Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Yusuf_@ & Iyatrustee's Love Land Bleep by yusuf2(m): 2:52pm On Mar 29, 2011 |
losing wot  |
Romance › Re: I Love Older Women by yusuf2(m): 2:09pm On Mar 29, 2011 |
Context!!! See my iyawo wan Teach me English, u re just the best e-wife any man can have,  |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Yusuf_@ & Iyatrustee's Love Land Bleep by yusuf2(m): 2:04pm On Mar 29, 2011 |
i don't like it, it's a female name, no be the style to produce bonboi we do? we wld name him Ghadaffi, but if u still go and disappoint me to eject yarinya, we wld name her Obiagheli  |
Romance › Re: I Love Older Women by yusuf2(m): 12:48pm On Mar 29, 2011 |
and how does "IT'S NOT FAIR" = "BAD GIRL" ? Life is not always fair to everyone all the time, does it mean life is bad? Iya, leave mata make we jogodo jor  |
Romance › Re: I Love Older Women by yusuf2(m): 12:32pm On Mar 29, 2011 |
^^^ where? |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Yusuf_@ & Iyatrustee's Love Land Bleep by yusuf2(m): 12:30pm On Mar 29, 2011 |
^^^ WHO ASK U, OYA LEAVE OUR ROOM, GO TO THE PALOUR AND WATCH tOM & jERRY |
Romance › Re: I Love Older Women by yusuf2(m): 12:26pm On Mar 29, 2011 |
wetin dey make u squeeze face now? |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Yusuf_@ & Iyatrustee's Love Land Bleep by yusuf2(m): 12:25pm On Mar 29, 2011 |
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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Yusuf_@ & Iyatrustee's Love Land Bleep by yusuf2(m): 12:09pm On Mar 29, 2011 |
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Romance › Re: I Love Older Women by yusuf2(m): 12:03pm On Mar 29, 2011 |
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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Yusuf_@ & Iyatrustee's Love Land Bleep by yusuf2(m): 12:00pm On Mar 29, 2011 |
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Romance › Re: I Love Older Women by yusuf2(m): 11:53am On Mar 29, 2011 |
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Romance › Re: I Love Older Women by yusuf2(m): 11:46am On Mar 29, 2011 |
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Romance › Re: I Love Older Women by yusuf2(m): 11:25am On Mar 29, 2011 |
^^^ DEAD? how can i want my on e-luv dead?  wouldn't that be stupid of me?  by the way, is ur Lawyer a man, cause i suspect something  |
Romance › Re: I Love Older Women by yusuf2(m): 11:17am On Mar 29, 2011 |
^^^ Sorry dear, i meant Millimeters  |
Romance › Re: I Love Older Women by yusuf2(m): 11:05am On Mar 29, 2011 |
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Romance › Re: I Love Older Women by yusuf2(m): 10:56am On Mar 29, 2011 |
Iya, i approve, but only 7 rounds oooh. |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Yusuf_@ & Iyatrustee's Love Land Bleep by yusuf2(m): 10:42am On Mar 29, 2011 |
^^^ dont spoil that ur beautiful lips for me naw  |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Yusuf_@ & Iyatrustee's Love Land Bleep by yusuf2(m): 10:33am On Mar 29, 2011 |
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Romance › Re: I Love Older Women by yusuf2(m): 10:31am On Mar 29, 2011 |
^^^ u ve started ba, these ur Croco, e Tears |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Yusuf_@ & Iyatrustee's Love Land Bleep by yusuf2(m): 10:28am On Mar 29, 2011 |
^^^ u & who, after u abandoned me eh  *giving annawhite cute winks*,  *she smiles back*  |
Romance › Re: If You Are Not Jealous You Are Not In Love by yusuf2(m): 10:25am On Mar 29, 2011 |
190: [color=deeppink]I had read the above mentioned quote as a youngster and it is true to some extent. Being jealous and having feelings of envy are normal to human nature. A little bit of jealousy combined with possessiveness is healthy, but if the same goes beyond control so much so that one of the partner feels suffocated in the relationship or one of the partner is constantly checking on the other, it can lead to a lot of social embarrassment.
How do you detect that you are jealous or over possessive? If you find yourself constantly wondering what the person is doing and not because you miss the other person but because you are jealous and feel that the partner may be with another man or woman, this kind of thought process will lead to suspicion, jealousy and can prove to be detrimental to a healthy relationship especially if you call up your partner several times in a day just to check where the other person is?
This kind of jealousy in the relationship will lead to fights and arguments till a point comes in the relationship when one of the partners walks out. This may even lead to a break-up or a divorce.
If you are exhibiting any of the above mentioned signs its time for you to examine your behavior and determine the cause of your behavior. Ask yourself a few relevant questions like why do you have these feelings of jealousy? Why do you want to constantly check on your partner? Try to find out the root cause of your behavior, is it because you genuinely believe that your partner is overly flirtatious or you have strong feelings of inadequacy.
Often jealousy stems from strong feelings of inadequacy or a low self-esteem. We may either berate ourselves constantly or always criticize a member of the opposite sex.
Please remember jealousy does not enhance your attraction in any way, in fact you appear to be a person who always harbors ill will towards others.
The next though that crops up in everybody’s mind is how to curb jealous thoughts in oneself or one’s partner? Don’t worry there are many solutions to curb jealousy and build a healthy relationship.
The first step in dealing with any kind of jealousy is to recognize that you or your partner is facing a problem of extreme jealousy. Firstly realize the fact that if your partner is a flirt or has actually been unfaithful, checking constantly on him or her is not really going to change them however if they have not done anything then it surely will annoy them and may make them feel suffocated.
So the thumb rule is unless you have caught them doing something do not suspect. Believe them if they offer an explanation for their behavior. Also get rid of any feelings of inadequacy, because if the partner is with you then it definitely is out of choice and not any kind of compulsion.
If you are the one of those who has an overly jealous or possessive partner then I suggest that you find out what is the cause of this jealousy and possessiveness. Is it originating from your behavior or the cause is something else. Find out if you have either neglected your partner or unfairly compared them with someone else. If it is either of these then make changes to your behavior and if you feel that your partner has some psychological problems then suggest that they see a counselor and instead of stating that your partner see a counselor which may offend them suggest that both should see a counselor to understand what the problem is.
Handling the issue of jealousy in a relationship with sensitivity and understanding can cause the feelings of jealousy to die a slow death and mutual trust and understanding in the relationship will grow leading to a happy and fulfilling relationship.[/color] blah blah blah, *feeling dizzy* |
Romance › Re: I Love Older Women by yusuf2(m): 10:22am On Mar 29, 2011 |
Tosinville: Yusuf Ok i don't know earlier, i thought you're a fagg0t before running after magic sticks on NL. Lol, i bet i like women more than you  , and by the way/ whats up with this identity of nationality crisis that u're passing thru? aw many bottles did u ve last nite?  |
Romance › Re: I Love Older Women by yusuf2(m): 10:17am On Mar 29, 2011 |
Tosinville: Yusuf Bro, why you so curious as a dude? do you wanna suck the dude kondo ni or what? so all these babes IYA & CO can c wot their chasing after, iyatrustee: ^^^he is watching out for his sista's welfare   no be only welfare |
Romance › Re: Who Is A Nice Guy? by yusuf2(m): 10:14am On Mar 29, 2011 |
fork adict: What if a guy forks really really well. Does that make him a nice guy? All of una just dey talk long tin since morning. Una no talk reach fork side. Gbam, a nice guy does the payment, while the one who can f0rk well gets the reward. |
Romance › Re: I Love Older Women by yusuf2(m): 10:12am On Mar 29, 2011 |
op, come and show ur kondo, let us judge.  waot up with the garri tok?  |
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Romance › Re: I Love Older Women by yusuf2(m): 10:03am On Mar 29, 2011 |
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Autos › Re: 2004 Honda Accord (EOD) @ Affordable Price @ Banix Autos 07044024051,017383301 by yusuf2(m): 9:27am On Mar 29, 2011 |
aw much last? |
Autos › Re: SOLD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!very Sharp 2005 Honda Accord 4urgent Sales N1.3m 08023055599 by yusuf2(m): 9:14am On Mar 29, 2011 |
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Autos › Re: Clean And Sharp Tokunbo 2004 Honda Accord, Leather Interior, Navi: by yusuf2(m): 4:24pm On Mar 28, 2011 |
Sweet with a Nav System 2 BAD ITS USELESS IN 9JA  , how much sha? can it go for N1.4m? |
Autos › Re: Honda Accord 2008 Model ***beginning Of Discussion*** @3.2m by yusuf2(m): 4:19pm On Mar 28, 2011 |
Honda Anaconda aka beginning of discussion, Sweet one bro, i can't shout I CAN ONLY WHISPER, happy sale though  |