Not at all, still friends with my ex, we have a drama free joint custody and shared business interests. Marriage isn't for everyone and most def it's not for me.

Finally! A mature, sensible and realistic outlook on Love. None of the Buy me, Gimme, and toothbrush and blood sharing wtf kinda NL love.

If this topic is upsetting to your sensibilities, pls click 'Back' button now or continue to post to get your undercover freak on.

Been there, done that, learnt some truths about me, I'm too selfish, too independant and quite frankly, there's nothing in this world I wanna do for the rest of my life except breath.

Stop approching women with big, flabby stomaches and stretchmarks unless of course you can't because you look like ish yourself.

When u throw the first punch, best u have a couple more from where that came from and get ready to get served. She forfeited her Lady Rights the minute her hand met your visage.

Oh, so what if you're not getting laid, you did what God decreed, good girl! Now wait for heaven, don't worry about kids, God will provide, just go on your knees and pray, pray, pray, since there's effall else you can do on your knees,
Btw, you mean this man never ever even exhibited some random wood Yho!

sandraa:

Yes am tired of all this guys and their insult to chics all in the name of marriage!!!

Time you understand that its the other way round!

1. The fine chic leaves her comfort zone to your scattered house ( where she stays before she married u was well organised with stewards and cook to take care of her needs) now she is now your house help doing all she never does in her house #and in your wack mind u think you r doing her a favour#

2. she now puts you into consideration on how she spends her time ( formerlly she can decide to go see her frds, movies, straight from work to do little shopping for herself, church or wherever she likes) #Dont you know you ve stolen the idea of her having a choice in her life?#

3. You now have licence to sleep with her d way you want it and when you want it ( where as she has lost the right to say no to sex anytime, no more excuse of ï ve to rush home cos of mumsy na" or any excuse to avoid sex #damm guys i hate dis fact#

4. She gets to get pregnant, carry the child for nine months+ and this d big one stick to d child till d child is old enough to stay on his/her own ( imagine a life where you are no longer free again, just imagine the resposibility casted on a woman ) #some guys ve d got to call her fat, or even leave her after so much trauma of being with him#

5. Her life changes forever and it doesnt get easier at any point, its from one small responsibilty to a bigger one waiting for her in the front ( Meanwhile wat does d guy bring to the table? # dnt dare tell me i put food on the table cos she works too! so tell me?#

6. Imagine now she closes from work rushes home to cook for husband that also went to work and likes to eat fresh food, she feeds d kids, do their homework with them, take her bath and Oga go won do am canine style afterwards, doesnt care if she is tired. #you guys think women her machines abi?

7. Seriouslly why did God bestowed upon us women dis na?

8. Single ladies its not easy to be married o! #TRUE STORY# if u aint ready dnt jump into it o!

9. Married Ladies Kudos to you guys for giving us courage to come in, cos in as much there is pain the joy of being a mother surpasses them all, and veing a husband to love and direct is awesome, a husband that knows he has found a gud thing a helpmate indeed!

10. Men If you ve a wife know it today that she has bestowed upon you a great favour by being your wife, and all you single guys yet to take the big step pls word of wisdom, she is doing you indeed a great honour to become your wife, cos ko easy rara!!


Glad i ve said my piece!!

You do know that women aren't forced to get married, right?

I'm sorry your chick left u for her ex. So what if you can't lay pipe and you're broke as hell, Losers need love too.

I rock Locs and there's nothing DREADful about them. And they're oh so sexy, I can dive into a pool anxiety free, I can use the shower for exra curricular activities,my man can tug and pull @ them when the going gets HOT, no head scarves to bed and it's Authentically Me. My hair's my personal statement saying: God wasn't trippin' when he put this tightly coiled crown on my head. So yeah, I'll pass on wearing some Brazilian broad's crown, or frying my hair to meet a warped ideal, no Sir!

Women hate women because of LOOKS, INSECURITY, plus end result, MEN As women we're still mostly valued by our attractiveness. The not so cute are most guilty of this hateration for obvious reasons. It's sad really.

The number of men they've slept with. Rule of thumb: always multiply by 3.

Am very much into mental stimulation and I find arrogance extremely HOT, but dude has to back it up though.

Three legged animals?

So you call him pretending to be another chick, How did that help in sorting out your problem? Eish kids!

Wrap your head around the fact that YOU ARE NO LONGER DATING. Silence is oftentimes the the loudest voice
we choose to ignore.

Depends on the type of kiss, any tasteful PDA, no problem. I find OTT PDA tacky and ewwww, irrespective of the couple's sexual orientation. Get a room!

If what your hubby gives you for monthly expenditure isn't enough, GO GET A JOB. There is a name for ladies who sit around expecting men to give them money because they sleep with them.

Stealing: To take the property of another without right or permission. So yep, she is stealing. Can she not draw up a household budget and discuss the shortfall with her husband?

No. These people don't do these things because they want to. They do them because they fear the consequences of not doing them. I'd recommend taking self esteem supplents, twice daily.

What's the monthly allowance for? Services Rendered?

What does the pregnant lady want to do? I'd suggest she make her decision independant of your honourable intentions.

This is a discussion board, is it not? So am just airing my views, no drama.

Why the need for constant proof that someone adores you. A list of to do's in relationship, how can someone enjoy any relationship when they constantly have to be rigidly following some insane expectations that are nothing but window dressing. If I can't be me in a relationship then it's not worth my while. I shouldn't have to be jumping through hoops to sunstain your approval. No one's worth that ish and anyone who needs such validation is an insecure little ish.

Lol @ having to carry a chick's handbag to have a goodnight kiss. Pathetic! And FYI, a pregnant woman is not sick or handicapped, just pregnant, so chick carry your own doggamned bag! Even the Queen carries her own. Quit this juvenile nonsense.

But if your hubby's screwing around behind your back, you're not getting respect.

Is it customary in Nigeria for The Wives to never be seen in public with their hubbies?

No thanks, ugly with money is still ugly! I shouldn't have to get neuseous every night come bedtime.

There's giving your man a beat down till the neighbours call the cops and you score yourself a restraining order. And then there's highly charged pushing and shoving kicking some azz right into a mighty joyride. The latter's my kick, none of that lame butterfly feathery kisses to some ish, And of course I'm attracted to like minded people and they get it.