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Politics / Re: Reno Omokri Compares Southern Geopolitical Nigerian Women Dressings In The 1920s by Yoshy: 10:01am On Dec 03, 2023
It's foolish to judge civility by the amount of clothing one wears.

What's happening today? Ladies and some men are almost returning to nudity. You see ceremonies where the same people who recorded what mischievous Reno is quoting are completely nude, promoting self-love and acceptance. It's philosophical.

The ancient Romans were mostly naked, often stark naked, yet they carried their culture and civilization to many countries and conquered many. Most countries today adopted their CIVIL system.

While I am not a fan of bragging, it's the effective CIVIL system of the Igbos that redistributed wealth effectively and forced people to take control of their destinies after the war.

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Romance / Re: Google Is Spying More Than You Know (pics) by Yoshy: 11:42pm On Dec 02, 2023
Everyone is buying PCs with camera shot, even Mark Zuckerberg shots his Camera.
Politics / Re: Anambra: The Largest Indigenous Industrial Hub In Nigeria (picture) by Yoshy: 12:50am On Nov 27, 2023
IamAtikulate:

Shatap.

Down to earth kee you dia.

Name 10 Yoruba-built multi-million dollar business outside Lagos and I'll name 100 multi-million dollar business within the East.

You're obviously not exposed. For starters Google top startups in Nigeria, I bet you will see Yorubas at the helm. These are businesses making millions of dollars yearly. Smart money. Not Okey and Sons limited, driving Venza and owns a two story building (this is good in it's own right).

I am talking about wealth that will span a lifetime. I don't want us to exchange words, but it should be a wake up call.

Let's stop the bragging that brings only hatred.

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Politics / Re: Anambra: The Largest Indigenous Industrial Hub In Nigeria (picture) by Yoshy: 12:37am On Nov 27, 2023
Won't my brothers have sense for once, what do you hope to achieve with these? We are too mediocre in thinking. I see a lot of Yoruba guys and ladies building Multi-Million dollar businesses, yet extremely down to earth. Every little achievement we are showing off, attracting more hatred. To what end bikonu?

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Family / Re: Help, I'm Not Emotionally Attached To My Mother, Siblings And Extended Family by Yoshy: 5:00pm On Sep 18, 2023
Huracan:

I totally disagree with you

You're surprised I said forgive her I guess?
Family / Re: Help, I'm Not Emotionally Attached To My Mother, Siblings And Extended Family by Yoshy: 4:58pm On Sep 18, 2023
When you have made in life and you will, get help, get therapy, if you can afford it, get it now, again, sharing it is a good thing for you, that level of abandonment have a way of messing people up. Ultimately forgive her and accept her the way she is while doing everything to retain your sanity and protect yourself. Many parents don't know better. So forgive and accept her the way she is, when you truly forgive her, a lot of good things will open up to you and you will experience more peace. Light and love.

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Romance / Re: Someone Should Help Me What Is Happening To Me by Yoshy: 5:40pm On Sep 09, 2023
samwriter:
never I do that shit once in my life when was 15 i hated the smell back then which i never try again till this very moment

Okay great, check your dieting too, food could affect a lot of things. Check what you need to eat for your bones and muscles and what you need to stop eating. I always try food, before going to a doctor.
Romance / Re: Someone Should Help Me What Is Happening To Me by Yoshy: 4:58pm On Sep 09, 2023
OP have you been wasting or spilling your seed?
Family / Re: Help Me With Budgeting.... My 400k Salary No Longer Takes Me Home. by Yoshy: 11:01am On Jun 01, 2023
Your rent shouldn't be more than your two months salary.

Better to be a month, you can switch to a studio apartment, to save cost. (I will suggest 500k at most).

Invest in a solar system, since you're in Lagos, 400k should get you a decent solar system that will power your laptop, TV, energy fan, all bulbs. If you increase it, it will even power a good energy saving AC...contact me if you want to know more.

What are you repairing at 12k per month?

You might want to switch to a more fuel saving car, for someone that works from home, filling up your tank should last up to a week.


Clothing 10k every month? Invest in quality cloths that will last long, make it once every 3 months.

I wouldn't advice you to reduce sit out fund, but you could check out places that won't mandate you to spend a lot.

I think you could save approx N180k from your current expenses now and still maintain a comfortable lifestyle.

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Phones / Re: Pls Who Is On Bluesky Should Send Me A Link Code To Join by Yoshy: 10:42pm On Apr 23, 2023
Please send to craigwrightm@gmail.com
Politics / Re: Evidence: Tinubu Will Lose & Return The Certificate by Yoshy: 12:19pm On Mar 21, 2023
You guys should chill, and honestly STF.

This attitude of making mouth and beating chest before actually actualising something is counterproductive.

Emulate Obi, be tactical in your comments and speeches.

Believe it or not, Pa Tinubu is good at what he does and knows his game. As much as he is old, he hasn't lost his touch and grasp of Nigerian politics.

Obidient movement should be more of decisive action than careless jabs.

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Adverts / Re: Discount Sales: Fridge, Tv, Tv shelf,Washing Machine,Chairs,table & printer by Yoshy: 7:15am On Mar 15, 2023
I want washing mashing, chair and printer, what's your location?
Politics / Re: Online Presidential Poll For LP,PDP And APC Here On Nairaland by Yoshy: 6:58am On Dec 24, 2022
LP

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Politics / Re: AI Tool, ChatGPT, "Predicts" Winner Of 2023 Election by Yoshy: 7:36pm On Dec 23, 2022
Fake!!! ChatGPT doesn't respond to or give such data about any country's election.
Politics / Re: Winner Of 2023 Presidential Election Revealed---prophecy by Yoshy: 5:17pm On Nov 15, 2022
otipoju:


No. Both events actually happened as revealed to him.

A better example will be Hezekiah when he fell sick and received a message from a prophet of God that he would die soon and he knelt and prayed to God to extend his life...for 15 years and God did as requested.

Yes you get the idea, thanks for the better example.
Politics / Re: Winner Of 2023 Presidential Election Revealed---prophecy by Yoshy: 11:44am On Nov 15, 2022
Every dream and revelation could be changed, in fact most times, it's revealed for the wise to preempt.

Now Obidients need to work hard more than ever to set things right and put Nigeria on the pedestal to success.

Joseph had dreams of drought, famine and hunger in Egypt, but wise inspiration from God led Egypt to take the right action to prevent that.

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Autos / Re: I Need A Car And My Budget Is Between 2m-3m by Yoshy: 7:41am On Oct 25, 2022
Neat Toyota Avalon 2008 available, fingerprint start.
Business / Re: Kuda Bank Lost ₦6 Billion In 2021 by Yoshy: 2:09pm On Sep 16, 2022
Unrealistic business plan?

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Politics / Re: Peter Obi Behind The Killings In Biafraland - Simon Ekpa by Yoshy: 7:00am On Jun 13, 2022
Mazisimonekpa:

I want to assure Biafrans that those supporting Peter Obi are those that will vote against Biafra Referendum anyway, they are just 0.05 % of Biafrans and doesn’t represent us. They are the one Nigerianists. Biafrans will speak to them any day they call for mega rally
https://twitter.com/simon_ekpa/status/1535900656250265600

Mazi Simon Ekpa

If you're indeed Simon Ikpa, I have this to tell you.

Nigerian constitution have no room for referendum, the world is not looking this way either.

IPOB have massive influence in the east (used to, cos this have drastically reduced).

Turn IPOB to political organisation or at least setup an arm for politics. Ensure your eligible members contest for all positions in the East from councillor to Governorship. Vote massively for your members.

Punish severely corrupt members or sellouts in politics.

Imagine if you have all these elected officers under your umbrella, it means you have a strong voice in the central, not sellouts. It also means, your House reps, senators and governors can build alliance and make demands like referendum or even regional government and they would get it.
Autos / . by Yoshy: 1:52pm On Jun 10, 2022
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Family / Re: How Do I Apologize To My Wife? by Yoshy: 7:32am On Feb 04, 2022
gazeup1:
I created this new handle to hide my identity.

I got married 11 years ago. We both started working before we got married, but my salary was way above my wife's own. I was earning 195k while she was on 108k when we got married, after my MSC, I was promoted and started to earn 350k, this got to me and I started to misbehave, I was doing all sorts and would insult the hell outa her. As the cry cry girl, she would cry, and thereafter I would hear her praying. At times she would say she will one day be greater than me. That to me was an impossibility.

I can't even remember ever giving her money for home keep but we never lacked food at home (we delayed before having kids, so I don't see the need for me to give her monthly money and she never asked). I started giving her after we had kids. She agreed when I told her her money was for the home and mine for investment, but I never included her name in my properties. she knows this as well.

After our kids, it became very demanding, coupled with her office not increasing her pay, she resigned, and that was when I felt the impact of her income. Meanwhile, her pay was reduced to about 80k and mine was increased to like 600k as at when she resigned. In one month I started asking her to return back to her work as to me I was not ready to foot her bills, she never even asked for money, she would even say what I gave her is left 5k or more self at the end of the month.

Now her new journey - When I started disturbing about going back to her former office or getting a new job, she said never and asked me to stop giving her money but go to market to buy food myself. In less than 4 months to her resignation she started talking about online job here and there, I thought it was a scam so I warned her. One day, I was in the office when she said she needs me to help her wit the best laptop to buy, I tried to talk her down on buying one but she ended the call on me.

I got home to see her with a new laptop. fast forward, she paid for a training on how work from home without my knowledge, got her first job of about $200, I also washed her down on going that low for such an amount but she said it was better than her former 80k job, before I knew it, she started talking about $1,000, now it's $3,000, to $4,000 monthly. I earn lower than #1M, my wife gets over #2M monthly working from home. She helped me finished my house project, very transparent and would not hide any $ she earns.

I have not been able to forgive myself of all the things I did to her, the insults, talking down on her but in a way I think I pushed her to become who she is now. I remembered when she asked back then to open a joint account with her, I laughed her to scorn, like how would the ratio be. she saved over 6M and credited my account with everything, just for us to complete our home. I can't even produce 1M.

She doesn't seem hurt, but sometimes she reminds me of those words, I have never officially told her sorry neither have I really changed because I am just like that, I don't mean evil. I wanted her to braze up and never stay low.

Married, men, please how do I ask for her forgiveness? I don't think we have up to 2% of her type out there.


Do something that shows you appreciates her.

Women like gifts, especially a surprise one.

Change your ways, you're a lucky man!

If your wife have a sister that behaves like her, please let me know grin Such women are rare now!
TV/Movies / Re: Which Movie Made The Most Impact On You And Why? by Yoshy: 4:28pm On Sep 26, 2021
Sonia71:

Hi, you tried to pm me.

Yes, I did.
Travel / Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 19 by Yoshy: 2:22pm On Jul 26, 2021
Applied since since Feb 26, still on background check, no changes whatsoever.

Ideas?
Travel / Re: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 18 by Yoshy: 5:28am On Apr 29, 2021
oyibo4real:


Thank you all for your good wishes kiss . I've actually received 2 more PPR email from different IRCC official email addresses including lagos, I guess this is their new normal for accompanying child.

It's making sense now cos it was initially visit visa application which was later changed to study visa app as instructed by IRCC. The PPR email came with a different application number that starts with S, which is automatically study/student visa. Thus, I want to assume it's the initial visit visa application that was cancelled.

PS: I never really wanted to share this to avoid abuse, but trust me, sending mails worked for me (I did it in my own and got my PPR after 4 days, I decided to try again last night for my child and his own arrived today).I sent the same email to almost 50 IRCC official email addresses and got encouraging responses from about 5 of them.


More PPR NEWS will soon flood this thread in JESUS MIGHTY NAME, AMEN!!! GOD DID IT.

Congratulations! Can you share these email addresses here?

Thanks!
Education / Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by Yoshy: 9:45pm On Apr 27, 2021
OP, you did well...

But since you live in the same house, level down a bit, do not compromise by trying to have sex with her.

See her as your sister and threat her as such.

If she continues her bad attitude them respectfully ask her to leave.

Please Note; people that come our way as such usually have something to contribute to our future...

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Family / Re: Two Months After Wedding, No Sex. Help! by Yoshy: 5:40pm On Jan 27, 2021
You don't disvirgin some ladies in a day....an old colleague in his 60s once told me that it took him 5 days to disvirgin his wife.

Every day, make a move, make an entry, but don't fully go in..be consistent, at some point, she may have to cry a little or feel some pain...always get her in the mood before any action.

Or you guys may choose to surgically get the place opened.

Good luck

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Business / . by Yoshy: 5:31pm On Dec 07, 2020
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