin Igbira was one of the most difficult nuts for the NDLEA to crack. For years upon years, she had managed to outsmart the nets of the country’s top drug law agency. She seemed invincible, slippery and smooth; she always operated under the radar like the lethal B2 Spirit Stealth Bomber of the United States Air Force. Igbira was known but no one knew how to nab her until luck smiled on the agency one sunny day in December 1997. There was jubilation in the NDLEA camp. One of their most prized assets was finally in their trap and they were so ready to ensure that she would rot in jail. But it was not to be. Something that would never have happened in Bedok, Singapore happened in Lagos, Nigeria.
At the very top of the list of the self-confessed drug kingpins was none other than Alhaja Monsurat Oluwatoyin Oyemade Abraham aka Toyin Igbira. On that same list were seasoned drug peddlers and cocaine trafficking veterans such as Steven Akinyemi Akingba aka Akinse (who interestingly, was the United States-based ally of Toyin Igbira as mentioned earlier), Mohammed Mohammed who was an immigration service officer attached to the Murtala Muhammed International Airport, Ikeja in Lagos and it was from his duty post that he facilitated all kinds of illicit drug transactions within and outside Nigeria, Peter Oriamen, Babajide Adeoye, Tokunbo Olaiya, Rachel Moronlayo Adeniran, Yetunde Akintan and another suspect who was captured with him.
To the utter shock and massive heartbreak of the NDLEA, five of these nine major drug suspects were all freed by Justice Abdulkadir Jega of the Federal High Court Eight. Those who regained their freedom in the hands of Jega included Toyin Igbira, Akingba, Oriamen, Adeoye and Olaiya. As for Mohammed, he was granted bail by Justice (Mrs.) Olomojobi while Adeniran, Akintan and his fellow in crime were released by Justice Kassim of Court Annex Two.
While asking for bail for Igbira, Kasoki Hart Olakanma of Femi Falana Chambers put up an energetic show and implored the judge to declare that the continued detention of the suspect at the Kirikiri Prisons since 26th of August 1998 was illegal and unconstitutional; that the provisions of section 2 (4) and 3(2) of the Tribunals Decree 62 of 1999 are illegal and unconstitutional as they violated her rights which were clearly guaranteed by section 35 and 36 of the Constitution and that the respondents (NDLEA) do not have the competence and authority to arraign, prosecute and try Igbira on account of the charges that were pending before the MOT.
The attorney did not stop there. The lawyer sought an order directing NDLEA to release all the property and documents seized from Igbira and those of other persons in her custody from illegal custody forthwith. Above all, the lawyer contended that Igbira was an innocent pigeon who knew:
‘….nothing whatsoever about the offences she is being charged with…’
The lawyer also promised that Igbira would not jump bail if granted. It was a lie and a thinly-disguised ruse. The legal team of the NDLEA smelt this deceit and launched a counterattack. Lawyer Nnanna Alamegie of the NDLEA argued that Toyin Igbira was facing a solid four-count charge with several other accused persons at the MOT, Lagos Zone and that trial was already in motion before the tribunal’s dissolution on the 29th of May 1999 with the coming of the democratic dispensation (it is quite interesting, this is my () own emphasis, to note that it was democracy that Igbira exploited to the fullest to regain her freedom).
Alamegie argued on with vigour saying the accused was not granted bail at the tribunal because her offence carries an imprisonment for a term of between 15 and 25 years. He dropped a bombshell:
‘…The release on bail of a person with enormous wealth may lead to a frustration of the course of trial.’
He further insisted that it is in the interest of Nigeria as a country that the suspect was allowed to conclude her case from custody because she is very likely to tamper with the overwhelming bail. He thundered:
‘At the Miscellaneous Offences Tribunal, more than seven key witnesses gave evidence and the evidence so far taken shows that the applicant is one of the big-time drug barons that bring the reputation of this great country Nigeria to disrepute in the international community.’
International drug routes
At that point, Igbira’s lawyer Olakanma disputed the assertion of the NDLEA that the stupendous amount of money that the drug baroness controlled was going to frustrate the trial. Without missing a heartbeat, Alamegie dismissed this argument when he revealed that Toyin Igbira was not only facing trial at the Zone Three of the MOT, but also another charge at the Zone One of the MOT on Kingsway Road, Ikoyi, for attempting to bribe NDLEA men with the hefty sum of N1.4 million naira to forestall investigations into the drug peddling case against her. She was desperate to be left off the hook.
After listening to both arguments, the judge made a puzzling declaration:
On the 18th of August 1999, Justice Abubakar Abdulkadir Jega threw a dagger right at the hearts of the tireless NDLEA operatives and detectives when he granted Toyin Igbira bail in the sum of N1 million with two sureties each in like sum. Small piece of cake. She promptly met up. All she had to do was to press buttons on her vast Lagos-Ijebu Ode network.
But the NDLEA operatives were so furious with the baffling judgment that they were ready to pounce on Igbira and re-arrest her immediately with fresh charges on her neck. In order to ensure this did not happen, Justice Jega personally and physically shielded Toyin Igbira from the action-ready NDLEA operatives when he drove her out of the court premises with his own car all in a bid to just make sure the NDLEA operatives do not rearrest the heroin baronness. Although the case was adjourned until the whole thing went hazy. Stylishly, she regained her freedom but the NDLEA was so pissed off that they refused to hand over the property they seized from her. Not even all the legal acrobatics from Femi Falana Chambers could convince the NDLEA to release a pin to her. The following were seized from Toyin Igbira by the NDLEA operatives:
Assorted clothes and fabrics from her 14, Nnamdi Azikiwe Street, Lagos Shop valued at N17.5 million naira. Landed property and buildings at 36, Itire Road, Mushin, 14, Bereola Street, Surulere, 12 Owodunni Street, Iwaya and an undeveloped plot of land at 212, Church Street, Onigbagbo Village at Opebi, Ikeja. NB: Justice Abubakar Abdulkadir Jega (who happens to be the brother of former INEC Chairman, Professor Attahiru Jega) would later rise to become an Appeal Court Justice. In September 2015, he was crushed to death during a Hajj stampede in Muna, near Mecca in Saudi Arabia while the pilgrims were on their way to Jamarat to perform the stoning of Satan. Jega was a member of the Kebbi State’s hajj delegation to the desert kingdom.
Justice Abubakar Jega
But as NDLEA had predicted, Igbira did not become repentant as she immediately resumed her trade in hard drugs. It seemed nothing could deter her as she had the ultimate belief that she had mastered all the intricacies of the heavily-flawed Nigerian justice system – via a vast system of patronage and ‘connections’ that often involved the very functionaries in government. However, it was not long afterwards that her paths crossed again with that of her old enemy – the NDLEA.
You can see that it has been long that the Nigerian judiciary has been a major obstacle to justice in our country. In fact, on this matter, the NDLEA was so pained that on the 24th of August, just few days after Justice Jega had freed her, the agency slammed Toyin Igbira with two new charges at the Federal High Court. The first suit FHC/L118c/99 had a two-count charge: that Toyin Igbira on or about 5 April 1995 conspired with and aided one George Olanrewaju Owumi to export 1.112 kilogramme of heroin to Zurich, Switzerland and thereby committed an offence punishable under section 10c (b) of NDLEA Decree 15 of 1992.
In the second suit, the accusation hammered on Igbira’s head had it that Toyin Igbira conspired with and aided Miss Helen Osemene Izien to export 1.35 kilogrammes of heroin to New York, United States of America, offences punishable under section 10c (b) of the NDLEA Decree 15 of 1992. The NDLEA was so certain they had bulletproof cases against Igbira and that there was no way she would escape spending the rest of her cocaine-filled life behind prison walls. They were painfully disappointed.
On Monday, 6th of September 1998 when the case came up, Toyin Igbira pleaded that she was sick all of a sudden. The drama queen was determined to frustrate the case and return to her money-spinning business by all means. The cases were then adjourned till 14th of September when the charges would then be read to enable her enter a plea.
HER SECOND ARREST AND IMPRISONMENT
After trailing her for five years since 1997, the NDLEA finally made another major breakthrough on the 15th of November, 2002. On that day, an excited Zonal Command of the National Drug Law Enforcement Agency at Ikeja announced with maximum glee that they had trapped a legendary suspect alive.
It was Alhaja Toyin Abraham Igbira again and she was arrested red-handed with a hefty package – 72 wraps of substance suspected to be heroin. Her fall from narcotic grace to criminal grass that fateful day occurred at the ever-bustling Murtala Muhammed International Airport (MMIA), Ikeja, Lagos. Igbira had informed her contacts on the other side of the Atlantic Ocean that she was on her way already. As a veteran in the illegal trade, she made sure she closed all the loops and perfected every move. However, it was a terrible day for her as the devilish package on her was discovered shortly before she was to board her flight to the United States of America.
It was that moment that many Nigerians really heard her name and saw her face for the very first time. She was paraded before ogling journalists at the NDLEA headquarters. During the adrenalin-filled press conference, Alhaji Abdullahi A. Danburam who was the NDLEA zonal commander trumpeted it loud for everyone to hear that they had been placing traps for Alhaja Igbira since 1997 but she managed to evade almost all by remaining several steps ahead of them – until the gods got pissed off and declared her cup full again on the 15th of November. Interesting story. Nice one. |
TV/Movies › Re: Big Brother Titans (BBTitans) 2023: Live Updates Thread by Yoighaman(m): 10:04pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
Obidientful: This useless show will make Nigerian lazy youth not to concentrate on the forthcoming election. It's a ploy to distract the youths, but it will not work. The Presidential election is fully on our minds. |
Politics › Re: Lagos Street Poll: Tinubu May Not Win Lagos O by Yoighaman(m): 9:12pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
IDeyNL: Make sure you come to either Amuwo, Festac or Ojo LGAs.
We want to check something Tinubu and his thugs always disrupt the election process in that axis, especially Ago Palace way, because they know they'd never win, but things will be different this time around. People are vexing and waiting for them. |
Politics › Re: Lagos Street Poll: Tinubu May Not Win Lagos O by Yoighaman(m): 9:09pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
Mummyfour: If you want to have an Idea of which candidate people will vote more in Lagos state, ask the danfo drivers
Those guys hate tinubu with a passion because of what agberos are doing to them, and we all know that Baba buluba is the grand patron of agberoism. They are so angry but can not display their anger in public because of the fear of rebuttal from touts.
Most of them have PVC and would tell you that they are voting obi. They are not as tribalistic as the nonentities we have on nairaland here.. they may hide the truth from you when you interview them especially if you are a man, but I had cause to chat with a lot of them the last time I went to Lagos and they really opened up. They opened up because I am a woman that appeared unassuming and concerned about the heaving levies they had to pay at each bus stop.
They hate tinubu like satan.
Another set of people is the market people. Forget all those uniform wrapper you see those women wearing and dancing, na lie o, they are in pains.
They don't support tinubu because of the numerous taxes, and levies and high handedness of the iyaloja that is tinubu's daughter.
Most times they are pressured into coming out for those charade if not they will be heavily sanctioned.
My old secondary school mates in Lagos especially the Yoruba Muslims are voting obi
In our group chats, we always update ourselves,so, it will take massive rigging for tinubu to win anywhere o. People are tired of APC government. You just spoke the blunt truth. I have personally spoken with these guys, and they will show Tinubu pepper at the polls. They are just pretending because of the repercussions if they dare speak against him publicly. |
Politics › Re: APC May Lose 2023 Presidential Election Because Of Cashless Policy, Sagay Warns by Yoighaman(m): 4:43pm On Jan 16, 2023 |
Amb1045: ANY ATTEMPT TO VOTE APC BACK TO POWER IN 2023 IS A VOTE FOR:
1. 2nd Most Terrorized Nation in the world.
2. World Poverty Capital.
3. 22M out of school children.
4. 53.40% youth unemployment.
5. ASUU Strike.
6. Twitter ban
7. Crypto ban.
8. Silly and unintelligent boarder closure.
9. Naira at N703/$ and heading to he N1k/$.
10. Oil theft at the highest level since discover with Government agencies pointing fingas at each other.
11. Unprecedented borrowing. Highest in the history of Nigeria.
22. Fraudulent subsidy payments, breaking any previous records.
23. Billions spent on unproductive refineries yearly.
24. Unprecedented corruption.
25. Lack of transparency in governance.
26. N20 trillion Ways & Means or CBN’s reckless printing of money.
27. Lowest FDI in recent years.
28. Terrorism, mass abductions, kidnapping & UGM.
29. Terrible roads, with FERMA dead.
30. Poor power generation, with highest number of national grid collapse in recent years.
31. Lies and propaganda raised to the level of policy of state.
32. Conniving and toothless National Assembly.
33. Compromised Judiciary and harassment of Judges
34. Budget padding
35. Sick President with Parkinson disease.
These are the things you want to continue when you reward the APC with another 4 years and the result will be total collapse of our country. Venezuela and what is happening now in Lebanon would be child's play.
Do not choose to play politics of party, tribe or religion in the 2023 Presidential election. It has to be a politics of competence and commitment. Peter Obi of Labour party is the man to rescue the country at this critical time of near collapse.
Vote wisely and Vote Peter Obi as the next President of Nigeria come 2023. Wow! What a record. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Nigeria Immigration Service 2023 Recruitment by Yoighaman(m): 2:53am On Jan 14, 2023*. Modified: 9:04am On Jan 15, 2023 |
vii. Applicants must not be financially embarrassed;
Can you now see how those loan Apps mess some people up? Especially the ones whose platforms are unstable and unreliable...I read a lot about these incidences. |
Family › Re: My Ex Fiancee Is Pregnant For Me by Yoighaman(m): 2:46am On Jan 14, 2023 |
Alesa3341: Hello Guys, please I need a sincere and matured advise on what to do. This will be long, please bare with me.
I'm 27, am a businessman, I have this girl I really love so much and intend to marry her this year December, but one thing about her is her bad character. She challenge me, talk back at me, shout at me, get angry with me for days, refuse to cook when she is angry, disrespect my family, most especially my mum, always trying to paint herself good and paint me bad in presence of people, these are just little of the things she has done to me.
When she lost her job, and had nowhere to go, I had to bring her to my house, and provide everything for her, food, I change her hair twice a month, subscribe unlimited for her, I just provided everything a woman need to be happy for her. Last year November, she told me she haven't seen her mum for 5years and wanted to travel to see her, I spent close to 200k to take her to and fro, including other things she needed. She insisted on collecting the bride price list for me when coming back, I spoke to her mum and they gave her to give me. I was planning to finalize all on the weeding this year.
Last year DECEMBER, I took her to my family to introduce her, but this was the biggest mistake of my life. She was completely disrespectful to my mum, talks to me anyhow in presence of anyone, even to the extent of refusing to cook for me anytime she is angry, I go to kitchen and prepare food myself.
I love this girl so much but I still thought of continuing, with all this attitudes, I advise her everyday, I also took her to my pastor who advise her too most of the times, but she never changes.
Fast forward to 2days ago, we had issues because she told me to join her in washing and I refused because I was working on a client project, she got angry, washed the clothes and when it was evening she brought the clothes inside, folded her own in the wardrobe and just threw mine into the wardrobe without folding or arranging them. I was angry about this, but I kept mute. The next day, she sent me "sorry" on WhatsApp, I told her to come to me physically and apologize but she told me she can never do that, and why was she even apologizing, that she did nothing wrong, we exchanged words and she left my house.
Today, she called me and told me she is pregnant, and that I should send her money to remove it. I was like "just like that"? We didn't discuss about it, how will you just tell me you want to terminate my pregnancy, I told her to go to hospital and confirm it and also get the test report, she did this and sent to me, it was true she is pregnant, but she insisted on removing it, I persuaded her and she still refused, claiming she can't be a single mother. I told her I will take responsibility, but she insisted on removing it, I told her to go home and think about it, and she told me she can't leave there without removing it. After so much persuading I decided to give her the money, and told her if she removed it, that it's on her, that I didn't consent to this.
I asked her why we can't keep it, and she said because my family is bad, we support evil, if the sky is blue, we say it's red, that my mother is a bad woman, and she doesn't want to come there. She said so many bad things about my family, I was shocked! I asked her, how are they bad, she said "how can my mother be telling her to wash my clothes" I was just confused, After all I have done for you, is it bad if you wash your husband to be clothes, I left her!
Later she told me the doctor referred her to another hospital, I still tried to persuade her and she said her decision is final. She asked me to give her money to go to the hospital she was referred to, I refused! I insisted that we keep the baby, she told me "I'm a nobody, that she will call now and she will get money to go" I angrily blocked her. Later, she called my other line and told me, she went to the other hospital and the doctor told her, the cost to remove the pregnancy is 125k, she told me and I insisted on keeping the baby.
Please guys help.me, I don't want to terminate my first child, the girl is too disrespectful and rude, I don't want to continue with such woman, but she is carrying my baby, what do I do? And if she later agree to keep it, how do I go about it?
You all are just saying "don't marry her" what about the baby? Should I agree to abort it and give her the money?
MODIFIED @OP: Please come closer with your head, I want to tell you something.... oya chop better knock and slap! God is dragging you away from trouble and evil and you are resisting him, what the fvck is wrong with you man? Are you insane or something? You better run for your life. Check very well, that pregnancy is not even yours and if it is for any reason, collect your child and flee from that demon you call a fiancee or whatever. |
Politics › Re: Emefiele Has Serious Stakes In 12 Banks - Sahara Reporters by Yoighaman(m): 2:35am On Jan 14, 2023 |
Rilwayne001: Why this so much greed for a life that won't last beyond 50 years from now?
Emefiele is 61 years old. What does he need multiple billions of naira from? Haven't you heard that it is the new passport to heaven? Can't you see how even Emilokan keeps amassing wealth that even a mad man would consider himself sane compared to the druggie? |
Politics › Re: Asari Dokubo: I Was In Prison, Tinubu Gave My Wife A House, Paid My Kids' Fees by Yoighaman(m): 8:16pm On Jan 12, 2023 |
Asari. You are free to support whoever you like but stop telling lies. So with all the illegal money you and your team were making, none of your guys could pay your children's school fees? Go and tell this story to the marines, not everyone is as dumb and gullible as you think. |
Crime › Re: Indian Police Give Details On Arrest Of Nigerian Engineer Turned Drug Kingpin by Yoighaman(m): 12:43pm On Jan 12, 2023 |
BOLATINUBU01: Andoyi is from where please?  Andoyi would soon become a Presidential candidate in Nigeria  Your moniker says it all. |
Travel › Re: World's Most Powerful Passports by Yoighaman(m): 6:31pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
merits: So Naija no dey,I must take this up,trash nonsense. LOL...  |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Prince Harry Says He Was Bred To Offer Spare Organs To Heir William by Yoighaman(m): 6:25pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
Fear women. Meghan has poisoned Harry's mind. He is now so toxic that William should start avoiding him at all cost. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Brazil Congress Under Siege, Ex-president Bolsonaro Supporters Overrun Security by Yoighaman(m): 7:20pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
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Foreign Affairs › Re: Brazil Congress Under Siege, Ex-president Bolsonaro Supporters Overrun Security by Yoighaman(m): 5:40pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
Cromagnon: but not Biden who rigged? Delusion You sound like someone who believes Buhari, the man in Aso Rock is Jibrin from Sudan. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Brazil Congress Under Siege, Ex-president Bolsonaro Supporters Overrun Security by Yoighaman(m): 8:08pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
davodyguy: This guy liked Trump and Trump liked him as well That's why he's following Trump's footsteps, very bad precedent indeed. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Brazil Congress Under Siege, Ex-president Bolsonaro Supporters Overrun Security by Yoighaman(m): 8:05pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Trump laid a bad precedent. |
Politics › Re: Osogbo Labour Party Rally Was Lively And Fun - Peter Obi (Pics) by Yoighaman(m): 10:43am On Jan 08, 2023 |
StrongandMighty: Where's agbado stronghold for the last time? Where will his votes come from? A very good question nobody is answering. Obi will win SS/SE. Atiku will win the North. Let's assume Tinubu would win SW, but there are many liberals in this region who would make the votes unpredictable, especially this time around when people are angry. The SW should be Tinubu's stronghold, but I doubt it, even Lagos is shaky; he would win the region though, but the margins would be low and very tight. Tinubu's focus is on the North and SW, he knows he can never win the SS/SE; so he's banking on the formula that brought Buhari to power, but the danger here is that Atiku is a powerful Northerner that only a Buhari can defeat. I don't see a Southerner defeating him there, the Northerners are loyal to themselves, but let's see how it goes. |
Politics › Re: God Hasn't Spoken On Nigeria’s Next President - Adeboye by Yoighaman(m): 9:28pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
Pastor Adeboye is a man of wisdom..... |
Food › Re: 15k Well Spent(photo) by Yoighaman(m): 7:49pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
Enemyofpeace: I just came back from the market now. See all I bought for Fifteen thousand naira. Make una dey try fear God if una dey throw lies nau.  |
Travel › Re: What’s So Special About The UK That Nigerians Are Fleeing To? by Yoighaman(m): 4:12pm On Jan 07, 2023 |
pansophist: At a professional level, I speak two languages. English and Dutch. At a conversational level, I speak Polish. Apart from English, I learned Polish and Dutch on my own. No language school is involved since I am an autodidact by nature and do better studying on my own than via traditional school. Nice one. It takes great determination and consistency to learn a new language, especially when doing so on your own. |
Crime › Re: Kenyan Gayright Activist Chiloba Killed, Body Stuffed In Metallic Box (Graphic) by Yoighaman(m): 7:57pm On Jan 06, 2023 |
Johnthejohn: That serves him right. I hate Gays and Lesbians with passion I am not gay, but your comment is insensitive. He is a human being. |
Crime › Re: I Begged Him To Use Condom - Married Nurse Tells Lagos Court How She Was Raped by Yoighaman(m): 7:26pm On Jan 06, 2023 |
[quote author=budaatum post=119773745][/quote]Rapist are animals. |
Crime › Re: I Begged Him To Use Condom - Married Nurse Tells Lagos Court How She Was Raped by Yoighaman(m): 7:24pm On Jan 06, 2023 |
[quote author=budaatum post=119773745][/quote]100% |
Celebrities › Re: Yomi Gold's Second Marriage Crashes Less Than A Year After Their Wedding by Yoighaman(m): 9:48pm On Jan 03, 2023 |
phemmyfour: And "I m not perfect" or "she doesn't deserve someone like me"   Na the very scam be that. Called it Manipulation, Histrionics, and you wouldn't be far from the truth. |
Celebrities › Re: Yomi Gold's Second Marriage Crashes Less Than A Year After Their Wedding by Yoighaman(m): 9:45pm On Jan 03, 2023 |
ObiomaTailor: Lol
Abeg if u no know this guy, abeg make we gather here He's a popular Yoruba actor. I quite understand what he says in his movies. There is no rule book for marriage, what works for Mr. A might not work for Mr. B, more intriguing is how fast love turns to hate, how hot turns cold so quickly. |
Politics › Re: Garba Shehu: Buhari Is Ahead Of Obasanjo In All Fields Of National Development by Yoighaman(m): 11:00pm On Jan 02, 2023 |
People don't seem to understand the weight of OBJ's endorsement of Peter Obi.
There are thousands of foreign diplomats in Nigeria who are closely monitoring the country's affairs and reporting to their home countries.
There are thousands of military top folks watching and listening to OBJ. That is if they have not discussed beforehand.
Let me cut short the long story.
OBJ is well respected both locally and in the international community, anything he says is weighty, that is why the opposition are scampering like headless chickens, including those that previously went to seek his support.
God bless Nigeria. |