₦airaland Forum

taylor89:
Even if I’m a billionaire I’ll still do it

I no fit allow waste

Lol

ahnie:
On the 4th of June, I went to get barbeque fish for my kids from my barbeque plug.

Then on the 6 of June....I had wanted transferring funds to someone with my mobile app, and I mistakenly transferred money to him since he's in the list of my beneficiaries.

I called him and explained everything to him,I even went to his stand and showed him screenshots as evidence of payment....since that day till today this humaniod has refused refunding my money.

I recalled him this morning,he said his bank is still working on it, I told him to get his statement of acct and it has bn from one excuse to another, truth's I m loosing my patience.

I have given him an ultimatum of 2 days to refund my money else I would pick him up not with the police,but a more higher force,since he has decided to be stubborn.

Bankers in the house, pls I need your input. is there anything like bank working on a supposedly unrefunded funds?

It's either he got d money or he didn't get d money. And if he says he didn't get it, let him show you his stamped bank statement of account

ElBenny:
There was mild drama and dragging on Facebook as a lady known as Tracy Titus collected the picture of another lady (Eneh Stephanie), then went ahead to edit her face into the picture and posted online to celebrate her birthday.

The lady was called out and dragged, but her audience came to her defense to say she did nothing but appreciate the picture of her fellow lady.



https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=pfbid0h9KLaQaHR646SbCJqL778Th3LvGv5cXWngXm6CjAvgqhZVWrKXu6SkZGfqemzcmvl&id=100086563864414&mibextid=Nif5oz

Lol

Ebubu7:
Bye bye to ASUU, Nigeria Medical Association (NMA), Pharmacists Council of Nigeria (PCN), et cetera receiving funding from FG. Effective 31st December 2026.


Every subsidy is going.

Every Union and council have 2 years to brace up themselves for self funding.



Lecturers, Doctors, Pharmacists, Nurses, Engineers and other professional workers will be paying millions per year to their Council now or their license will be revoked

Expect price of their services to also increase

This is full time capitalism

Tinubu with the reforms

God help us

FalseProphet1:
1. *Boy-friend* This is that spirit that will keep scaring away serious and well meaning suitors because they'll be thinking that the boyfriend that always hangs around you actually wanted to marry you. To cast out this spirit, you don't need to pray about it. Just quit the relationship.

2 *Engagement ring* This is that spirit that makes you keep raising your finger to show the world that one young man that is still serving the master engaged you and when the serious suitors see the ring, they'll pass over you because something in them tells them you
have been engaged. To cast out this spirit, you don't need prayers, just remove that key holder in your finger.

3. *Hard to get* This is that spirit that tells you not to accept a marriage proposal in a hurry so that the brother will not think you were too cheap or desperate. It tells you to tell him to give you six months to pray, don't always pick his calls, behave as if you are not interested even though you are dying on the inside and truly love the brother. This spirit is truly from your village people, the day it will release you is that day the brother would have agreed to marry another and you'll be the one to start him and his number will say.... Thank
you for using MTN. To cast out this spirit, just be real. If you love the brother and you perceive he is God's will for you, just accept the proposal and move on with your marriage!

4. *Proud spirit* That spirit that tells you to always run home after service so that no brother will talk to you, maybe he'll meet you in the dream. Before the brother would prepare what to say, you have gone home. That spirit that tells you that every brother that greets you has an evil intention, so
don't answer them. That spirit that doesn't
allow you to greet brothers except those that
ride cheap and exotic cars. That spirit that
tells you to be walking fast every time as if
something is pursuing you from the back. Well, I don't know how you can cast out this
spirit o, but I think humility and being moderate might help.

5. *Denominational/tribal spirit* I am a Catholic and must marry a Catholic. Your villagers are really at work. I'm a Deeper Lifer and must marry one whose life is also Deep. I am a Chosen and must marry from Chosen because others were rejected. I am an Anglican and must marry an Anglican even if God is leading me to do otherwise. I am from Hausa tribe and must marry from my tribe. I'm from Imo state and must not marry from Abia. This spirit has kept many bound, they entered menopause and are about to retire to village. To cast out this spirit of delay, understand that every believer is from one tribe called Christ. If God is leading you to another denomination, kindly obey Him, but let it be God.

Finally…

6. *Dirtiness* That spirit that tells you not to dress well because you are going to heaven. It tells you to use tarpaulin to sew your dress, wear green skirt, yellow blouse and lemon head tie. When brothers see you, their nightmare will increase and they will go for personal deliverance. You are a lady but dresses like a man; you don't brush your tongue, when you talk the heaven closes and the earth trembles.

This spirit can only be cast out by understanding that cleanliness is next to godliness. Dress well, don't under dress and
don't over dress. Dress modestly, smell good
because it's not sin. Smell like a living being
and not a dead being. Jesus appreciated the
woman that broke the oil that smells good
and truly He enjoyed the fragrance. So which
Jesus did you actually accept that abhors
such?
God bless us all.

Copied.

Lol

GAZZUZZ:
Just Got wind bovas ojodu is selling ₦500 per KG in Lagos

How much is cooking gas LPG in your area ?

Pls where is Bovas station in Port Harcourt?

naptu2:
somiari alalibo @sosoliso25



https://twitter.com/sosoliso25/status/1668051774073085952

Good one guys

AnonPoet:
Fuel subsidy: Management of Peace Mass Transit has announced that fares to all it's travel destinations across the country will not be increased despite the recent hike in fuel prices.



https://www.facebook.com/100064458351123/posts/pfbid02HbQwd4w9CJhNuhNbSNc653nqS891QJY5QwtVFvwCYMFZU5sgaY6ijGXs5XCunG6nl/?mibextid=cr9u03

Good one👍

Bedotfarms:
Sweden has officially declared sex as a sport and is also set to host its first-ever sex competition.

The participants will engage in sex sessions which can go up to six hours daily.

A panel of judges will decide the winners of the sex competition while the audience will also influence the final decisions.

Source, https://punchng.com/sweeden-declares-sex-as-sport-to-host-competition/

God forbid

iCauseTrouble:
Stop enslaving yourself in the name of sexual purity.
F.uck toto and suck a breast today and see what you have been missing.

Oh! he is missing sexually transmitted diseases like HIV etc, unwanted babies and indulging in abortion and other bad things. Apart from that, he misses absolutely NOTHING!!!

solmusdesigns:
As an adult your sexuality should be private and personal

I understand if a lady brags about virginity but a guy?! Nah!!

Pastor Adeboye sef dey knack steady.. he enjoyed his youthfulness back In OAU Ife

If ladies can, guys too can. And it is a noble thing to do. If Adeboye did, that must be before he found Christ. Op, congrats and may God continue to strengthen and be with you.

GodWrites:
Reincarnation is real. Unfortunately, she will end up losing every memory of her past lives as she ages.

When I was still a kid I also remember telling my mom about my past lives.

But as I grow everything became hazy and I was even ashamed to talk about it cause it felt like I was crazy.

At such age children are very perceptive. Most of them can astral projects and lucid dreams without struggling as if it's their second nature.

Most also see being or entities that are not of our 3D reality.

But they lose most of these abilities and memories as they grow and get indoctrinated by man-made religion.

My advice will be to document as much information as possible. Show her when she's off age.

You have a special child in your hands.

Wow

kekakuz:
My first daughter happens to live with her mum and i only get to see her Like once a week or less.

I have noticed that when ever she talks to me on phone, she talks like an adult. She says things only an experienced person would say.for example, she called me to buy 3 cakes for her birthday and I questioned why.

She said because the last time I bought her cake was for her 1st birthday and I have to buy for all the years I did not buy.recently, I asked her who is God and she said God is a spirit that lives in heaven and is on the water and he created everything from the the water.

Even though this sounds incoherent and funny, I don't expect such answer from a 4 years old girl.

Today, I called her to myself and ask her what of her mum and she answered "which one" I was shocked .

I proceeded to ask her how many mum does she have and she said "my mum dies long time ago and this one is her second mum" I was shocked to the bone.

So I separated her from her siblings and asked deeper questions even tho I didn't want her to feel scared. She also told me she had 2 othere siblings and called their names. Told me where she lived before and this is where I stopped.

I have always wanted to belive In Reincarnation and this is proof before my very eyes .

Guys what do you think and how do I handle this

So weird

taylor88:
Pikin wey I go leave run commot from house


If she block door I go brush am enter under fridge


All these people quoting me telling me I’m not a good father yen yen yen

How pikin wey you born go dey tell you she has two mothers and other siblings else where when no be say na group sex you take born am

OP don’t be deceived that pikin senior your grand mother

Carry the pikin go deposit as collateral use am borrow money from UBA

Next time you want to pour sperm inside your wife’s vagina pull out first taste the sperm for your tongue if the sperm taste shrine shrine you pour am for bed

Kuku beg her to dey give you sure odds

OP better be sleeping with cutlass in your hand any funny unusual breeze wey blow around 2am you machete immediately

You fit dey knack your wife thinking she’s sleeping one micro hand go just grab you for blockos

Lol

NgeneUkwenu:
"The fuel Subsidy is gone. It is unjustifiable.....we shall rechannel the funds to education and healthcare....."

Bola Ahmed Tinubu...




https://leadership.ng/breaking-fuel-subsidy-is-gone-says-tinubu/#:~:text=In%20the%20first%20policy%20directive,the%20wake%20of%20drying%20resources.

God help us oo

gift2xl:
Rotimi Amaechi and his wife, Judith were also present

Is he an LP member, should have been at BAT inauguration.

I equally wondered

promisedwealth:
Good morning Great people and wonderful family, please just like the saying a problem shared it's a problem half solved.

I have been married to my wife for over 6years now we have been through all together we have two kids 4 and a year old .

my business since late 2021 has been rough I lost some money trying out a different business I'm based in the eastern part of the country.

Early last year my mother in law told my wife to come stay with her in Lagos till I can find my self again, they left imo to Lagos on feb. 2022 I have been I contact with them ever since sending money across also it happen that my wife started bringing the idea of myself joining over there in Lagos ( my in law has a little school in Lagos that has been where my wife has been teaching since she left) .

Concerning the relocation I told her it's not easy as I have to look for money to get accommodation, shop to start a business also the money will be much which I can't afford for now during someday last year I told her to come back during one of our discussion she told me she it's not coming to east again I got angry.

I noticed the mother will never allow her leave her school so I kept mute about coming back since I was neither ready yet do we kept on going no issues.

Just this april she changed, hardly pick my call,stop calling me by the pet name she does.

I tried to find out what happened, she told me she wanted a break. I was confused I tried to guess why she came up with that. she needs to seek and know if it's the will of God for our union that's after two kids .

I was lost also I have tried to restore this woman sanity since then till now I have spoken to the mother she it's not saying anything than what ever she decides it's best for her the only once telling me not to worry at the brothers but I'm worried honestly .

I don't want my kids to grow in different homes.

I also tried to make her see this same reason she told me the kids will be fine she's not looking at anything making her decision please I need advise it's my wife under a spell or what.

I don't want to raise ny kids this way please advice please....

Do you now have something doing in the east? If no, why ask her to come back. If yes, then go over, discuss and sort things out with her.

damilola4162:
Source: https://newspremises.com.ng/nigerian-chef-hilda-baci-extends-cook-a-thon-to-100-hours/

Wow... Congrats Hilda

nlfpmod:
Top Nollywood producer and director Tchidi Chikere has recalled his last phone conversation with legendary actor, Saint Obi before his demise.

Chikere took to his Instagram page to mourn Obi. He wrote:



https://www.instagram.com/p/CsMYuEuOpzz/?igshid=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==

It's important to always make out time for friends... RIP Saint Obi

Toshtos:
Source: https://www.naijaolofofo.com/20-things-to-know-about-hilda-baci-and-her-guinness-world-record-marathon-cooking/

Good luck Hilda

ogododo:
Senate president, speaker can’t be of same faith — it’ll fuel Islamisation agenda narrative - Shettima



https://www.thecable.ng/shettima-senate-president-speaker-cant-be-of-same-faith-itll-fuel-islamisation-agenda-narrative/amp

President and vice president elect, are of what faith again?

dre11:
https://tribuneonlineng.com/apc-will-teach-wike-big-lesson-soon-primate-ayodele/

Very true

My niece sat for jamb last Saturday but her result is not out. Then she got a text message this night that she is to re-take jamb on this coming Saturday, 6th May. Then we tried to reprint her examination slip from the portal to no avail. Does anyone know how this could be reprinted?

beekind:
I am a 38 year old Nigerian American citizen dating a 26 year old Nigeria girl.
I grew up in Nigeria but travelled out to the USA when I was 25 years old, I am a citizen now and doing really well for myself.
I met a beautiful and godly Nigerian girl on facebook and we have been dating for some months now we are now thinking of marriage, she is in Nigeria while I am in the USA.

Some weeks ago my dad asked me to do some tests and send to him, (He is a medical doctor), I did them, turns out to be fertility tests and all was perfect.
I just told him about my fiance and my plans to get married in some months time and he said she has to do fertility test before he can agree to the marriage.

This was very shocking for me as he insisted that it is his position, I haven't told my fiance cos I dont know how to and my fiance is scheduled to pay my parents a visit for the first time in Port Harcourt in 2 weeks time.
My fiance is from Delta but lives in Portharcout as my parents while we are from Port harcourt.

My dad has said if I cannot tell her that he will, what do you guys think ?

Honest advise please and admin kindly push to front page for wider advise.

Thanks.

It is actually very necessary you go for fertility tests before marriage. So carry on

Haynnie:
What kind of job do you do and what's the hardest part of your job you (learn how to) or (can't) tolerate?

Working as a bank contract staff. The hardest part is working so hard and earning peanut

IyaebeTheGreat:
This man is short ooo. Short people and their wahala, I hope this will not be another bad omen for Abians because short people can be very wicked ehn.

Lol... My observation too. Bt God ll help us, he won't be Wicked

AllMight:
1. Toyin - She was my former classmate and friend back in school. She currently works in a bank as a CFC Agent. We met late last year during our school old student get together, we exchanged contact and kept in touch regularly. Our vibes have been good and encouraging. She had helped me very well many times since then. I'd say we are more than friends but ambigously because i haven't really asked her to be my girlfriend, though i have taken her out before on val day. Like i said, our relationship is ambigous. She doesn't have a boyfriend yet, but her mum is trying to matchmake her.

2. Sarah - Based in the States with her family for futher studies, though she's a Nigerian through her grandpa. We met early this year while playing game and since then we have become close that all her family know me. Her paternal uncle is one of my team sponsor here in Nigeria. Though this lady do give me green light steady, but because of Toyin who i haven't even get as my gf, i just laugh it off.

Honest advice please!

Go for Toyin. At least u v known her for some time

Tboy222:
Some questions are absolutely irrelevant and I am sure the OP knows the answer to his/her question.

But for those who are ignorant, it is a sin. Sexual pleasure in any form was meant to be between two married partners, male and female,not male or male,or female to female.

Sexual pleasure or gratification should absolutely be done in private,and in the confines of holy matrimony meeting all conditions and stipulations and guidelines necessary for an approved marriage.


Happy Easter to you all, Jesus Christ rose up today not for us to have or make merry, but for us to reflect on Him. Are you saved? Have you accepted Him as your personal Lord and Saviour.

Jesus Christ only is the way the truth and the Life, there is no other way. Your trying to be self righteous will not amount to anything. Remember cornelius in Acts chapter 10.

The bible clearly states in Romans 3:23 " For all have sinned and come short of the glory of God."

No sin is too intangible or insignificant all bear an eternal weight of punishment. 1 Thess 5:22 " Abstain from all appearance of evil."


Romans 6:23 " For the wages of sin is death but the Gift of God is eternal Life in Christ Jesus our Lord."

So my brothers and sisters Christ Jesus is our spice of Life. You only have to humbly and sincerely believe,confess and forsake all your sins and accept Him as your personal Lord and Saviour.

Once you have done that congratulations you are now a born again Child of God. Get a Bible read and pray daily morning and evening. Look for a Bible believing Church where Jesus Christ is preached and is the center of the message alongside Holiness and His Salvation power.

God Almighty be with you all. I will be praying for you all.

. I the following YouTube channels for your spiritual growth..

1 Sid Roth it is supernatural ( youtube)
2 Randy Kay ministries (youtube)
3 100 huntley street (youtube)
4. Vlad Savchuk ( youtube)
5. David DIGA HERNANDEZ ( Youtube)
6. TBN ( youtube)
7. 700 club interactive ( Youtube)
8 STEPHAINE P SMITH (youtube)
9 Marcthemessanger ( youtube)
10. Trailblazer ( youtube)
11 Above inspiration (youtube)
12. Grace for purpose ( youtube)
13 GrowinFaithgrowinChrist (youtube)
14 INRI MOTIVATION (youtube)
15 Witnessing Heaven (youtube)
16. Deep Believer (youtube)
17 supernatural stories (youtube)
18 Delafe testimonies (youtube)
19: Delafe testimonies (Youtube)
20 isaiahsaldiver (youtube)
21 Grow in faith grow in Christ (youtube)
22 Notsofastbaby (Youtube)
23 Propheticdreamer (youtube)







God bless you as you do so I will be praying for you, please kindly share with others .God Almighty be with you all.Amen

Once again Happy Easter guys.

Thank you

arejibadz:
https://twitter.com/HouseNGR/status/1643996023885533184?s=20



https://leadership.ng/breaking-bill-to-regulate-nigerian-medics-from-going-abroad-passes-second-reading/#:~:text=In%20a%20bid%20to%20halt,in%20the%20country%2C%20has%20passed

But that's not fair... Wicked law makers

TMSMedia:
A resident pastor of Living Faith Church, Aloko- Oganenigwu in Dekina LGA of Kogi State, Jacob Wodi Hulobu, was reportedly shot dead by unknown gunmen who invaded the town on Sunday, April 2, IGBERETV reports.

According to reports, the pastor and some of his members were said to have escaped the attacked which occurred during the early morning service, and moved to a safer place.

One of his church members, Samuel, the pastor went back to check the state of the church after the attack when the invaders shot and killed him.

“He escaped during church service in the morning. He thought everything was calm and went back to check if the church was touched when he was killed''Samuel said

The pastor, who had earlier posted on his Facebook account how he escaped the morning attack, died a few hours later.


https://www.facebook.com/100080238859871/posts/pfbid0JfxTm8qujxctzCFZpMDjTwgjivecG9bNt9gR5rof53EAxWz8enWgDxevQh3ryxcZl/?app=fbl

Before the incident, Pastor Hulobu had scheduled a crusade programme christened, ‘Let the fire fall: Three nights of Wanders,’ billed to take place between April 13th and 15th in the church.

https://igberetvnews.com/1442497/kogi-pastor-killed-gunmen-previously-escaping-photos/

May his soul RIP, Amen

booksbo0k:
Sorry for the long write up my people, I need advice.

My first son has been behaving somehow in our family, as if he's not part of this family...
You and this boy can be in the same house but you might not set your eyes on him once for a whole day. He will be inside his room through out...

He has been telling me that he is currently working on going to rent his own place and live on his own and that if God helps him and he is able to achieve that, He will not have anything to do with our family again and that we will never set eyes on him ever again :[ ...

I would have not been bothered by such statement if it were coming from someone else, I would take it as a bluff. But this my son is someone that normally doesn't call people to check on them, not even us his parents..

When he was in his previous University before he dropped out, this boy can go for months, that is a whole semester stretch without calling anybody to know how you're doing, except you call him or maybe he wants to ask for money for something or school stuff....

We have five children and he is the first, the second and third children are away in University, he and the two last siblings are the only one's with us.. My husband refused him from going to University in a far place instead he gives him transport money to be going to his own University from home everyday...... He and his father don't even talk again except good morning greetings. He is only 21 ohh..

Let me give you guys small back story so that you can understand how all these things started.

My son graduated from secondary school (a boarding school) in 2017 at 16 years old... Initially, he said he wanted to study computer science as he said that was the course he loved and wanted to study. But my husband refused and persuaded him to study pharmacy because he worked at NAFDAC and he saw the way pharmacy graduates were living at his work place and the salary they were recieving. He and one of his chemist friend sweet talked him into going to study the course and I guess it was because he was young then and could not challenge his dad then that was why he gave in....

He wrote JAMB but he did not meet the cut of mark for pharmacy (but I later realised his score was good for computer science then)... No public University was willing to admit him for pharmacy then because his score was not good for the course but due to my husband love for the course and not wanting my son to lose admission that year , he decided to go the way of private University not minding their school fees...Long story cut short, my son got admitted into Madonna University where we were paying 1M naira every year.....After 3 years in the school and in 300L @18 years old, he began saying he was not interested in the school any longer, that he was tired of the course, that he's body is no longer in the school and blablabla that he wants to go and play football in Europe...

He came back for holiday during the beginning of covid and refused to go back to the school when they resumed, saying that he was only wasting our money by being in that school and he did not want to continue.....This got my husband really sad and angry....My son stayed home for almost two years doing nothing because my husband was adamant that if he would not go back to school, nothing for him, that all the money he has spent for school fees in that school can not be for waste that he can become a footballer after he graduates, saying no one can become a successful footballer without being a graduate, that it would later affect them in life...

But my son refused. I must confess, my son is extremely good at playing football. That was the talent i can confidently say that God personally gave to him from birth. Infact when he was graduating from secondary school, they gave him the award for the best graduating footballer and he was always the centre of attention anytime he plays at our church events. He friends used to call him "nima" then, I think...

I and my husband got tired of him staying at home for long so I went to meet with one pastor in our street who was based in the UK with his family but comes home sometimes for church related matters. I explained my son's situation to him and he offered to help my son travel out to chase his football career provided we have the funds for it. The man was secondary school class mates with "victor ikpe ekong" who was a former super eagles player but currently a pastor in Sweden. To my greatest surprise he called him on a WhatsApp video call in my presence and i was really surprised...He gave me the man's phone number to keep in contact and also scheduled a day to meet with my husband and have a discussion.. I told my son and he was very happy..I also told my husband and he was eager to meet with him at least, anything to solve my sons idleness at the time..

The pastor came to my our house on several occasions and discussed with my husband. My husband kept telling the pastor, saying he would like my son to be going to school while chasing his football career at the same time, a feat which pastor let us know would be difficult as one has to be dropped for the other. Unfortunately, my husband changed he's mind and said he was no longer interested in the whole footballer thing. He said he knew that my son wanted to become a footballer only because of girls. That he, my son knew that if he becomes a footballer, all the girls would like him, that that was the only reason he wanted to become a footballer, and that if football was his true destiny, he doesn't need to travel out for it to manifest, that he can be in Nigeria and make it from here.....That was how that chapter close like that. Pastor left for England few months after.....

After years of my son staying at home, my husband got tired. One night, he hired some Street thugs to come take my son away and beat him up...my son stayed with them for 2 weeks. When he returned, he said he was ready to go back to school. But my husband told him he won't be going back to any private University again. My son wrote jamb again to study computer science and was admitted into COOU. but my said he would not allow him go to any University that is not in the same state we are residing. Now the problem here was that all the public schools in the state we are staying will not accept you to study computer science unless you did chemistry in jamb. And my son did not do chemistry in jamb because he is not good in chemistry. If he was to study in the same state we were staying, he had to settle for another course, which he did...Now another problem arose. My husband refused to rent an apartment for my son around the school because the school is considerably far from our house, instead he decided to be giving him money (2000) everyday as transport fare to be going from home. This did not sit down well with my the boy and he again, said he was no longer interested in schooling again sef that he can't be going such far distance from home to the school everyday to study a Course he does not even like siting that it would be stressful and affect his academics and that it was unwise to be paying 60k a year as school fees while you spend 2k everyday as transport..My husband got angry and called on our estate CSO to come pick him up. They beat him so badly in public that when he got back home later in the evening, I went to check him in his room, his buttocks and back where scarred and red with huge marks...

Ever since, he has been going to the school from home and he has become very distant from us especially his dad. They don't talk again in the same house except "good morning sir"...

My son has turned into something else. He can stay indoors from morning till night. I would have said he has started keeping bad company but he does not even have a single friend, not one..Nobody calls him, and he doesn't call anybody...I have five children and he is the first. The second and third already gained admission this year in a private University and are in school currently, so he and he's last two siblings are the only one's with us now..

Why I'm writing this is because I'm scared..I'm beginning to fear that my son might commit suicide, he's beginning to show that kind of attitude.. And the plans he have to leave us forever to go and stay alone, I don't like it ohhhh...

Nairalanders please I need your advice.

So long, couldn't finish it but from what I grabbed, I think you need to talk to your husband. He seems to be the problem.

TMSMedia:
I Knew Professor Oti Would Be Unfair, She Bears Same Name With Alex Otti - Ikpeazu



https://igberetvnews.com/1442128/knew-professor-oti-unfair-bears-name-alex-otti-ikpeazu/

Lol... she was happy for doing the right thing & you are sad that she refused to succumb to your pressure.