₦airaland Forum

She needs not expose it. This kind of girl is usually fun to be with. Let such disparaging comments not get to her.

People must talk.

Zabiboy:

Some guys sef...
OP, have you toured round the world??, have you gone on holidays or vacation outside the country, have you made investments enough to hold you when you retire??, do you have a house of your own so you can stop paying rent??, Have you really spoiled yourself with fun??....
I can bet you havent done all these but here you are thinking about marriage...
No working class lady with sense Would go for a man that earn 50k per month..
Anyways, i'm not one to discourage a fellow nigga from getting married o...All i can say is "Make sure you enjoy yourself...This life, Na only you waka come"
GL

Say what you know.

If it were that easy, who would even opt for 50k job?

Instead of paying money to Boko Haram, let them pay it to US special forces to organize a raid and end this nonsense once and for all but would they?


It's a business venture.

Melaye:
smartgeek make i drop id na

make man use that one dey hold body

Man? With a female monicker.

CamusMidas:
Tell her make she play along, then catch am pants down and deal with him.

You didn't watch the video where the husband was beaten by the wife's lover.

There's a possibility op may lose his life over the confrontation.

JPAlagwu:
let that 'rarely' become 'never'...and watch yourself become financially stable.

Peeps say this only when Alabi is screwing them.

You won't remember this if you have a winning strategy.

Kwili:
please my good people of nairaland help a brother in desperate need of a job.
life has not been easy for me after graduating from the university. I have many responsibilities on me and my younger ones are looking up to me.
am dying silently, please help me my people am gradually losing my mind.

Am a graduate of Glass Technology from Ahmadu Bello University Zaria, Kaduna State.
I have other courses which I did during my service year which are:
Health Safety and Environment(HSE),
International Project Management Professionals(IPMP) and
Hazard Identification Course(HAZID)
am willing to relocate to any part of the country to work.
this is my contact :07017498139

Who advised you to study glass technology?

Does Nigeria manufacture glass?

If so, how many glass manufacturing companies do they have?


Learn a skill like tailoring, barbing, plumbing, vulknizer.

Even shoe makers earn money now.

Ihatebuhariwith:
Ain't married but why can't u give him the money u r saving for the wedding, maybe he could use it for business instead of saving with no profit..
Note: if u love n trust him ni o.

Bad advice. Would you advise your sister like this?

Ikjosh04:
The key to his prosperity could be unlocked when he get married.

To me, you can marry him, in as much as the man is reasonable and doing everything possible to break his entanglement with poverty.

Btw, no where In the Bible was it written to marry who you love.

The scripture says we should love who we marry.

Love is not feelings or emotions.

Love simply means commitment, passion, pleasure and above all sacrifice!


The distance between dreams and reality is called action and as long as anyone is intentional about their progess in life, the breakthrough will come.

It's also important to note Success in life depends more on who you know than what you know.

Don't quote what you know nothing about.

Bible says that a man who can't provide for his family is worse than an infidel.

CsRockefeller:
This is quite dicey. I don't want to act as if your current bf isn't human but what is he doing with you when he knows he's not capable?

For me, he should be the one to pull out of the relationship and let you be, in other words, he is very selfish.

Money is very important in marriage, very important that by the time you enter you'll realise that love isn't a currency that will pay rent, put food on the table and pay your children's school fees.

Use your tongue to count your teeth, don't be naive. By the way, what's all these rubbish talk with "he's the one I love" bla bla bla......., my sister everyone is capable of loving everyone and anyone don't let your heart deceive you.

For me, I can't even date someone when I earn nothing, and I can't even date/marry someone who isn't working. If you want to be the husband as d woman while your bf becomes the wife as d man it's in your court.

Things can change tomorrow for him but hope isn't a strategy. On the other hand, things can even get worse for him.

As he's jobless. Nothing is guaranteed. There's the tendecy he could be lazy and turn to gambling and futher to alcohol and drugs to try to escape reality.

It were even better that he was working and underpaid than jobless.

That joblessness hides a lot of things you know nothing about!

willingheart:
I'm truly in love with this guy. We are happy together, We understand each other perfectly. With him I'm � myself, No pretence. Same with him. He's everything I want in a man, but the problem is that: he doesn't have money. He keeps trying, but things are not working. no job and he's from a family where everyone are on their own facing their challenges, no support.


He's 35yrs this yr and I'm 30 already. He wants to get married, but he can't afford it.

Lately, I buy almost everything for him, to support him.

Age is not on my side, yet the only man I love and that loves me can't afford to marry me. If we're married, it will be easy for me to share everything with him without my family members putting eyes.

My Aunt called me stu.pid that i should accept a financially stable man instead of being with a man who can not afford to take care of me.
I have little money I saved to support my wedding as well, but he have nothing.

Married people in the house please help.
I want to have direction plan for my life coming year.

Marrying the one you love or the one that's financially stable. What's your advice and opinion?

You understand that marriage is a liability. This means it's capital intensive.

You may have money at hand for the wedding. What of the marriage itself that may last for 10-60 years plus depending.

Remember that you can't guarantee when or if he will get a job and once you guys get married, babies start coming. How do you intend to carter for them by yourself?

I don't believe you are thinking straight now.

You will know what you put yourself into when the real pressure comes and he's not able to provide a damn for food and you guys are thrown outside because of house rent.

He will be frustrated, guess who, he will transfer aggression to?

It's you!

Both. Why settle for less?

Love doesn't pay bills.

QuinModah:
Yes

Please could you mention some schools that pay up to that amount?

uchechefaith:
Hi nairalanders; please any suggestion making money online fast, or any available job but with ssce cert.

Am tired already no need of writing epistles.

Unless you want to be given #7000 monthly pay.That ssce can't secure q meaningful job.

A law should be made where any employer that requires the services of a graduate must have the salary upgraded to #1 million or above per annum or face life imprisonment or death on conviction.

Looking at present economic conditions and seeing graduates being offered a pittance of #15000 - #30 000 per month is pure wickedness.


If this law becomes effective, things would become better in this country but unfortunately all the wicked politicians we have now are cashing out and securing citizenship of other countries that their citizens are being treated as Kings while treating us as paupers here.

Enough is enough.

Please does anyone have idea if private secondary schools in Edo pay up to #70 000?

jekks:
Naa every year una dey find Maths teacher nii... I don't mean to offend you oh!

It simply means they have a problem of payment, overworking their staff or scam.

mrgold2:
@234 i didn't receive any appointment letter from them, but i summitted my data with them, they even requested for two guarantors, which i also provided, but my pains is that they used us without considering the time and resources we all wasted and for some of us that lost their little job. @samguru actually i share your ideal i want to start my own business but the capital isn't there maybe i'll go for a loan. Tanx

It was a gamble you took which didn't work well. No appointment letter was collected and you made no payment to them.

Infact you can even add the 4 weeks training in your CV when applying for similar job descriptions.


Move on. 2021 is in sight. Let this go the way of all unpleasant events in 2020.

Basalt:
Goodmorning Ladies and Gentlemen.
I am Basalt by name and I came to Germany last year(2019) October for my MSc studies with a little amount of Money and a partially borrowed block account from my inlaw (his money and my money).
On arrival in Germany, I took only a few courses and got a job outside my city and also got a mini-job. I did all my monthly expenses from my Mini job and used my main job to completely pay back my debt within a few months of arrival.

Now, that's not the discussion at hand.
I need advice especially from people who have lived abroad or have many years of experience in life.
My visa still counts till 2022 and I can even extend it if I don't finish my studies by then.
According to German policy, once you graduate from the University, you will be given 18 months to get a professional job or return back to your country.
Returning back to Nigeria is totally out of my plan at least for now because I came from a very poor family without any job connection and I am really enjoying Europe.
I plan to buy land or start building a house (I saved millions of naira and will even save more as time goes) but my friend who is also a student here discouraged me against that saying that my root is not yet fixed abroad that I should wait and continue investing in myself and undergoing professional training until I get permanent residency before investing. That I should always keep saving because it is not certain that I will get a professional job after graduation since my course is not in Information Technology which is currently booming in Germany. That even if I don't get a job, I can use the money to migrate to Canada or any other country of my choice.
He asked What if you invest the money now and don't get a job after graduation, what will you do after the 18 months of post graduation visa since you don't have any backup from home who will help you out financially.

What do you guys think. I need opinions

Thank God for giving you a sensible friend.

He has said everything.

dawnomike:
This is terrible ... What a cut!!!

Looks like the railway FG promised to build.

But seriously these hoodlums deserve.shooting at sight.

SAMBARRY:
What is headmistress buisness with st weudent's vagina? Is that part of her job description?

Some parents do that shii on their daughters e.g pushing egg into a girl's vagina and all that kind of nonsense.its sexual and emotional abuse

What if the egg sinks. How can it be retrieved?

luvmijeje:
But you will still die. Just because you didn't die now doesn't mean you won't die later.

No prayer can save you from death. Jesus died young. Stephen died young. You didn't die now is not extraordinary.

But at least it gave me a chance to mend my ways. It means a lot

luvmijeje:
It changes it.

The man who wrote this story(Moses) wasn't alive when this events took place. He wasn't born. He was born after thousands of years.

Life was breathe into that story simply because he said God told him. And no one question him and you all continue to be afraid to question it.

I am typing because God gave me many a second chance.

I have seen death face to face if not for prayers of the saints. I shouldn't even be here now. I believe.

If you are sensible you would know what time, it is. Jerusalem has been ceded to Israel and recognized.

It remains small. Any moment nah viam.

I have heard Satan's laughter when he thought he had me fixed.


You don't wanna hear how it sounds.

LordIsaac:
Most times, such curiosity arises when we try to use rationality or common sense to explain the divine.

True.

luvmijeje:
What if God didn't?

It seems you like arguments too much.

It's either you believe or not. It doesn't change who God is.

luvmijeje:
If you have ever read your Bible from the beginning to the end, you will know it matters. The new and old testament relies on this story.

The story of Israel being the choosen one relies on this story. The story of Abraham and the story of Christ relies on this story.

If the story cannot stand on his two feet, then nothing can stand on it.

What if God made a woman for him?

Not everything is written.

tobechi74:
Eve was not the first woman. Lilith was the first woman. God created Adam and Lilith and they had other children. Lilith was competitive and envious. She wanted to l equality with Adam and would not submit. During sex, she wanted to be on top.she was a feminist.

Lilith died early. God now decided to create another woman from man rib so he would be more submissive. Cain was Lilith son. Abel was Eve son.

When Cain killed abel, Cain married Lilith daughters too . Envy , competition and jelous continued to miltiply

Lilith kee you there!

LordIsaac:
Scripture says some details were left out. That only what we need was inspired and documented. If our curiosity enters heaven with us, we shall ask God.

Seriously some arguments are not necessary. How relevant is the finding?

Freestainworld:
Cain married Buhari's Daughter, they are both blood suckers.

Werey!