MajorJeffery:
You mean youre 24? How did you manage to go through university and NYSC without being distracted by ladies?

Well, all I can say is start now. A lady can only say no to you, she won't kill you. If she says no and laugh at you on top that, go begin shyke her best friend.

Simple, shyke her best friend. Lol

hischosen:
I'm a guy of 22years old,studying in one of Nigeria institution.and my problem is whenever I want to talk to the crowd or the persons above me I used to be fear to the extent that I won't be able to finish all what have prepared for.and this thing has been happening to me since when I was in secoundary school.just today I was defending my project my heart was beating to the extent that I couldn't finish all what have prepared for.please my fellow nairalander in the house what can I do to get rid of this

Heard of Social Anxiety disorder?

Let me prove further, most times, its overwhelming to be around lots of people.

You over analyze yourself in public and everything you do.

You feel someone, somewhere is watching you when outside?

The above mentioned disorder is a mental sickness (it doesn't connote negativity) and can be treated. Research about it to know more.

Have you Articulated today?

Women, they can even masturbate on the Jeans, whatever gives the necessary friction

Beware of very slim girls, they can send you to early graves with their boreholes.

Anyway, this is a step in the right direction towards rehabilitating her. I like her vibes though, not feeling depressed after all these.

jandj:


Yes you can. Start the application and fill all necessary information. Then save it and continue after you have your completed documents

Thank you.

jandj:


I will advise that you have all your documents before submitting your application online. You can't edit the application. You can only send the documents via mail to them or using a CSE. POF if I may assume is proof of funds. It is a very essential part of your application. You have to proof to the VO that you have enough funds to pay for your tuition and extra 10k to 12k for your upkeep.

Thank you

Okay, thank you, but I can start the application online without submitting to get my hands around the info till I get the full documents, I guess?

Is it advisable to start online application without having your POF, since it will he coming sooner.

Nogodye:
No sane Yoruba will abadon their own(Osinbajo) supporting another tribe for VP...If care is nt taking Yoruba will crying like our brother from the other side claiming marginalization in Atiku government but that won't happen...PMB till 2023

I thought you Foolobas must have learnt your lessons from this misrule and misfit of a government?

Osibanjo is there and you're gaining what?

It's a pity we share the country with people like you.

Who did this to you OP.

Lies everywhere, picking projects done by past administration, state and private partnerships and FGs?

Alexaonfleek:
So I was talking about this with a friend of mine(a guy by the way) and he was like it isn't possible at this age. I told him that I wanted to keep mine till I got married and he said there's no way I won't be tempted to do it before then.

Well, we argued about it and I was trying to tell him that it's very possible. He told me that I'll just end up being addicted to masturbation if I didn't 'release' my sexual tension.

We eventually stopped arguing and closed the topic but when I thought about it, I was actually wondering if it's possible or I'm just being naive.

I really want to keep my virginity till my wedding night but I myself don't even know if this is possible. Please ladies and gentlemen, I need your thoughts about this.

If virginity means having access to kiss, romance, smooch, even give a BJ, masturbate and so much more without penetration, its pointless and hypocrisy at its peak, cos a real virgin ought not to have any form of sexual experience.


That being said, IT'S POSSIBLE. Staying really chaste gives you the opportunity to command many forces of life to your good, keeps you safe from STDs and emotional imbalance from failed sexual relationships and it's possible to stay chaste.

From a guys point of view;

1. Leave a minimalistic lifestyle (get only what is absolutely necessary and needed)
2. Don't be swarved by money easily
3. Avoid relationships unless you're absolutely ready to marry.
4. Dont pay unnecessary visits without guide

Atiku is Buharis nightmare, he was OBJs nightmare, he understands what needs to be done and have the resources as well as the will to get it done.

APC may not survive this.

TarOrfeek:


She done carry belle.

From the Groom's face/and suit you can tell.

The wedding was a brain fart idea.

She is pregnant, the brother don play overdose, take a look at his face.

sean1000x:
Afonja and two-faceness. He is smiling, but deep in his mind, he can kill Tinubu. Igbo man will never pretend like this no matter what!

A simple fact.

The question should be what is there they are fighting for? Cos we know they are not going anywhere come 2019.

luvmijeje:


One of the reason I'm not wasting my vote again on him. The igbos hated him too. But I expected so much from him as a leader. He should never have recepricated.

Peter Obi is far worst. When it comes to open hatred, Buhari is still learning where Obi is. That's why I'm going to be his number 1 opposition.

Just shut up and sit your ass down.

Nice beat, great song...

"This your love wey mé mi iwá"

alftdbts:



Hard!!!

But most importantly that first year fund is crucial. Tuition and living cost. It's a new environment, but it's your determination that matters most.

At least not impossible.

Please guys, I need advice, can one survive without having the full cash for the durat6of the study? 3 years course.

geek4k:


I'm sure the problem is the latter. I honestly respect her wish and desire but don't you think it's selfish and a wicked act? I mean she just left me dating myself.

See things from her point, since you know the issue. At this point, if you do anything silly, she may never come back, worse she will see you as an impediment to her spiritual growth. She is not selfish, because she is not complete or really happy without her spiritual self.

Like I said, if you want her back, give her lots of space to reconcile herself, these things happens, that's why you must factor in someones spiritual life while dating so that they don't get carried away and eventually decide to return.

geek4k:
I Need Help! I'm Emotionally Traumatized.

Hi guys!

It's quite a long read so I've tried make it as concise as possible..

I bet you'll enjoy every piece as you thumb through.

We've known each other for some time before i asked her out. She gave a "Yes" sometime on August 2014, which has practically made the relationship 4 years old.

At the earlier stage, we had great feelings towards each other, we where literally submerged in love, did stupid and childish things together. Y'al know what love turns one into nah.

We where practicing a distance relationship. Same city, although just a 45min road trip kept us apart ~ we never denied visiting each other as we often did. thanks to 2go and what'sapp.

Time past, amidst the minor quarrels we had a greater reason to remain put, we grew stronger in love ~ i bet we had the best teenaged age. Got to a point we believed we where both destined for each other i was even prepared to tie the knot if only nature treated my pocket right.

All the while, we never had any bed intimacy only kisses and bla bla... Not until sometime 2017 when i went in. Arrghh! Very awkward i must say, just try to imagine where 2 novices are trying to make something of it. All through the session i was just looking for my way in.

The subsequent attempts after taking several xx video tutorials was fairly good NOT GREAT because she had a very bad sex beginning; a rape victim to be precise and that experience corrupted alot in her sex life. You don't want me to go into details, I hate to too.

[b]Note: [/b]She is a very brilliant girl who got great personality, more reason i loved her wholeheartedly. The not-too-great sex paragraphs isn't made to sabotage her memory but because it's a cornerstone of my ordeal with her.

Heads up guys! She started having issues with the sex experience thing. Not because it wasn't SO GREAT but because it makes her backslide from her faith. Ohh didn't i mention? She's from a very strong Christian home.

I guess the devil took its chances on us, never wondered why it took so long before her realization. Now she's trying to be that born again kind of person again. Guys! I'm sure you know what that means.

The privileges i used to enjoy as a boyfriend where all ripped away not even a kiss or bla bla to manage almost drove me into maturating. Not just that, this is also garnished with some funny acts, not having my time et all. On my end it seems she utterly turned her back against me.

The whole quarrels erupted and all made me look myself like a devil trying to deviate God's child. I on the other end I'm just a lover boy trying to fight back for his feelings.

Things deteriorated, we hardly talk and even if we do wouldn't last more than a minute, all the while i was just drowning in sadness and heartbreak.

I still remember when we broke up our sexual relationship and remained good casual friends. My mind chose to cut any connections with her but my heart said otherwise. I couldn't cut it down, the imaginations of never seeing her again dreaded me even.

Bluntly speaking. I'm very emotionally sensitive with dealings with her. My happiness depends hugely on her, hence, any unfair act she gives set my heart ablaze. that's exaggerated though, but it's just as bad as that. Every now and then I'm always emotionally traumatized and this has bad effects on me.

Take this opinion to the bank.

There are two possibilities of what's going on her mind.

1. She got tired of you (sorry), maybe found someone more interesting and decided to use her faith to reset from you before she moves on.

2. She lost herself and her faith while engaging on immoral relations with you, hence her innermost desire to connect back (I wish this is the issue and not the later).


In both cases, there is little or nothing you can do. Infact pestering her or trying to let her see reason will worsen the whole thing, make her hold you at lesser regard or even dispise you.

My Advice: No matter how hard it's, stay completely away from her, as long as it takes, both cases requires it.


When you do that, it will give her time and space to know what she actually wants and HOW.

Take your time off, life or love is not about sex, don't rush into another relationship, it's a total waste time at this stage.

SarakiBukola:


Biafura Olosho go jam Yoruba Demon fortitied with Agbo jedi

Lol, you mean your Yoruba haunty olosho disgraced you and you want to push to us? Tufiakwa!!

zombieTRACKER:
We all know Tinubu is greedy

We all know that Lagos State money is not enough for him...

It will be an advantage for him only if he can place his stooges in all the Afonja states... Imagine the kind of return he will get...

One man controlling the destiny of all Afonjas... This contradicts the Perceived literacy level of the region

Zombiesm is a problem, so much for educated and enlightened people.

Ttipsy:
despite all these trash you are writing here

Owerri is a beautiful, growing city.. sprawling than most state capitals.
Rochas is the best thing that happened to Imo state.

you guys should blame the contractors that done the substandard job and embezzled the fund for the project

I think you're mad, I mean you have totally lost it, geez!

tigerclaws:
dey don restore am?

Yes

Channels

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xbernardx:


Nothing to be shameful

She knows these are my views, I am not against them as a people, but their dogged battle in futility that has denied them a loud mouth in the country,

I'm still astonished how an Igbo girl won't see through your hatred. I pray she do soonest.

xbernardx:


Peace on you for being a tribalistic bigot. She is just a normal woman with a beautiful heart, tribe is second function to what we feel for each other, so go borrow some brains kiddo.

It's the tribalistic sentiment that you hold that makes you jittery about the combination of me and my woman

Go back to your comments, if possible screenshot and send to her siblings or parents, even her. If you can proudly do that, then your cover up defense works.

Where is the video