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LucyB24:
What do you mean?

It was very wrong of you to send him nudes and you have already spoilt it. How do you expect him to wife you or convince him that you're not a cheap slut who sleeps with her boss and men?

He has already fantasized how he would sleep with you and that made him angry when you failed to show up.


There's nothing on the table. Move on before it's too late hoping he doesn't know your work place and doesn't threaten to release those pictures.

Cut him off or you will regret it.

LucyB24:
I'm a 24 year old lady living and working in Abuja. My job is very time demanding. I'm usually very busy on weekdays, and sometimes on weekends I can get called to work if something important comes up.

There is a guy I've known for months now. We met in Abuja at an event and we've been friends since. He lives in lagos but visits Abuja occasionally. He's also a very busy guy and he hardly has time on his hands. We have spent sometime together talking and getting to know each other but we haven't been on an official date. Most of our interaction has been over phone calls and WhatsApp text messages due to the distance barrier.

I fell in love with him during the course of our friendship. He is everything I want in a man. He's financially stable, very good looking and smart. The few times I've spent talking to him have been a pleasure, both for my eyes and for my mind. I never thought I could ever meet someone who checks all those boxes perfectly.

Men like him usually get a lot of female attention and I've tried to tread carefully. I didnt want him to see me as cheap but I also don't want him to think I am not interested in him. The day he told me he loved me was very memorable for me because I felt the same way. Few days later I told him I loved him too. Due to the distance barrier we could only talk on phone. I'm a very decent lady with good upbringing but because of what I felt for him, I did things I thought I'd never do. One night we had a sex chat that ended in me sending nudes to him. I've never done this before. This made me feel vulnerable and cheap because even though he said he loved me, I never believed him because he didn't really act like someone who was in love with me. He wasn't the type to call everyday and there were periods where he would dissapear for days and ignore my calls and texts and then return like nothing happened.

Last week we planned a special meeting. I was to travel to Lagos to see him at his place on Saturday morning. He had planned to refund me the money I'd use for my airline ticket and even hire a taxi that would bring me straight to his place from the airport. The way he sounded I knew he took it as a big deal. I agreed to come see him in lagos. On Friday morning he called and I assured him I was going to come. He called me again in the afternoon and I assured him I was going to come.

Towards the end of work on Friday my boss informed me that I had to be at work on Saturday to complete a very important project. Immediately I got the information I sent him a text. I was too tired when I left for home and I planned on calling him later that evening. I was so tired that I took a quick nap and woke up to missed calls from him. I called him back and asked if he got my message and he said he didn't. I informed him of the change in plans and he got very furious. He accused me of being indecisive and playing games. He said he had cancelled lots of meetings and spent money preparing for my visit and was disappointed that I didn't take him as seriously as he took me. He ended the call in annoyance and I've not heard from him since. He isn't picking my calls or replying my texts. I've sent him voice messages on WhatsApp apologizing and explaining myself but he hasn't replied..

I really love this guy and I don't want to lose him. He probably thinks I'm lying to him or that I have someone else I'm seeing but that's not the case.

Let him be. He just revealed his character to you. You should go for thanksgiving.

BaddieFreak:
My brother, I tire oo.

But he appended his signature, isn't that enough thebosstrevor1?

Under duress. Who wouldn't sign that?

Anyway as long as they didn't beat him and he keeps to his promise.

illicit:
That corper dey bleep dat woman

You are very sick.

Freestainworld:
so he should reject the offer nah, abi? 80k cannot solve a problem?

I insist that #80k is not a lot of money. Who doesn't know that naira is fast turning to Ugandan money in value.

Nevertheless if you read my previous comments you will see I advised him to take it.

Freestainworld:
80k is alot of money now, you have to also consider the fact that it is a government job, meaning less stressful and ability to grow with time.

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#80 000 is not a lot of money.

That's not more than 3 bags of rice.

Madu2013:
I don’t think the job is worth it, according to my findings the salary is about 80k

What you don't understand is that it has job security and the salary increases with time. In 3 years, it could climb to #120 000 there about.

You get pension at retirement .

Madu2013:
This is very sad, so I’m going to shave my precious beard

How much your beard don give you?

Talk true.

Nothing abi?

You want to compare with a salary of #70 000- #120 000?

Farki:
It's too early in the morning to be displaying madness.

Your papa mad.

She set well but not most beautiful. Infact the beautiful ones are not yet born.

Beauty is relative.

ALEX182:
Happy ending package dey?

Yes, the massage will help you relax and you get to enjoy your sleep more.

kenzysmith:
so why are they now putting gates pictures is he the manufacturer of the vaccine

Yes, those Chinese guys they told you are Covid team were contracted to install 5G network while government caged you indoors.

Now the vaccine works with the 5G and will be used to turn you into a zombie.

Trust them to make it expensive. Something they bought at $2 could go for $200.

Las las God no go let us shame.

victorix:
Way back in 2009/2012, a Blackberry device was on everybody's wishlist. Those Blackberry people use our eyes see pepper that year. Any small thing, "ping me!" "What's your BB pin?" People just assumed that you a BB device. Even the notification sound from BBM alone made some people feel like they have made it, Lol. Then from 2012/2013, the brand began to die. I think people moved to Android devices and iPhones. It was even after the whole Blackberry trend ended I got to use one.

There were other popular phone brands, too, that just suddenly went under the radar. What happened to these brands: HTC, Blackberry, LG, Sony, Motorola, Sony Ericsson, Alcatel? I think Nokia is recently trying to pick up. Those guys made cool devices back then.

Modified: I know some of these brands still make phones, but I'm talking about market share and dominance.

Hahaha. What of bird?

I got to buy bb because they were offering free browsing. My guy downloaded Spartacus so I said let me buy my own but it seemed they stopped free browsing immediately I bought!

Neroiam:
One fave quote by Rusell Crowe

Hold the line
Stay with me
Or you'll find yourself alone

I wish they succeeded in informing his army about his situation.

It would have added colour to the movie.

Neroiam:
One fave quote by Rusell Crowe

Hold the line
Stay with me
Or you'll find yourself alone

His motivation is second to none.

Amotekun777:
OP said "Action Movies" not, cartoon

Na girl talk be that.

leksite120:
24 hours
&
prison break

These are not movies otherwise I would have put, "Spartacus."

Willytoon:
Are you not entertained?!?

Identify yourself soldier!

*Removes helmet.

My name is Maximus Decimus Meridius, commander of the armies of the North, General of the Felix legions, loyal servant to the true emperor, Marcus Aurelius , husband to a murdered wife, father to a murdered son and I must have my vengeance. .

enchy:
Jumong and money heist

Are these movies or series?

The Patriot by Mel Gibson.

ObiaboAdoka:
Ur dog done Bleep wrong pussy. Just sell it to dog eaters of Nairalanders.

Ever wondered how Ebola and Covid started?

Dog is infected and you are recommending it to be eaten?

snnazzy24:
These were taken this morning after the doctor had to cut around the scrotum yesterday to release the content.

Warning... Graphic Images.

Report that doctor to their professional body for unethical practices.

He probably copied in exam Hall. See damage done to this poor dog.

Your dog has contracted an STD called Gonnocaccus gornorrhoea sivilistic.

Kobicove:
So what do you want from us?

He just wants suggestions on how to revenge more and make her more useless.

Imagine!

Hushbingo:
[b]This girl is a very beautiful lady which i know would have lots of suitors on her head. I never even intended dating her until she converted our friendship to relationship.

When we started, i noticed her incessant calls and had to complain about them which got reduced with time. In most cases, i would bring up issues pertaining to her having an affair with some of those people which she would discard and even get angry enough as to quarrel with me.
So, because of the texts and calls she was getting i became suspicious and one evening when i read a text from a guy addressing her as "baby and luv" i finally vented my anger, she strolled out that evening while i waited at home, later on, i took her phone, old phone which she barely uses, i turned it on and went through her Whatsapp messages, it was then that i discovered she has had an affair with a boss she was working for and even got messed up without her salary being paid for that month.

Not just that, other guys too have had their pounds of flesh. I was messed up that evening because this lady would insist we have sex without condom. So messed up that when she came, for the first time in my life, i layed my hands on a woman and slapped her so bad, I even beat her till she was unconcious and when she finally gained conciousness, she started begging and explaining, she even pretended like she wants to drink hypo bleech due to heart break.

To cut the long story short, i got other texts too from guys in her phone, one in particular sent her "are we still seeing today ?" Which she told me she never made any arrangement with the guy.
Well, i have invested much on this girl and i don't want to let her go like that, she had turned me to a brutal guy. I don't know what to do, i don't want to break up with her because she would just shift to another guy the next day, so I need advise on the best medicine for this kind of lady.[/b]

Don't be a devil.
Let her go with no strings attached. You have invested in her, so what?

Did she force you? You had no right to beat her or even leave her unconscious, you should be in jail if she actually knew her rights.

tombarib:
FCMB alert received. N5,000 deduction made. From N79,000 to N74,000..... Maybe l am the only one that is confused here....is this the new minimum wage? What is these deductions for?...

#74 000 for degree monthly salary. Please can I swap places with you?

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
I find work i see
I see work i nor go run....last last maybe na you go even dey owe them money....month end...employer is like niggarrrr..your salary is minus -115,000 naira..which means your complete salary of 100k is gone and now self you even still dey owe us more 15k....we go deduct am from subsequent payments
The only easy rule there na that clocking card

No matter what in life me nor go ever work for anybody

Except if na federal government job. With job security, promotion, annual leave, hazard allowance, Christmas package
I better sit down inside this my satum( inner room where you huzzle only) dey huzzle with my tools and format

The clocking card can be faulty. Rule states "failure to clock in " It never gave room for glitches.

sodiqapril:
Don't know what to say ..it might seem too harsh but if real sapa handle you, you won't think twice before accepting the job..

You have a poor mentality. For someone like you, by the time they finish the deduction you will be the one to balance them.


Besides they made a mistake in writing "approval" and other mistakes too.

I wouldn't touch that company with a long pole.

TooMuchStuff:
Good Job...!
Malami is just another Fulani Quota system Lawyer with Pass degree in Law School after several references. A baby lawyer with questionable SAN or better still, Senior Almajiri of Najeriya... he knows next to nothing in Law just like Buhari his Boss....

How can legislature, an arm of government with the powers of Section 306 to summon and to even impeach the old Cow in Aso Rock is suddenly not qualify to Invite the president to NASS??

Have you heard of the term 'rubber stamp'? He's right if you think deeply.

First bank is the bank and they will wait until it accumulates to thousands of naira before taking it.

Very wicked bank.

According to them, they charge #10 for every time you use their short codes but they will never tell you.

That's why they force it down to their new and gullible customers immediately they open account.

I have met a couple of them.

I've met Mr Richard Mofe Damijo.

I came very close to meeting Papillo. Those were the days he used to visit Amara, a student then at ABSU, so it seemed. He came with his brother, Ogbonna supposedly, lodged at a hotel. I saw Ogbonna but it seemed my village people no wan make I see Papillo.

They just lodged briefly and left almost immediately thus escaping mobbing the next day as bike men stormed the hotel. That was when I got to know.

It pains me till date. See me, see Papillo.