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chatinent:
It's preferrable to give her the money: it's a little suspicious bro. How did you know the sizes ?

ogorchimeizie:
You did wrong my brother... Apologise to your wife and give her the money to buy it. If she does not buy it, then your wife is a witch....but if she buys and you see yourself complaining, Oga join TB Joshua on the mountain.. There is a perverting demon around you...

Thank you

Jokerman:
Depends on the school you work.

A school at Ikorodu with school fees of 10,000 per term, you want such school to pay you 50k per month?

Lekan239:
My parents got married 27years ago, since then it has been hell for my mom. It's as if my mom was forced on him or did the love just seize to exit, this I need advice on, from my brothers and sisters here on what to do next.

It all began in 1993, two years later I was born (1995), then we reside in Lagos but my dad later moved to pH in search of greener pastures. He only comes back home (Lagos) once in a while. My mom tried all her best to cater for her kids during all those period with no help or whatsoever coming from my Dad. It wasn't easy at all.

Fast forward to early 2003, my dad came visiting after two years without hearing from him and then my mom decided we are going with him to pH, he opposed but my mom Insisted. To cut the long story short, after we get to pH we found out my dad was living carelessly, womanizing, his social life is zero because he doesn't drink or smoke but he lavished all his money outside and Care less about his family.

My mom strived and engaged in little business which we managed to survive on. My dad only comes home when he is Short of money and acted low and submissive but as soon as he got some money, he changed immediately.

So 2010 I left pH to the village, was writing waec, looking for admission and so on, later going to lag to hustle around 2013 as I'm the one to foot my education expenses.

2015 I gained admission in a polytechnic, after my OND in 2017 I went back to lag to begin the hustle as I have to further my education, all this period I did not visit my family in Port Harcourt. I went back for HND in 2018 but had to withdraw because of lack of funds, I went back again in 2019 because a family member advised he will foot the bills which he later didn't do.

So because of this covid 19 I visited my parents in pH. My mom was very ill, she can't move nor stand and she has been the one taking care of the family, my father inclusive. My father has been a lazy man who depends solely on his wife for survival. He does not work, he does not stay at home with his sick wife. 6am he will enter the kitchen and eat any food he finds he won't even ask if four of his kids and my mom will eat. He will go and sit down in people's shops around the streets discussing with people's wife's. 10am he will be back home, straight to the kitchen to check if there's any food if my mom had drop money for us to prepare food, he will eat it without even talking to anybody, in fact he owns the kitchen now. He repeats same 2pm, 5pm and night meal also. I'm just so angry right now I don't even know what I am typing again.

After seeing all this behavior i advised my mother to give him some space, she gave birth to four children for him and three of us can survive on our own as we are no longer kids, but she won't obliged it's just as if maybe she is okay with suffering.

Today this morning, my dad did the most outrageous thing, he woke up and started ranting, saying does my mom think he is not going to be rich later, and he won't stay here forever. I got the message he was passing that he is going to leave my Mom if he stumbles upon some money. And I exactly told my mom this statement yesternight too.

Please you guys should advise me on what to do because at this junction, it hurts me a lot having the knowledge that my mom is with man who doesnt care or love her, even at her sick bed, he never for once visited the doctor nor the man of God taking care of my Mom.

Jokerman:
Most employees think it's easy for private primary school owners...

Where I once applied as a primary school teacher before I moved to my career line, the proprietor stated that she never employs make teachers to teach in primary schools, because they always complain and can leave at anytime... She always advices them to apply at the secondary schools instead....

Jokerman:
How can you collect salary for a month you did not work??

You must think schools make money like IOCs or like Banks??

You the good employee, if the school runs into problems today, won't you search for greener pastures??

Moreover why not look for a job in the banking or agricultural sector instead of disturbing these private schools

And moreover all schools pay up to 12 months. January to December

Jokerman:
The term actually ended on the 1st of April, resumption for third term would have begun on the 18th of April.

Now some schools did not finish 2nd term exams, because the govt had to rush the closing of schools.

Don't expect any private school to pay April, however, all schools must pay March salaries along with their respective lesson money

Probably some staff may be expecting to be paid May salaries too ..lol... Some parents didn't even finish paying 2nd term school fees

Also have you forgotten that some schools do not pay for August long term vacation? They would tell you your services aren't needed for the holiday coaching, so how you receive pay for work not done??

Op like this are the ones who make employers rash coz you never know what employers pasd through... You think all the profit or so goes to the employers, di you know how many are on loans repayment??

festacman:
Psychological burden kee you first!

festacman:
Terrible experience. Still a long way to go for Clarence Peters.

The sad thing is even if the autopsy report exonerates him, he will leave with this psychological burden for the rest of his life.

J111333:
Carry am dey come my man, I go be there to open heaven gate for you on last day.

TalkTalkHDD:
Reality star and makeup mogul Kim Kardashian went on Instagram to teach her fans how to apply their lipstick like pros

- While at it, the mother of four noticed her hands looked way whiter than the rest of her skin

- The socialite asked her fans not to judge her pale hands and that drove her followers off the edge. They argued that Kim was trying to look like a black woman

True or False? And is it wrong?

SEE MORE PICTURES AND REACTIONS ON HER INSTAGRAM

puremaker7:
Lol, up gunners! if na chelsea fan now na......


yeeeeee! who nack me something for mouth?

yuswrld20:
go to her papa ouse

LordviccoDaGuru:
Abacah is not corrupted na even Buhari said so, they should not lie against him pls.

How can U S ask our government to return the money back if misused?

How does that concerns them.

dre11:
Source: https://www.dailytrust.com.ng/covid-19-buhari-begs-imf-world-bank-to-cancel-nigerias-debts.html

lefulefu:
a yoruba man!
hmm i rest my case

oluwafemme129:
This is coming days after he was reportedly weeping and fasting, seeking the face of God on a mountain top to end the Coronavirus scourge.



TB Joshua who described the lockdown order as an evil spirit, said what the government is trying to protect people from (COVID-19) is not as dangerous as it is said to be.

The cleric issued a strong warning that continuous lockdown is an evil spirit that can lead to depression, laziness and suicide.

He said the government has succeeded in putting the spirit of fear, addiction and the spirit of violence in the people.



“Our government doesn’t know that lockdown is a spirit, an evil spirit – spirit of laziness, spirit of depression, spirit of suicide,” he said during a live Sunday worship.

“Those who once surrounded themselves with people find themselves surrounded only by four empty walls. This can cause depression and suicidal thoughts.

“Those who never stayed on a spot are now confined to one spot. Our government doesn’t know this. They think they are protecting us from the spirit of COVID19 but what is COVID19 in comparison to the repercussion?

“Our government, our leaders, our presidents, you are doing good for the world but what you are trying to protect us from is not as dangerous as what you are putting us into.

“That spirit that has entered your life – spirit of fear, spirit of addiction, spirit of violence – be cast out! Be cast out! In the name of Jesus! “

Ctorch:
A trailer loaded with cow and about forty people coming from Zamfara State was intercepted at the Berger end of Lagos-Ibadan expressway on Monday.

The Lagos State security personnel has however ordered the return of the trailer truck from the state.

Watch video here

https://www.vanguardngr.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/Trailer.mp4

Source: https://www.vanguardngr.com/2020/05/video-photos-about-40-people-from-zamfara-hidden-amid-cows-arrested-in-lagos/?fbclid=IwAR2MDvniQxvDx8_Ru13C6gKq0YUnvPWYVnmU3seRJk5K3YqJF_bmBjlgDUY

AmazingELixir:


I hope this pipu don't infect the cows with Corona oo

Ctorch:
A trailer loaded with cow and about forty people coming from Zamfara State was intercepted at the Berger end of Lagos-Ibadan expressway on Monday.

The Lagos State security personnel has however ordered the return of the trailer truck from the state.

Watch video here

https://www.vanguardngr.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/05/Trailer.mp4

Source: https://www.vanguardngr.com/2020/05/video-photos-about-40-people-from-zamfara-hidden-amid-cows-arrested-in-lagos/?fbclid=IwAR2MDvniQxvDx8_Ru13C6gKq0YUnvPWYVnmU3seRJk5K3YqJF_bmBjlgDUY

Dupalmer:
The truth is that rape is barbaric. Gagging you is another thing altogether.
So sorry for the sad encounter. But waito:
1. I really don't understand how a nun should be living with a Hot oversexed groin and be expecting a monk treatment.
2. Forget about going to the police. There's a whole lot of burden of proof to look into especially considering the fact that you are living with him. Also you MAYBE robbing yourself of a great RELATIONSHIP and Happy MARRIAGE.
O yes some blessing come in disguise. Hard fact.

3. It hurts to have your treasured virginity taken away in a way you didn't bargain for. GAGGING YOU IS THE MOST WORRISOME, it shows he has violent and CRIMINAL Tendencies.
4. You may reconsider taking it as one of those things. try and match his good qualities and make up for his weakness. There's no perfect person anywhere.
5. Most girls lost theirs in a more horrible way only to later become sex champions.
6. Pondering over the pain of what happened may cause you depression and unnecessary mood swings.
7. Console yourself with the fact that virginity and balloon has one thing in common. "A pick and it's all history"
8. If you see genuine remorse in him forgive him, get the both of you go for medical checkups, free your mind and continue with him. You'd see he will treasure you forever.
9. If you have made up your mind to forgive him then close your ears from sorry loser feminists. Their counsel will bring you more horrible pains.
9. You implied that you guys loves/loved each other. Well, love endures and there's no love without pain. Love heals.

40secondsMan:
So sorry about your ordeal. I can only imagine how pained nd betrayed u must feel rn.

Pls do get the drugs as uv said, u will surely get past this.

oluwadabira111:
Chai don't even know what to type!just that God will heal you!

soulbroken761:
I'm extremely introverted. It has always affected my relationships with people; family, colleagues, and lovers. I've not been in a real relationship before because of my communication issues. So I thought at 24 years, I need to learn how to be in relationship if I get a good guy. My female classmates are married or engaged and I felt left behind
I met my guy and started staying days in his house at a go. I thought it was for the best. He is a good guy even though very broke. Honestly I put myself in this situation.
We would make out but because I was a virgin, coupled with the fact that I have extremely low sex drive, I always told him to stop when it gets to that point. Even his finger hurt like crazy. It caused little quarells but he always told me he would never force it because he loves me.
So this afternoon we were making out as usual and he started touching me down there. It was so dry and it hurt like crazy, as if the skin was peeling off. I think the fan contributed to the dry ess. Anyway I begged him to stop but he wouldn't and I was almost crying. He started trying to force his dickk in but it didn't enter. All the while, I was begging him while trying not to attract neighbors. It got so painful that I bit his arm very hard and that was when he stopped.

He was very very angry, asking what I did that for. I told him he put me through a lot of pain. He went out and came back at night. I saw he was still angry so I slept in the living room, trying to be understanding and not piss him off further. He came and lovingly moved me to the bedroom. I thought all was well and dozed off.

Only to feel my mouth being gagged all of a sudden. I was still confused because I never expected such a thing. He said he had been thinking of what to do to me for biting him. He put clothes in my mouth and tied my mouth very tight, bound my arms together at the back, forced my legs open. I was crying and begging not to let it be like that but he slapped my face.

He grabbed oil and poured it and began forcing his dick inside until it entered and he rapedd me. I just waited helplessly for it to be over. I bled so much. I cried in the bathroom and came out to leave. He started begging, saying he loves me, etc.

I wanted to WhatsApp my dad to tell him something terrible just happened to me but my heart broke when I saw his picture. My parents really tried.

I just wanted to pour out my feelings in this post. I already know it was my fault even though I feel robbed. I would have given it to him if he had been patient. I hope to get over it soon. Typing with tears. I will shamefully get something at the pharmacy in the morning so that I don't get pregnant

Yungsam1:
Check the link

Luv9jawomen:
I'm finished. Make your pick!!

Alexaonfleek:

Na really horrific scents

On a serious note,it's something she'll stop as she grows older,don't worry.
When I was a kid I used to like sniffing dust on nets that they put on the window.

Even now,I still like sniffing fresh clean money from the mint

ConcNiggress56:
This isn't a joke..

I've been with the young family during this lockdown period and I observed her closely..

When someone stands up from the chair, she quickly put her nose there. Likes to smell one's fart as well as puts her nose close to rotten food, dirty socks, shoes etc..

It's getting out of hand and the mom is worried now..

Is this normal? Is this a rare medical condition? Will she change this habit over time? What can we do to help her?

Kindly advice