NwaAmaikpe:




I do not see his offence.
Him who is not guilty should be the first to cast the stone.

Everyone knows that some form of deception is needed to sleep with a lady.
We are all guilty of misleading ladies just because of debbé.

It is not our fault, that's who they are. Women are wired by God to thrive in fantasy, that's why an ugly lady with a face full of tribal marks who knows by herself that she is ugly, will let even a tout shag her as long as he can make her feel pretty.

How many ladies that you've offered a lift ever asked you if the SUV belonged to you before entering the car?
They wouldn't.

Because they don't want anything to ruin the fantasy of an actual SUV owner finding them attractive enough to offer a lift.

The same girl whose chats Afeez stopped replying to after shagging, will still fall for the next man in her DM who calls her "Fine girl", and the cycle on one-shag stands would not end.

And it is derogatory that we call them 'fish brain', any man who calls a woman that is only ignorant because tomfoolery is DNA ingrained.

Namaster:
Society has DAMAGED a lot of men.

When men get married, society FORCES them to make their wives the Alpha and Omega of their lives. They CAJOLE men to make their wives the CENTRE OF GRAVITY in their lives.

Men put their wives FIRST. Think of their wives FIRST. And make endless SACRIFICES to make them happy.

On the other hand, wives ALSO put themselves first. Think of THEMSELVES first. And DEMAND endless sacrifices from their husbands to make them happy.

Men need to understand:

Your life is like a BUILDING.

A woman, even your wife, must NEVER be the pillar of your life. Otherwise, get ready for the inevitable COLLAPSE.

Instead, a woman should be like a lightbulb. Makes the building nice and bright BUT if it goes out or gets spoilt or explodes, you just go out and REPLACE it.

Chikena.

Massiveglory:
Stinking hypocrisy from tinubu and his boys.
From old to young, tinubu and every person with him and around him stinks of sheer hypocrisy and premium cluelessness.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PEvSnqGNcEI?si=80K3IxpQCRK7v8aK

nams77:
How do people work in one organisation for 20,35 years. I pray I get this kind of patience o. I get bored staying in one spot for long. Even living in one area for too long becomes a bit boring. The longest I have ever worked in a single organisation is around 5 years
Maybe I will get to slow down in the future

SoNature:
How did we end up with these kinds of people as our leaders?

richiemcgold:


Do I tell you I suffer? Are you okay?

richiemcgold:

That's the official President of Nigeria.

This one no be Aba-made president.

Yoighaman:


Interesting analysis, at least this is clear for a layman to understand; sad thing is, this is just the beginning.

Elections have consequences, that's all I'd say.

delzbaba:
Control your anger, prison is a dark and lonely place

abhosts:
Who exactly is benefiting from an ever falling Naira? What kind of cruelty is this? In 2019, a friend of mine based in the US invested $200,000(N72,000,000 at that time) into Nigerian real estate. Now his investment is valued at about N200,000,000($135,000). Despite the fact that his naira investment tripled in value, it was still not worth it from a dollar perspective. He is now regretting his decision because he would have been better off just leaving his $200k in the bank when you consider it is now worth 32 percent less. This is an example of foreign investor they claim to be courting.

Doolove:
Nairaland Has Finally Ruined My Relationship

I've been dating a staunch Nairalander for two years, and he also introduced me to the site. While I visit once in a while, he can't go a day without scrolling through the site and at times he draws my attention to some interesting topics and we would go through the comments together. I told him that I don't like the site due to the constant bashing of women that goes on here. To my uttermost dismay he has been so influenced by the red pill movement and it has left our relationship in tatters.

I can't remember the last time I felt pampered or got treated like a woman because he doesn't want to look like a simp. There is no love in the relationship anymore because he is always too hard on me and treats me like a man. My guy hardly ever apologizes to me, if he annoys me and I try to give him the cold shoulder he ignores me completely and moves about his business like I don't even exist. He calls my two exs simps because I gisted him about how they adored me and was always scared of losing me. It hurts me that the guy I am dating doesn't value me and is ready to move on immediately as I walk out the door.

He convinced me to come stay over at his place for a while because he wanted to train me for a remote job that he got for me which I am supposed to start next month. I objected because I know how he treats me each time that I am around but he insisted so I caved in. It's been one problem to the other since I came over. He faults every single thing that I do, I wore a cloth that a guy gifted me on our anniversary and I got the scolding of my life. I got moody and told him to avoid me when he tried talking to me later that day, he simply said okay and disappeared from the house till late in the night.

He sees everything as an insult to his person, he said it's disrespectful to pick calls from guys in his presence, he would still accuse me of cheating if I go outside to pick those calls. Just two days back I was angry at him because of something he did that I didn't like so I flung his hands away when he tried to touch my cheeks and play with me, Oga stood up and started ignoring me. I was just expecting him to apologize and pamper me but he just locked up and left the house to God knows where. When he returned, I dressed up to go out with a friend and he told me not to return to his house if I leave. He treats me like a piece of furniture and won't still let me go out with people that are ready to give me attention.

This issue is making me lose my feelings for him and he doesn't even care. We hardly have sex because his touch irritates me due to his attitude towards me. If I turn down his advance once he doesn't bother to try again for days. In my previous relationships the guys always comes crawling and begging at night to have sex but this one doesn't even send, he can lock up for two weeks which makes me wonder if he is gay sometimes. He came back home very late on Friday night because he was avoiding me, I hid the food in the house because I was angry at him and he went to bed hungry. He woke up late at night to boil potatoes and woke me up in the process, I told him where I kept the food and he told me to eat it alone.

He left home by 7am yesterday for his football training only to come back by 10pm leaving me all alone in the house. I had to go out with a friend only to come back and didn't still meet him at home. He came back, took his bath and left the house again. He came back one hour later and slept on the floor. I woke him up to eat because I cooked with the money he left at home and he rejected the food citing the previous incident of me hiding food from him so I should continue cooking and eating alone. I told him that the food would waste because I already enjoyed where I went to. He just said I was disturbing him and should have gone home with the guy instead. He keeps making me feel like I am not wanted, he would tell me that he has the right to do whatever he wants because it his house but I must abide by his rules because I am a woman. He can go out and come back anytime he likes but I can't do the same, if I try it he would ask me to leave as if I am an IDP. All my complaints about how bad he was treating me fell on deaf ears, he just ignored me and slept off. He woke up this morning and is keeping to himself.

Please is this what the red pill is all about? I keep craving attention and love from my man and it's not forthcoming, I would have broken up but I really need the job he promised me while I wait for service. Is there something that I can do to salvage this relationship?
Please I am sorry for the epistle and errors, I just needed to pour out my heart somewhere.

Stargangz:
Like Oshoala, like Osimhen, both na onekind overhype players, na luck just dey carry dem.

BoldBrainz:


And you're acting yours?

You keep downplaying the feelings of other Nigerians on nairaland by supporting the terrible and damning policies of those in government because your guardians are shielding you from the harsh realities of life out in the streets, and you feel it's okay?

At your age you have decided to be blind to the truth by making nonsense of the legitimate concerns of suffering Nigerians, simply because you don't even know how it feels like to pay something as minute as light bills. You don't know the cost of garri in the market. You don't know what it means to wake up every morning without any hope of what to eat. All you do is come on nairaland, fool around and provoke people, despite how you're in your late 20s and you think it's normal?

Stop gaslighting people! Nigerians are suffering. Stop this Asiwaju nonsense because there is no longer any humour to it. A dollar is now 1,520 naira. A crate of eggs is 4K. A carton of standard noodles is 7,500 naira. But you have no idea because you don't even know the road to the market.

Don't abuse what privileges life has accorded you! Act your age and be sensible enough to show empathy for once in your silly life!

CoronaVirusPro:
Davido still in-love with Sophia

Real men know that, when a man is still concerned about the company his Ex or baby mama keeps, he is still craving that pvssy!

Same happened to Portable!

They cannot just let go!

Why does he still give a fvck about a lady you claim to have nothing to do with!

love201:
President Tinubu can immediately improve the economic conditions of most Nigerians and make the Naira grow by issuing an Executive Order authorising the Nigerian Communications Commission to ban sports betting apps from the App Store of any GSM Internet Service Provider in Nigeria and revoking the licenses of any physical sports betting operators in Nigeria. It makes better sense than Buhari's draconian #TwitterBan.

Reno Omokri on his Facebook page wrote 'There is such an epidemic of gambling in Nigeria and it is destroying Nigerian youths. $1 billion is spent on gambling daily in Nigeria, according to the National Lottery Trust Fund. Please fact-check me. The average Nigerian spends $15 daily on sports betting and other types of gambling, with the vast majority of that amount leaving our economy and going to places like Russia, South Africa, and Europe. The Naira can never sustain its rally under such circumstances.

This is scary. How much is our GDP that we are pissing it away like that? More money is leaving Nigeria through gambling than is coming in. Buhari was thoroughly useless in that he was an anti-intellectual who was led by the nose by his former recharge card seller turned overnight billionaire nephew, Tunde Sabiu. But Tinubu is an accountant. He must know that this parasitic economic sabotage will destroy Nigeria if left unchecked.

A lot of the petty crime in Nigeria is caused by youths seeking money, by any means, to fund their gambling habit. It would be irresponsible for a first-class accountant like Tinubu not to act on such a matter as threatening to our national security as this gambling epidemic.

Just imagine millions of able-bodied youths waking up daily not to do any productive work but to waste away their lives online and offline at sports betting shops. And we have a government in place led by a first-class graduate in economics?'

yinkus6750:
So many underground deals in the banking sector.
Ill gotten wealth been used to acquire banks.
The FG should get to the root of the matter and do the needful.
EmefiOLE really messed up the banking sector.

Hinokami:
During my initial interview I gave a figure that was above my current pay, now they insist on me providing the payslip before proceeding to the next stage of the employment process.

The thing is I have monthly bonuses not captured on the payslip and I fear not providing evidence would make me disqualified for the role.

Who has navigated such process before as I don't know what to do.

Is it even legal to ask for payslips?

Will they actually contact my current employer to verify the payslip?

Note: it's a financial institution. I heard they are fond of doing this during their recruitment.

naijamanyoutube:
I was in Manchester for 2 weeks as my first stop on my Europe tour, I plan to visit over 20 European countries on this tour.

I stayed with my sister and her family in Manchester, I was treated like a king with so many delicious Nigerian food.

I took pictures of some of them and here they are. These food might look like no big deal to many on here, but it is for me, since I don’t know how to cook and I live in Las Vegas where it’s very expensive to eat Nigerian food at a restaurant.

I’m in Edinburgh, Scotland at the moment, will make my way to Glasgow, Scotland tomorrow, and then board a bus that will take me to Northern Ireland. The bus will drive onto a Ferry to cross the Irish Sea. I will stay one day in Belfast and then jump on a train to places I don’t know yet, but I have to be at the airport in Dublin on Monday the 23rd of October to catch a flight to London, where I will stay with Dj Douglas for 1 week. He’s is a childhood friend of mine. He’s the one who taught Dj Neptune how to Dj. The last time I saw Douglas face to face was back in December 2005, when he went to the airport with me when I was traveling to Amsterdam from Lagos, on vacation. Before I got back to Lagos in January of 2006, Douglas don japa go London. Lol

He’s established now with a wife and kids.

I will post more as I go about my journey. Stay tuned.

AfriNotesNEWS:
There are places where you are never replaceable, one such place is within your family system. So Learn to give your family all the best you can, and never be unavailable for your family

This remind me of a friend. who told me how a co-worker in their company died 2 days ago, just within 2 days, the company HR was busy cleaning out her office & had already employed and reposted another person in her position.

Yes is right cos businesses have to continue in absent of the living, so the dead were replaced in less than 48 hours

This person has given her all for this company, but her office position was replaced within just 2 days, while her home/family grief

Meanwhile, her family is still grieving the loss, she was a young wife and mother of two. NOW ASK ME HOW IS THE FAMILY GOING TO REPLACE HER

This is a reminder that you and I are much replaceable in other places, as well as other people's lives but not replaceable within our family system

So as we live, may we live in full to give our beloved family the best of ours. May God bless you all in this new month of December 2023, May God Bless us all

May we live healthy/wealthy to see the next and prosperous new year comes 2024 and in all, may we be available for our family


By Mbonu Watson C,.. Happy December to all NairaLanders once more

opicgif:
i want to go back to school
to study law
ive always wanted to do this but felt i would be too old
as of last year, ive seen a lot of older people graduating or in law school
rotimi amaechi is an example

which private university can i go to, and still live off campus with my family
i am in rivers state
i am excluding RSU and Uniport,
i would want to carry out this endeavour without delay from ASUU strikes

any suggestions?

ravensckar:
Most of your points are valid, but I want to humbly disagree with your submission. It boils down to the fact that the lady in question isn't a good wife. She knows from the onset what Israel does for a living (Ass licking Davido). She should have either supported his hustle or help him plan how to establish the dividend of his ass licking venture.

My wife most times teaches me how to stroke my female boss' ego (me I no sabi asslick o) whilst helping me invest the dividend. During festive period, she go dress up, carry pikin and drag me too alongside make we go visit her. And for my Boss, nothing helps her sleep well at night than seeing her subordinate coming to visit her.

In summary, a good woman supports her husband in whatever legal venture that he's into whilst also helping him plan on how to become his own boss.

PS- your point that Israel didn't study his type of wife very well is very on point. He goofed in that aspect.

Omoawoke2:


The one I dated was horror. She was so rude and bitter, the only thing she had was her virginity and her career that was fast progressing. So she thought she had everything and her character was a total mess. And lucky enough, after ending it with her, I met another virgin girl later on and this one is very lovely.

kushme:
Excerpt: She now wakes up to tell me that i derive dignity in begging my oga, and that i am fully a slave and that am disgracing her on social media.


Spiff of "the Johnsons", stopped acting the funny slowpoke few months after he got married. Does this tell something about hustle and females

AlphaHakimi:
As a man, never loose your Armour to any woman. Whether wife or not. Being a man is much more than being of the male species.

The mistake Israel made was upgrading Sheila financially and socially. No matter the pressure, always make sure your wife depends solely on you.

Just like the British colonies, once they feel they can stand on their own, they begin to ask for independence.

Women only love you for what you can provide. Once they can provide those things you provide for them or once you give them the seat at the big boys table, they begin to see themselves as equals. Never loose your power to any woman no matter how long you have known them or married to them.

Teach only men how to fish, and as for women just give them enough fish to guarantee their survival.

For the unmarried, just know that the woman you will marry will only submit to you on the condition that you have a very clear upper hand. That upper hand you have is your money. Never upgrade your wife to your level or set her up financially. Let her ALWAYS depend on you.

Do you know why most women change once they go abroad??.
1) The law is on their side
2) They too can make the same amount if money their husband's make.
When this happens, they see no use for their husband.

Shalom.

annisy:
You are a mumu man you deserve what you got!!
When you fail in your primary duties of proper vetting before marriage don't come on looking for pity party, the red flag was obvious
(1) the mother had been in 3 different marriages and you think her daughter will be different? Continue playing!
(2) you upgraded a woman you are not yet married to because you have money? Even if na me I go fail in love with you.
(3) a woman without a male figure in her life is a ticking bomb!
(4) as a man you should be 10x ahead of your woman in thinking.. Assuming you are 10x ahead of her you shouldn't have allowed her smell fame!! (those celebrities whose marriage are working most of them thier wife are not in public space)
(5) virginity and character are two straight line that can't meet
(6) is always difficult to get a good wife when you have money!! The best time to get a good wife is when you are broke...
( Be a man and understand social media does not slove any problem..
(9) lastly count your lost and move on!!
Get another lady and start afresh... That is the best pay back.. ( learn from Churchill! Anuty tonto will always feel jealous seeing that another woman is happy with her formal 1min man)

Westchester:
Now kasala don burst

Natbrowny:
Alaye is already getting the pussy elsewhere. He's just trying to make moves coz he knws u'll decline.

If he doesn't ask for it. You'll suspect.

Sharp guy