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TravelRe: Cost Of A Nigeria International Passport by yunqdady:
TravelRe: Living In Canada/Life As A Canadian Immigrant Part 2 by yunqdady:
TravelRe: Cost Of A Nigeria International Passport by yunqdady:
FamilyRe: I Dont Love Who Igot Married To-she Is An American Citizen by yunqdady:
TravelRe: Nigerian Nurses And Midwives With The Dream Of Working Abroad Let's Meet Here. by yunqdady: 11:06pm On Oct 01, 2021
caandi:
no want given license. It’s Niamey precisely
You can do adaptation with NMCN then.
I think I've heard of one school call something Institute Sante Praque in Niger and I know people from there that are either in UK as RN after doing adaptation. Some schools of Nursing could admit you into year 2. Just find out from your seniors how they went about it. Cameroon is another option
TravelRe: DV 2013 Winners Meet Here by yunqdady:
EducationRe: Did You Go For Another Bachelors Degree After Your BSc? Pls Share Your Story!! by yunqdady:
EducationRe: Did You Go For Another Bachelors Degree After Your BSc? Pls Share Your Story!! by yunqdady: 9:34am On Oct 01, 2021
sharone21:
Yes.
I studied Physics science years ago and now in Cameroon studying Nursing( many private institutions offer this course and other allied health courses)
Bsc Nursing available in Cam? How many years if so. Ow many years if bringing transcript of similar course
TravelRe: Nigerian Nurses And Midwives With The Dream Of Working Abroad Let's Meet Here. by yunqdady:
sharone21:
It is possible to do Assistant Nursing in UK but you would have shortchanged yourself.
If you transfer to Cameroon with proof of transcripts and certificate, you may run 2 sessions within 13-14 months and get licensed in Cameroon.
But why do you people go to countries that won't easily give you license? Adaptation in Nigeria: maybe N250,000-300,000 and about 18 months and success rate at final exam is low.
Cameroon gives license to non citizens?
FoodRe: What Do You Drink And Why? by yunqdady: 9:17pm On Sep 30, 2021
Laird:
Local indigenous production of non alcoholic drinks and non alcoholic wines should be fine
what year did you graduate?
BusinessRe: What To Do To Make Money Online? by yunqdady: 8:46pm On Sep 30, 2021
I remember back then when I read from page one till the end (700+) some two years back.
Didn't later venture. What's the latest? Still hot cake?
TravelRe: Nigerian Nurses And Midwives With The Dream Of Working Abroad Let's Meet Here. by yunqdady:
FamilyRe: My Mom Rejects Every Woman I Introduce To Her by yunqdady: 7:51pm On Sep 29, 2021
johndan103:
Background
I am 28 years old (will be 29 on the 18th Oct) and I am ready to go the family way. I have a lovely girlfirend lets call her Hauwa, she is 28 too (will be 29 March next year) and is emotionally matured and ready to settle down too, but the problem is my mom.


Statement of Problem
My mom gets irritated when I tell her i am ready to marry. She keeps hoping i dont get married soon saying i am ungrateful for all the care she has shown me. I have a Job and i have promised to do what I should do. But she said i must not marry the person i love. She has rejected every lady I have brought home. In fact she has never approved any relationship I have ever been in. Every lady i date is either a prostitute or a low life according to her.


More Details
She wants to match make for me. She is always talking about her friends daughters, so last year i tried to reason with her and allowed her to send me her choice (this was before my present relationship).
She sent the lady's number and i contacted the lady. Very rude lady who thinks being a medical student is the best thing that has happened since sliced bread. We didnt gel at all cos i feel she's too slow and not my type of woman, she also wasnt digging the match making thingy. The lady eventually told me she is in another relationship and i felt relieved. I told my mom and she said theres another medical student (daughter of another friend) of hers.



My Point of View
I am tired of her trying to match make me with her own opinion of the best choice for me. I love this lady I presently am dating to the moon and I cant see myself leaving a matured, humble and independent woman for another slowpoke i dont even know.

My mom has said if i go ahead I wont have her blessings in the marriage and that i have been jazed. I used to think moms will be happy that their son wants to start a family but mine has made it harder for me. I know parents want the best for their children but this is a tall oder for me.


Hauwa's Point of View
Hauwa is already feeling rejected about the whole saga and has asked me to keep peace with my mom. She says she undestands moms are protective. She handeled it well with maturity. I delibratelty asked her to visit my mom from the begining of the relationship so that they can familiarize with themselves but my mom wont accept her. Hauwa is saying it will be difficult emotionally for us if our relationship and marriage is not accepted.


Mom's Point of View
The first reason my mom gave is that Hauwa is Igala while we are okun (i have introduced my mom to an Okun lady in the past she said our village doesnt marry from Yagba, I also introduced her to another youruba lady she said the lady parents are not together so she wont keep a home).
The second point my mom raised is that the lady is financially independent, makes money and drives a Jeep. (I have asked Hauwa about her financial status and I am convinced runs is not not her way cos she has elaborated on how she affords her lifestyle and its genuine).She also asked for the 4million she loaned me before I talk about marriage which I will. I asked her if she wants cash or a car and she said a benz. My plan is to get her an SUV before end of the year so i can focus on settling down next year. I am very lonely and tired of bachelor life. I want to settle down and start have kids not sleeping around like a fuckboy.


Family point of view
My family is very educated and well travelled so i dont understand why this issue is coming up. I am already processing visa for Hauwa cos i cant keep breaking my heart by ending relationships at her command just to to make her happy. My dad is neutral but he wont want to offend his wife so he might try and reason with her. My sisters have said they will support my chioce but I shouldnt complain if I make the wrong choice even tho my mom will try to convince my siblings not to give me any kind of emotional support.


My Question
What are the repercussions of going ahead with the marriage plans?? huh Has any man successfully gone against their moms wish and turned out happy??


NB: No one can change my moms mind, not my dad, not pastor, not her sister. on one because she will convince them she is right and tell them I am lying, that she has never rejected anyone except this person.
Please I dont want to give the impression that my mom is a bad person cos she has trained me in the right path and I have never lacked because of her. She is also very supportive and has provided everything and more at all times for all her children.

Please be kind to us cos im sending the link to Hauwa to read matured peoples opinion.

Cheers
How far?
HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by yunqdady:
FamilyRe: I Dont Love Who Igot Married To-she Is An American Citizen by yunqdady: 6:44pm On Sep 29, 2021
Op, how far?
TravelRe: Nigerian Nurses And Midwives With The Dream Of Working Abroad Let's Meet Here. by yunqdady:
TravelRe: DV 2013 Winners Meet Here by yunqdady:
TravelRe: DV 2013 Winners Meet Here by yunqdady: 3:00pm On Sep 29, 2021
yemmywesey:
I thanked God for everyone that has won the dv lottery before it was scrapped by obama.
I tried my best too, I aspired to win it too but God didn't allowed me to win before it was scrapped.
I started applying for the dv lottery diversity program from year 2001 while I was in sss1 in secondary school in Lagos, and I applied for it yearly till it was scrapped by obama administration in year 2011 while I was in 400 level at the University in ibadan.
processing american visa now nah jamb exam, especially under past presidency of Donald trump which made a master's student visa a hell.
am still on the struggle to emigrate though, things are not the way they used to be in the past anymore.
Mhen, u na legend.
ProgrammingRe: Why Leaving Nigeria Must Be Your Utmost Priority As A Programmer by yunqdady: 7:45pm On Sep 27, 2021
Bossman:
Some valid points are made here regarding working remotely, for the same high salary, with relatively cheaper cost of living. However, we need to remember that constant power supply and uninterrupted (and very good) internet connection are the key to making that work. As a software guy myself, I have visited Nigeria and have tried to do a bit of remote work on some occasions. It's usually not a very pleasant experience, due to the not so reliable internet connection.
He's a black racist.
CareerRe: Pharmacists And Pharmaceutical Aspirants by yunqdady: 5:14pm On Sep 27, 2021
Alexis11:
Good evening boss... How easy it is for a pharmacist (Pharm.D) to do MSc or Mpharm in USAhuh

Can you help explain the process??

Money is not a problem.

Anticipating your reply sir
Oshey Obi Cubana

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