Family › Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by Zyxsc: 1:06pm On Jul 15, 2023 |
qtx: All sound good except number 4. My dear now that you are still young you may think you wont mind, but as age starts setting in, you will regret big time for not marrying at all. Loneliness and depression wii kii u. Money is a big factor in all of these. Depression will only set in if one didn't attain financial stability or didn't have any children or didn't form a healthy bond with his children throughout those years of being unmarried. To avoid the loneliness part, a 50-year old man can still wife a 32-35 year old single and matured lady. |
Family › Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by Zyxsc: 12:43pm On Jul 15, 2023 |
Ajehkpako4naija: If u are married, then why advocating for baby mamas . Is like your brain needs a total overhaul. Freakk Rest |
Family › Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by Zyxsc: 11:44am On Jul 15, 2023 |
Ajehkpako4naija: We don't do baby mamas. Baby mamas are for the immatured minds. Marriage is sacred and scriptural and meant for those who respect the institution. To some marriage is sweet, to others,its unfortunate. Some hate the word marriage because it didn't favour thier parents or siblings, while some would have love to get married but later hated the concept because they lack money, and age is telling on them. I believe u belong to one of these categories. Pls don't be pained bro. Broh, none of these things apply to me. I'm married. I'm financially stable. I didn't come from a broken home. Baby mamas are for the immature minds? No worry. Experience has a reputation for being a ruthless teacher |
Family › Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by Zyxsc: 11:36am On Jul 15, 2023 |
Kingstanding: . Are you married? You're a genius. My brother, experience is a ruthless teacher |
Programming › Re: Remitly Review - Can I Use It? by Zyxsc(op): 10:06am On Jul 15, 2023 |
Over 6 months of using Remitly through GtBank Dom account now and I can say it has been very smooth. I'd recommend Remitly over and over again |
Family › Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by Zyxsc: 10:03am On Jul 15, 2023 |
SaLongs1: Some of us married our very own foes and only found out the hard way. Women don't settle for less and in addition, most wouldn't stay for worse, only for better. As a man, that should be your mindset. If your woman do one kain and you're financially stable, stay far away from her as much as possible but win over your children. |
Family › Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by Zyxsc: 9:59am On Jul 15, 2023 |
Ajehkpako4naija: While enjoying your bachelor hood u should also know the clock is ticking. Getting married at 40 is already a no no. Imagine going for school run at 52, when ur mates are already aspiring grandpa's. When u get old ur kids may still be in year 2 in d University You can have your babies outside the confines of marriage, my brother. Just be present in their lives as they grow up and choose a morally upright baby mama. |
Family › Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by Zyxsc: 9:51am On Jul 15, 2023 |
chccho: 40 is not to old for a man to marry ke!!! Wetin go remain for him body Perhaps our views of marriage are different. By the way, what do you mean by, "wetin go remain for him body?" Do you mean his strength would have wane to an all-time low? |
Family › Re: For The Married Peeps What Are The Things Nobody Told You About Marriage? by Zyxsc: 8:59pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
1. For a man, it's just a bills-paying institution. You go pay bills sotey you go forget wetin carry you enter the marriage in the first place
2. Enjoy your bachelorhood Wella before going into it. 40 is not too late for a man to get married.
3. You can't prove you're mentally strong until you're married because na then you go know what it takes to retrain an adult child like your wife. She go do some kain things wey be say, e fit make you go crazy.
4. If you can avoid it, please do. It's not worth it. Once you're married, you'll loose a part of your freedom. You can only regain it at the detriment of your home.
5. Don't go into marriage because of children. They may grow up and not make you happy by going against your wish (of course, they have their own lives to live. You've lived yours). Don't go into marriage because you love your girlfriend. Na this one go clear your eyes pass. Go into marriage because you want a life-long friend. Even at that, it's still a gamble. E fit shock you 10 years down the line. |
Romance › Re: What I Discovered About Women After Break-up With My Ex by Zyxsc: 4:07pm On Jul 14, 2023 |
Lifestone: I don't get you guys argument. You mean she should remain at the same level and wait until the guy moves up before she moves too. Nigeria men can't handle their women doing better than them, yet their games are poor. A man should support her woman and become her champion. If you can't handle that, move on to the one you can handle See how this one jumped into conclusion. You get comprehension problem ni  |
Career › Re: Reasons Why I Don't Tell People My Salary by Zyxsc: 1:56am On Jul 11, 2023 |
ravensckar: Telling your colleagues about your salary is a far lesser evil than telling your family members (even your parents & blood relatives). Them go use billing kill your life. I once made that foolish mistake of revealing my salary to my family (all in the name of sharing testimony), throughout that year, my life didn't remain the same. Despite giving them monthly allowance, they will still find ways to exploit me of the rest. Since then, I come get sense. Now, they don't bother to call me for anything other than their monthly allowance unless of course they want to waste their credit.  Broh, abeg gimme clue. How you take do am? I dey this situation laidis laidis |
Romance › Re: Choosing Not To Marry Or Date A Broke Man Isn't A Crime. by Zyxsc: 4:42pm On Jul 04, 2023*. Modified: 4:02pm On Jul 06, 2023 |
No rich man should be compelled by the societal-woke-standard to have one wife or one girlfriend As long as you're rich, you can have as many as you want. After all, they ain't there for the love. They are only there for the money.
Mumu OP 1759BC
Clitocurrency remains a legal tender for a trade-by-barter to get money |
Family › Re: Tell Me A Sad Truth About Life by Zyxsc: 9:36am On Jul 04, 2023 |
Everything is possible Na lie. Everything is not possible. Only things within the human control is possible; others are impossible.
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Family › Re: My love life is about crashing …… by Zyxsc: 9:28am On Jul 04, 2023 |
donbachi: Don't go against your ancestors...it may lead to childlessness Follow who know road. This one no know road. Na wetin dey make am LEAD una go where you no know be that |
Family › Re: What Personal Reasons Do You Have Against Polygamy? by Zyxsc: 3:03pm On Jul 02, 2023 |
For a man, I think it's just better to have your children through a surrogate mother
Women wahala too much. Marriage is least beneficial to men. Polygamy has its own problem as well |
Nairaland General › Re: Have You Ever Gotten To This Point? by Zyxsc: 1:12pm On Jun 29, 2023 |
This one na norms naa
Except you grow up with rich parents, this should be a normal occurrence. |
Family › Re: Wife And Inlaw Driving Me Crazy Advice Pls by Zyxsc: 10:54am On Jun 18, 2023 |
If Nairaland were to have a feature that allows comments to be tagged, @jennyclay would have the highest number of stupid comments. She just dey give us back-to-back, thread-after-thread.All this stupidity inside one head  Lucifer, you do this one |
Family › Re: Was Marriage Worth It? by Zyxsc: 12:26pm On Jun 17, 2023 |
Na mumu dey marry because of free sex. In actual fact, the sex is not free. As an averagely handsome dude with a bit of confidence, you'd pay more for it when married than when single. |
Family › Re: Don't view by Zyxsc: 10:37pm On Jun 15, 2023*. Modified: 11:00pm On Jun 15, 2023 |
taylor89: You be wicked man
After birthing your child you dey come online come yarn dust
Something your mom can’t do for you na wetin another woman do for you What do you mean by his wife birth his child This talk dey vex me anytime I hear am. The notion that a man owns a child is a pure flattery. Did the child not jointly belong to the wife as well. Abi is there any assurance that the child would love the father more than the mother when he/she comes of age. Is there any assurance the child would bring happiness/joy to the man. Asides more responsibilities and expenses, are there any other gain for the man that the child bears his surname, a surname he didn't bring from heaven ooo. You kon talk am like say na favour the woman do for am to birth their child. @OP, wetin you wan do no good. We now have effective laser treatment for stretch marks. Give her money to go get rid of those things. I can assure you she does not like it either |
Romance › Re: Have You Had Any Big Dream That You Have Now Let Go? by Zyxsc: 5:22pm On May 23, 2023 |
Always wanted to be a doctor. Never knew God had a better plan |
Romance › Re: Have You Had Any Big Dream That You Have Now Let Go? by Zyxsc: 5:21pm On May 23, 2023 |
LagosG: Man, I always wanted to be an archeologist. Discovering our past to shape our future.
I just teared up a little. Today, I'm just working to chop. Zero happiness Thank God for your life, my brother. Na soso juju you for dey find wen you dig |
Career › Re: My Horrible Experience At A Military Event by Zyxsc: 1:16pm On May 22, 2023 |
Wetin we no go hear for this jungle of a country. In other countries, soldiers are loved. In my country, soldiers are seen as beast and monsters and they are proud of it |
Family › Re: She Barely Cooked For Me But She Was Hailing Hilda by Zyxsc: 7:10pm On May 15, 2023 |
Some modern men are weak sha. U dey manage your marriage? Pele ooo, managing director |
Romance › Re: Married But Miss Being Single, Let's Meet Here by Zyxsc: 8:08pm On May 14, 2023 |
Yeah, missed bachelorhood as well. It was cheaper to get steady free pussy as single than as a married. |
Family › Re: What Is Your Advice To Those Getting Ready For Marriage by Zyxsc: 7:34am On May 14, 2023 |
As a man, don't expect it to favour you. Avoid it if you can. There's nothing in it for you. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Why Do You Want To Work Here? by Zyxsc: 11:20am On May 09, 2023 |
Because I want to help this company out of poverty |
Computers › Re: Inverter Users : Lets Have Your Experience by Zyxsc: 9:26am On May 04, 2023 |
Are there other batteries that are equally as good as Luminous tubular batteries? I feel Luminous may just be overrated in regards to its price. Over here https://thesimbaden.com/collections/luminous, approved Luminous dealer, it sells for 240k. |
Family › Re: My Wife Secretly Told Her Friends I Was Loser. Now What? by Zyxsc: 4:33pm On Apr 29, 2023 |
Kanixt: "I recently snooped in my wife’s phone and discovered dozens of texts to her co-workers and some of our mutual friends — all saying awful things about me and airing petty grievances from our personal life. Among the topics of the texts was my unemployment. I recently gave up my nearly 10-year successful career in real estate to move to a new city and state so our daughter can go to a better school. I haven’t figured out my next move yet, but I’ve been actively applying and interviewing for jobs. I’ve received multiple offers, but none have been the right fit. My wife’s texts portray me as a deadbeat loser, and she questions why she’s stayed with me, lamenting what a burden it has been for her. I’ll note that our mortgage and our mutual bills have been paid for the last six months from the proceeds of selling our house when we moved, so my unemployment has caused her zero financial burden. I can’t get past the things she said and the betrayal I feel, and I am considering asking for a separation. But I am scared to bring it up because of the invasion of her privacy that led to me discovering the text messages What is the ethical path forward?" Feminine men just plenty for this generation sha. What's this @bolded? He's even asking for ethical solution. No be everything gentleman-liness fit solve |
Family › Re: More Men Are Becoming Weaklings And SIMPs by Zyxsc: 8:00pm On Apr 27, 2023 |
That thread just dey vex me as I dey read am sef. I mean, who trained these weaklings.
Men need to realise they are the real prize. Do yanga but avoid marriage. Nothing dey inside that institution for you as a man. |
Romance › Re: Can You Buy This Product For 50 Naira In This Hard Economy?. by Zyxsc: 1:30pm On Apr 20, 2023 |
Zonefree: I thought Tinubu will be giving the Yorubas fried rice and chicken everyday
Which one is Ijebu Garri, groundnut and sugar again for N50 after voting for their son  You no get sense. So the Yorubas that voted for Peter Obi or Atiku are no longer Yoruba. Mumu man |
Autos › Re: Why Are Hyundai Cars Cheap Compared To Toyota by Zyxsc(op): 3:44pm On Apr 01, 2023 |
engrchykae: am in love with Peugeot 406 Yeah, we know say durability get grade. But we can't downplay the durability of Toyota cars as well. |
Autos › Re: Why Are Hyundai Cars Cheap Compared To Toyota by Zyxsc(op): 8:51am On Apr 01, 2023 |
Kjo2017: Durability, of engine and gear. You mean Hyundai engine and gear are not as rugged/durable as Toyota cars, right? |