Dimaya: People need encouragement. There's bad news coming out of nigeria everyday. Just trying to share some sunlight and provide practical solutions.
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At least we're better than Niger republic that just had a coup
When Yemi, 27, a recent biochemistry graduate was laid off in February of the covid 19 crisis, he was still reading motivational books. What he didn't realize was that he was going to spend the next 6 to 12 months applying for a new job.
Everyday threafter, Yemi woke up at 6am, brushed his teeth, took his bath and ate a light breakfast of eggs and sliced bread. At 8am, he would dutifully log into job portals (indeed, my jobmag etc) and proceed to read at least 200 calls for applications. From 9am till 9pm, he would format his CV to each application's call and draft a quick cover letter. At the day's end, he would have sent out 40 job applications.
By August, Yemi had applied for over five thousand jobs and only got two invitations to interview. The first was a marketing job. The second was a supervisor position with a restaurant chain in Lagos. Over 4000 people showed up for the interview meant to hire just three supervisors. The role paid 60,000 naira per month with work hours being 6:30 mornings till 9:30 at night, Monday's till Saturday.
In this video: the craziest job stories you've never heard, Yemi and 14 other recent Nigerian graduates share their hilarious, thought-provoking experiences applying for jobs, dodging job scams, escaping kidnappers, receiving low-ball offers and managing the insults/frustrations from family members when you're jobless.
If you're still in school and yet to graduate, this video: The greatest years of your life explores practical steps you have to take to succeed in any career regardless of your certificate.
Gerrard59: CCTV inside women's vagina = men who are more concerned with what women use their vaginas for rather than solving the issue, which made these women use their vaginas to make money.
Kelechi009: The dude already has his mind made up, you can draw up a thousand facts to show him with reference points & he will still not budge.
When they ask why we're not dating, they don't understand that the greed that permeates today's society. A girl in a church group codedly said she couldn't date someone working 9-5. only yahoo boys, politicians and Agberos.
this is an educated somebody. not a local girl.
Instagram and tinder is wrecking havoc in Nigeria. Na we wey dey find wife know wetin we dey talk.
ChukwukaEze: The relationship bw the guys is a not contract, neither is it dependent on the said relationship. In my opinion he should not discharge the boy, unless his relationship with him is severed. He could win back his love because of his kindness to her brother.
Gerrard59: So because she said all poly girls abi 80% of them are into runs, I should believe it? How did she come about that figure? If a foreigner says 80% of young Nigerian men are fraudsters without citing a reputable source, how does that sound to you?
If a Nigerian living in the Bronx tells the police that 80% of his neighbours (fellow Nigerians) are drug dealers, do you advise the police to discount it?
what kind of logic be dis? you're comparing apples and pineapples. if you watch the video till the end she gives specifics. citing that in her engineering class of men filled with 14 girls, only two girls aren't selling sex for money.
old man, the present generation of girls no be like your own o
Gerrard59: The OP and his cohorts are focused on woman toto but not the pen!s which enters it. One begins to wonder, do these women fvck themselves?
Honestly, you people are foolish, useless and stoopid. The day una ever get sense, the world would end.
Don't go and prepare for Monday trekking and Bet9ja. Keep doing CCTV for woman vagina.
Useless men!!!
na u dey foolish. foolish woman wrappa. how man go dey dere make pant dey wear am. woman dey tell una say all poly girl dey sell toto, u dey here dey Yan okpata.
efficiencie: Bro, hear the words of the wise. How can you fish in a pond with a hook, link and sinker and expect to catch a shark? If you are always seeing hookers and single mothers then change where you look. There will always be virgins for those who desire them and know where to find them.
and where una go find good girls. abeg, pray tell me where. you no know how bad tins don be until your pikin begin find wife marry.
jackmrandy: the deal was he comes, hunt for a job. while awating relative response so he can move in to the relative. but uptilll now before this whole isssue came up. relatives have not gotten back to him yet
The saddest thing about betrayals is that it never comes from your enemies. Make sure your friend watches this video till the very end. He'll figure out how to handle the situation.
jackmrandy: There is a friend of mine whose girlfriend ended their relationship due to irreconcilable differences. The girl refused to listen to any advice and always believed her opinions were superior. The main issue that caused the breakup was related to relocation. The guy wanted his girlfriend to move to the same city so they could work and build their lives together, remaining close to each other. However, the girl was adamant and still expected him to cover her expenses.
Interestingly, the girl's brother is currently living with the guy in the same city and apartment. The brother claims he has nowhere else to go, lost his job, and the only other relative he had in the city hasn't been able to accommodate him since January due to one or two issues. Out of kindness, the guy allowed the brother to stay with him while he searched for work. Now, since the girl has ended the relationship, it has been over 7 days, and she hasn't attempted to reach out to resolve the situation. This has left the guy feeling suspicious, wondering if the whole situation was a setup from the beginning.
The question now is whether it's a good idea for the guy to end ties with the brother by asking him to move out of his house, especially since the girl has made it clear she's not interested in relocating to be with him and that he should move on with his life.
For those who have experienced similar situations, how did you handle it? Any advice or personal experiences would be greatly appreciated.
Your friend has been played and betrayed. On nairaland frontpage this week was a video: How to handle betrayals like a boss posted by dimaya.
In this video, everyday Nigerians who have been betrayed by loved ones narrate their experiences similar to yours and they also describe how they handled it. In fact, the first few seconds has a story excerpt of a guy who was played by a girlfriend just like yours.
And if na you dem break up with like chuks, abeg gather make we laugh.
e don dey red. women dey go podcast dey talk say husband no dey. na wa o
Update
I had a friend who never breaks up with girls but just ghosts them. Why?
Because he was afriad that the girl may become finer and this might regret his breakup. So he always wanted a window of opportunity to be open so of he wanted to return to her, he could