ObedOkoro:
Lolzzzzzzzz..... Youre wicked

Life is not hard.. Just that hard women needs soft men to change while soft women need hard men to change.

nenyewrites:


Someone will see your advice now and think it's a normal person typing it, they won't know you were begging another nairalander to link you up with sugar mommies. Stupid advice by the way.

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Oyindamolah:
Disappear for 6 months, do this and you'll win over 97% of people...

1. Spend 30 minutes alone daily

A great mind is built in solitude

Do this when alone;

• Go back in time
• Evaluate where you want to be in life
• Create a plan that'll help you get there

Normalize walking walking some paths alone because goals are personal

2. Set 100 minutes in your morning to read

Read educational and business related books
Read books on;

- History
- Philosophy
- Psychology
- Group dynamics

You'll be smarter than 99% of people around you.

3. Go out in nature
Quiet environment is great for creativity.
Do this;

• Have a notebook
• Sit still or walk around
• Write down your thoughts

You'll feel less overwhelmed and find answers to most of your problems.

4. Eat clean
Take in a lot of;

- Milk (1 litre a day)
- Eggs (7 eggs)
- Meat (Eat steak)
- Fruits
- Water
- Vegetables
Make your meal constitute 70% of protein
Healthy eating is simple and simple is smooth.

5. Stay fit

You don't have to overthink this.

Do basic work out like;

- Push ups (20×10)
- Squats (15×10)
- Walk 5,000 steps a day
Your body weight is enough to keep you fit.
If you're under 30 and you can't do 30-40 push ups in a row, you should get concerned.

6. Avoid useless information

Connectedness is a curse

Avoid;

• Small talks (politics, gossips, complains)
• Toxic news and weak ideas
• Toxic music
What you consume determine who you're.

7. Avoid alcohol and weed if you're not where you want to be in life.

Do this;

• Stay sober
• Face yourself
• Focus on what you can fix
Cut out anything that'll get you out of reality
Face what you constantly run from.

8. Audit your inner circle

Be real to yourself first by knowing;

- Where you are in life
- What you want
- Who you are
Then choose 3-4 friends you can walk same journey with you
Friends will make you strong where you're weak.

9. Free write

You'll need to work on yourself and ideas daily;

• Write what you’ve done
• What you need to do
• What's possible now

This'll make your ideas clearer.

10. Learn how to make money

When you create value in yourself, you'll never go broke

Do this;

• Identify a problem in the society
• Work to solve it
• Leverage the internet + offline and sell your solution

The more value you have, the higher your perceived value.

Good one but applicable to people with no responsibility or earning a moderate passive income. If not Sapa go finish ur brain before u start to dey reason life.

This is photos hopped for clout. But honestly things like this happens. We are all going to experience what you have done to others.

ufotty2001:
I really want to know this. Why is it so difficult for over religious and prayerful ladies to get married? I mean those ladies that so much believe that something is either chasing them or they are chasing something.

The reason is simple, You know, when u Put on a white clothe, you will be careful of stains.
They are searching for a man, hopefully spotless and blameless like they are assumed to be.

Fremantle:

Ah, meaning the doctor I went to see earlier today is taking risk with my Life with the prescription he gave me.

Please pray for me, I've already started the dosage.

I hope he is not performing a surgery on you. He may forget his hand gloves inside you. But never worry. What I mean is that they go very far at whatever they choose to do but they are not very patient type. They are quickies type of men or women. Easily angered and Indiffernt most times.

If ur wife denies u sex because she is breast feeding.. Sit her down and ask her questions she will tell you and if she insist, call one of her relations that is closer to her, report it. If it doesn't change, send her out or stay away outside ur home for a week. No call, no message, just act caring in the morning then lodge outside with either phones off or don't pick her calls. Then after 7days return home. If she asks you where u went don't reply her. Stop eating her food. Buy food and bring home. If she ask you why, tell her u r on a specific fast. If she ask u for money, promise u will give her and pretend u forgot. Watch her do and tell us what she will do next.

People with rough handwriting are risk takers while the ones with neat writings are conscious of their behaviors and are very manipulative.

IamMobisola:

LMAO
What difference does marrying a virgin make?
Anybody who wants to sleep around will do so without hindrance

Virgins cheat with timidity. And conscience not seared. An observant man will know the virgin wife has cheated and she will be willing to confess to it. For instance, when you see a child who is naive and inexperienced, how do you know that child has joined bag group, it's in their character, it will show but if you don't care they become hardened for more crimes.

My first sex was at 6 and at 12 raped by 3 women, but you know what? No family member knew, except I told them. I nearly became a sex addict quietly. But the first time, I was weeping but no one cared to ask.

omaira:
Well, I feel very happy to have my own fair share of this day to day breakfast that’s served on relationship. But in this case, I wasn’t dumbed rather, I tried to make peace with her while I stopped loving her.

It all started 2 years ago when I met this girl, she was everything I had always admired in a woman, I talked to her and we started up as friends and after a period of about 4 months we started dating. Meanwhile she had a guy in her life oooooo but I didn’t even care as I just wanted to be in her life.

Initially, I had thought she was from a very wealthy home considering her beauty and looks, she always dress nice but when I started dating her, I automatically became the bread winner in the family. She was dead broke but I never mind, my likeness for her didn’t change a bit... I mean, I still liked her even more.

After 5 months of being in a relationship with her, she had an issue with her boyfriend and they broke up. The first lie she told me was that the boyfriend found out about me and this caused their break up. I hardly believe mere words so I didn’t believe her, I only noted those words she said with hopes of finding out the truth someday.

Now!! I ought to become the only man in her life right ?? oya come and see gobe!

After a while, she moved in with me and this was when I started to understand what the noun called “woman”. Relationship ought to be pure and sacred, but that’s not what it is now ooooo as the first red flag I saw in her where lies, Jesus!!! The girl tells lie at every glimpse, I started to trend with care.

One day I realized she was arranged for hookup, I swear, my head big that day... my girl friend that lives with me in my house wants to go have sex with a guy she has never seen nor does she know. Well, as a man who is eager to know, I confronted her but didn’t break up with her as I was curious to know what relationship really means.

Confronting her made me feel she’ll have a repentant mind set but guess what? The story just got more interesting. 3 months later she cheated on me, and yet again I caught her. She apologized and I forgave her almost immediately, I didn’t even show any sign of anger at all. As I felt she would this time have a repentant heart.

My dear nairalanders this girl has been cheating on me up and down, that I can’t even mention, I keep catching her and she keeps apologizing.

Please Note: I am financially doing very well as I am able to provide for all her needs, there is something I always brag about that there is nothing she ever asked from me that I didn’t provide.

Believe it or not, our sex life is perfect as I have seen a chat she had with a friend where she confessed nobody has ever had pleased her in bed like I do, I can stay in bed one hour and I’m a very romantic man.

She has never caught me cheating as I have always been faithful to her.

I’m saying all these to make the readers understand that the relationship actually lacks nothing. But still this girl finds it hard to close her legs.

Well, the last time I caught her having an affair with a married man, we quarreled and settled but believe me, the love is dead and buried.

So if you’re out there and you find a woman that’s manageable please adore her and make her feel special, the specie of a virtuous woman is going into extinction gradually but we’re yet to notice.

Just feel like sharing my own experience and I’m curious to see the comments that will follow.

U tried, she is the fool.
In your next relationship, just watchout for the woman, men should always ask question about her past. Even God will tell you to confess your sins before he accepts you. The pyschology of confessing your wrongs before being forgiving is the greatest strength any human can have. Feel the remorse and the will to change.

what brought her, its that same thing that will take her away.

She broke up to join you. She has broken up with you to join another. She is cursed and the lifestyle is transgenerational and demonic.
Women : weak willed, obstinate, manipulative, exaggerates and finally naughty

When dealing with them be wise, on your grounds, make sure of her words(verify), endure, never take nonsense(refuse it immediately and dole out a measure of punishment for it not brutal or hateful punishment but correctional.

Use emotional punches to correct a woman, physical corrections don't work on them.

If you want to know more on emotional punches, just try locate her love language and stop it intentional till you feel like forgiving. But this works for a wife and not a girl friend.

A cheating girlfriends is still for the street, let the who.re remain there, send her back there. After strolling the streets, let her return to find your home locked with a more beautiful woman in your home, enjoying the care of a man.

I see nothing wrong in what ur husband does. You are just a girl with selfish intentions, I think he married an ingrate.

aisha1314:
Is it bad that I don't want to get married since I don't want children but I just want to live with a man as a long term partner?

Kindly dis orient yourself off this idea, it's not healthy mentally. Keeping a longterm partner in general is boring as it gets older and each of you would seek variety which may in turn become an issue of separation. Men believes in owning a woman they spend on especially sexually. But if u wanna try sexual adventures with other couples. Envying may results and breaking up and starting all over again.
So my opinion is either you are ready to remain single and have variety of sex for pleasure which will soon bore you.. Or u get a serious partner and agree on one or two kids. But ensure he wants it too. So he can stay responsible. The spice of every long term relationship is the challenges and sweetness the children brings. The reward of a woman is her womb. That's why she is called wombman.

feranmi143:
Yo fish, there are lot of hackers over here, small boys 14-20, one gave me access to a gmail account within 20 mins, with just the email address, the guy is about 14-15, i gave him $300 and told him we will have work to do by nextweek.

Can I work with him too. I have clients I need to work on.

A good church for good women that will give you peace of mind. Not some new generational churches after they are married, the first issue is owned either by one of the pastors or the choir masters or instrumentalist or any church crush. Especially if the girl is a choir member.

The discipline is top notch.

You will definitely feel that way because she brought the idea of settling down because u guys have started having sex. Your dad understood that she was the one in control and that you are not yet a man of yourself to put a woman in the house.

When you are ready u will decide and take what u Want.

But let most women understand that sex is not a guarantee that u will be married.


And men realize that sex is dangerous, it blends the soul and confuse your judgment.

Only if u understand the power of virginity and early marriage. There won't be promiscuous women as much as this.

From mine understanding, close one of ur eyes and imagine how u can read with one conveniently.

A sealed woman can't be promiscuous if she was uncovered after marriage.

But most women in Nigeria. Lost it too early.

Older promiscuous men go after "look like naive or gullible". You look gullible and the type in whose eyes they can see, you still looking for your way in life. So it's advantage to sell lies to you for your under 20 body.

Ibtxxo:
I need a practical analysis and business details

Just pick one business idea and drop your plan

Don't put all the 1m into business. Divide it into 5. Use the 5th portion.

For the business analysis. You can Google. U cant get detail here.

Ammmy:
The expectations I had about my life when I was young re not what I got. I'm so tired. What's the point of being in this life when life isn't offering you what you need? At 37 I have no husband, no job, no children from wedlock. I have been applying for jobs but didn't get any. I'm so sad. My life has no direction. I wake up in the morning with no where to go. No achievement, no fulfilment. All my mates are married with 3, 4, kids. I have nothing going for me. I'm so sad and depressed. I'm not happy at where I found myself. I need help. I feel suicidal

We become Depressed when we regret what we don't have and renounce what we have.

Analyze what you have
1. You have eyes consider the blind
2. You have good health consider the sick on admission for years. Have you encountered a cancer patient?

3. You have freedom, you are not a convict
4. You have good body u can still make babies
5. You have money you can grow it wisely.
6. You have a house, you can still build urs.
7. You are learned you can still read and write.

Alot you have, Pls count ur blessings.

Incase u need someone to talk to anonymously, just give me a call or what's app me(I will remove the number soon)

Ammmy:
what is money without fulfilment? What can 1 million do in this present Nigeria?

You can alot with it. What I see is about your taste. All you need is to humble yourself. Just 200k will be enough to run a business. And it will sustain you. While the 800k be fixed in a bank for another 3months. Recycle the 200k till it grows even by 10%. Some business growsfast whilesome grows slowly. Your environment is just the key.

CHII2017:
My dear I believe that delay is not denial
God loves everybody and everybody has their time of manisfectation,my dear when that comes nobody can stop you.
They hv been stoping you because God allowed it cos is not your time.
My dear do not kill yourself,ok.
Im 8 years older than you,no husband and child but I know God ll remember me one day that is why Iam still living because God is never througjlh with me .Soonest I ll smile.
So my dear just have hope do not kill yourself.

God will do it for you. It is well.

Thanks everyone, he was taking to the hospital UCH and since that April till date, no blood. Thanks everyone.

Ammmy:
The expectations I had about my life when I was young re not what I got. I'm so tired. What's the point of being in this life when life isn't offering you what you need? At 37 I have no husband, no job, no children from wedlock. I have been applying for jobs but didn't get any. I'm so sad. My life has no direction. I wake up in the morning with no where to go. No achievement, no fulfilment. The only thing to my name is 1million naira in my account which doesn't bring me joy because I know that without a job it'll start going down. All my mates are married with 3, 4, kids. I have nothing going for me. I'm so sad and depressed. I'm not happy at where I found myself. I need help. I feel suicidal

Call me if u r in Lagos. Check my signature.

Ammmy:
The expectations I had about my life when I was young re not what I got. I'm so tired. What's the point of being in this life when life isn't offering you what you need? At 37 I have no husband, no job, no children from wedlock. I have been applying for jobs but didn't get any. I'm so sad. My life has no direction. I wake up in the morning with no where to go. No achievement, no fulfilment. All my mates are married with 3, 4, kids. I have nothing going for me. I'm so sad and depressed. I'm not happy at where I found myself. I need help. I feel suicidal

Send a mail to me with your phone number or mention me in a dead thread.

Life is beautiful, giving this thought a chance is a sign you are breaking through.

NEIGHBOUR:


Who told you?. Obi can't do anything. The situation is beyond any of the presidential candidates!!!

The last administration of good luck was about to tackle this as they allied with Isreal soldiers to tackle insecurity. But that was just few months before he was relieved he couldn't pay then till his governance was renewed.

Package it like gossip.
Like this below:

Guy, one guy come meet me today say em like me... I look this guy sotey, he was so dirty, me wey hate dirty guys.. I fit dey talk to the person o but such people I detest. I collected his number, so he can be happy, I deleted the stupid number, dirty stinking guy.

Watch his reaction.

Tell him, I like my guys to be neat at least wear clean clothe, good fragrance and brush or bath twice daily.

With that he can be friends to anyone he likes but with dirtiness, he can't even get a girl friend.

There was never love, love exceeds knowledge.