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Rorachy:
As in eh, sex is so cheap and most girls are very loose these days, they will open leg for any tom,dickkk and harry.

Even the ones that are engaged.

exactly for any "tom, dickkk and harry" the mata weak me no be small.

Beware of STDs, it's not a trophy to sleep with endless number of girls but pure stupidity. I wonder why guys still consider it a trophy and the rate of loose girls these days is alarming.

Yeah, ladies that feel like, definitely can. Especially, when she is very busy and G-dly (I don't mean those that hide behind false religious pretences)

No! Everybody is not doing it ooo. Stay AWAY from premarital sex, the harm outweighs the few minutes sensation.

Boc007:
1. Focus: I started having good focus with high and stable attentiveness to discussions. Unlike before I could pretend listening to someone having any discussion with me but my mind would be, "please try and end the topic I need to go to a private place and think of what matters to me(jack off)."

2. Social: My social life started making sense, I always felt like going out on a daily basis. I try to be funny when I discuss with people and lively, it's like I'm loved by everyone and vice verse. Unlike before, I hid my self constantly, loved thinking and being alone. If I managed to go out, i tend to develop shyness when anyone passed by and if a lady walked close I used to have plenty thoughts and acted like a seriously confused fellow(should I look at her, or I should snub her) and my face will be like )

3. Freak: a month later, I started feeling like a freak, each time I walk across a lady, only one thing comes to my mind. I always feel like talking to her and briefly tell her "hello how are you? Please can I have sex with you" The thought of having sex became so climax, that I could stay on my bed and try to flip my waist, hold firm and remember that with time it will stop. One of my motivation is that (there is a man who wants to force me to do what I don't want(devil) and he is right there) as soon as I remember that, I just control myself again)

4. IQ: few months later I noticed my IQ increased. My brain is now connecting easily.I remember things fast and it makes me happy, I always feel like going back to school again knowing fully well that I can compete with the best student because my brain is now becoming super-fast. I could see the future and so motivated to walk up to a guy and say "hi, I have not mastubated for like few months now, how about you?" . Unlike before, you could tell me something just now and I will forget it within two minutes even if I say it repeatedly, when I needed to use at the time it matters, I just forget it and say " can't remember for now"

5. Sound health: yes , I started building good muscles, just small push ups daily I noticed how fast my body started responding. I could walk and smile, feeling so good. I could relate with anyone's mind and say "hey whats up? I know you notice how huge I'm becoming" I always feel like the boss.

6. Movies: This is one heck of a problem for me. Ones I see an actress, I always feel like, wow "I wonder how this lady will look like when naked". The only advantage is that, I can now finish a movie without fast fowarding it to the sexual part. Many people watched Spartacus but not everyone understands or even knows the storyline. All I did when I watched it during my mastubating hour was to forward and play, rewind and play it where it matters to me (sex) , right now, I hate seeing such movie.

7. Spiritual life : It's more like God loves my move and I have settled with him on that part. I always feel happy to pray. Even when I noticed I did something wrong, in my prayers I just relate easily and feel like "oh I am no longer a masturbator , it's very easy now to be forgiven" . Unlike before, mastubating even makes me to forget prayer points and missed going to church services.

8. Strength: I could stay awake for long without any desire to sleep. I always feel like, wow, my body has not relaxed I'm ok and its like i just woke. Before, I only felt like " It's two hours already, I'm having headache, I need to sleep to gain back strength"

9. Sleep : My sleep has been terrible. I hardly sleep at night. I always feel like, if I masturbate I will sleep before I know it. My thought will be like, "I need a girl here on my bed, Shitt, what am I saying? Yeah, I need my friend with her boobs right now I can start holding her butt. Shitt what I'm I saying? Oh o, I want to fvck... Jizz! Shitt!! fvck me" that's how it was until sleep comes unaware.

10. Bed wet. As a teen, I never had "wet dream.” I wasn’t sure I believed that other people were having them, but during this experiment I had my first one. They are not enjoyable and they wake you long before you actually have to get up. It also feels like your body telling you that you need to go masturbate. In the end, the whole experiment had good and bad results but if you’re hoping for a change in your life, its worth it...

OP thank G-d for your life, keep praying. Keep Striving to remain pure, the reward is unimaginable.

RIPEnglish:
Jonathan thinked we are still daft, he better went and rest for one place with his mumu pdp.

Your sentence says it all.

If you are struggling DON'T DATE, their two don't work together for many except for the few exceptions (the girl determines the exception)

The truth will eventually be out and it might be ugly for the politicians and others involved if they lied to the public.

xreal:
Those IPOB guys should read this.


During war.. everything is correct.

Stop this nonsense.

Obi1kenobi:
Perhaps, you don't understand how sampling works in statistics. You don't have to test 5 million Anambra citizens to get the statistical probability of something. You can get a sufficiently wide, but manageable sample size to study and your results will be accurate within a very small margin of error. Not to mention DNA tests are expensive. Who would want to waste money testing 1 million people for something anyone with a grasp of science, history and geography would always have known was an unfounded, fanciful myth?

There is no determination on my part to get any negative result. That's absurd. Inferiority complex in this case would be whitewashing your history: like disowning your father to claim someone else as your father. Just because our history is not well documented doesn't mean we get to fill the knowledge gaps with Jewish fantasies. I get it - there is so much to admire about Jews. They're incredibly driven, enterprising, industrious, innovative..... With a tiny global population of between 12 to 15 million, they've won almost an incredible 200 Nobel prizes which is ridiculous when you think about it. They not only spurred the Abrahamic religions that has gripped billions around the world, they've provided leading voices of the Western intellectual tradition. I get it. There is so much to admire about them. I envy them as a society even as I despise their apartheid grip on Palestinians. I also sympathize with their history of persecution for thousands of years in the Middle East and Europe, culminating in the Holocaust. "Schindler's List" is the only movie that ever made me cry. All that love and admiration and sympathy for suffering shouldn't mean you drag your heritage through the dirt to embrace charlatans that promote this laughable myth of our Jewish links. I feel like hiding my face in shame whenever I meet Igbo people with fantasy Jewish claims. They feel no shame in their ignorance and even broadcast it loudly and proudly, but I feel shame for them and shame for how they make Igbos a laughingstock. It's pathetic.

It appears you have an obsession with Jews and Igbos as well. If I may ask which tribe are you?

Are you a geneticist? Cos the knowledge of statistics alone is not enough to arrive at your conclusion or to have an inkling that you're an authority in tracing the origin of human beings.

I'd like to know your motivations for saying "Jews have apperthied grip on Palestinians".

Upaka:
It's a very big sin.

WTF

Obi1kenobi:
If out of 100 randomly sampled people in Anambra (seen as the cradle of Igbo civilization), not one single person had Jewish DNA, that would mean less than 1% of the population could possibly have Jewish ancestry. If even one out of a thousand had any positive Jewish traits, he would still overwhelmingly be a Niger-Congo negroid in his genetic make-up. So why this desperate attache-by-force to an alien group from the Levant? I can't speak to your personal motivations as a practising Jewish convert, but the motivations of many Igbo Jew-claimers in my experience is simple inferiority complex. They feel the need to boost their worthless self-esteem as African niggas by appropriating the history and heritage of a highly influential civilization. It's shameful and should be condemned and discouraged. It's embarrassing for many Igbos.

While neighter you nor anybody have the right to say or determine what you think the Igbos feel, it would be self inflicted racism to feel that way according to your assertions. Again your determination as well as most peoples determination to get to the root of this matter and hopeful get a negative result can be traced back to the so called "inferiority complex".

I must add that I might not be a DNA Expert, but your 1% calculations is wrong as a 100 is just 0.002 (approx) of Anambra population if we assume that govt data for Anambra state population is correct.

DocHMD:
The way the ewedugerians are jubilating have revealed that many of them would have committed suicide if the results had been overwhelming the opposite.

They are even more interested in this case than many of us. I guess they've been praying to Allah to ensure the results come out negative.

Many of us who have been indifferent about this matter are amazed at the amount of owambe jubilation going on in the land of the muslim ewedugerians since the results were released

Ewedugerians are funny insecure mor0ns!

Funny thing is Times of Isreal blogger Prof ilona (Igbo) who had his test equally confirmed his ancestry was traced back to a DNA related to Jewish ancestry. Most of the people that commented didn't take time to read the post, to actually understand the position of the writer. I practice Judaism hence I'm Jewish, DNA or Not. Though the people that did the DNA testing are suspicions as the sampling was from less than a 100 out of a population of over 30million Igbos. I'd call the group "irresponsible" as was done in the post too.

Is it only me? I don't find this fascinating or enticing in anyway...#spits

Image search her and you will get the full Facebook profile, if you're so free

tee4light:
This is actually what I'm facing now. There is a girl I love so much, we've been friends for a while and I always feel like taking our friendship to the next level- relationship and probably marriage. But the problem I have is her height. She is very short. And when I say very short, I mean way below the average height of ladies. This makes it difficult for me to make a push, considering our future children (I'm not so tall myself), and also some other things.
Nairalanders, what saith thou?
Can you Marry or date someone who is very short (dwarf-like)

Yes, OP I keep complaining of the girl I loved so much being short until she moved on and my eyes cleared. If you love her truly, then don't let her height stop you.

Hormones flows in her body too

taoheedoriloye:
You write hatred towards some people's religion and some ethnic group period. And jihad did not start from abuja where there is alot of churches.

It enjoyable to blackmail others for your people woes.
You people engaged in drugs business for long now you are paying the price , all you got to do is to type nonsense. Futile efforts

It happened in Enugu, where a whole community was almost wipped out. So do you in your right senses say Little babies, women and other innocent humans like you were murdered for drug fight that did not concern them? My friend, you are diabolical.

Wait, are we this dumb? Since when did drug fight turn innocent people into casualties?

From cultists to drug lords. Non, I repeat NON operates like this. What happened in Ozubulu can never be logically concluded to be drug fight, unless someone is trying so hard to hide something from us.

Drug dealers settle their beef by killing their offenders sometimes. This have always been done through hired assassination or juju (taking someone to a juju court). It has never been heard that drug dealers decided to mass execute bunch of Christians in a church that does not even have the target or the family members in it. In other to retaliate for wrong done to them.

What happened in Ozubulu, is not Igbo style of settling qualms.

This is an act of terrorism, and God forbid, if it's a jihad, cos I know not everyone is too gullible not to see that the police/government account of this issue is wrong and thwarted. People will ask questions, people will demand explanations and Ozubulu is the wrong choice of town for whomever orchestrated this act.

Why you shouldn't rule out the possibility of terrorism and Fulani militia attack?

It happened in Enugu, but the timing and mode of operation is the major factor. Whoever carried out the evil wanted to send a message to Igbos of what they are capable of doing. They know we will understand that it was never an act fueled by feud between drug dealers, but they can't outrightly own up because of the political implications.

RIP to the dead.

Enough of the politicising, let's call a spade, a spade.

Igbos don't sweep this under the carpet, get to the roots of it.
For the record I desperately hope it was a case of Gang feud cos I know if it's otherwise, the implications will not be good news for anybody considering the state of the country right now.

The day you visit a fleshy fresh girl on wrapper with no underwear (I knows this cos the contours where all showing, with the wrapper sticking into the nyash)

Then you will understand that bum shot is way more decent than wrapper without underwears.

Devil punish you, you're abstaining and the girl is willing.

MhizzAJ:
May the good lord have merci on u

Lol!

squash47:
Supa story...so if only FACE BOOK has all this only for savin data,how google own go kon be ? never knew OUR FB DATA were stored in fridge.

Ignorance

OP i was in such situation, so i understand your plight. Your mum should never have anything to do with HIM sexually again, she MUST protect herself (advice her please). You must have understood that it's not easy out there, so your hustle must be real. DELETE the man from your life, even though you don't tell him to his face.

PRAY, PRAY and PRAY.

Eventually, you will learn to live happily without him.

darichlife:
I want to give you a personal advice. If you really want to know those who are truly your friends just act broke for one months and seek for their help, leave your house untidy and let them come around, just tell them u are just too broke to afford anything at the moment and see how many of them will remain.

Am talking from personal experience. Friends will never stop collecting so long you wont say no, face the truth you are trying to keep a face of integrity and status at the expense of your life, no being able to say no to some demands will put pressure on you and will never make you happy as people will never get satisfied.

Friends should be few and good.

Thanks, I remember once I was sick, it really occured to me the quality of the people I have around me. But I never took it to heart as I like to handle my problems without involving anybody.

Rozaytee:
send me ur number....ASAP!!!!

Hmmm! Why?

YOUNGSTUNNA:
please borrow me 10k only... I will refund back... next week

Typical of my friends, some even say just tomorrow afternoon.

donproject:
Wow! I have finally seen someone like me, I so much understand you beyond what you can even explain. That is just it. I don't know what causes such behavior, feeling you have to be responsible for everything, paying first, trying to satisfy other at your own expense. Well bro, I have changed, I have outgrown it, I'm now much more difficult now because I now think ahead, and I see what people can turn to if you give them first opportunity. I prefer not to give you the first time you ask so you won't come asking next time...If you want to borrow money from me now, I ask first when will you repay before I accept to borrow you. I don't borrow people small amount like N50 or N100 so that it won't look awkward if I'm asking you for that little money when you fail to repay at the speculated.


Bro, this is the cheat. Don't feel that you owe anybody anything, say no when it is the best thing you could say, even to females. Don't mind what people say behind you because this is also responsible for such attitude. Act the way your mind wants you to... disappoint people when it is the best thing to do...if people disturb you to do what you don't want to do, tell them you will do it to lure them away, but don't do it and don't even be apologetic.

If you allow me to continue, I can give you loads of hints, but I believe half word is enough for the wise.

Good you understand my situation so good, please quote me with more hints.

sehin79:
your HABIT of given
create another habit of saying NO simply,the more you do something consciously you become better at it,
and since you know you cannot ask for your money back always give and not borrow,logic is if someone ask you to borrow them 50k,you can simply tell them you cannot borrow them money and say you would rather give them,and simply give them what you have
and note you cant help the whole world,as you are not jesus. thats just the fact of life EVEN GOD cannot please the world.
and more so you can start given more of encouragement than money as most people dont have a money problem,but knowledge problem.

I agree, the highest help I got from someone that materialised into cash, was a 10 minutes phone conversation. Many people don't value this kind of help.

Rorachy:
You are among the people that can't say No to people, I know someone that is like that.

You need to bear it in mind that you are saying no to please yourself and not to displease yourself.

Don't say yes out of fear or what the person will think about you.

Even if the person say you are wicked or stingy cos you refuse, don't bother about the talk.

That's how I do mine.

Someone ones said to me "Nawa for you, your No is always your No, no changing of mind".

It's not always that easy o.

VargasVee:
This is how people attract a lot of fake friends to their lives.


Do not be surprised, the day you stop giving, they'll all disappear.

Bros you no lie

MissRaine69:
Why do you feel the need to be accepted? It's not that you cannot say no , you can but instead of saying no you feel obligated to placate. Unfortunately if you don't grow a backbone soon you will forever be taken advantage off there is no getting away from that.
Being assertive and understanding self esteem don't come naturally to everyone. You have mentioned that you don't do it for glory that maybe so, but your behaviour has its roots in tying to fit in and money buys you passage. You are accepted by I suspect by the majority of your friends because you give them something and they know you are a walk over.
Are you open to learning how to be a bit more assertive?

Wow! I never checked my behavior from this angle, this is surely an eye opener. Thanks

Abeg! Make u na help me with beta advise o

I'm this kind of person that likes to be the one to pay for every drink or for all the plates when I go out with friends. I don't do it because I seek glory, but I simply feel the nudge, like I'm supposed to pay for this, plus I don't like taking advantage of people or someone taking care of my stuff.

This applies to friends asking me to borrow them money too. I simply cannot say no to them. And this have caused me some very important relationships (I suppose), as immediately I start asking for what they borrowed, They begin to see me as the enemy.

Please how do you say NO to lending money to someone without feeling bad?