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Dimaya:
A financially responsible man will not be dashing people 200K up and down. The type of man you described in your earlier post is not a financially responsible man

Dimaya:
God will provide

Nonywendy:
Akpa amu di ka gi. Mkpi

Codivoar:
I have a friend who is currently in a great dilemma. He is a very serious and religious guy.
He is in a relationship with a girl. The love between them is obvious. The girl loves him dearly and she wants to marry with him and build a family with him. He also loves her but he said the only thing blocking him from taking this destiny leap is her salary.
She earns 7 times more his salary.

Despite all his explanations to convince her that immediately he will not be able to take care of her according to her standing she doesn't want to accept his arguments.
She even told him that the woman is made to help her man and she believes he will be greater.
His fears come from many bad stories in such family configuration.

Do you think in these years of modernity in 2023 these considerations should prevent 2 lovers from getting married and build their family?

pansophist:
I wan start to repent.

Make I no talk wetin de my mind.

DiamondPant:
Any man who can not comfortably send 200k to his mum/dad/sibling(s)/relative(s) is not in my league. I don't need a man's money to date him, but I won't give a man my money to solve his family problems. For his personal needs when necessary, I can give him money. But for his family...
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Jazmine10:
Y'all wanna be dating your fellow men now?

Dimaya:
you can't change anything. the whole world is going to shit

Nonywendy:
Simp no fit do shit. I go front u with woman u go melt

Dimaya:
There are friends that will spend 200k on lunch with a woman they will sleep with probably just once without realising that they're ruining the girl for the next guy and also for herself because she will spend/waste the rest of her life looking for that same standard.

Unittyy:
Women are hypergamous in nature. They hardly settle down with any man earning less than them. My ex girlfriend of 5years recently served me breakfast same week she got a high paying job with a multinational firm.

Zigzagman:
Marriage: Women decry a lack of financially eligible suitors


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6hWypHOGur8

In Nigeria and across Africa today, women today are struggling to find men who earn as much as they do.

There is a shortage of economically attractive men and this has contributed to battles for control in relationships in which the women outearn their men. According to the young women in the trending video below, a good man is hard to find, especially in this economy.

Although we like to think marriage is based on love, they say, it “also is fundamentally an economic transaction,” and women want partners whom they can call their equals.

Two of the women on the panel confessed they'd fought with their partners, exchanging blows over money and control.

So, here are the questions for discussion within this thread:

1. Does a “lack of good jobs” for men contribute to loss of male control in a relationship?

2. Have you been in a romantic relationship in which a partner who had economic power over you, was tempted to control you or abuse you physically or verbally?

3. How do you go about handling it?

Please watch the video and share your opinion.

Dimaya:
on this same section today, someone is busy asking where he can find hookup girls in owerri. the internet has enabled sex for money

malcom1X:
Only one woman has responded to this thread

Nonywendy:
Chief Tony Anenih, a former Minister of Works and chieftain of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP), is dead, Independent reports.


Anenih reportedly died after battling with illness.

Recall that in July this year, he cancelled his 85th birthday celebration, over the sad state of affairs in Nigeria.


Anenih was married to Josephine Anenih, a lawyer, who was the chairperson of the Federation of Women Lawyers from 1994 to 2000 and also was the first National Woman Leader of the PDP, from 1999-2005


Source.

https://www.google.com/amp/dailypost.ng/2018/10/28/breaking-tony-anenih-dead/amp/

Nonywendy:
Simp in severe pain😂😂😂