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Dimaya:
women don't pay for sex

descarado:
Juvenik wuse 2 was my restaurant of choice when I was in Abuja. Very close to my house and their soup is the best I have ever tasted anywhere in naija, be it buka, mama put etc, and a plate of soup is very big.
I think they purposely made it like that cos unmarried people living around go and buy, scoop out and freeze the remaining. As long as they have swallow, a plate of soup from there can last one 3 serving. It was cheaper buying their expensive soup for singles if you do the math. Its a good place to mingle too for singles if you understand what I mean. Believe me, if you don't like eating that much, arrangements like that are cheaper.
If you want to cook and consider cooking cheap in Abuja, you must shop in bulk if you live in areas like wuse and environs else it will be the same as eating out. I hardly shop in wuse market though its like 5 minutes walk from my house. Na politician wives and girlfriends market
Here for example,making a full naij dish costs an arm and leg. Single eat out most times. No gas or electricity bill skyrocketing.

Eating out has its merits and demerits.

Acidosis:
Ohh... I see. I haven't watched the entire video.

You are right though. Eating out can be very expensive reason I personally wouldn't expect adolescents/youths to prioritise eating out regularly instead of preparing their own meals.

I recently came across a Domino's jollof rice and pizza combo ad and decided to place an order. I was just drawn to the fact that sapa has made Domino's "abandon" pizza for Nigerian jollof The taste was super cool. But, as always, I was disappointed with the portion I got. It was more like a serving suitable for a 2-year-old. Na why I don't bother myself. Of course, I know places where people get bigger portions for cheaper amounts, but due to personal reasons like trauma, I don't bother myself..

Aaaaarghmed:
maybe I did not write the story well,she was my babe at that time, I was helping her house hunt.we have broken up.Thats why I am referring to her as an Ex

spencekat:
All the higher institutions in Nigeria oo

Savedday2:
The bottom line is all 9ja girls are ashawo both the ones forming GF or church girl. They are all the same.

The fact that you have never caught your babe doing ashawo, doesn't mean she is not ashawo

Dimaya:
What's the marrying kind of man?

Childfree:
Of course, do you expect people who earn 150k or 100k to spend 4k daily on food?

What of 1.5k daily? Isn't it also out of range for some people?

Still there are people who spend 4k on food daily(120k monthly) because they have the money.

All the reaction from this thread and video or questioning if a lady who spend such is fit for marriage na just poverty mentality, simple.

Are you expecting someone who earns 70k to say yes he'll marry a lady that spends 4k daily on food?

A lady who has the money shouldn't spend 1,500 on food daily because some guys earn 50k monthly abi?

Check this thread.
https://www.nairaland.com/7023668/how-much-spend-feeding-daily

This was in March 2022 people are quoting 4k, 3k, 2k daily on food. Do you think the cost went up or down from then to now? Why are you guys making a big deal out of what the lady said?

Childfree:
Yeah the average Nigerian doesn't even earn such in the first place to even spend that on food. Like I said it depends on the individual's income and if he's willing to spend such on food. It is not aliens eating in such places where 3 square meals cost 4k or more (120k or more monthly).

So because most average Nigerians can only afford cars of 2-4 million, then someone shouldn't buy a car of 20million even if he can afford it or that's what he likes?

If he can afford to spend 60k daily on food why not? I see nothing wrong with that.
Curious, why do you see it as a problem?

Let me be clear, are you implying that the quantity of 4k food is too plenty for someone to finish it or what? Or the lady doesn't have the money?

Childfree:
I don't know if the lady mentioned how much money she makes. Wether she's the one paying for it or someone funding her is not the problem based on what I see from the thread.

Is there a rule that says a lady can't or shouldn't spend 4k daily on food?

Everyone spends according to what he/she can afford or likes. 4k divided by 3 is just #1,300

Are you saying no place where a plate of food would cost 1,300 or what? Probably in her case it even include water and a drink sef.

I rarely eat outside. If I do, the mama put not far from my place is 450 per plate. Further down my place an ordinary restaurant is 800 per plate. X3 is already 2,600 i.e without water or any drink oo. Are you saying there are no people that eat 3X there always?

The restaurant where a meal cost 1k, 1.3k or 1.5k... and so on, X3 is already 4k+. Is it not people eating there? Or are you saying there are no people that make such places the sole place they eat?

So what are you guys saying?

Unless them guys don't eat outside or they are still being feed at home.

The problem is you guys are calculating her expenses based on your earnings lol.

Aaaaarghmed:
I saw the signs,but I was blinded by love.Just tell her you are broke even though you have money,allow her spend for you for sometime and see.As an experience master,here is a short story of what happened to me..I travelled all the way from state to assist my ex to house hunt,she gave me the transport to hold ,we dey waka follow agent to check one house and along the line ,me and my ex had an argument,do you know that this girl asked me to give her back all the remaining money she gave me ,down to the last penny,embarrased me in front of the agent.The man sef weak.

MrBrownJay1:
in a r/ship, lack of respect and/or abuse of any kind, is a deal breaker, nobody should ever stand for it or even "manage" it.
these people are showing you small traits of WHO THEY REALLY ARE... if you dont act upon it there and then, then it will be your downfall in the long run (because as time goes on, they get more comfortable in the r/ship and their true disrespectful/abusive self comes out even more)

oweniwe:
What about those without jobs/ Unemployed people? They should go and die?

They have stable civil service work, let them thank their stars first

MrBrownJay1:
majority of time you can tell by the way you see them treat others in their life.... but beware, as there are many women/men out there who pretend to be who they are not for a long time... so the idea is that THE MINUTE THAT PERSON SHOWS YOU ANY TYPE OF LACK OF RESPECT (OR ANY TYPE OF ABUSE), YOU MUST GET RID OF THEM, THERE AND THEN!