You are so wrong. No one is regretting voting for Alex Otti. Infact, Abians are so happy to have voted him. And for your information, he is already making us proud. Long live our amiable governor, Alex Otti.
englishmart: I'm planning to tell her husband, who happens to be an acquaintant of mine. On the other hand, I'm considering the consequence. He's been suspecting her of infidelity, and this could finally nail her. I will be very glad to destroy that marriage if need be.
nairalanduser23: I am tired of my wife's quarrelsome behaviour which I think she reserves for me. I can be having a honest conversation with her and out of nowhere it will lead to a quarrel with her. It surprises me.
Strange enough, I have observed her communication with neighbours, work colleagues and she knows how to compose herself but when it is me even a funny comment can upset her. Even when I tell her I didn't mean her negative interpretation of a comment, she will still insist on her negative interpretation.
She sometimes talks to me in a way that seems unfriendly to the point that I desire her talking to me the way she talks to outsiders. I have talked to her about it but it is not helping matters. She acts like she is not ware of her tone but there is a stark difference between how she talks to me and other people.
I earn far more than her and take care of the house bills so money is not an issue. I feel like I am the only one proactive about peace in the marriage while she is care-free.
How can I deal with this?
Do you satisfy her needs both financially & in the other room? Try and have a discussion with her, I think she is not happy with you.
Easyincome24: It's good one plans his/her life early enough to avoid story that touches.
Some of our parents never believed that the country will become what it is today.
My father told me how cheap lands were in the country when he was in his 20's. He regretted not investing enough due to shouldering many responsibilities especially bringing his siblings and extended families to the city. He nurtured them till they became of age. When he realized what's up, time has exceeded him as we the children have needs too.
Now, I'm asking the following question: between owning a car or house, which would you advice someone in his 20's to acquire first?
Both can yield returns as long as they can be used in the proper way for investment.
Can we have more people comment on this to help many who are still in their 20's and able to fund any of the assets?
Note: Some young folks are doing legit work earning in $$$. I have some techy guys in their 20's as software developers, Blockchain DAOs, Freelancers, Content creators, YouTube influencers, Social Media Marketers, 3D animators, AI engineer, Bitcoin minning. They evolve around tech working remotely. So, not all of these guys in their 20's are yahoo yahoo, at least these ones I can guarantee.
We engaged in a discussion where they raised the above question about which is best between owning a car or house at their ages.
A Nigerian gay rights activist, Micheal Ighodaro, on Monday night October 9 in New York city tied the knot with his Armenian-American partner, Jirair Ratevosian.
Guests at their wedding included Nigerian gay rights activists, Edafe Okporo, Jide Macaulay amongst others.
Jirair is a Democratic candidate in the 2024 California's 30th congressional district election.
I totally disagree with you. Whether in your 20s, 30s or 40s, there is nothing embarrassing about being a virgin. Rather it is golden and such a person should be cherished.
Jewessgratitud3: Right now she needs advice on what to do and I'm also going to be sharing what I have advised her so far.
This man has used his foolishness to implicate my sister and their lovely kids. Before I go into details of what happened recently, I'll like to give a quick backstory of how all these came to be and how she even got herself into this mess
Backtrack to 2014 when she broke the news that someone was coming to see the family for her hand, I asked her who the person was but she refused to tell me saying I'll meet him when he comes. I was now like ha... This one you're hiding it. I never knew it was one useless guy that was living in our former area in the early 2000s that all he does then was stand at junctions disturbing girls. He also disturbed me one period like that and I so much dislike him because of his behavior plus he's fair and I dont fancy fair guys.
The day came and we started cooking. Already I had gotten a hint from my eldest sister that it's the guy and I said was that why she was hiding it? What's my own there. We move. As the day was approaching, my idowus husband called and told me to warn my sister that that guy she's pulling with is not it. That if she's trying to have something serious with him she'll be making a big mistake. I said, she's an adult and can make choices for herself.
He came with his people and we did everything and she moved in with him. Now, this guy doesn't do anything. He claims he's a lawyer but never goes to work. Most times he'll go for early morning training by 6am and after everyone has gone to work, he'll come home and be sleeping. initially my sister was covering him up that he's doing something but anytime I visit after school, I'll always meet him at home sleeping. I knew my sis was just covering him.
Before they married my sister owned a school that was doing well. After her first child the school was still doing well but they started having issues because she was the one bearing most of the financial burden in the house. Sometimes she would come to school with bruises on her face. Since she refused to talk, me I didn't bother asking because if I do she'll bark at me.it continue like that until she could no longer bear it and started opening up to me that the guy doesn't do anything. Just goes about from one junction to the other.
She took in for her second child and fell sick. The school suffered mismanagement and folded up. That was when the guy showed her his true color. They fought to the extent she left her kids and went to my sister's house. My elder sisters husband settled them and she went back.
She had her third child and the guy started his madness again. This time he would leave them and go for hours without food. When he's coming at night he'll buy food and call his children to come eat and leave my sister hungry. So anytime I go there I'll just find her something to eat. Sometimes not always. The day I said enough is enough and decided to pull her out of that nonsense was the day she called me, I was in a bus and she said for two days now she has not eaten anything and she's having headache. That the guy said he'll deal with her. I told her to hold on and sent her the little I could that I'll come and see her.
I got there and told her she can't continue like this . I told her to start following me to school to learn how to do what I'm doing and I'll be giving her small small daily pay any day she goes with me and later she can start sourcing for her own schools and be making her own money. I put her through and took her to a school immediately and assigned her to some classes after watching me for a few mins.
We did that for a few weeks and I was giving her the small thing I could after each day. She started going out to look for schools and two schools called her. She now said she can't be following me again , I said no problem. God helped her, She now got more schools and started selling books too and making money. When this guy saw it, he left feeding and only buys food for the children once in a while. Meanwhile their fighting continued.
Fast-forward to last year, the landlord called my sister that he has given the husband quit notice, not because he was owing but because he was always disrespecting the landlord. My sister tried to plead but he said it's not because of my sister but the husband. Now this guy's is so troublesome and brags a lot. He quarrels with the landlord a lot and always goes against the rules of the compound. I on the other hand have been telling my twin now that she has the money to get her own apartment and leave the lazy thing but she remained there.
Last two weeks Tuesday. during that heavy downpour, the landlord came with some police men and threw their things out in the rain as she was preparing her children for school. It was one of the police men that now had pity on her and said they should leave the things in the compound instead of throwing outside in the rain and helped my sister to bring then inside the gate. The husband ran away. After everything he called my sister to bring the children somewhere. When she got there it was a friend's house. He begged them to let his family stay the night and till now he's still there. I told my sister, shey I've been warning you about this guy. Bett look for a place and move in before this one's change their mind. Could you believe this man continued his laziness there? When everyone has gone out he'll go there and start sleeping till they come back from work and meet him. My sister said he has started quarrelling the man's wife . Someone who's squatting you you're challenging them.
he's talking about moving them to Mowe but my sister is not buying the idea and says she wants to get an apartment here on the mainland because of her job and move with only her children but I'm of the opinion that she should leave the children with him because if she goes with the children he'll run from his responsibility and never pay their school fees again.
What should she do because the guy travelled for his brothers burial now and the owner of the house was heard asking the wife why the guy and my sister are still in their house and said let him come back first . Meaning they are tired.
I've told her to get an apartment now o.
Your sister should go ahead, rent an apartment and move in with her kids because she definitely can not leave her children behind. But she should never make the mistake of letting her husband move in.
BItt: I had this girl I met in year 2020 during the covid period. It was hard to get her. She was much younger and had more attention.
During that period I was out of jobs and was struggling. I hardly had enough to take care of myself but she did not trouble me much. She was in the habit of buying things for me no matter how little it was. I was also reasonable enough to buy her more.
At a point in 2021 I got a job in another state. It took a while before I could save up and asked her to come.
She's asking us to get married but I am trying to explain to her what I am earning is not enough to start a home yet. Apart from that what she has is an olevel and some business she does online. She is still dependent on me for alot.
Yesterday, I took her out to an eatry and when we got back home, she suggested we took a Blood oath. Blood oath that neither of us will leave each other. How do girls get to know and believe all these stuff?
She said we will pierce each other's left thumb, press it against each others thumb and say the oath. I don't know if it works but I feel strange about doing it.
It breaks my heart to see sexually starved couples.
I say it and I will say it again.
Only a wicked man will marry a woman when he knows he intends to tell her, "baby just keep rubbing it, it will soon stand". Likewise, only a wicked woman will marry a man when she knows she intends to implement a thrice-a-month sex timetable.
God has used orgasm donors like us to save lots of unhappy marriages and it really takes a level of selflessness to be able to do this.
Nothing brings me more joy than giving another man's wife an orgasm because I know that is one less woman considering using Sniper as Maggi for her husband.
Because no one prays to be a widow more than a lady who is married to an impotent man.
Hahahahaaaa... You have finished me with laughter... "Just keep rubbing it, it will soon stand"... Lol
fineboynl: I’m in a serious situation. i have been dating this young widow for a while now without any issues.
But From the day I slept with her i have been noticing some things i don’t want to talk about.
Many things have been going through my mind concerning her.
From the igbo/Yoruba and all other cultures in Nigeria. What should a widow do before she start sleeping with another man? Should she returned the bride price?
Because I’m considering cutting ties with her and go for deliverance.
She should let her late husband's family know about her intention and also the bride price should be returned
[quote author=teekay213 post=125257514]My close neighbor and I were talking about our rent which is due in 2 months time and we open up to each other about the situation of the country and how we are still coping with feeding our family,school fees and other bills from our salaries with nothing left and some debts sef not to talk of savings for rent.
And I wonder how do people especially family men manage to pay their rent in this bad economy ??[/quote
RTID: Okay, this is crazy. I was with my friend yesterday and he told me a very shocking true life story. A particular Yahoo boy went to plus up his Yahoo. Babalawo tell am say make him sleep with 25 women for the whole thing to be successful. “I will advice you to sleep with 50 ladies at least, because many of these women have been used.”, the babalawo said.
This guy went to book a lodge & stayed there for about 2 months. All he was doing was sleeping with different women. He slept with over 120 women & went back to the baba. 120 women!!? Quite shocking right? Now, here's the most shocking part of it.
The babalawo told him that out of over 120 girls that he slept with, only 8 have not been used. The rest of them have been used by someone else. Ahhh! This is crazy. I was traumatized when I heard this story. Things are happening.
So many thoughts came through my mind. This is just one of the many reasons why we should flee from sexual immorality.
tonye33: I have been married for 14 YEARS and 'we' have 3kids(all boys) but none of them belongs to me.
5years before I met my wife, I was involved in a car accident together with two of my friends. We were traveling from Lagos to Abuja and our car skidded off the road. I was the only survivor of that accident, my friends died. I spent about 11months at the hospital and that left me with a condition that says I can't have children.
I gave my life to Jesus Christ and became a committed Christian after the incident.
In summary I became a pastor in a local church in my community 5years later and met my wife in the process.
I did not tell her about my condition because I was hopeful that God will heal me.
6 years into our marriage, my wife got pregnant and had 'our' first child.
To be sure, I secretly went for a DNA and it was clear I wasn't the father. I repeated the test for all 3 children and they are all not mine.
I have been living with this situation for the past 8 years and I am beginning to get irritated by both the children and my wife. My wife pretends to be a good wife. She goes around preaching to women in the church about the need to remain faithful to their partners but she has had 3 children by another man or men I don't know.
I want to confront her, but I am confused as to how to go about the situation. I am just angry and irritated by everyone in my house lately. I feel like a total stranger in my own home.
What should I do!?
--Please advise him.
Both of you lied to each other. You were not supposed to get married without letting your partner know about your health situation. Have a discussion with her, confess and I believe she will also confess to you. Then two of you should forgive each other and move on. Let the secret remain ONLY with two of you.
Valoromega: Anytime I have issues with my wife, maybe it's about another girl she always says what if she does her own too how would (mind you I have never been with another woman since we got married. I might just flirt around with some other girls once in a while via chat) She has this mentality that she's beautiful and young and she usually gets a lot of attention and I think it's getting to her head. Because most times she usually talks about doing her own too and I think she has the tendency to cheat If I do something to her like cheating.
I told her that would be the end of our marriage
Then stop flirting! Because if she is the one flirting, you could have let hell loose. Both of you have equal right.
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