Science/Technology › Re: The Animal Or Snake That Sounds Like A Rooster At Night by Zhirinovsky: 1:41pm On Sep 17, 2021 |
I know a bush where you can find one. Just go searching on a very sunny afternoon. But I wish you the best of luck, Cos you gon need it. luminouz: Is your village in the East?
My grandmother saw hers in the West.
No museum or zoo in the world has this snake in their archives...imagine the attention and opportunities, finding one,with proof, will get you. |
Science/Technology › Re: The Animal Or Snake That Sounds Like A Rooster At Night by Zhirinovsky: 1:35pm On Sep 17, 2021 |
In the village. I wanted to take a piss and saw this cock head raised in the bush staring rigidly at me. (it was weird because there was no rooster body, only the head). It never moved, I became scared how can a cock be this static? I continued staring while it stared back, it got weird I became scared (thought it was a spirit) and started moving backwards towards the road. Picked a stone and threw in its direction and it finally moved. Lo and behold!! A snake!! A big snake. I tell you, the head is 100% the head of a cock. Many never believed my story cos I was a teen then. My mother confirmed the existence though. They say its venom kills instantly! I thank God many people have also encountered it. luminouz: Yeah...the venom is almost always instantly fatal.
Where did you see yours? |
Science/Technology › Re: The Animal Or Snake That Sounds Like A Rooster At Night by Zhirinovsky: 1:05pm On Sep 17, 2021 |
I have seen this snake once, a few years ago. It is a full snake with the head of a cock. Very very dangerous. Please stay far away from it Amaechi5: Please guys I need a clarification on this, if someone can help identify the type of animal or the snake that makes a clucking sound at night especially in the midnight.
The sound seems very similar to a rooster or probably a clucking sound.
I heard this sound so much during my service year in ebonyi state precisely in afikpo North few years ago. I thought it was a rooster but they said it was a matured male snake or a cobra.
Few weeks ago, I went for a big project in a remote area, lo and behold in that area that same sound was so much and it looks like as if there was 3000 roosters clucking in the midnight.
Seriously I'm very worried if they are indeed snakes/cobra or maybe a wild roosters in a densed bush. |
Family › Re: What My Dad Wanted Me To Do On His Behalf by Zhirinovsky: 3:29pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
If you can, please help him and always help him and planning and managing the business in any way you can to ensure it grows profitable. Your Dad took a loan to pay someone to get you a job in nupeng should let you know he will do more for you if he was in a better position. You have a loving father bro. Most fathers could had used the 300k for thier business but he put you first. Nelchuksmandela: Good day Niralanders,
I need your sincere advice on my present situation. Please ignore any grammatical error or punctuation. I’m the first son of my family, my father is an average Nigerian trader, he single handedly sponsored my schooling from nursery to higher institution.
After my service year, one of his friends scammed him of 300k in the name of they will get me a job in NUPENG before he paid that money I told him my pastor’s revelation about the NUPENG job, which my pastor said She does not like the job and shared ill references associated to the job with me and I told my dad when I got home, he countered and rebuked the revelation, he doesn’t take any of our advice, he finally fell for the scam.
To cut the long story short, I’m now working class that earn 75k monthly, however I’m still squatting with a friend and I’m still struggling to survive.
Recently I received a call from my dad, he told me he needs 500k for trading, that he wants me to take loan on his behalf he will be paying the debt once it’s due, since he is yet to complete the outstanding loan he took from the same bank, which is remaining 3 months to complete. I later discovered he had another debt he’s still servicing (Paying ) of a different bank that is remaining 6 months to complete. After pondering over it i asked him; what if he defaults what will happen ? he shunned me and said why will I be negative and I politely told him my mind that I cannot help the current issue. Since then he started reporting me to my mum relatives to talk to in order to accept and collect the loan of 500k on his behalf.
Please your advise on this will be helpful. Thank you. |
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Celebrities › Re: Paul Okoye's Wife, Anita, Files For Divorce As 7-Year-Old Marriage Crashes (Pix) by Zhirinovsky: 6:55pm On Aug 20, 2021 |
You have never met Jude before. You have never had dealings with him even indirectly. Yet you spew all this hate and accusations against him. Na so una dey use una hand buy trouble wey no suppose sabi una. Faiththatworks: Hmmm,I'm an identical twin and fortunately I'm a mixed Nigerian,with my parents from 2 out of the 3 domineering ethnic tribe in Nigeria,I think I can give a little unbiased opinion about the psquare twins. As a twin,one character is more dependent on the other,also there's always a leader and a follower among twins. I say it unabashedly that Paul is definitely the weaker character,and unfortunately for him,he has separated from his twin that's supposed to give him strength in times like this. Jude okoye is an interloper,a leech, parasite and financial tick on Paul,but Paul being the eternal weakling is still sucking up to him,Lola okoye was never the problem in the psquare relationship,it was the loud mouthed, parasitic and arrogant Jude okoye. Unless Paul finds the strength to quickly reconcile with his twin,I can categorically say he might be in the beginning of a very terrible episode in his life. God reconcile the psquare twins. |
Autos › Re: 2012 Tokunbo Benz C300 4matic by Zhirinovsky: 10:14pm On Aug 04, 2021 |
I have been in benz all my life. The overhype can be annoying. ba7man: When you drive a benz, you'll understand why a Venza shouldn't be mentioned in the same sentence with it. |
Business › Aggregates, Sand Etc Supply by Zhirinovsky(op): 6:24am On Jul 19, 2021 |
I can supply your you/company quality aggregates, sand etc anywhere in Lagos at a fantastic price that beats your current supplier.
Hit me up please!
Middlemen are also welcome. |
Celebrities › Re: Obi Cubana Mother's Burial: E-Money Arrives In Style by Zhirinovsky: 5:35pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
Jesus! What kind of hate made you take your time to write such bitter epistle?  Obatala7Kronos: Hahahahaaaa! They will never be in power, at least not in Nigeria. The writings is boldly on the wall for everyone to see.
Who will vote for them? The Yorubas they they taunt day & night with derogatory names like Gbegiri & Ewedu people, Afonja, Children of the Fallen Demon?
Or the Hausa/Fulanis they disparage with comments such as Cows, Almajiris & Terrorists?
Who will even forge any alliance with them seeing how they treated Asari Dokubo after he helped smuggle Lamidi Cownu out of Nigeria through the creeks when the Nigerian Army under Buratai invaded his family house in Abia?
Now, Lamidi Cownu in his arrogance, was saying he gave 20Million Naira to Asari Dokubo; and rather than producing the evidence of transfer of money to Dokubo, iPob insulted & cursed his entire generation.
Look, nobody is intimidating the Igbos and relegating them to the background as 3rd-Class Citizens.
It is the domineering spirit & the Emotionally Unstable Personality Disorder (EUPD) inherent in every Igbo that is responsible for your illusions & self-inflicted problems.
Look at what transpired at Ladipo a few days ago between a soldier and one of your dubious trader. He deliberately sold a defective automobile engine to the soldier and when the soldier came back for the refund of his money or exchange of the defective engine with another one, the dubious trader called his fellow dubious traders and assaulted the soldier.
The soldier came back with his colleagues and the situation degenerated into a chaos.
And what did your people peddle on the social media? Lies & Propaganda. Soldiers came to Ladipo to shoot innocent traders without any provocation. Foolish Dubious & Criminally-Minded Lots!
It is okay to cheat and swindle people but whenever the consequences of your actions return to hunt you, you will begin to dish out lies & propaganda just to attract sympathy.
You go into crime, make little money and then start jumping up & down with your gra-gra & gri-gri complex, thereby attracting the attention of the Law Enforcement Authorities.
It is that same complex or disorder that made your people buy flight tickets to Dubai, UAE to go rob more than 10 Bureau De Change outlets in broad day light.
The same way Nnamdi Kanu placed an 100 Million Naira bounty on the head of a sitting Governor (Wike) for him to be killed.
Now that the vacuous bastard is in custody; If I were that Governor (Wike) and as vengeful as I am, what stops me from bribing some high-ranking DSS Operatives to poison him to death in detention just to get even?
I sincerely pray that you people get your Biafra but trust me, there won't be any great deal of difference between your utopian Nation & Somalia.
This is why we keep saying that majority of you people lack emotional intelligence and always do things with gra-gra & gri-gri.
You blame everybody for your woes except yourselves. Just like how iPob is blaming Wike for sponsoring the abduction & rendition of Lamidi Cownu from Kenya back to Nigeria, forgetting that you already declared him as your enemy by placing a bounty on his head.
You always act before you think and leap before you look. Anyways, that is his problem.
You will go and incite trouble and then start screaming blue-murder when the consequence of your actions boomerang; And that is when you will remember and start tagging CNN, BBC, ICC, Donald Trump & Amnesty International.
Nobody hates the Igbos. It's just a simple natural law of "reaping what you sow" that is in play.
You can't sow guava and expect to reap pineapple. Never!
Ancient wisdom teaches that Action begets Reaction, Cause begets Effects and Sequence begets Consequence.
You cannot be cursing & insulting every other ethnicity in Nigeria day and night, and expect all your hateful seeds not to germinate in them.
Lastly, when the NDLEA finally bursts E-Money & Obi Cubana's Cocaine-Trafficking syndicates, woe betides any Igbo that cry witchhunt or victimization because majority of you are naturally brain-dead from birth, and that is why all the prisons in the world are populated by your people.
Good morning! |
Business › Re: What Business Gave You Your First Million In 2019 by Zhirinovsky: 3:28pm On Jun 28, 2021 |
Hello I am interested in this business. I already have a fully registered company. Can we talk? litubow: I work in a chinese quarry company which is time taking but also manage to run an aggregates business (gravel, granite and dust to be precise) I started the business last year and made 200k in my first deal within 6weeks was like wao but involve large capital if base on contract but I need someone who is more free than me to patner with. |
Education › Re: UNILAG Tests It's Zero Emission Car Around The Campus (Photos) by Zhirinovsky: 5:27am On Jun 28, 2021 |
Nigerians should stop disgracing themselves.
Before you call it Made in Unilag, Anambra, Ogun etc. ensure atleast 70% of the parts were locally produced. Atleast manufacture a custom engine for your prototype locally.
Any mechanic anywhere in the world can couple up a vehicle from constituent parts. I don't understand why that is being celebrated here. |
Business › Re: EXCLUSIVE : How To Make Level 2 Seller On Fiverr In A Month As A Nigerian Seller by Zhirinovsky: 3:43pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
What does that mean and how can I fixed it please? donbrowser: Your account is deranked |
Autos › Re: SOLD OUT Bought Brand New Home Used 2019 Toyota Highlander XLE by Zhirinovsky: 2:54pm On Jun 15, 2021 |
Which buyer will want to do business with someone that makes life difficult? Ordinary price of your own goods is what a potential customer will have to pass through the stress of making calls to find out. Imagine the stress? Number maybe busy, not reachable, no network. Tomorrow now, You will see a serious car dealer balling and you go talk say na juju Motor45motion: 2months Used Bought brand new accident-free 2019 Toyota Highlander XLE with 31k miles.
Condition: mint as new Delivery: Anywhere in Nigeria Location: now in Ikeja, Lagos
We strongly advise you to come for an inspection before making any financial transactions.
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For Inspections&negotiations Call/WhatsApp: +2348097048807. |
Business › Re: EXCLUSIVE : How To Make Level 2 Seller On Fiverr In A Month As A Nigerian Seller by Zhirinovsky: 12:58pm On Jun 08, 2021 |
Thank you so much PuZZyNegro: Firstly, paid promotion isn't available to all Fiverr accounts. It's still in the beta phase and only available to some selected sellers.
Secondly, I have been using it for over a month now. There's no much profit from it. I received orders worth $300 with a $30 ad spend. Now, when you remove Fiverr's 20% commission plus the $30 ad spend, I'm probably left with about $210 which may seem not to be bad but I think it benefits Fiverr more than it benefits the sellers.
Another problem I have with it is receiving messages from people that will come and be pricing your gig peanuts when your gig prices were clearly written on your page. When you tell them your price, they will stop responding or respond negatively.
The most annoying part of it is receiving messages from Indians and Pakistanis asking you to give them a job if you have any. Remember, you are paying for every click this time.
I haven't had much success with it but my ad is still running anyway.
When a message comes through the ad, it has the "promoted" word on it. |
Business › Re: EXCLUSIVE : How To Make Level 2 Seller On Fiverr In A Month As A Nigerian Seller by Zhirinovsky: 5:36pm On Jun 04, 2021 |
Thank a lot bro Whiteee: Your account doesn't sound bad. I've not tried paid promotion before but it might help. You can as well do social media promotion by sharing your gig links on forums, Facebook and Twitter. And try to get reviews within that period. Do that for about a month and it most likely would work. You can also try using traffic spirit app on PC to get impression to your gig (this didn't work for me tho but there's no harm in trying). My gigs are also pushed back but I do receive new inquiries. It's like fiverr does some kind of rotation, in my opinion.
Best of luck. |
Business › Re: EXCLUSIVE : How To Make Level 2 Seller On Fiverr In A Month As A Nigerian Seller by Zhirinovsky: 4:30am On Jun 04, 2021 |
156reviews Level 2 Mostly only return buyer sales How does paid promotion work please? Can it take take me out of the last page? Whiteee: How many reviews do you have? How often do you get sales? What's your account level? Have you tried fiverr paid promotion? |
Business › Re: EXCLUSIVE : How To Make Level 2 Seller On Fiverr In A Month As A Nigerian Seller by Zhirinovsky: 3:06pm On Jun 03, 2021 |
I am seriously considering ditching my account and starting all over again.
My gigs have been on the last search page for more than 2 years now |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Seeing Demons, Angels, Fallen Angels, Spirits.. - Hsp's by Zhirinovsky: 8:36pm On Apr 25, 2021 |
Thanks a lot. God bless you too CharlyG1: When the money is given hand to hand, the essence of a person is still on it. It can be used against the person by a witch.
But when it's transferred into account, there is no way to use it against the person. Even if the money is given to another to give the witch, it still can't be used against the original person.
When the money is transferred to an account of the witch, it's usually done to gain control. The witch wants to be in charge of the collection in order to gain some sort of control over others. Then they can manipulate others gradually. Being the one in charge is very critical for the witch. It is the way to gradually gain control over others.
Eventually, at one point or another, the witch will come up with an excuse and demand that the money should be given in cash. That has always been the aim from the beginning.
I hope you understand.
God bless you. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Seeing Demons, Angels, Fallen Angels, Spirits.. - Hsp's by Zhirinovsky: 7:42pm On Apr 22, 2021 |
What you said about witches collecting money in something like a compound for for any house dues and using it against people is � correct. My question is... What if the money was transfered to the witches account instead of cash, can the witch still be able to use it against the person? . CharlyG1: It's better to be "physical" enemies with a witch you know... Than to pretend to be a friend with that witch/wizard.
Witches/wizard need to really come close to a person to derive information from them to use against them. Also, they have to be close to a person to sow seeds of corruption (they do this by talking with a person to spread rumours and lies).
Example: Iya Mami (witch) would say to another woman, Bisi (non-witch):
"Bisi I love (this) your dress, it's so beautiful. But I saw this same dress on one very beautiful lady who your husband was talking to on the next street"
Bisi is happy she loves the dress but is taken aback that her husband was talking to a BEAUTIFUL lady who had the SAME dress. Her mind begins to overthink things like:
1. My husband is wooing someone because she is very beautiful and probably more beautiful than I am? So this is why he keeps late-nights right?
2. Who is this woman that is trying to compete with me and steal my husband from me?
3. When this fornicator called my husband comes home he will explain to me how he has been sleeping with another woman.
The list goes on and on and her mind becomes restless. And begins to formulate nonsensical ideas about her husband, losing her respect for him. (When a good wife begins to lose respect for a good husband, the marriage begins to break).
So.. Bisi's husband comes home and a fight breaks out between them. This becomes the beginning of a dying marriage.
Witchcraft hates marriage (between a man & woman) and would try to break it up if possible.
Witchcraft will enter into a home if you let it in. It seeks to enter the home just the same way demons seek to enter a person's body.
After the fight Bisi had with her husband, she would draw closer to Iya Mami and begin to see her as her best friend. This would cause further damage to the marriage and if this continues, the witchcraft of Iya Mami would have control over the family indirectly.
The witch would always go through the husband or the wife.. it depends. If they can't succeed with the husband, they would try to go through the wife.
This same tactic, Satan deployed in the beginning. He knew he couldn't go through Adam, so he went through Eve to cause the fall of Man. We all know the story.
If you know a person who is a witch/wizard, it is better to be enemies with that person than to pretend to be a friend. If you're a friend to them, the person will draw close to you and use witchcraft to draw information from your mouth to use against you. They will gradually learn of you and learn how to control you without you even knowing.
* Keep your distance from a witch/wizard. Do not think that you can make them become born-again. Trust me, they'll be the one to do otherwise to you if you're not careful. And if you have kids, keep them far away from the witch/wizard and their kids.
* Do not give out information easily to anyone who is close to a witch/wizard. If a witch has no way to get information from you, they'll go to others who you're close to that they're also close to. So be careful.
* Don't become familiar with a witch/wizard you know. Don't be friendly at all. It's not a bad thing. You'll be saving yourself.
* Don't give room for pity to seep into your heart for them. Behind witches are demons that hate you so badly. A witch can pretend to be good all they want, but a discerning child of God would see right through them.
* Be careful of people who are in a hurry to make you their friend.
* Be careful of those who ask too many questions, especially personal questions. Learn to be discerning and cautious.
* If you're in a compound where you make certain collective contributions, be careful that your money doesn't fall into the hands of the witch/wizard.
* Be a prayerful Christian and don't take things for granted.... Like when you wake up early in the morning and notice water poured on your front door or something unusual. Don't take it for granted. Pray against it.
* Know that witchcraft knows you and would mold itself to conform to your beliefs, ideas, and attitude. So when a witch/wizard wants to get you, they will bring up topics they know you have experience of. And they will try to sway you with their words and their own experiences (they mostly lie) which of course, will blend with yours. That way they can make a connection and make you see them in good light and love them right away.
So if you're a spiritual person who loves God, they'll come like they love the Father too. And if you're otherwise, they'll also come that way too. They'll wait for you to speak so as to agree on whatever you say to form a friendly bond with you.
Be careful.
Witchcraft is crafty and it's not what needs to be toyed with. They are the breakers of home and marriage. They are the bringers of rumors. And their objective is the same as Satan their master.
If a particular rumor started somewhere, it's 80% guarantee that a witch started it or a witch influenced it. These people are basically everywhere, and they work with the spirits in a defined territory too.
Only the discerning in the Lord can see through them and keep them off. We need the knowledge to know these things so that we don't perish or fall easily into the hands of satan through witchcraft. With such knowledge, we can pray warfare better and be sharper soldiers of warfare.
God's grace all. Stay blessed. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Seeing Demons, Angels, Fallen Angels, Spirits.. - Hsp's by Zhirinovsky: 10:55pm On Apr 21, 2021 |
The whatsapp is not a good idea atall. Many people stumbled into this thread through Internet searches or just scrolling through nairaland and it has been of a great impact in their lives. Taking this to what'sapp will make it impossible for people to stumble to this thread and we will be missing out on souls we would have saved/drew close to God/Christ Jesus. This thread offers a wide outreach while What's app offers none. Please reconsider CharlyG1: I have received mails from people to add them on the WhatsApp group. That's really great.
So we'll be going with WhatsApp because it's convenient for everyone at this time. In the future, we can later decide if we'll move to Telegram or any other larger platform.
We'll be adding people up until midnight today and until tomorrow.
God bless you all. |
Politics › Re: 2023: Calls For Middle Belt/North Central Presidential Agitation Gains Momentum by Zhirinovsky: 4:28pm On Apr 19, 2021 |
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Autos › Re: Firstbody 2010 Upgraded To 2012 Corolla Sport by Zhirinovsky: 9:12am On Apr 04, 2021 |
Please shut up!! What wasn't repainted? You are talking to babies. Why can't you guys be honest for once!! JayAutos05: It wasn't repainted just the bumper was upgraded, is still firstbody |
Autos › Re: 2009 Camry Xle Reg by Zhirinovsky: 8:24am On Mar 24, 2021 |
Can we see the reverse camera please? |
Business › Re: EXCLUSIVE : How To Make Level 2 Seller On Fiverr In A Month As A Nigerian Seller by Zhirinovsky: 8:34pm On Mar 19, 2021 |
You are not angry enough. Reason with the police, the thief will pay everything you spend in pursuing the case. Rolly22: I have Just calculated the amount of money I will still spend in pursuit of this case and I have Just been contemplating on it, the guy still has the audacity to be on my whatsapp, He didn't even block me. |
Business › Re: EXCLUSIVE : How To Make Level 2 Seller On Fiverr In A Month As A Nigerian Seller by Zhirinovsky: 10:42am On Mar 16, 2021 |
How did you make payment to him? Rolly22: This same guy scammed me of 48k this morning, I feel so down. |
Business › Re: EXCLUSIVE : How To Make Level 2 Seller On Fiverr In A Month As A Nigerian Seller by Zhirinovsky: 10:32am On Mar 16, 2021 |
You people should learn never to let things like this slide!!!! You have the SMS from the transfer or email depending on the type of transfer. You can get his bank details from there. You have his number. Report him to the police, open your pocket and give the police anything they want. At the end of the day, the thief will be tracked and locked up, he will pay you your 48k and all the expenses you incurred pursing the case. You all should learn never to let these thieves make a fool of yourselves. Damn!! Reporting him on nairaland is never enough. Give the police his number and proof of payment you made to him and I assure you, they must find him. Get him seriously dealt with!!! Rolly22: This same guy scammed me of 48k this morning, I feel so down. |
Family › Re: She Discovered Her Husband Is A Gay, Now This Is Happening by Zhirinovsky: 1:42pm On Mar 13, 2021 |
... And then you desist fron their charts and block them if you ain't gay. For him to be exchanging chats and accepting nudes from a gay man only means he is gay too. Every straight man blocks a gay once the chat goes south. Do you know how disgusting it is to receive a nude pix from a gay man?? If it didn't disgust the OP then that's because he too is gay. davido91: No he's actually right about that, gay people are so desperate they come after anyone that manages to look good. |
Family › Re: She Discovered Her Husband Is A Gay, Now This Is Happening by Zhirinovsky: 1:27pm On Mar 13, 2021 |
Common shut up!! Just come out clean that you are gay yourself. Adonis86: Ask any cute guy that's active on social media, they can relate well with the experience. It's a commonplace. If you're very cute, both guys and girls will be on your neck. |
Properties › Re: My Landlord Gave Me 6months Quit Notice When My Rent Will Due In 6months Time by Zhirinovsky: 4:42pm On Mar 09, 2021 |
March 8 to August 8 is 5 months sef and not 6. Some lawyers na pure disgrace. xodyq: Good morning guys. Is it right for my landlord to give me 6months quit notice (on 8th march) when my rent will be due in 6months time (31st August)?? |
Romance › Re: He Is A Cheat, Yet Won’t Let Me Go by Zhirinovsky: 7:16am On Mar 09, 2021 |
Both some men are plain bad. Imagine the boldness. I just pity his wife. |
Romance › Re: He Is A Cheat, Yet Won’t Let Me Go by Zhirinovsky: 7:10am On Mar 09, 2021 |
You better package and start positioning yourself to get another boyfriend. That man will cause you untold heartbreak and pains in marriage. Let me tell you, not all Nigerian men cheat. In short a high number of married men don't cheat just that they don't make noise or brag about it. Only the cheats go around shouting "All men cheat". Also with that kind of boldness, you haven't even seen the worst of that your fiance. AdesewaAde: So recently, I’ve been having this feeling that my fiancé is a cheat, I’m not a type of woman who do choke my partner or check his phones cause I respect his privacy, even though he has always been checking my phone, going through my social media accounts and all other things, sometimes he will use my fingers to unlock my phone while sleeping just to go through it.
We’ve been dating since 2018, we became best of friends and our families are cool together, he is caring and jovial, he doesn’t hide things from me most especially financial issues, our social lives are almost the same, in short we are good together. We planned to do our engagement last year December but due to the way things were last year we postponed it and decided to pick another date, though I now spend half of my days at his place.
Fast forward to January this year, I started seeing some red signs that he is a cheat, many times I took his phone to unlock and go through since I know his passwords but I will drop it again cause there is no way I will check his phone without seeing things that will tamper with my peace of mind, since then, I’ve decided to open my eyes and ears more wider.
Later on , I discovered that anytime I am around, his phones were always on airplane mode, he only works on system, my heart started asking me different questions but I kept calm and I continued with my quest to catch him red handed, though I confronted him that he is cheating but he laughed at me and said 95% of men do cheat but he is among the remaining 5% that doesn’t.
Last month, we both decided to go on vacation, it was then I saw that I was actually in a relationship with a dog like person. There was a particular number that kept calling him, maybe he forgot to put the phone on airplane mode, at first I overlooked it but the number kept on calling about 59 times, it was then that I decided to pick it up and I heard a female voice, she said “you asshole, so you decided not to pick my calls because she is around, come online, I left you a message there” my heart skipped, who was she referring to as “she”? It was then I decided to unlock his phone for the first time and I just wish I didn’t do that, my eyes were heavy with tears as I was reading all sorts of conversations between him and different girls, not one, not two, not three, about ten of them, some even sent him nude pictures, he already bleeped some, some are still under format, two of them are new preys. I cried, many of them even know me, one even referred to me as his witch, I wept bitterly, I was on this weeping when he entered the room and saw me crying, all he could say was that how will I touch his phone in the first place.
He later apologised, after the much argument, I started parking my things to come back to out state, I told him I am done with the relationship, he started laughing at me and started shouting at the top of his voice “ babe you must be crazy, you are definitely out of your mind, how on earth must you think you can leave the relationship that I summoned up so much courage to ask you out? Listen woman, even if I cheat everyday, I can’t leave you, the truth is I will always cheat, I will apologise if been caught but I can’t ever place any woman above you,vI met our pastor in the hotel with another babe the last time I went to hotel for quickie with one chick, if pastors do cheat, who am I not to. At least you have the key to everything I have, if my parents can’t reach me, they will deliver the message to you, are you hungry? Are you looking rough? Do you want sex and I denied you? So what else should be your problem with me cheating “
I was short of words, he wasn’t even remorseful, I left there angrily and he kept calling, later he called his parents to explain the issues to them and they called me and pleaded, to make the situation worse his mom also said all men cheat. He has been threatening me that he won’t allow me to marry any other person, guys I’m really confused, please what can I do now, I don’t want to spend the rest of my life with a man who doesn’t have taste. |